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| Topic | My partner recently told me they feel like they've become asexual |
| Dungeater 05/23/24 8:07:09 PM #26: | if she wasnt always this way then it's prolly something
when i became asexual it was due to extreme shame/guilt for using sex as a weapon against myself there is nothing wrong with being asexual, but if it came out of nowhere, that points to something imo could be she doesnt gel with u anymore could be some associations have been formed in her head that are bringing her to a full stop all the time highly HIGHLY recommend Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski i recommend this to anyone, not just those struggling with sex issues. it is an incredibly insightful book. dont you or her go into it expecting to be "cured" (i dont really think asexuality needs to be cured i just cant think of a better word), but if you approach it earnestly and open mindedly you will both gain insight into how you and she tick. and what may or may not be stopping her --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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