Poll of the Day > Alone again :b

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We'd been messing around for a few weeks now, and also we'd been really close friends for a few months. It wasn't a secret to anyone in our friend group that we were "together but not together."

But I can't do the whole friends with benefits thing. So I told her yesterday that I wanted more. Not a lot more. Literally nothing more, except that we make ourselves "official." She said she wasn't ready and I get it.

Oh well. I gave it a try I guess :b hopefully things won't be weird.
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Knowing where you stand is the most important thing.
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This reminds me of that friends ep
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You had to shoot your shot, good on you.
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This makes me a bad person but part of the reason I didn't do this sooner is that this girl is insanely out of my league. I am never getting a chance with a girl this hot ever again lol <_< like 75% of the time we go out somewhere, someone hits on her. Three of my friends had/have crushes on her. Wild.
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Saw her today. We kissed for a solid while. I had to leave but now I'm meeting her at midnight to "talk about something important"

I hate myself.
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I've said it before and I'll say it again. Fuck her, vomit then break off the friendship, ok?
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Is this the one with a boyfriend

why do you guys always have so much "important stuff" to "talk about"

f dat drama silence is golden
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wwinterj25 posted...

I've said it before and I'll say it again. Fuck her, vomit then break off the friendship, ok?

Sex is gross. No thanks.

SmokeMassTree2 posted...

Is this the one with a boyfriend

They broke up and we started not-dating the same day. We'd kissed and stuff a couple of times before that, though <.<

Greenfox111 posted...

why do you guys always have so much "important stuff" to "talk about"

f dat drama silence is golden

I dunno what she wants to talk about. Probably just some "I hope we can still be friends" silliness. I told myself I was going to stop blogsfaqsing on PotD until the semester ended, so this'll probably be the last update (unless someone really wants to know what happens ). I meant for this to be a quick topic about closure; I didn't think we'd do more talking after yesterday. Whoops.
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bro we get it ur a stud
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I feel like someone who would break up with a guy and then start a relationship with another is not the kind of person you could expect to get in a steady relationship with. But then again, I don't know anything.

Why's she not ready?
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MrMelodramatic posted...

Sex is gross. No thanks.

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wheres the update you slut
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There is no update. Like I said,

MrMelodramatic posted...

this'll probably be the last update

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MrMelodramatic posted...

There is no update. Like I said,

MrMelodramatic posted...

this'll probably be the last update

you got me invested in this. Gotta know what the talk was about
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BobToxsick posted...

MrMelodramatic posted...

There is no update. Like I said,

MrMelodramatic posted...

this'll probably be the last update

you got me invested in this. Gotta know what the talk was about

Basically she said that she didn't want what we had to end or change in anyway. She doesn't think being "in a relationship" is a healthy label, even if what we have is basically a pretty good relationship. We're pretty close physically and emotionally, and we're decently monogamous. We go on dates and do PDA and whatever, she just doesn't want a "boyfriend."

She said on a scale of 1-10, labeling what we have would be a 7 uncomfortable.

I said I understood, but honestly I sorta don't. I get not wanting to jump from one relationship right into another, but I don't think much changes because of a label. Well anyway I'm weak and said I was okay with it and I spent the night at her place and we were going to have oral sex early this morning after I got out of the shower, but we were interrupted by some roommate troubles. tbh I'm sorta glad. Part of me feels wrong about touching a girl I'm not dating

I don't know why it bothers me so much but it dooesssssssss. idk how much longer I can play this off like I'm okay. Wednesday we're going out to dinner and then camping out by a lake. Maybe that's when I'll tell her <_<
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MrMelodramatic posted...

Part of me feels wrong about touching a girl I'm not dating

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Catholic upbringings, an I right? Feels awfullllll
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wwinterj25 posted...

MrMelodramatic posted...

Sex is gross. No thanks.

This could explain a lot.
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This whole saga of posts I see from you are very baffling. I'll probably miss some things out but here is a summery:

- Claims he's hopeless, unlucky with woman and alone
- Brags about the amount of girls that apparently find him desirable
- Claims sex is gross to the point he actually throws up after having sex
- Brags about getting sex and/or other sexual activities despite said girl always having baggage
- Claims he wants more from his "relationships"
- Brags that he has to turn down gals for one reason or another

This is a good case of Jekyll and Hyde syndrome it seems.
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wwinterj25 posted...

This whole saga of posts I see from you are very baffling. I'll probably miss some things out but here is a summery:

You forgot where he said he doesn't feel right touching girls he isn't dating, but if a girl is dating someone and is very "cuddly" there is nothing wrong with that
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wwinterj25 posted...

This whole saga of posts I see from you are very baffling. I'll probably miss some things out but here is a summery:

- Claims he's hopeless, unlucky with woman and alone
- Brags about the amount of girls that apparently find him desirable
- Claims sex is gross to the point he actually throws up after having sex
- Brags about getting sex and/or other sexual activities despite said girl always having baggage
- Claims he wants more from his "relationships"
- Brags that he has to turn down gals for one reason or another

This is a good case of Jekyll and Hyde syndrome it seems.

He's just being melodramatic.

What are her boobs like?
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wwinterj25 posted...

This whole saga of posts I see from you are very baffling. I'll probably miss some things out but here is a summery:

- Claims he's hopeless, unlucky with woman and alone
- Brags about the amount of girls that apparently find him desirable
- Claims sex is gross to the point he actually throws up after having sex
- Brags about getting sex and/or other sexual activities despite said girl always having baggage
- Claims he wants more from his "relationships"
- Brags that he has to turn down gals for one reason or another

This is a good case of Jekyll and Hyde syndrome it seems.

Weird way of reading into it, man. First off, I'm definitely not bragging anywhere. The only place I could see "bragging" is the post where I said she's way outta my league, but that was more a jab at myself.

Clearly I am hopeless and unlucky with women if I can never seem to get one to want to be in a relationship with me. That's how I define success, not with gross friendship/breakup one-night stands. In my whole life I've kissed eight people and had sex with two. A lot of those were drunk accidents or whatever. I'd hardly say that's a good amount of people who find me desirable. I'm sure you've seen pictures of me; I'm pretty ugly and that's not really disputable.

Sex is gross and I usually throw up, yeah. I've really not had much sex or sexual relations with many women. All my PotD topics are basically about two or three people across seven years.

I do want more from a relationship than just the physical stuff. That's really not asking a lot, especially since I'm not super into the physical stuff. I've literally never turned a girl down.

mastermix3000 posted...

wwinterj25 posted...

This whole saga of posts I see from you are very baffling. I'll probably miss some things out but here is a summery:

You forgot where he said he doesn't feel right touching girls he isn't dating, but if a girl is dating someone and is very "cuddly" there is nothing wrong with that

Cuddling, hand holding, kissing, etc. is very different from heavy petting, mutual masturbation, and sex, yes. They were confident enough in their relationship that cuddling and hand holding with other people was okay. I can admit I crossed a line, but it's not like I was proud of it.

Smarkil posted...

What are her boobs like?

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mastermix3000 posted...

You forgot where he said he doesn't feel right touching girls he isn't dating, but if a girl is dating someone and is very "cuddly" there is nothing wrong with that

You're right!
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RCtheWSBC posted...

You had to shoot your shot, good on you.

i shot my shot, and now we're about to have a baby! :D
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Oh I just eat this high school esc drama up, keep up the good work melo.
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J_Dawg983 posted...

Oh I just eat this high school esc drama up, keep up the good work melo.

the pathetic thing is he's way past high school age, ok?
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honestly college has had way more high school drama than high school did. In high school I had three good friends, I got high every day, I had a long-term girlfriend, and nothing ever really went wrong. College is a group of about a hundred friends that I know and see on a daily bases, maybe 8-10 of them being my close friend group, and all the drunk and childish antics that happen in that big web. Plus everyone's always tired and hungry and on the verge of some kind of breakdown. Really makes for an interesting couple of years.
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MrMelodramatic posted...

Alone again :b

MrMelodramatic posted...

College is a group of about a hundred friends that I know and see on a daily bases...

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wwinterj25 posted...

This whole saga of posts I see from you are very baffling. I'll probably miss some things out but here is a summery:

- Claims he's hopeless, unlucky with woman and alone
- Brags about the amount of girls that apparently find him desirable
- Claims sex is gross to the point he actually throws up after having sex
- Brags about getting sex and/or other sexual activities despite said girl always having baggage
- Claims he wants more from his "relationships"
- Brags that he has to turn down gals for one reason or another

This is a good case of Jekyll and Hyde syndrome it seems.

That's how I see it too. He's always going out with friends, going to parties, talking about women being into him, and all the sexual things they do. Then he posts that he has no friends, never goes out, and that he has no luck with women...

Its very strange, I can totally relate to the guy he claims to be, and my heart goes out to him. Then he posts about the life he's actually living, and it seems like he's a completely different person. Maybe I'm just jealous, but these topics tend to be fairly frustrating.
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KogaSteelfang posted...

wwinterj25 posted...

This whole saga of posts I see from you are very baffling. I'll probably miss some things out but here is a summery:

- Claims he's hopeless, unlucky with woman and alone
- Brags about the amount of girls that apparently find him desirable
- Claims sex is gross to the point he actually throws up after having sex
- Brags about getting sex and/or other sexual activities despite said girl always having baggage
- Claims he wants more from his "relationships"
- Brags that he has to turn down gals for one reason or another

This is a good case of Jekyll and Hyde syndrome it seems.

That's how I see it too. He's always going out with friends, going to parties, talking about women being into him, and all the sexual things they do. Then he posts that he has no friends, never goes out, and that he has no luck with women...

Its very strange, I can totally relate to the guy he claims to be, and my heart goes out to him. Then he posts about the life he's actually living, and it seems like he's a completely different person. Maybe I'm just jealous, but these topics tend to be fairly frustrating.

'Ey, there's a face I haven't seen in a while. Can't wait to room with you, Koga.

DistantMemory posted...

'Ey, there's a face I haven't seen in a while. Can't wait to room with you, Koga.

Yeah, I haven't been posting much lately. I'd totally let you room with me if I could afford the house I want. Sucks being poor.
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ZiggiStardust posted...

MrMelodramatic posted...

Alone again :b

MrMelodramatic posted...

College is a group of about a hundred friends that I know and see on a daily bases...

In the context of this topic, alone means romantically alone. I do sometimes feel totally alone, though. Rough days :/

SmokeMassTree2 posted...

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KogaSteelfang posted...

wwinterj25 posted...

This whole saga of posts I see from you are very baffling. I'll probably miss some things out but here is a summery:

- Claims he's hopeless, unlucky with woman and alone
- Brags about the amount of girls that apparently find him desirable
- Claims sex is gross to the point he actually throws up after having sex
- Brags about getting sex and/or other sexual activities despite said girl always having baggage
- Claims he wants more from his "relationships"
- Brags that he has to turn down gals for one reason or another

This is a good case of Jekyll and Hyde syndrome it seems.

That's how I see it too. He's always going out with friends, going to parties, talking about women being into him, and all the sexual things they do. Then he posts that he has no friends, never goes out, and that he has no luck with women...

Its very strange, I can totally relate to the guy he claims to be, and my heart goes out to him. Then he posts about the life he's actually living, and it seems like he's a completely different person. Maybe I'm just jealous, but these topics tend to be fairly frustrating.

:<
I have friends and go out and do stuff, but I really think you're all blowing my luck with women way out of proportion. Like I said, I've only ever had one girlfriend and there was one other person I've talked about, but I'm pretty sure it was only one topic.
I definitely try though, you know? I'm ugly and romantically repulsive and awkward and shy and bad at things and kind of a buzzkill... but I still put myself out there and talk to almost everyone I can. I ask out the guys and gals I think are cute. Once in a blue moon someone takes pity on me and agrees and it ends with "that was fun but you're not really my type" but most of the time I just get a rejection.
The depression kicks in hard when I drink so usually I start drinking and then just keep going until I can't remember the night. Feels bad, but it's like a seventh of the week that I don't have to live through so that's good.
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Snerpderp name?

Don't worry.

At least you had a girl.

MrMelodramatc posted...

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I have friends and go out and do stuff, but I really think you're all blowing my luck with women way out of proportion. Like I said, I've only ever had one girlfriend and there was one other person I've talked about, but I'm pretty sure it was only one topic.
I definitely try though, you know? I'm ugly and romantically repulsive and awkward and shy and bad at things and kind of a buzzkill... but I still put myself out there and talk to almost everyone I can. I ask out the guys and gals I think are cute. Once in a blue moon someone takes pity on me and agrees and it ends with "that was fun but you're not really my type" but most of the time I just get a rejection.
The depression kicks in hard when I drink so usually I start drinking and then just keep going until I can't remember the night. Feels bad, but it's like a seventh of the week that I don't have to live through so that's good.

Well, like I said, it's probably just me being jealous. It's definitely been more than 1 topic though. There was one where you explained your repulsion of sex, by listing out a long and detailed recount of various sexual situations you've had. Then you had one about meeting a girl at the library and iirc she tried sexual things on you then. Then the topic about the girl you tried breaking things off with and ended up just having sex with her anyway, I'm assuming this is library girl again. Then you made a topic about the current girl being into you, then the previous topic about her where you and her were getting physical despite her dating someone else, now this one where things once again have become sexual and I'm guessing has been for quite a while. I feel like I'm missing one or two topics as well, but I might be thinking of other topics instead.
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the repulsion of sex topic was about basically every single sexual experience I've had since 2012 lol. Really not a whole lot. Library girl is the girl I wanted to not be friends with, and I only ever made one topic specifically about her. It got a bit out of hand, as things tend to do, but it was fine. The only other girl is the current one, who I've been casually flirting with since May, and regularly seeing for just over three weeks now. I've definitely talked about this girl a lot. I don't feel like different experiences with the same person should really count the same as having a hoard of women coming after me :P
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Well, I'll leave my bias out of this then and try to give real advice. This label is just as important to her as it is to you, maybe even more important to her since she just bailed out of another relationship. You say it's just a label, then what difference does it make if she chooses to not use it yet? You're literally in a relationship with a girl you like, who is "out of your league" and you want to throw that away because she feels it's too soon for a label? She's not going to be perfect, people aren't perfect, relationships aren't perfect, there's always going to be something that needs to be worked on, and in this case it seems that you just need to give her more time. It feels like you're just trying to get hung up on something that really doesn't matter that much right now.
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Haven't you been in college for like 2 years? When are you going to stop acting like a middle schooler?
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KogaSteelfang posted...

Maybe I'm just jealous, but these topics tend to be fairly frustrating.

Nah man it's just the way the TC makes his life seem with his topics it seems.
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Melo in your topics cant help but imaginin your penis "deformity". Whyd ya ever share? Forever gonna think of it when we talk.
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FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...

Melo in your topics cant help but imaginin your penis "deformity". Whyd ya ever share? Forever gonna think of it when we talk.

Which one was that? The hole in the wrong place? Cause I dont think that was melo
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Smarkil posted...

Which one was that? The hole in the wrong place? Cause I dont think that was melo

Foreskin that won't retract.
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Smarkil posted...

FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...

Melo in your topics cant help but imaginin your penis "deformity". Whyd ya ever share? Forever gonna think of it when we talk.

Which one was that? The hole in the wrong place? Cause I dont think that was melo

That one's me.
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