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cuttin_in_farm 08/08/18 6:05:30 PM #1:	I just cant take it anymore. When we worked together, we could literally talk for hours. When I visit her at work. We talk great. When we get lunch. Again. Great. But trying to set anything up with this person is impossible because she never fucking responds, holy shit. It puts me in this weird spot where I dont want to text three times in a row. But I also dont want to then just go to where she works because I know she saw the text. She apologizes for not texting back each time I see her. But it feels like Im being passive. So I just stopped visiting. Despite her making a point to talk to me (tbh, I like the food where she works. I dont even ask her to come talk to me.) Its like holy shit. I enjoy being around her as a friend, but its so dissatisfying to just fall off this way. She knows how, because she does text back when we already have something planned. But when I pitch something, she doesnt even say srry; busy with Chad, or something. I dont understand it. I have a bad habit of not texting back, so now I see myself as an asshole. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:906517722] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote>I just cant take it anymore. When we worked together, we could literally talk for hours. When I visit her at work. We talk great. When we get lunch. Again. Great. But trying to set anything up with this person is impossible because she never fucking responds, holy shit. It puts me in this weird spot where I dont want to text three times in a row. But I also dont want to then just go to where she works because I know she saw the text. She apologizes for not texting back each time I see her. But it feels like Im being passive. So I just stopped visiting. Despite her making a point to talk to me (tbh, I like the food where she works. I dont even ask her to come talk to me.) Its like holy shit. I enjoy being around her as a friend, but its so dissatisfying to just fall off this way. She knows how, because she does text back when we already have something planned. But when I pitch something, she doesnt even say srry; busy with Chad, or something. I dont understand it. I have a bad habit of not texting back, so now I see myself as an asshole.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bladegash 08/08/18 6:07:07 PM #2:	Shes just not a phone person --- Snappin necks & Cashin checks <cite>bladegash posted [p:906517838] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote>Shes just not a phone person</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 08/08/18 6:11:13 PM #3:	bladegash posted... Shes just not a phone person What? --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:906518092] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote><cite>bladegash posted...</cite> <quote>Shes just not a phone person</quote> What?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bob742omb 08/08/18 6:14:31 PM #4:	She probably just likes the attention and doesn't want to take it further --- bob the buster mr freeze is my spirit animal <cite>bob742omb posted [p:906518276] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote>She probably just likes the attention and doesn't want to take it further</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lordgold666 08/08/18 6:15:09 PM #5:	Coworkers are not your friends --- 3DS: 1848-2391-0198 "May the Father of Understanding guide us" <cite>Lordgold666 posted [p:906518317] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote>Coworkers are not your friends</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VipaGTS 08/08/18 6:16:04 PM #6:	Yea I have a friend like that. Shes basically like a sister to me when were together but she never responds to texts. And its not just me all our mutual friends say the same thing about her. Some people are just like that. --- "I devour urine just like my Portland Trailblazers, with piss poor defense." <cite>VipaGTS posted [p:906518370] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote>Yea I have a friend like that. Shes basically like a sister to me when were together but she never responds to texts. And its not just me all our mutual friends say the same thing about her. Some people are just like that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 08/08/18 6:20:09 PM #7:	Just call instead of texting. If she doesn't answer or call back then forget about her. She's obviously not that into hanging out --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:906518608] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote>Just call instead of texting. If she doesn't answer or call back then forget about her. She's obviously not that into hanging out</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Annihilated 08/08/18 6:22:02 PM #9:	Most girls are like this. It's a power play. Best way to play is to just don't. If she wants to talk to you bad enough, she will. <cite>Annihilated posted [p:906518716] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote>Most girls are like this. It's a power play. Best way to play is to just don't. If she wants to talk to you bad enough, she will.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PhazonReborn 08/08/18 6:23:36 PM #10:	What about people that never answer their phone but you know they can? That shit is worse --- The Phazon you know and trust since 2004 <cite>PhazonReborn posted [p:906518813] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote>What about people that never answer their phone but you know they can? That shit is worse</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kombucha 08/08/18 6:30:47 PM #11:	Maybe they just don't want to talk to you but are nice to your face. I mean, isn't that the logical conclusion here? --- http://www.last.fm/user/walkingishonest <cite>Kombucha posted [p:906519259] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote>Maybe they just don't want to talk to you but are nice to your face. I mean, isn't that the logical conclusion here?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 08/08/18 6:31:55 PM #12:	The only way to win is not to play. If she wants to hang out with you, she'll make it a point to reach out. --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Summersim (7-8): https://imgur.com/7cjNtgQ <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:906519329] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote>The only way to win is not to play. If she wants to hang out with you, she'll make it a point to reach out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 08/08/18 8:58:52 PM #13:	Kombucha posted... Maybe they just don't want to talk to you but are nice to your face. I mean, isn't that the logical conclusion here? Except she goes out of her way to talk to me when Im physically present, which she does not have to do. If thats what shes doing, shes overdoing it. PhazonReborn posted... What about people that never answer their phone but you know they can? That shit is worse Eh. Texting takes way less commitment than answering a call. Not equivalent. Lordgold666 posted... Coworkers are not your friends She was. Not currently coworkers. VipaGTS posted... Yea I have a friend like that. Shes basically like a sister to me when were together but she never responds to texts. And its not just me all our mutual friends say the same thing about her. Some people are just like that. Zurkon posted... There are times when I dont respond to texts. Sometimes I dont want to have a lets-talk-outside-of-work relationship and I ignore them. Other times I see the message and mean to respond but I forget. Im thinking its one of these. Still slightly annoys me. Definitely makes me want to not do that to others though. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:906528136] in People who... [t:76884157]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kombucha posted...</cite> <quote>Maybe they just don't want to talk to you but are nice to your face. I mean, isn't that the logical conclusion here?</quote> Except she goes out of her way to talk to me when Im physically present, which she does not have to do. If thats what shes doing, shes overdoing it. <cite>PhazonReborn posted...</cite> <quote>What about people that never answer their phone but you know they can? That shit is worse</quote> Eh. Texting takes way less commitment than answering a call. Not equivalent. <cite>Lordgold666 posted...</cite> <quote>Coworkers are not your friends</quote> She was. Not currently coworkers. <cite>VipaGTS posted...</cite> <quote>Yea I have a friend like that. Shes basically like a sister to me when were together but she never responds to texts. And its not just me all our mutual friends say the same thing about her. Some people are just like that.</quote> <cite>Zurkon posted...</cite> <quote>There are times when I dont respond to texts. Sometimes I dont want to have a lets-talk-outside-of-work relationship and I ignore them. Other times I see the message and mean to respond but I forget.</quote> Im thinking its one of these. Still slightly annoys me. Definitely makes me want to not do that to others though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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