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TopicBest banks that gives high interest back in savings account?
cuttin_in_farm
02/25/24 7:55:07 PM
#35
BigB0ss13 posted...
Just not being knowledgeable about them and thinking of needing an actual building to go to for in person help for whatever reason

Do you ever need to visit the physical bank of your current bank?

If no, then it doesnt matter. Imo:

Everyday personal checking/savings: online banks.

Lending needs: Credit union

Business banking: Physical banks.

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TopicBest banks that gives high interest back in savings account?
cuttin_in_farm
02/25/24 4:54:59 PM
#12
Schwab has a bank account that yields interest if you want something that has brick and mortar branches. It wont be for banking services, but still.

Why do you want to avoid online banks?

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TopicHave you learned to stopped calling women "female"?
cuttin_in_farm
02/25/24 8:53:24 AM
#107
Women implies adult females.

Girl implies child females.

Female is a good way to refer to all age groups as well.

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Topic3 dates with a girl, shes super feminist but hasn't even offered to pay a date
cuttin_in_farm
02/24/24 6:43:35 PM
#85
CSCA33 posted...
Why get yourself all worked up into a tizzy like this when you can simply say something like, "separate checks please."


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Topic3 dates with a girl, shes super feminist but hasn't even offered to pay a date
cuttin_in_farm
02/24/24 2:53:04 PM
#81
LightningThief posted...
The last part of that post you quoted touched on this.

Offering is one thing. The other person expecting and assuming someone is offering, and never even offering themselves, is another.

I dont see a difference if TC sets the precedence that he will do all this. We dont know if shes willing because TC keeps offering without asking if she would be willing to. Based on what I get from the topic.

Sure, some folk dont need to be asked. But its like if someone offered to pay me gas money or not if I drive them somewhere. I dont really care. Because if it bothered me, Id ask for gas money.

TC doing all this shit and then getting annoyed is silly because TC isnt asking her to do anything else. He keeps offering. We cant glean much because TC isnt talking to her.

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Topic3 dates with a girl, shes super feminist but hasn't even offered to pay a date
cuttin_in_farm
02/24/24 10:38:19 AM
#79
LightningThief posted...
That's a ridiculous reason to never offer to go half or pay for your own things.

If you need to be paid in compensation for your time to hang out with me, just tell me no lol.

I'll just say I am so glad the friends, family, woman ive dated, and even the woman Im currently with don't have this attitude that I owe them something for them to grace me with their presence.

Same applies to myself, I dont go to a resteraunt, movies, concerts, parks, bowling, etc....... invited or not, just expecting the person who invited me should pay.

We may take turns paying the bill, or go dutch, but never do we just expect it if one of us didn't make it clear or the occasional surprise gesture from one of us is made to cover the bill.

If TC is offering to do everything, then yes it is.

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Topic3 dates with a girl, shes super feminist but hasn't even offered to pay a date
cuttin_in_farm
02/23/24 1:48:21 PM
#62
Good shit. Dont hold it grievances. Or do tests.

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Topic3 dates with a girl, shes super feminist but hasn't even offered to pay a date
cuttin_in_farm
02/23/24 1:43:56 PM
#59
Blue_Popo posted...
So you'd be ok with someone not saying thank you multiple times when you paid?

Keep simping my friend

Stop being a baby and talk to her about your issue. Ffs.

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Topic3 dates with a girl, shes super feminist but hasn't even offered to pay a date
cuttin_in_farm
02/23/24 1:34:18 PM
#55
Do not assume intentions.

If you come into every date paying everything, she could think you want to do so.

Some dudes legit take pleasure in being the provider and she may not want to impede on that.

So if you had a good time with her, just bring up the issue and stop acting like a child. She cant read your mind. Coming to Gfaq to whine is silly to me.

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TopicPastor said he will let rapist go free, if the woman had on shorts.
cuttin_in_farm
02/21/24 7:53:07 PM
#28
It did not even seem like the topic was rape

The dude just volunteered his shitty perspective for no real reason.

And the lack of pushback from the audience hes speaking to is upsetting too. Craven ass folk.

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Topicever got a handy?
cuttin_in_farm
02/20/24 10:23:59 PM
#5
Tbh, besides the psychological boost of someone else doing it, its also more pleasurable when you dont already know whats coming since its not you.

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Topic40 scams that are so normalized we don't think of them as scams anymore
cuttin_in_farm
02/19/24 4:56:10 PM
#15
Thud posted...
Definitely agree with real estate agents. Mine got a $10k commission, paid by me, for doing basically nothing that I couldn't have done myself

Its almost like paying someone to do the work for you is a common service across every industry. Chefs, financial advisors, mechanics, etc.

Even a lawyer.

But do you have the same resources and knowledge as these professionals? Or the time to sit down and do it?

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TopicWoman explains why she doesn't wipe
cuttin_in_farm
02/19/24 10:31:44 AM
#9
Accolon posted...
This is satire, right?

The litterbox part gave it away.

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Topicthe best type of character is the unbeatable, impossibly strong manly man
cuttin_in_farm
02/16/24 12:58:28 PM
#28
Personally, I only like it if its an antagonist.

Gives that Do not pursue Lu Bu energy in a story.

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TopicI taught my nieces critical thinking, and their grandma is MAD
cuttin_in_farm
02/16/24 12:54:18 PM
#33
Kradek posted...
Ok, good

We know for a fact that he taught them to question the religious indoctrination on evolution they were being fed, and with the pic in the OP it's pretty obvious he did the right thing because they were being indoctrinated with objectively false information.

I disagree. I think it's always a good idea when the "disruption" is preventing mental manipulation of children. What exactly do you want, for him to move in with them for 6 months to make sure the lessons on critical thinking are solidified for the rest of their lives? He taught them to think critically and now the mom/grandma will have to learn how to defend their faith from critical thinking, instead of just indoctrinating these girls into never questioning or asking questions. If they're old enough to text they can always just message/ask him questions as well.

I will always support someone trying to break religious indoctrination to the same degree I would support someone trying to break racist/bigoted indoctrination. Based off what little he's told of the grandma, it doesn't sound like they'd be raising these girls to be sterling examples of Christians, just the kind who plug their fingers in their ears when people start countering faith with facts and going "lalalalala". I consider that harmful for people and always support efforts to end it.

I see it as looking out for the mental health of his nieces.

Hm this is fair. When said this way. Realistically, it will help out in the long run.

Ill delete my prior posts. I judged to quickly.

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TopicI think I've found the one
cuttin_in_farm
02/16/24 12:06:46 PM
#7
Not wearing underwear is extremely gross and not nice at all unless youve the brain of a ten year old boy.

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TopicWhen people get mad that you're mad.
cuttin_in_farm
02/16/24 10:19:07 AM
#7
TotallyNotAGirl posted...
It's called losing your cool due to others losing their cool. It's a social domino effect and people who lose their cool from others losing their cool need to not be around the source.

These people need to find out its bullshit.

If Im upset about something you do, how in the living fuck does that make you upset back?

When someone is upset with me, I always feel remorseful or immediately try to figure out what is wrong.

Oh, youre mad about something I did? Well now Im mad that youre mad! Is such an astronomically stupid and selfish emotional reaction. Its emotional hijacking.

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TopicWhen people get mad that you're mad.
cuttin_in_farm
02/16/24 9:00:07 AM
#5
Bump

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TopicWhen people get mad that you're mad.
cuttin_in_farm
02/15/24 10:31:13 PM
#1
This shit needs a term and its infuriating.

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Topichave you heard the claim that lesbians don't actually exist?
cuttin_in_farm
02/15/24 6:41:59 PM
#6
The same people who think bisexual dudes dont exist.

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TopicApparently direction indicators in games is a problem now.
cuttin_in_farm
02/15/24 3:48:13 PM
#133
Punished_Blinx posted...
Isn't this game non-linear?


FF7 Remake is completely linear.

But you're at the bottom of the cliff. What if the top can be seen from different angles.


Thats why you create the landscape so that it can be seen

The dumb thing is sometimes games have ladders that you can't climb.

Neat. And sometimes games have different colored objects that cant be climbed.

Unless youre trying to say a ladder is less effective of a climbing indicator than thing with yellow paint.

Every gamer will try to climb a ladder. Every non-gamer will assume a ladder is climbable.

Why even give pushback on the ladder thing?

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TopicApparently direction indicators in games is a problem now.
cuttin_in_farm
02/15/24 3:29:18 PM
#131
Murphiroth posted...
It's wild to me that you can have devs pointing out that testing has discovered that stuff like this is absolutely necessary to some degree every time it comes up and you'll still have know-it-all gamers going "Nuh-uh the devs are wroooong I'm the smartest!"

I think the problem is that theres either:

Better ways to do it.

Not about being accessible.

For the former, you can have ways to organically have players know to climb. Maybe a npc climbs the cliff ahead of you. Or something interactable can be seen at the top, implying its accessible. The RE example is a ladder. Feels pretty dumb, no?

For the latter, maybe discovering what to do is the point. If I dont have to think, then why add that elevation at all? If its just a loading buffer, then theres better ways to do that too.

Theres things that gamers just known. (Red canister? Shooting it means explosion) I dunno if random yellow paint even guides players that effectively.

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TopicAI can now generate video from your written prompt
cuttin_in_farm
02/15/24 3:11:18 PM
#5
This will obviously be used for porn.

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TopicShould NeonBoobs change their name to NeonNipples
cuttin_in_farm
02/15/24 8:22:32 AM
#2
Please shut up.

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TopicPlaying the Lottery tonight. Give me 7 numbers CE.
cuttin_in_farm
02/14/24 1:25:56 PM
#5
ai123 posted...
How so? I didn't think any set of numbers had more chance than any other.

He may mean historically quick pick wins outnumber manually chosen wins.

27.

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TopicOnline debatebro Destiny declares deaths during a war don't count for genocide
cuttin_in_farm
02/13/24 7:47:36 AM
#29
Vampire_Chicken posted...
I'd say if there's a policy to "neutralize" the Gazan Palestinians as a threat in the longer term by reducing the resident population to "manageable proportions" by destroying so much of their infrastructure and housing that the Strip will remain largely uninhabitable (I expect the Israeli government to try to block funding for reconstruction), and this policy is known to be killing tens of thousands of civilians either directly through violence, or through hunger, disease, exposure, and the targeting of their healthcare facilities, it's pretty damn genocidal in effect and intent.

Sure, Im just clarifying Destinys statement from the topic title.

Destiny is a debatebro, so he enjoys being technical.

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Topic4 million dollars after taxes, or an 80% discount on everything for life?
cuttin_in_farm
02/13/24 7:11:35 AM
#50
1NfamousACE_2 posted...
i can understand the house but cars? Who is that hurting?

Who are you buying the cars from?

And people in topic are talking about corporate stocks lmao.

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TopicOnline debatebro Destiny declares deaths during a war don't count for genocide
cuttin_in_farm
02/13/24 6:46:37 AM
#25
I dont personally think we can claim hes an idiot because out of a 100 things, 1 thing is dumb.

Destiny, for the most part, is intelligent and is very transparent about his research since he literally streams it. He attempts to organize his thoughts and creates fucking essays for debates.

Destiny, however, is a giant fucking child emotionally. And gets upset for the smallest shit.

But I think its weird people are jumping on him for this. I really doubt he thinks a genocide cant happen in a war.

Destiny doesnt believe a genocide is happening because Israel is fighting against Palestine. The intentional desire for genocide isnt there, in his view.

The topic title is not what Destiny is even claiming.

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TopicWhat was the first game that brought you to GFAQs?
cuttin_in_farm
02/12/24 12:26:51 PM
#27
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/932999-fire-emblem-radiant-dawn/55364227

Fire Emblem Radiant Dawn 14 years ago lol.

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TopicWhen you're watching a stream on YouTube or Twitch, do you participate in chat?
cuttin_in_farm
02/12/24 6:42:18 AM
#28
itachi15243 posted...
This is actually pretty surprising.

I thought one of the biggest draws of a stream was being able to participate and talk with creators.

I feel like youre asking CE, an older demographic.

Younger folks are the ones chatting.

For me, I dont watch streams live. I only watch retroactively.

But I dont see the appeal of commenting something just for the streamer to ignore you because they have an incentive to focus on superchats instead. Some streamers dont even read those.

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TopicShe is a 10 and wants to bed you, but she is going through a divorce.
cuttin_in_farm
02/11/24 2:20:38 PM
#7
Not enough poll options.

Why CE wont just have no and yes options if you cant think of more reasons is beyond me.

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TopicYou're happier if your married.
cuttin_in_farm
02/11/24 2:18:35 PM
#31
I feel like the only way you answer no to the question is if you interpret the question as are married people happier than single.

I cant fathom how someone can think having a companion, in general, wouldnt make you happier.

Being married, to me, is like having more money. Can it produce unique problems? Yea. But having it is obviously better in more situations than not.

But I feel the topic title isnt what the article is asking.

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TopicDo you think this statement comes off a bit narcissistic?
cuttin_in_farm
02/10/24 10:01:15 AM
#13
Well, that never happens to me, so I dont think youre telling the truth..

Less narcissistic, moreso they just dont think the other person is credible.

Americans who never run into the law tend to do this when people say cops are shitty.

Ive never had that problem, ergo The problem doesnt exist

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TopicI asked her out on a date!!!!
cuttin_in_farm
02/10/24 9:45:27 AM
#72
Cotton_Eye_Joe posted...
You know what my problem is? I am not interesting. What am I supposed to say? I play Dark Souls and Smash Bros? "Ooh, do me, Dark Souls Master, I want you to do me cause you're the Dark Souls guy!"

And this post needs to be unpacked.

You dont have to necessarily talk about yourself in this fashion to be interesting. You have to be willing to show interest in her. You can do that without going so in depth too. You dont have to come out and say I play Dark Souls. Start surface. After a day of work, I relax with video games for a bit some days is an organic way to introduce a gaming hobby. It allows her to focus on either the hobby itself (gaming) or the relatability of needing to unwind after work. Which you may have been able to do if you didnt literally do a Thats too bad to her saying shes been tired all day lol.

You can do this, bro. Just add more effort to your posts. Her responding so much shows immense interest.

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TopicI asked her out on a date!!!!
cuttin_in_farm
02/10/24 9:39:35 AM
#71
Noname13 posted...
TC, Ill be straight up real with you. People here guiding you wrong. Youre way too short and cordial.

Every time you talk.

Its like this.

Like youre Amazon support.

loosen up a bit. And youre jumping the gun. Shes like work sucks and you just go So coffee Wednesday?. You put an immediate serious pressure in your responses.

It should go like this.

work sucks

Then you say, oh that sucks/wild, what happened? Yeah work sucked today for me too. Let her talk to you to for a bit. Eventually just say it out after a couple hours. Since Works been rough this week, you down for some coffee later?

You sound so rigid

Honestly, this.

TC, youre focused on the goal get her in person and only going for that.

You did good with suggesting something close for her. But you havent built off of anything she says. She said she was cold and that was a chance for you to reply with character or relate in some way.

I dont think asking her what she means with her last text was great either. It has no beneficial lead. It just resets the conversation to her potentially explaining what she already said. She was trying to express how reticent you are so that you could either explain or somewhat give her assurance you wouldnt be the same in person. Your question just kinda reinforces her worry.

I think youre maybe overthinking and its causing you to tunnel vision.

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TopicThere's a circumcision protest happening right now
cuttin_in_farm
02/10/24 9:30:47 AM
#282
I only read the first page, but Neon coming in with excellent arguments and even shooting down shitty sources was shockingly badass for his genre of poster.

Good stuff.

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TopicHow do you feel when someone says a word in another language with an accent?..
cuttin_in_farm
02/08/24 2:59:47 PM
#22
When I learn French, saying it correctly kinda automatically forces an accent, tbh.

French, imo, is easier when I dont open my mouth as wide as English. And my voice comes from my throat more. If I dont try changing how I literally talk, I wont pronounce it correctly.

I assume its the same for others youre observing.

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TopicTikTok star slams men for decline of masculinity. Says men need to pay.
cuttin_in_farm
02/05/24 7:57:13 PM
#136
GEKGanon posted...
Did the irony just completely blow past you that the person whining about the "decline of masculinity" is someone who was born a male and is so thoroughly bereft in masculinity themselves that they identify as a woman,


No, I dont see this irony. And its irrelevant.

Its one thing if this person isnt feminine or follows traditional gender norms for women. We dont know.

Instead, CE is taking the chance to just say shes ugly or fat as the irony.


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TopicTikTok star slams men for decline of masculinity. Says men need to pay.
cuttin_in_farm
02/05/24 2:26:03 PM
#128
I like how body shaming and criticizing how someone looks is immediately okay so long as youre saying something you dont like.

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TopicTikTok star slams men for decline of masculinity. Says men need to pay.
cuttin_in_farm
02/05/24 7:38:50 AM
#118
ai123 posted...
You're far more likely to get hit by another car while you're out in the road changing the tyre than pounced on by a roaming serial killer.

Thats not the point.

A car breaking down in a bad spot and needing to put in a spare is a survival skill in modern day.

Be it extreme weather or a violent person. You never know when youll need to change a tire.

Swimming is still a survival skill. You cant just say Well, Im never near water, so I dont need it.

You never know is the point.

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TopicThe open world of Elden Ring makes sequential runs so boring
cuttin_in_farm
02/04/24 12:11:34 PM
#11
Maybe dont look up where everything is?

My second run as a pugilist thunder archer was way different than my first run as an ice mage.

My third run where I killed npcs was also different.

Like do different things?

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TopicDo you care about politics?
cuttin_in_farm
02/02/24 7:29:01 AM
#39
DKBananaSlamma posted...
Eh, only when elections are coming up in a few days that I can vote in. Otherwise I aint gonna waste energy worrying about stuff I dont have control over >_> I'd rather use it for important things like improving my skills at my job (which will *actually* make a difference to people's lives) or hobbies

Rare good post from Neon.

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TopicDo you care about politics?
cuttin_in_farm
02/02/24 6:26:51 AM
#31
Ill care deeply about politics the moment I have any sway whatsoever.

Currently I dont, so I dont care.

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