You know, I wish there was more to say. Considering how much we talk and interact with each other, even if it's just across the internet, I feel like I consider you a real friend. And as such, I feel like a real friend would do more in this situation. But I can't. So the best I can do right now is offer my condolences and offer my help in any way, shape, or form.
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Holy f*** man, that sucks. I'm probably the last person on the board whose name you want to see right now but I'm really sorry to hear that. My heart goes out to you and your family.
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I lost my dad to liver cancer a little over two years ago, so I definitely know what you're going through. Just stay strong, man. It never heals completely, but it does get better.
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Losing my father was the most difficult experience of my life. I just hope over the next few days and weeks you'll think more of the positive influence he had on your life and smile, rather than dwell on the fact that he's gone. I'm really sorry, PUN.
My mom is here at my place, and my lil bro showed up
he started ordering us around, started "talking business" and started telling us what to do, even though we already knew everything he was saying, but I know this is his way of grieving so I'm letting it go. Him being in the military doesn't help this
my older bro is coming by tomorrow and my sis is flying down and should be here tomorrow night
I'm starting to get a headache from all the stress
but yea, mom is getting ready for bed, and my lil bro went to a bar and is gonna get drunk, he already arranged for a taxi to take him to a motel or something.
so I'm just here. I don't think I can force myself to sleep right now, even if I took a pill. so I'm just gonna stay up
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Sorry to hear that, my condolences. My next drink shall be dedicated to his memory.
Stay strong bro.
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Damn this is terrible. I can't even imagine what losing a parent must be like, let alone being the one to find them that way. My condolences to you and your family.
I'm sorry. Take whatever comfort knowing that it is something we all have to face one day or another. Loss is an experience that unites us and in doing so, never makes us truly alone. Again, I am sorry for your loss. We will be here for you.
foolm0ron posted... From: BIGPUN9999 | #029 My dad's greatest fear in his life was to die of a stroke on the toilet. This is probably the manliest fear I have ever heard of
Death is the one thing we fear most, as it represents the unknown. So yes, pretty damn manly.
My condolences, Pun.
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My father has told us at various times in the past 5 years that if he passed, he wanted to be cremated as he didn't want to be a burden to us after he leaves.
we would've preferred a proper service but realistically, none of us can afford it and we're not gonna go against his wishes anyways
my lil bro actually wants to shop around for funeral homes to see who has the lowest prices. I mean, this is logical, I suppose, but I'm not entirely comfortable with treating my dad like an object to pass around
but once we settle, we're all gonna try to pool in some money to try to get this done
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From: BIGPUN9999 | #059 he started ordering us around, started "talking business" and started telling us what to do, even though we already knew everything he was saying, but I know this is his way of grieving so I'm letting it go. Him being in the military doesn't help this
My dad was the same way when my grandfather died. He busied himself preparing for the service and giving himself work to do. He made it so there was no time to grieve.
Of course, you can't run forever.
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Pun, it's good that your lil bro is being all proactive about the "business" side of all this. Someone has to be and if it's his way of dealing with it then great. Not saying that you need to be like that, but it is something to be thankful for, even if he might seem like an insensitive jerk.
My dad was cremated also, but it's still really expensive.
My prayers are with your dad, you, and your family.
my lil bro actually wants to shop around for funeral homes to see who has the lowest prices. I mean, this is logical, I suppose, but I'm not entirely comfortable with treating my dad like an object to pass around
heh, I've made it clear to my family that I want them to do things as cheaply as possible. Put me in a plywood box if they have to, but I would rather not have my death be a financial burden. No elaborate services, don't buy me a new suit to bury me in, keep it simple and cheap.
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for all the times I give you sh**, nobody deserves a quick ending like this and not being able to say goodbye. I know my pops is a hardass too but, that's perhaps one of the better qualities a dad can have. I'm sure he raised you tough brother, now make him proud.
Feel better, hit me up if you need to vent or something.
we have an appointment with the funeral home today in the afternoon. We're also gonna check out the courthouse cause apparently if the person didn't have any kind of income or insurance or something like that, I don't know all the details, you can ask the court for some funds for a proper burial, so we're gonna see whats up with that
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