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ManWithGun
05/23/17 12:50:46 AM
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I already know where it is. I'm trying to figure out the best approach of telling her to fuck off.
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MutantJohn
05/23/17 12:51:47 AM
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Not expressing your feelings seems like a great idea.
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Stalolin
05/23/17 12:51:51 AM
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Get help lol
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alexander37
05/23/17 12:52:26 AM
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Drink it and beat her.



Just kidding that's horrible don't do that. Why does she feel the need to tell you to stop though and to hide it?
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Bluebomber182
05/23/17 12:53:07 AM
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are you an alcoholic? shes just worried about you man
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voldothegr8
05/23/17 12:53:34 AM
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How much are you drinking?
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Stalolin
05/23/17 12:54:56 AM
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Also I don't believe you. Why would she hide it and not just pour it down the sink?
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ManWithGun
05/23/17 12:55:58 AM
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voldothegr8 posted...
How much are you drinking?

3 days a week after 7pm until like 10
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glitteringfairy
05/23/17 12:56:04 AM
#9:


Divorce
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ManWithGun
05/23/17 12:56:31 AM
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Stalolin posted...
Also I don't believe you. Why would she hide it and not just pour it down the sink?

I don't know. Perhaps she knew I would just go buy somewhere. Some kind of power play i guess.
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glitteringfairy
05/23/17 12:56:59 AM
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Stalolin posted...
Also I don't believe you. Why would she hide it and not just pour it down the sink?

That's a quick way to get yourself in some deep shit
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do_ob_tpkillr
05/23/17 12:57:47 AM
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Stalolin posted...
Get help
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Stalolin
05/23/17 12:57:54 AM
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glitteringfairy posted...
Stalolin posted...
Also I don't believe you. Why would she hide it and not just pour it down the sink?

That's a quick way to get yourself in some deep shit

If that's true tc really does need to get some help.
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ManWithGun
05/23/17 12:59:41 AM
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ASithLord7 posted...
ManWithGun posted...
voldothegr8 posted...
How much are you drinking?

3 days a week after 7pm until like 10

Sounds like an alcoholic to me. Explains a lot.

How is that any different from the average joe who drink Friday Saturday and Sunday
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NeoBowser
05/23/17 1:00:48 AM
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Your wife is mad. You've made threads before
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ASithLord7
05/23/17 1:02:32 AM
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ManWithGun posted...
ASithLord7 posted...
ManWithGun posted...
voldothegr8 posted...
How much are you drinking?

3 days a week after 7pm until like 10

Sounds like an alcoholic to me. Explains a lot.

How is that any different from the average joe who drink Friday Saturday and Sunday

Nvm I missed the "3 days" part, my bad. But still, depends how heavily
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ManWithGun
05/23/17 1:03:46 AM
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ASithLord7 posted...
ManWithGun posted...
ASithLord7 posted...
ManWithGun posted...
voldothegr8 posted...
How much are you drinking?

3 days a week after 7pm until like 10

Sounds like an alcoholic to me. Explains a lot.

How is that any different from the average joe who drink Friday Saturday and Sunday

Nvm I missed the "3 days" part, my bad. But still, depends how heavily

4 shots two nights and a 6 pack on Sunday
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yem69420
05/23/17 1:06:04 AM
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I mean are you acting like a dick while drinking or is it like a health concern?
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ManWithGun
05/23/17 1:08:00 AM
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yem69420 posted...
I mean are you acting like a dick while drinking or is it like a health concern?

Neither. I'm fun and chill when I'm drunk and I have no health problems.
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_Near_
05/23/17 3:47:00 AM
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Irony
05/23/17 3:48:00 AM
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Why is TC stealing Cpt_Pineapple's gimmick?

Well?
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GAMER_X_REVIVAL
05/23/17 5:10:56 AM
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You got married TC.

Enjoy the drama lol.
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MrZAP17
05/23/17 5:13:45 AM
#25:


ManWithGun posted...
yem69420 posted...
I mean are you acting like a dick while drinking or is it like a health concern?

Neither. I'm fun and chill when I'm drunk and I have no health problems.

How often are people who think they're fun and chill when drunk actually fun and chill when drunk?
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FrankIin
05/23/17 5:14:03 AM
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Imagine having a controlling wife. Jesus.
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Nazanir
05/23/17 5:19:34 AM
#27:


ManWithGun posted...
voldothegr8 posted...
How much are you drinking?

3 days a week after 7pm until like 10


do_ob_tpkillr posted...
Stalolin posted...
Get help

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Irony
05/23/17 5:22:53 AM
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Oh shit, I forgot ToonLink
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GAMER_X_REVIVAL
05/23/17 5:28:26 AM
#30:


JustMyOpinion posted...
>Excessive drinking
>Complaining about his wife

Yep, we got a ToonLink topic.


>A couple drinks in the span of 3 hours, only 3 days a week
>"Excessive"

That word, I do not think It means what you think It means

Though CE is and always has been full of underage, so lightweights ahoy i guess it could be seen as excessive. For an avg adult tho, thats literally nothing tbh
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Cookie Bag
05/23/17 5:29:56 AM
#31:


MrZAP17 posted...
ManWithGun posted...
yem69420 posted...
I mean are you acting like a dick while drinking or is it like a health concern?

Neither. I'm fun and chill when I'm drunk and I have no health problems.

How often are people who think they're fun and chill when drunk actually fun and chill when drunk?

Almost never.
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GAMER_X_REVIVAL
05/23/17 5:41:57 AM
#33:


JustMyOpinion posted...
GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
>Excessive drinking
>Complaining about his wife

Yep, we got a ToonLink topic.


>A couple drinks in the span of 3 hours, only 3 days a week
>"Excessive"

That word, I do not think It means what you think It means

Though CE is and always has been full of underage, so lightweights ahoy i guess it could be seen as excessive. For an avg adult tho, thats literally nothing tbh



Yeah, 4 shots 2 days a week and a 6 pack the third day is oh so typical. It's amazing how sheltered you are while in the very same breath accusing others of the exaxt same thing without a hint of irony. Let's see him skip that for 2 weeks. Any physical symptoms or excessive irritability or other emotional changes would indicate it's a problem. Of course he won't try that because he's clearly so far beyond from havinf a problem.


I'm sorry, but you're the sheltered one here son. I'm 36, and 4 shots in a 3 hour period isn't ****. For that matter, I couldn't get more than slightly buzzed off a goddamn sixpack spread across 3 hours for the life of me.

Not everyone has the same level of tolerance you do. Welcome to real life.
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MrZAP17
05/23/17 5:43:33 AM
#34:


GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
>Excessive drinking
>Complaining about his wife

Yep, we got a ToonLink topic.


>A couple drinks in the span of 3 hours, only 3 days a week
>"Excessive"

That word, I do not think It means what you think It means

Though CE is and always has been full of underage, so lightweights ahoy i guess it could be seen as excessive. For an avg adult tho, thats literally nothing tbh



Yeah, 4 shots 2 days a week and a 6 pack the third day is oh so typical. It's amazing how sheltered you are while in the very same breath accusing others of the exaxt same thing without a hint of irony. Let's see him skip that for 2 weeks. Any physical symptoms or excessive irritability or other emotional changes would indicate it's a problem. Of course he won't try that because he's clearly so far beyond from havinf a problem.


I'm sorry, but you're the sheltered one here son. I'm 36, and 4 shots in a 3 hour period isn't ****. For that matter, I couldn't get more than slightly buzzed off a goddamn sixpack spread across 3 hours for the life of me.

Not everyone has the same level of tolerance you do. Welcome to real life.

Aren't you the same guy who couldn't be bothered to read a news article earlier while speculating blindly about it based on the headline?
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GAMER_X_REVIVAL
05/23/17 5:45:49 AM
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MrZAP17 posted...
GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
>Excessive drinking
>Complaining about his wife

Yep, we got a ToonLink topic.


>A couple drinks in the span of 3 hours, only 3 days a week
>"Excessive"

That word, I do not think It means what you think It means

Though CE is and always has been full of underage, so lightweights ahoy i guess it could be seen as excessive. For an avg adult tho, thats literally nothing tbh



Yeah, 4 shots 2 days a week and a 6 pack the third day is oh so typical. It's amazing how sheltered you are while in the very same breath accusing others of the exaxt same thing without a hint of irony. Let's see him skip that for 2 weeks. Any physical symptoms or excessive irritability or other emotional changes would indicate it's a problem. Of course he won't try that because he's clearly so far beyond from havinf a problem.


I'm sorry, but you're the sheltered one here son. I'm 36, and 4 shots in a 3 hour period isn't ****. For that matter, I couldn't get more than slightly buzzed off a goddamn sixpack spread across 3 hours for the life of me.

Not everyone has the same level of tolerance you do. Welcome to real life.

Aren't you the same guy who couldn't be bothered to read a news article earlier while speculating blindly about it based on the headline?



Why hello there! Apples, meet oranges.
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scar the 1
05/23/17 5:49:31 AM
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GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
I'm sorry, but you're the sheltered one here son. I'm 36, and 4 shots in a 3 hour period isn't ****. For that matter, I couldn't get more than slightly buzzed off a goddamn sixpack spread across 3 hours for the life of me.

Not everyone has the same level of tolerance you do. Welcome to real life.

It's not about how drunk you get, though.
Those volumes of alcohol that frequently? It's well off in the risk zone for alcoholism. Does that mean that everyone who drinks like that 100% is an alcoholic? No. Does it mean that if you drink like that you're either likely to be an alcoholic or likely to develop an addiction? Yeah.
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MrZAP17
05/23/17 5:51:23 AM
#37:


GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
MrZAP17 posted...
GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
>Excessive drinking
>Complaining about his wife

Yep, we got a ToonLink topic.


>A couple drinks in the span of 3 hours, only 3 days a week
>"Excessive"

That word, I do not think It means what you think It means

Though CE is and always has been full of underage, so lightweights ahoy i guess it could be seen as excessive. For an avg adult tho, thats literally nothing tbh



Yeah, 4 shots 2 days a week and a 6 pack the third day is oh so typical. It's amazing how sheltered you are while in the very same breath accusing others of the exaxt same thing without a hint of irony. Let's see him skip that for 2 weeks. Any physical symptoms or excessive irritability or other emotional changes would indicate it's a problem. Of course he won't try that because he's clearly so far beyond from havinf a problem.


I'm sorry, but you're the sheltered one here son. I'm 36, and 4 shots in a 3 hour period isn't ****. For that matter, I couldn't get more than slightly buzzed off a goddamn sixpack spread across 3 hours for the life of me.

Not everyone has the same level of tolerance you do. Welcome to real life.

Aren't you the same guy who couldn't be bothered to read a news article earlier while speculating blindly about it based on the headline?



Why hello there! Apples, meet oranges.

My point is you're basically keeping the same immature attitude and faux-standoffishness here, and it's really not very compelling.
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GAMER_X_REVIVAL
05/23/17 6:02:43 AM
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scar the 1 posted...
GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
I'm sorry, but you're the sheltered one here son. I'm 36, and 4 shots in a 3 hour period isn't ****. For that matter, I couldn't get more than slightly buzzed off a goddamn sixpack spread across 3 hours for the life of me.

Not everyone has the same level of tolerance you do. Welcome to real life.

It's not about how drunk you get, though.
Those volumes of alcohol that frequently? It's well off in the risk zone for alcoholism. Does that mean that everyone who drinks like that 100% is an alcoholic? No. Does it mean that if you drink like that you're either likely to be an alcoholic or likely to develop an addiction? Yeah.


Completely depends on whether the individual has an addictive personality or not.
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scar the 1
05/23/17 6:06:16 AM
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GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
Completely depends on whether the individual has an addictive personality or not.

Not completely. Partly.
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ManWithGun
05/23/17 8:48:25 AM
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The only thing I'm addicted to is my Xbox. I don't care about my drinking. It's the fact that I am being treated like a child who needs his toys taken away.

I am a grown man. I have a full time job, I work 16 hour days sometimes. I do shit at the house, I help other people with their shit. I just bought my wife a car and a new camera. If I want a fucking drink, who the fuck is anyone to tell me to stop or to hide my shit?
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scar the 1
05/23/17 8:53:12 AM
#42:


ManWithGun posted...
The only thing I'm addicted to is my Xbox. I don't care about my drinking. It's the fact that I am being treated like a child who needs his toys taken away.

I am a grown man. I have a full time job, I work 16 hour days sometimes. I do shit at the house, I help other people with their shit. I just bought my wife a car and a new camera. If I want a fucking drink, who the fuck is anyone to tell me to stop or to hide my shit?

Not to mention, you wear your cargo shorts really proudly!
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Kim Kusanagi
05/23/17 8:54:13 AM
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A shitty person deserves it
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MrZAP17
05/23/17 8:56:25 AM
#44:


ManWithGun posted...
I do shit at the house, I help other people with their shit.

Okay.
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DevsBro
05/23/17 8:56:30 AM
#45:


Sounds like you two should sit down and talk about stuff. She probably has legitimate concerns that you should be willing to consider, and you hopefully have concerns beyond the skin deep "U KINT TILL ME WAT 2 DO" preschooler tantrum you're showing CE thst she should be willing to consider.

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ManWithGun
05/23/17 8:59:58 AM
#46:


Okay. But when my goodwill says we should pay off some debts before buying more stuff, it's totally reasonable for her to ignore that because she can do what she wants.
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ManWithGun
05/23/17 9:00:29 AM
#47:


Kim Kusanagi posted...
A shitty person deserves it

No one asked you. Go be an insufferable troll elsewhere.
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scar the 1
05/23/17 9:01:44 AM
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ManWithGun posted...
Okay. But when my goodwill says we should pay off some debts before buying more stuff, it's totally reasonable for her to ignore that because she can do what she wants.

That sounds like an entirely 100% related and relevant argument.
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ManWithGun
05/23/17 9:02:49 AM
#49:


It's relevant in the fact of spousal goodwill. Mine is ignored but hers is totally right?

I guess I should have started the topic by saying my wife is religious.
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scar the 1
05/23/17 9:05:20 AM
#50:


I dunno what you want from us. Clearly you're drinking enough for someone to be worried, and when asked to stop you obviously refused since you went looking for the drinks the next day. You might have an issue with alcohol that you refuse to acknowledge, and you definitely have an issue with your wife that you should clear out with her, not with us. On top of that you have a really poor fashion sense.
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MrZAP17
05/23/17 9:07:56 AM
#51:


In all seriousness, this sounds like it actually goes pretty deep. Certainly alcohol and spending could well be issues that you're worried about, but it sounds like you're having respect issues as well, maybe on both sides. You're probably stressed from working a lot, and it sounds like you're worried about money. Maybe the stress is rubbing off on her as well and she thinks the alcohol is related. A lot of uncomfortable emotions that aren't being dealt with.

Honestly from what little I've seen maybe you should consider counseling.
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