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lww99
03/13/18 9:39:12 AM
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Bit of a backstory so bear with me. Tldr.

Been with my gf for 4 years. Anytime I've done something shady(it's been years), she pretty much always KNEW something was going on.

Anyways. Every Friday night I go to my friend's house to chill.The last four times I've gone there, his girlfriend has had one of her friends over. Their kids go play DnD for a couple hours.

Quite frankly, the friend is VERY attractive. The kind of girl that's hard not to look at. Never got her name, but the four of us always talk for 10-15 mins. She makes a lot of eye contact, and has flirtatious body language.

So after I get home from my friend's, my girlfriend keeps saying "oh was your side chick there", usually just joking around. At least the first time.

Then my gf takes the "joke" one step further by describing the girl damn near perfectly. Her hair color, tattoos, height, body type, etc.

This morning, my nerves shot through the roof.
MY GF SENT ME HER FUCKING PICTURE. With a caption, "why do people cover half their faces in selfies".

She's gotta know, she just has to. But I really haven't even TRIED doing anything wrong. Haven't gotten her name. Haven't asked for her number, haven't added her on social networking, etc.

What do?
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Were_Wyrm
03/13/18 9:39:47 AM
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shift
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Zikten
03/13/18 9:41:30 AM
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sometimes I ignore topics but then they get locked and so I look to see what the big deal was. that happened with the original topic. I think it was locked just cause of a single word in the original post. and he left it out in this rewrite
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NeonOctopus
03/13/18 9:43:30 AM
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lww99
03/13/18 9:45:01 AM
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Actually, this is the third topic. They locked the first one for "shift", and locked the second for illegal activities.

That's alright, I can remake it. I am not bypassing any sensors or promoting illegal activities.
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lww99
03/13/18 9:46:01 AM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
Mods, lock this topic please.


Same 3 posts in 3 different topics? Disruptive posting
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Trigg3rH4ppy
03/13/18 9:46:37 AM
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lww99 posted...
What do?

Dump the bitch
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eston
03/13/18 9:47:15 AM
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NeonOctopus posted...
If you're not doing anything, do you have anything to worry about? >_>

This tbqh
Like it's weird that she knows (how would she anyway?) but it's not like you're doing anything wrong. How come she doesn't go with you though?
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lww99
03/13/18 9:50:05 AM
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She has self esteem issues.

Idk.. I haven't outright lied to her, but I'm excluding some truth I guess.
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MrK3V
03/13/18 9:50:35 AM
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lww99 posted...
She has self esteem issues.

Idk.. I haven't outright lied to her, but I'm excluding some truth I guess.


lemme guess. you didnt fuck a girl but you kissed one?
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lww99
03/13/18 9:52:53 AM
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MrK3V posted...
lww99 posted...
She has self esteem issues.

Idk.. I haven't outright lied to her, but I'm excluding some truth I guess.


lemme guess. you didnt fuck a girl but you kissed one?


I did some pretty shady shit when we first started dating. But that was literally years ago.
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MrK3V
03/13/18 9:53:55 AM
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I guess the biggest problem is trust issues.

Once something happens in a relationship, say cheating, even if both sides agree to stay together, the one cheated on will always have feelings of trust issues.
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lww99
03/13/18 9:54:44 AM
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M_Live posted...
lww99 posted...
Actually, this is the third topic. They locked the first one for "shift", and locked the second for illegal activities.

That's alright, I can remake it. I am not bypassing any sensors or promoting illegal activities.

Okay can I get some back story


I had an accidental censor bypass for shit. Can't say what the other one was, bc I don't want this getting closed too.
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Trigg3rH4ppy
03/13/18 9:56:09 AM
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lww99 posted...
MrK3V posted...
lww99 posted...
She has self esteem issues.

Idk.. I haven't outright lied to her, but I'm excluding some truth I guess.


lemme guess. you didnt fuck a girl but you kissed one?


I did some pretty shady shit when we first started dating. But that was literally years ago.

Lots of people cheat in the beginning of a relationship. I know I did. It's when you put a ring on it you need to put your dick away.
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lww99
03/13/18 9:57:31 AM
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MrK3V posted...
I guess the biggest problem is trust issues.

Once something happens in a relationship, say cheating, even if both sides agree to stay together, the one cheated on will always have feelings of trust issues.


I never straight up cheated, but may as well have.

She found me on Tinder. And then when we were on a "break" because of that, I hooked up with some random.
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smoke_break
03/13/18 9:57:34 AM
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lww99 posted...
Their kids go play DnD for a couple hours.

This has got to be fake. Kids don't play DnD these days. It's all video games.
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lww99
03/13/18 9:58:07 AM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
lww99 posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
Mods, lock this topic please.


Same 3 posts in 3 different topics? Disruptive posting


Two times. And you made the same topic 3 times.


Nope, if this was the same topic, it would be deleted. :)
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lww99
03/13/18 9:58:43 AM
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smoke_break posted...
lww99 posted...
Their kids go play DnD for a couple hours.

This has got to be fake. Kids don't play DnD these days. It's all video games.


Na it's legit old school DnD. They play YuGiOh too
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lww99
03/13/18 10:05:04 AM
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The girl keeps popping up in my "people you may know"

Stop taunting me, Facebook!!
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Chicken
03/13/18 10:08:14 AM
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lww99 posted...
and locked the second for illegal activities.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zx40udwQvZI" data-time="

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lww99
03/13/18 10:09:31 AM
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Chicken posted...
lww99 posted...
and locked the second for illegal activities.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zx40udwQvZI" data-time="


Breaking the tos =/= breaking the law

It's all mod discretion anyways.

Good movie btw
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deanshow
03/13/18 10:09:41 AM
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smoke_break posted...
lww99 posted...
Their kids go play DnD for a couple hours.

This has got to be fake. Kids don't play DnD these days. It's all video games.

I play DnD now and again, I usually RP as a douchebag
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lww99
03/13/18 10:12:53 AM
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Apparently they both used to work at the same mall, and she used to come into my gf's work all the time. Supposedly, that's why she follows her.

Idk
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MelzezDoor
03/13/18 10:13:17 AM
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lww99
03/13/18 10:14:11 AM
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Right now I think she just has a gut feeling. But she pretty much all but knows. And I don't friggin know how
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lww99
03/13/18 10:17:13 AM
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She's always been this way. Like legitimately every single time I even think about being shady, she knows something is up
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Patchwork
03/13/18 10:39:28 AM
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Maybe your buddy's gf is telling her.
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lww99
03/13/18 10:41:24 AM
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They aren't friends or anything though. Plus I used to work with his gf for like 8 years.
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lww99
03/13/18 11:06:43 AM
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Should I continue to play dumb? Or tell the truth about her being there at least?

I don't think anything will happen if I tell her, but I don't want her to take it personally.
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Chicken
03/13/18 11:18:00 AM
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lww99 posted...
Chicken posted...
lww99 posted...
and locked the second for illegal activities.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zx40udwQvZI" data-time="


Breaking the tos =/= breaking the law

It's all mod discretion anyways.

Good movie btw


illegal
i(l)ll/
adjective
adjective: illegal

1.
contrary to or forbidden by law, especially criminal law.
"illegal drugs"
synonyms:unlawful, illicit, illegitimate, criminal, felonious; More
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Muffinz0rz
03/13/18 11:20:41 AM
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lww99 posted...
I did some pretty shady shit when we first started dating. But that was literally years ago.

Can you elaborate on "shady?" If you're talking about cheating on her, then yeah you deserve to be cross-examined. I don't even know why she'd still be with you if that was the case.
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lww99
03/13/18 11:34:54 AM
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fenderbender321 posted...
NeonOctopus posted...
If you're not doing anything, do you have anything to worry about? >_>


This.

Let your girlfriend be jealous. It's the best place to be. You do nothing wrong, she's jealous you might. She can't leave you or be hurt or accuse you of doing wrong. So she'll just stay by your side and constantly try to compete for your attention.


Or harass me daily about having a side chick lol.
It's a weird spot to be in tbh
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lww99
03/13/18 11:39:16 AM
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Chicken posted...
lww99 posted...
Chicken posted...
lww99 posted...
and locked the second for illegal activities.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zx40udwQvZI" data-time="


Breaking the tos =/= breaking the law

It's all mod discretion anyways.

Good movie btw


illegal
i(l)ll/
adjective
adjective: illegal

1.
contrary to or forbidden by law, especially criminal law.
"illegal drugs"
synonyms:unlawful, illicit, illegitimate, criminal, felonious; More


Literally everyone breaks at least some laws. Be it jaywalking, speeding 1mph over the limit, etc. NO ONE is without fault.
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WarDog2016
03/13/18 11:39:35 AM
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smoke_break posted...
lww99 posted...
Their kids go play DnD for a couple hours.

This has got to be fake. Kids don't play DnD these days. It's all video games.

ehhh, i know a couple of 18 year olds that play pathfinder/dnd. they were kids not too long ago.
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lww99
03/13/18 11:40:39 AM
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WarDog2016 posted...
smoke_break posted...
lww99 posted...
Their kids go play DnD for a couple hours.

This has got to be fake. Kids don't play DnD these days. It's all video games.

ehhh, i know a couple of 18 year olds that play pathfinder/dnd. they were kids not too long ago.


Probably nothing, but I wonder if Stranger Things influenced kids to start playing again?

I know the main characters in that show were huge fans of it.
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InstaReturns
03/13/18 11:42:54 AM
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This seems simple, don't have a side chick, don't have main chick problems...

???
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cuttin_in_farm
03/13/18 11:44:07 AM
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Why not just say "Hey that girl is at my buddy's house!"?

Like... she confirms she's there. Who cares? It's when you hesitate to tell her or leave out info does suspicions escalate.
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lww99
03/13/18 11:44:11 AM
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InstaReturns posted...
This seems simple, don't have a side chick, don't have main chick problems...

???


But I literally don't have a side chick.

I did nothing to try and line up a schedule to see this girl. I haven't contacted her. Nothing.
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Weezy_Tha_Don
03/13/18 11:49:21 AM
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dude, girls just have a knack for knowing shit. no idea how they do it
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lww99
03/13/18 11:50:36 AM
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Weezy_Tha_Don posted...
dude, girls just have a knack for knowing shit. no idea how they do it


Shits the worst bruh
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Muffinz0rz
03/13/18 11:51:23 AM
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Muffinz0rz posted...
lww99 posted...
I did some pretty shady shit when we first started dating. But that was literally years ago.

Can you elaborate on "shady?" If you're talking about cheating on her, then yeah you deserve to be cross-examined. I don't even know why she'd still be with you if that was the case.

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lww99
03/13/18 11:54:07 AM
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Muffinz0rz posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
lww99 posted...
I did some pretty shady shit when we first started dating. But that was literally years ago.

Can you elaborate on "shady?" If you're talking about cheating on her, then yeah you deserve to be cross-examined. I don't even know why she'd still be with you if that was the case.


Sorry, I may have answered this in the first or second topic.

She found me on Tinder. We went on a break because of it. While on that break, I hooked up with someone.

So not technically cheating, but close enough and still shady af
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Muffinz0rz
03/13/18 11:55:58 AM
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lww99 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
lww99 posted...
I did some pretty shady shit when we first started dating. But that was literally years ago.

Can you elaborate on "shady?" If you're talking about cheating on her, then yeah you deserve to be cross-examined. I don't even know why she'd still be with you if that was the case.


Sorry, I may have answered this in the first or second topic.

She found me on Tinder. We went on a break because of it. While on that break, I hooked up with someone.

So not technically cheating, but close enough and still shady af

Hmmmmmmm

I guess it slides since you technically didn't cheat, but yes it is a technicality.

Let me ask, why were you on tinder at the time? If a woman had DM'd you on tinder asking to bang while you were not on a break with your girlfriend, would you have accepted?
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Romulox28
03/13/18 11:58:58 AM
#49:


lww99 posted...
InstaReturns posted...
This seems simple, don't have a side chick, don't have main chick problems...

???


But I literally don't have a side chick.

I did nothing to try and line up a schedule to see this girl. I haven't contacted her. Nothing.

well now you might as well have a side chick since your girl thinks you do anyway

its like the world's shittiest hall pass
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lww99
03/13/18 12:02:43 PM
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Muffinz0rz posted...
lww99 posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
lww99 posted...
I did some pretty shady shit when we first started dating. But that was literally years ago.

Can you elaborate on "shady?" If you're talking about cheating on her, then yeah you deserve to be cross-examined. I don't even know why she'd still be with you if that was the case.


Sorry, I may have answered this in the first or second topic.

She found me on Tinder. We went on a break because of it. While on that break, I hooked up with someone.

So not technically cheating, but close enough and still shady af

Hmmmmmmm

I guess it slides since you technically didn't cheat, but yes it is a technicality.

Let me ask, why were you on tinder at the time? If a woman had DM'd you on tinder asking to bang while you were not on a break with your girlfriend, would you have accepted?


This is gonna sound really dumb/bad.

But she is/was my first relationship in quite awhile. I was playing the field for years. I still felt the need to flirt, so I made a fake tinder profile to let off that steam.

I figured it was okay to flirt anonymously, or at least safer than doing it outright.
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