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RCtheWSBC
02/13/18 10:38:24 AM
#302:


Why the fuck couldn't he have waited until after the damn thing? I was actually looking forward to going with friends. I was gonna try to beat my score on Michael Jackson's Moonwalker!
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Babbit55
02/13/18 10:39:54 AM
#303:


RCtheWSBC posted...
Why the fuck couldn't he have waited until after the damn thing? I was actually looking forward to going with friends. I was gonna try to beat my score on Michael Jackson's Moonwalker!


If you are going with friends, go. Don't let this hold you back.
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Muffinz0rz
02/13/18 10:40:47 AM
#304:


Babbit55 posted...
RCtheWSBC posted...
Why the fuck couldn't he have waited until after the damn thing? I was actually looking forward to going with friends. I was gonna try to beat my score on Michael Jackson's Moonwalker!


If you are going with friends, go. Don't let this hold you back.

Yeah I didn't know friends were involved, I'd still go then. I thought it was just a courtesy thing that you were doing alone to support him
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RCtheWSBC
02/13/18 10:43:35 AM
#305:


It's Mardi Gras and I still want to celebrate. I have to see if any friends are down to go still. I wouldn't go alone.
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PK_Spam
02/13/18 10:44:20 AM
#306:


You mentioned he was in a band. What genre?

I swear, if you tell me that he sings that kind of indie rock where they whisper half their words, Im gonna die laughing. Mostly because I still dont believe people unironically like that genre
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Muffinz0rz
02/13/18 10:44:36 AM
#307:


cYOg7Qu
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RCtheWSBC
02/13/18 10:51:33 AM
#308:


PK_Spam posted...
You mentioned he was in a band. What genre?

I swear, if you tell me that he sings that kind of indie rock where they whisper half their words, Im gonna die laughing. Mostly because I still dont believe people unironically like that genre

Nah it's funk-soul music.
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Babbit55
02/13/18 10:53:29 AM
#309:


PK_Spam posted...
You mentioned he was in a band. What genre?

I swear, if you tell me that he sings that kind of indie rock where they whisper half their words, Im gonna die laughing. Mostly because I still dont believe people unironically like that genre


Haw can you "Ironically" or "Unironically" like something. You either like it or you don't.....
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SunWuKung420
02/13/18 11:05:07 AM
#310:


You should grab another tinder dude and go get your funk on.
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PK_Spam
02/13/18 11:07:31 AM
#311:


RCtheWSBC posted...
PK_Spam posted...
You mentioned he was in a band. What genre?

I swear, if you tell me that he sings that kind of indie rock where they whisper half their words, Im gonna die laughing. Mostly because I still dont believe people unironically like that genre

Nah it's funk-soul music.

Okay thats actually kinda cool. Maybe you should start your own band, initially as a way to impress him so he dates you again. And you both go to the same battle of the bands thing after a few months and both of you are in the finals. Then when you win, he goes and tries to take you back, but now youve learned self-respect and have received love through your all-girl bandmates who have become your new family. And you reject him, get a really nifty record deal, and become a new musical sensation.

Babbit55 posted...
PK_Spam posted...
You mentioned he was in a band. What genre?

I swear, if you tell me that he sings that kind of indie rock where they whisper half their words, Im gonna die laughing. Mostly because I still dont believe people unironically like that genre


Haw can you "Ironically" or "Unironically" like something. You either like it or you don't.....

Its easy to ironically like something. Like I specifically watch shit like Sword Art Online because of how bad it is. I watch it, and derive a sick sense of enjoyment out of it, but not because I genuinely like it. I just love to see how bad the writing gets.

Same with Fairy Tail and The Walking Dead.
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Fierce_Mudcrap
02/13/18 11:11:03 AM
#312:


I love how this board never changes.

>Female Makes a post
>New and old Virgos whiteknight the topic
>500

Love it, never change PotD
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Babbit55
02/13/18 11:14:48 AM
#313:


PK_Spam posted...
Its easy to ironically like something. Like I specifically watch shit like Sword Art Online because of how bad it is. I watch it, and derive a sick sense of enjoyment out of it, but not because I genuinely like it. I just love to see how bad the writing gets.

Same with Fairy Tail and The Walking Dead.


Ok, point proved.
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Renraku_San
02/13/18 11:23:15 AM
#314:


RCtheWSBC posted...
FrisbeeDude posted...
Damn...y'all weren't even dating that long, right? Maybe he wanted an Friends with benefits thing? Secret girlfriend on the side?!

His father has diabetes and almost died from it. This past week he found out he also has lung cancer. He said he realized that he isn't ready to date seriously and it wouldn't be fair to hurt me down the road.


Complete BS. Everyone in this thread is like "awww sowwy rc, thoughts and prayers", but cmon, everyone needs honest feedback. It's sob story excuse - an easy way for him to dump you and not feel bad about it.

Also, you said it was only a month, that's like nothing, you shouldn't take getting dumped after a measly month hard at all (are you 16 or a grown ass woman?). Also, you hooked up pretty damn fast, no time to build any connection. when that happens, either party can lose interest depending on how the sex went. If you had built a connection first, perhaps it would've lasted after the sex, because the sex would've been more enjoyable. It was also your choice to hookup that early, so you were kinda looking to hookup.

So my take - he didn't enjoy the sex and is moving on, using his sob story to make it easier to dump you. If you got that attached after 1 month and are crying now, you are probably a level 3 on the clinger scale - fell way too fast, had sex too fast, caught feels, etc.
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mastermix3000
02/13/18 11:24:32 AM
#315:


Fierce_Mudcrap posted...
I love how this board never changes.

>Female Makes a post
>New and old Virgos whiteknight the topic
>500

Love it, never change PotD


pretty sure it would reach 500 if it happened to a dude too lol
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Muffinz0rz
02/13/18 11:24:43 AM
#316:


Fierce_Mudcrap posted...
I love how this board never changes.

>Female Makes a post
>New and old Virgos whiteknight the topic
>500

Love it, never change PotD

in my defense, i was just posting about boners
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EvilMegas
02/13/18 11:25:18 AM
#317:


Fierce_Mudcrap posted...
I love how this board never changes.

>Female Makes a post
>New and old Virgos whiteknight the topic
>500

Love it, never change PotD

Yeah we should all go back to making pointless topics about nothing instead of helping people!
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Jen0125
02/13/18 11:25:47 AM
#318:


I don't think there's anything wrong with crying after getting dumped after a month. Some people are sensitive. It's not like she's gonna stalk him and not let it go.
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Muffinz0rz
02/13/18 11:27:09 AM
#319:


Jen0125 posted...
I don't think there's anything wrong with crying after getting dumped after a month. Some people are sensitive. It's not like she's gonna stalk him and not let it go.

where were you
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Babbit55
02/13/18 11:27:40 AM
#320:


Fierce_Mudcrap posted...
I love how this board never changes.

>Female Makes a post
>New and old Virgos whiteknight the topic
>500

Love it, never change PotD


I was going to respond to a shit post (ended up making a whole new topic instead!) but felt bad because of what happened!

Also, Do you mean Virgos as the star sign or something else? Because pretty sure someone being a virgin is not an insult. It certainly shouldn't be used as one.
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Jen0125
02/13/18 11:30:45 AM
#321:


Muffinz0rz posted...
Jen0125 posted...
I don't think there's anything wrong with crying after getting dumped after a month. Some people are sensitive. It's not like she's gonna stalk him and not let it go.

where were you


I talked to rc privately about it so I didn't want to read this whole topic
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Muffinz0rz
02/13/18 11:31:13 AM
#322:


Jen0125 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Jen0125 posted...
I don't think there's anything wrong with crying after getting dumped after a month. Some people are sensitive. It's not like she's gonna stalk him and not let it go.

where were you


I talked to rc privately about it so I didn't want to read this whole topic

oh
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RCtheWSBC
02/13/18 11:34:41 AM
#323:


Jen0125 posted...
I don't think there's anything wrong with crying after getting dumped after a month. Some people are sensitive. It's not like she's gonna stalk him and not let it go.

Whatever Renraku says is usually the opposite of reality, lol

I can tell he's putting that psychoanalysis doctorate to good use
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a_doyle_42
02/13/18 11:49:59 AM
#324:


Of course you can cry after a month of dating, I cried after only 80-90 minutes of watching Toy Story 3!

Hope things pick up for you soon!
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Muffinz0rz
02/13/18 11:50:33 AM
#325:


RCtheWSBC posted...
Whatever Renraku says is usually the opposite of reality, lol

I actually just read what he wrote and there's really nothing wrong with it. It's a tough but fair analysis.
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ZiggiStardust
02/13/18 11:51:33 AM
#326:


SunWuKung420 posted...
You should grab another tinder dude and go get your funk on.

is that what you do?
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mipond
02/13/18 11:55:19 AM
#327:


Jen0125 posted...
I don't think there's anything wrong with crying after getting dumped after a month. Some people are sensitive. It's not like she's gonna stalk him and not let it go.

This RC..Jen is right. I cried over a guy I never met. You get to cry and yell and scream and kick things.
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RCtheWSBC
02/13/18 11:57:35 AM
#328:


a_doyle_42 posted...
Of course you can cry after a month of dating, I cried after only 80-90 minutes of watching Toy Story 3!

Hope things pick up for you soon!

That movie hit me in the feels as well ;_;
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EvilMegas
02/13/18 11:58:57 AM
#329:


ZiggiStardust posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
You should grab another tinder dude and go get your funk on.

is that what you do?

Its what I would do. *nudge nudge*
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Babbit55
02/13/18 11:59:05 AM
#330:


RCtheWSBC posted...
a_doyle_42 posted...
Of course you can cry after a month of dating, I cried after only 80-90 minutes of watching Toy Story 3!

Hope things pick up for you soon!

That movie hit me in the feels as well ;_;


The opening of up didn't make me cry. It was my wife chopping onions or something in my face. Honest!
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RCtheWSBC
02/13/18 12:03:04 PM
#331:


Disney got me to cry over The Princess and the Frog! They're tearjerker geniuses.
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OhhhJa
02/13/18 12:05:25 PM
#332:


Fierce_Mudcrap posted...
I love how this board never changes.

>Female Makes a post
>New and old Virgos whiteknight the topic
>500

Love it, never change PotD

This would've been more appropriate if you posted it in one of Jen's eating taco bell topics instead. There are many other way more pointless girl topics that gets 100+ posts
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FatalAccident
02/13/18 12:06:24 PM
#333:


literally not gonna wade through 7 pages of this

whats the crack? did he break up with you after work?

Cause thats a legit dbag move to say "we need to talk" and leave it at that for the whole day. Fuck lol
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Jen0125
02/13/18 12:08:54 PM
#334:


don't even post in a topic hardly and i get people talking shit about me
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RCtheWSBC
02/13/18 12:09:58 PM
#335:


Jen0125 posted...
don't even post in a topic hardly and i get people talking shit about me

lmao, it's the nature of the vaginal beast.

FatalAccident posted...
literally not gonna wade through 7 pages of this

whats the crack? did he break up with you after work?

Cause thats a legit dbag move to say "we need to talk" and leave it at that for the whole day. Fuck lol

Yes he did
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OhhhJa
02/13/18 12:11:47 PM
#336:


Jen0125 posted...
don't even post in a topic hardly and i get people talking shit about me

I'm not talking shit. Just being honest that any dude making a taco bell topic probably wouldn't get many posts. You're sensitive if you consider that shit talking
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EvilMegas
02/13/18 12:15:55 PM
#337:


OhhhJa posted...
Jen0125 posted...
don't even post in a topic hardly and i get people talking shit about me

I'm not talking shit. Just being honest that any dude making a taco bell topic probably wouldn't get many posts. You're sensitive if you consider that shit talking

Yet theres a chain of topics about a guy going to bed.
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Nicodaemos
02/13/18 12:21:16 PM
#338:


Is "I'm not actually ready to date" this season's Tinder meme? Getting that 3 times in one month is what made me delete the app after my last round.

Maximum fuckboy shit. Fuck him.
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RCtheWSBC
02/13/18 12:22:32 PM
#339:


Nicodaemos posted...
Is "I'm not actually ready to date" this season's Tinder meme? Getting that 3 times in one month is what made me delete the app after my last round.

Maximum fuckboy shit. Fuck him.

I'm definitely not gonna be swiping again anytime soon. I'll keep going out with my friends though, that's been fun.
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EvilMegas
02/13/18 12:33:56 PM
#340:


Nicodaemos posted...
Is "I'm not actually ready to date" this season's Tinder meme? Getting that 3 times in one month is what made me delete the app after my last round.

Maximum fuckboy shit. Fuck him.

Thats been around since the begininng of time.
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likehelly
02/13/18 1:04:49 PM
#341:


the only people who could be mad at this topic are incels
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Jen0125
02/13/18 1:05:05 PM
#342:


OhhhJa posted...
I'm not talking shit. Just being honest that any dude making a taco bell topic probably wouldn't get many posts. You're sensitive if you consider that shit talking


helly makes taco bell topics that get lots of posts

does he have a vagina
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likehelly
02/13/18 1:07:32 PM
#343:


my username is pretty feminine
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J_Dawg983
02/13/18 1:07:56 PM
#344:


Jen0125 posted...
OhhhJa posted...
I'm not talking shit. Just being honest that any dude making a taco bell topic probably wouldn't get many posts. You're sensitive if you consider that shit talking


helly makes taco bell topics that get lots of posts

does he have a vagina

Yes
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likehelly
02/13/18 1:33:21 PM
#345:


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Rockies
02/13/18 1:49:46 PM
#346:


I mean, this guy had to at least know some kind of issues like that would be coming up. Even if they're actually things that happened, still sounds like he was just looking for a hookup all along. This is what happens when you bone within a month of knowing someone. If they really like you and want it to be serious too, they'll be able to wait.
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wwinterj25
02/13/18 1:50:49 PM
#347:


SunWuKung420 posted...
You should grab another tinder dude and go get your funk on.

Tinder doesn't strike me as a place to meet folk for long term relationships or even short term for that matter.
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Doctor Foxx
02/13/18 2:02:05 PM
#348:


Rockies posted...
I mean, this guy had to at least know some kind of issues like that would be coming up. Even if they're actually things that happened, still sounds like he was just looking for a hookup all along. This is what happens when you bone within a month of knowing someone. If they really like you and want it to be serious too, they'll be able to wait.

Uh what. A month isn't that fast to start getting sexual. I question how many people saying that have dated much in the last few years. Or decade.

I was in this guy's shoes last year. I was surprisingly fucked up about my dad's cancer and other family things, and I broke it off with someone I really cared about. I did not have the time or energy to deal with my family's shit and maintaining any relationship. Wish I'd handled it better. I didn't see that coming. I was doing ok and just reached a point where it felt like everything was sinking. We were together much longer than a month at that point too.

It's really shitty this happened. Any of you shaming that the sex was too soon, get over yourselves. You're clearly out of touch with how things progress between people in romantic situations. There's nothing wrong with both parties wanting to explore things sexually within a month and you'll find waiting a month is not close to the norm.
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EvilMegas
02/13/18 2:04:39 PM
#349:


People wait a month before having sex?
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mastermix3000
02/13/18 2:05:29 PM
#350:


EvilMegas posted...
People wait a month before having sex?


lol nope
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ExtremeM65
02/13/18 2:06:11 PM
#351:


Damn RC, that shit sucks. I didn't see all this yesterday...I was sleeping all day. But I'll pour one out for you today. Also, yes, I read this whole topic but I'm a fast reader and there aren't that many posts longer than a few sentences.

RCtheWSBC posted...
I'm really tired of feeling hopeful and then losing


RCtheWSBC posted...
I just feel so tired in general.


I feel like I've said both of these things in a similar topic recently.

RCtheWSBC posted...
Thank you. That's the thing about shitty self-esteem: everyone may keep telling me these things, but it's harder for me to believe it or take it as truth. It's kind of like, "okay if i'm really these things, why does this keep happening for some reason or another?" Just the luck of the draw I guess.


Having had some time to reflect and regrow my apathy scab, I'm not so sure. I look around at all the people I know, and very few have been in relationships longer than a year, and even a good chunk of those are "open". Seems people, in general, are getting more selfish and immature, lacking the capacity or interest to understand how they might hurt others, and just want to follow their dicks (or metaphorical lady dicks) because that's what THEY want, dammit!

In other words, people suck. Fuck 'em.

TheCyborgNinja posted...
RCtheWSBC posted...
Dating is the fucking worst. Shit ain't fun for anyone.

Agreed. It's probably my least favourite thing other than painful medical emergencies or people I like dying. I pretty much needed to just marry somebody I was friends with to bypass that.


Dating sucks. Everyone's an overly polite asshole. They're nice to your face and then a selfish prick everywhere else. I'd also swear there's a rise in actual narcissism, at least where I live. People are too damn full of themselves.
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