Poll of the Day > my father died just today....I've been a mess since then

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NightMareBunny
09/20/17 1:45:14 AM
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I've tried to put up a good front but everyone's been treating me and my mother like charity cases so in a way i feel like everyone's got me and her on some kind of suicide watch

they are acting too friendly...and making it clear that they think we're gonna shoot ourselves dead in the following days without an overload of positivity complete with groceries bought for us
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Kyuubi4269
09/20/17 1:49:58 AM
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I wish people would buy groceries for me.
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Tezlok
09/20/17 1:51:21 AM
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sorry. I don't know what to say
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helIy
09/20/17 1:52:17 AM
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who is going to take you to walmart now
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dioxxys
09/20/17 1:53:27 AM
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When you feel sad you should watch shows about cartoon ponies
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CornishGhost
09/20/17 2:00:28 AM
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helIy posted...
who is going to take you to walmart now


goddammit
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NightMareBunny
09/20/17 2:02:24 AM
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look i don't care who you are but anyone who tries to troll someone after their father died and is grief stricken needs to learn how to be a human

i understand that's hard for a lot of you but just try okay?
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Tezlok
09/20/17 2:03:12 AM
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seriously. wtf is wrong with you guys
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Sarcasthma
09/20/17 2:03:40 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that, man.
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Foppe
09/20/17 2:05:06 AM
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Sorry to hear that.
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Melon_Master
09/20/17 2:05:30 AM
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Really sorry to hear about it. :(
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adjl
09/20/17 2:11:21 AM
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Been there, done that, it's not fun. *E-brohug*
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Alexandra_Trent
09/20/17 2:20:07 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. You will get through this.
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SmokeMassTree
09/20/17 2:31:15 AM
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I heard in the soon to be released GTAV for PC, your father dies.
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Zeus
09/20/17 2:42:19 AM
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"Since then" meaning "since today"? Kind of an odd way to put it. Makes it sound like you're having us on. My condolences if you aren't just messing with us.
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KogaSteelfang
09/20/17 3:39:31 AM
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Sorry for your loss.
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mipond
09/20/17 7:20:20 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. Take care of you and I'm sending positive energy your way. Hugs.
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green dragon
09/20/17 7:59:05 AM
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Sorry for your loss. Care to say what happened to him?


And even if you don't like tc, anyone that takes the time to make at a joke at his expense is honestly a fucking dick
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Mead
09/20/17 8:05:48 AM
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Sorry to hear that man, my heart goes out to you
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RCtheWSBC
09/20/17 8:08:42 AM
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Sorry for your loss.
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SushiSquid
09/20/17 8:14:44 AM
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I'm sorry to hear this. I'm also very sorry that the immediate reaction if this board was to make jokes. Guys, it's not the time for that.
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Yeto_Reacher
09/20/17 8:22:15 AM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
I wish people would buy groceries for me.

Wow.

Sorry bud. Chin up. Back where hence he came.
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SunWuKung420
09/20/17 8:30:11 AM
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Sorry man. That's rough.
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myghostisdead
09/20/17 8:43:20 AM
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I am so sorry.
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Firewood18
09/20/17 8:55:08 AM
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Sorry man. Losing a parent is one of those harsh and unfortunate milestones most of us have to deal with at some point.
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Action53
09/20/17 9:21:17 AM
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That sucks dude, I'm so sorry

When my stepmother died from the cancer all kinds of people came out the woodwork with groceries and cooked meals. It was a bit awkward at first but after a while it was really comforting to know they cared and it was nice to not have to deal with those mundane things so we could deal with our grief. Don't feel bad or ashamed to enjoy their gifts or ask for more, it really helps
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mastermix3000
09/20/17 9:26:02 AM
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:( hope things get better

The fact that people would even troll in this thread....
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Peterass
09/20/17 9:35:21 AM
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Sorry for your loss. My father passed away suddenly last year.. I know what you're going through.
I wont lie, it's not something that you will ever be completely over but eventually you will find a new "normal"

Keep your head up, Nightmarebunny
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TheWorstPoster
09/20/17 10:05:56 AM
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I am sorry for your loss
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GastroFan
09/20/17 11:29:16 AM
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My condolences and sympathies since I lost my 20 something nephew a couple of months ago (throat cancer that was caught too late). I'm not going to give you platitudes like 'you'll get over it' or some such thing since I still haven't (saw a name tag with my nephew's name yesterday and haven't gotten over the coincidence). All I can say is that you might, eventually, come to terms with your father's death (which I did when my father and father in law died within nine months of each other) but in your own way. There's always hope out there, even if we're in the darkest places at the time and can't see it.
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argonautweakend
09/20/17 11:32:57 AM
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Its not easy to deal with something like this. My dad died three years ago, and it was tough, but at the same time, at least in the case of my dad, they were relieved from their suffering. stay strong man, its tough but eventually you will move on, even if you never forget.

plus, in a few months cash in all those "if you ever need anything" platitudes, and get people to mow the lawn, clean the gutters, etc.
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wwinterj25
09/20/17 11:50:31 AM
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Sarcasthma posted...
I'm sorry to hear that, man.

This. Also it's normal for people to flock around you in the time of a death of a loved one. Personally I didn't like it when my sister died but I just let people do what they need to as it isn't about them. Try to stay strong.
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helIy
09/20/17 12:13:19 PM
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mastermix3000 posted...
The fact that people would even troll in this thread....

jokes on you, i was modded for being offensive
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adjl
09/20/17 12:32:34 PM
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helIy posted...
mastermix3000 posted...
The fact that people would even troll in this thread....

jokes on you, i was modded for being offensive


Weird, I figured it'd be trolling. That's what I marked you for, anyway. Nothing really offensive about it, you were just trying to upset him.

Action53 posted...
When my stepmother died from the cancer all kinds of people came out the woodwork with groceries and cooked meals. It was a bit awkward at first but after a while it was really comforting to know they cared and it was nice to not have to deal with those mundane things so we could deal with our grief.


Same when my dad died. It was actually a bit overwhelming; we ended up with far more food than we could possibly eat on our own. His coworkers had the good sense to recognize that, and instead of actual food, they pooled their money and bought us gift certificates for nearby restaurants. We had another guy make two huge lasagnas and freeze both of them so we didn't have to eat them immediately. We still ended up throwing out a lot, but it was very nice to not have to worry about food for a couple weeks.
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helIy
09/20/17 1:27:09 PM
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adjl posted...
Nothing really offensive about it, you were just trying to upset him.

you've been here long enough to know who tc is, adj
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gguirao
09/20/17 1:28:32 PM
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Sorry for your loss.
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NightMareBunny
09/20/17 1:29:36 PM
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thanks everyone i know it's hard to think about stuff like this but being so into gaming it's just natural I let those sort of people know how I'm doing

it's like trying to find comfort around fellow gamers who may have suffered similar losses and cannot handle playing that which they once loved
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SmokeMassTree2
09/20/17 1:39:31 PM
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helIy posted...
mastermix3000 posted...
The fact that people would even troll in this thread....

jokes on you, i was modded for being offensive


I was warned for it!
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helIy
09/20/17 2:26:16 PM
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your mod history sucked then

gitgud scrub

t6H3f3m

you always gotta let it purge to 0 before posting moddable stuff
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TheCyborgNinja
09/20/17 2:33:39 PM
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Just take it as "they don't know what to do and are trying their best" and let it go. You've got enough on your plate with the death that caring about others misinterpreting everything isn't worth the energy.
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MacrossSpecial
09/20/17 2:39:00 PM
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Nobody wants to tell you how to grieve so they help however they can, spending time with you and getting food for you in case you can't take being in public at the moment.

You never forget the death of a close family member but for most people it does get easier to accept as time passes.
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Tezlok
09/20/17 2:56:58 PM
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helIy posted...
adjl posted...
Nothing really offensive about it, you were just trying to upset him.

you've been here long enough to know who tc is, adj

So because you don't like him that makes it ok to laugh at death? There are times when people come together and stop fighting this is one of those times. I got trolled too when my cousin died. So I know how TC feels right now
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ClarkDuke
09/20/17 3:11:55 PM
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Tezlok posted...
helIy posted...
adjl posted...
Nothing really offensive about it, you were just trying to upset him.

you've been here long enough to know who tc is, adj

So because you don't like him that makes it ok to laugh at death? There are times when people come together and stop fighting this is one of those times. I got trolled too when my cousin died. So I know how TC feels right now

Zikten trying to make it all about him again, no way, ok?
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SmokeMassTree2
09/20/17 3:14:32 PM
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helIy posted...
your mod history sucked then

gitgud scrub

t6H3f3m

you always gotta let it purge to 0 before posting moddable stuff


I know right. I have this habit of fighting even the most deserving mods cause fuck it why not right
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ClarkDuke
09/20/17 3:17:26 PM
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SmokeMassTree2 posted...
helIy posted...
your mod history sucked then

gitgud scrub

t6H3f3m

you always gotta let it purge to 0 before posting moddable stuff


I know right. I have this habit of fighting even the most deserving mods cause fuck it why not right

That's how you ate your way to 406, I get it now, ok?
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SmokeMassTree2
09/20/17 3:21:35 PM
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408 and you're not good at this, ok?
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ClarkDuke
09/20/17 3:40:29 PM
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SmokeMassTree2 posted...
408 and you're not good at this, ok?

Seems I'm better than you realize, ok?
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SmokeMassTree2
09/20/17 3:43:03 PM
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How so
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adjl
09/20/17 3:50:23 PM
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helIy posted...
adjl posted...
Nothing really offensive about it, you were just trying to upset him.

you've been here long enough to know who tc is, adj


I know exactly who TC is. That does absolutely nothing to change how much of an asshole you're being. Stop being such an asshole.
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