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Chunkey Simmons 10/02/18 1:58:37 PM #1:	In a nutshell, girl and I went on a date. Went well. Afterwords, girl ghosted me for weeks and then finally said she only wants to be friends for now. I was livid, especially because I have been respectful, kind and considerate to her. Why would she not want me? I sent 3 texts asking why she broke up with me. On my 3rd text, she finally answered me saying "I don't want to be in a relationship at this time." I knew it was over for now, but I also knew she would be ready to date again soon. I'm her closest friend so I knew I would be the first guy she would choose to be her boyfriend. Time and time again she broke my heart. In the last year, she has been with 3 guys since she broke up with me. If she dumped me because she doesn't want to be together, why wouldn't she offer an invitation to me when she is ready again? I'm grandfathered. That isn't the point of this topic. Here is the point. In the last year I have provided this girl an immense amount of assistance, including: She bought a car. I cosigned for it, and helped pay some of the monthly payments. Me, her and one other guy had tickets to a concert. Apparently the tickets she bought were not valid so I gave her mine. She ended up dating the other guy that I was supposed to go to the concert with. This REALLY had me enraged. I've paid for countless restaurant bills. How many has she paid for? None. One time she rear ended a guy and had to pay him for it. The guy was adamant about getting his money and threatened to sue. She didn't have the money, and one day she called me up crying. I really like this girl and want to be with her, and also respect her and care about her, so I played the guy in full. She agreed to pay me back. Although she did pay $100 of it, she has not paid me back the rest, and it has been months. As you can see, I given so much to her and kept all of my promises. She has kept none of them. CE, is there a way I can legally charge her for all of the restaurant visits, car payments, concert ticket and loan? If not, is there a way I can win this girl over? --- The n00b of MBH and CE - and proud of it! President Chunkey Simmons, running for 2016. <cite>Chunkey Simmons posted [p:909830446] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>In a nutshell, girl and I went on a date. Went well. Afterwords, girl ghosted me for weeks and then finally said she only wants to be friends for now. I was livid, especially because I have been respectful, kind and considerate to her. Why would she not want me? I sent 3 texts asking why she broke up with me. On my 3rd text, she finally answered me saying "I don't want to be in a relationship at this time." I knew it was over for now, but I also knew she would be ready to date again soon. I'm her closest friend so I knew I would be the first guy she would choose to be her boyfriend. Time and time again she broke my heart. In the last year, she has been with 3 guys since she broke up with me. If she dumped me because she doesn't want to be together, why wouldn't she offer an invitation to me when she is ready again? I'm grandfathered. That isn't the point of this topic. Here is the point. In the last year I have provided this girl an immense amount of assistance, including: She bought a car. I cosigned for it, and helped pay some of the monthly payments. Me, her and one other guy had tickets to a concert. Apparently the tickets she bought were not valid so I gave her mine. She ended up dating the other guy that I was supposed to go to the concert with. This REALLY had me enraged. I've paid for countless restaurant bills. How many has she paid for? None. One time she rear ended a guy and had to pay him for it. The guy was adamant about getting his money and threatened to sue. She didn't have the money, and one day she called me up crying. I really like this girl and want to be with her, and also respect her and care about her, so I played the guy in full. She agreed to pay me back. Although she did pay $100 of it, she has not paid me back the rest, and it has been months. As you can see, I given so much to her and kept all of my promises. She has kept none of them. CE, is there a way I can legally charge her for all of the restaurant visits, car payments, concert ticket and loan? If not, is there a way I can win this girl over?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 10/02/18 1:59:45 PM #2:	That's a really old account to pull out for joke topic who are you --- CE's Resident Scotsman. https://imgur.com/ILz2ZbV <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:909830506] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>That's a really old account to pull out for joke topic who are you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
0AbsoluteZero0 10/02/18 2:05:45 PM #3:	This happened --- -The Admirable <cite>0AbsoluteZero0 posted [p:909830830] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>This happened</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LookANinja 10/02/18 2:06:26 PM #4:	pinky0926 posted... That's a really old account to pull out for joke topic who are you --- http://img266.imageshack.us/img266/56/picturesig.jpg https://imgur.com/b8HCz <cite>LookANinja posted [p:909830869] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote><cite>pinky0926 posted...</cite> <quote>That's a really old account to pull out for joke topic who are you</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
soulunison2 10/02/18 2:06:34 PM #5:	Joke topic right <cite>soulunison2 posted [p:909830877] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>Joke topic right</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alpha218 10/02/18 2:07:37 PM #6:	pinky0926 posted... That's a really old account to pull out for joke topic who are you p sure this is pojr --- I'm Commander Shepard, and this is my favorite user on the Citadel. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1349-mario Now Playing: nothing :( <cite>Alpha218 posted [p:909830939] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote><cite>pinky0926 posted...</cite> <quote>That's a really old account to pull out for joke topic who are you</quote> p sure this is pojr</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 10/02/18 2:08:58 PM #7:	p --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Autumnsim (2-2): https://imgur.com/ieuHLr4 <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:909831013] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>p</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
soulunison2 10/02/18 2:09:35 PM #8:	o <cite>soulunison2 posted [p:909831049] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>o</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Chunkey Simmons 10/02/18 2:10:24 PM #9:	pinky0926 posted... That's a really old account to pull out for joke topic who are you 0AbsoluteZero0 posted... This happened I wish this were a joke. Sadly this is real. --- The n00b of MBH and CE - and proud of it! President Chunkey Simmons, running for 2016. <cite>Chunkey Simmons posted [p:909831092] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote><cite>pinky0926 posted...</cite> <quote>That's a really old account to pull out for joke topic who are you</quote> <cite>0AbsoluteZero0 posted...</cite> <quote>This happened</quote> I wish this were a joke. Sadly this is real.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gunpo 10/02/18 2:10:25 PM #10:	j --- Steam/PSN:AloofHermit http://error1355.com/ce/Gunpo.html <cite>Gunpo posted [p:909831093] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>j</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 10/02/18 2:14:11 PM #11:	p --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Autumnsim (2-2): https://imgur.com/ieuHLr4 <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:909831290] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>p</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Chunkey Simmons 10/02/18 2:15:43 PM #12:	Very funny guys. --- The n00b of MBH and CE - and proud of it! President Chunkey Simmons, running for 2016. <cite>Chunkey Simmons posted [p:909831385] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>Very funny guys.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OffTempo 10/03/18 8:41:02 PM #13:	Clear gimmick topic is a gimmick. But still there is an important lesson to be learned her. Being nice to a girl doesnt mean youre entitled to a relationship or date with her. Also youre just becoming more of a friend by doing her all these favors. --- 22 GOLDBERG why meeeeee WHY MEEEEEEEEEE <cite>OffTempo posted [p:909913511] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>Clear gimmick topic is a gimmick. But still there is an important lesson to be learned her. Being nice to a girl doesnt mean youre entitled to a relationship or date with her. Also youre just becoming more of a friend by doing her all these favors.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SwordMaster13X 10/03/18 8:44:29 PM #14:	Pojr, where did you get this copypasta from? --- Check out my funny youtube channel I guess... https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh4BPUqx-fUnHjHVgiB-Kbw <cite>SwordMaster13X posted [p:909913663] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>Pojr, where did you get this copypasta from?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 10/03/18 8:45:34 PM #15:	How many times have you banged her? <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:909913727] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>How many times have you banged her?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Panthera 10/03/18 8:46:59 PM #16:	How does one leave someone that one isn't with in the first place? --- Meow! <cite>Panthera posted [p:909913805] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>How does one leave someone that one isn't with in the first place?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Chunkey Simmons 10/06/18 6:22:49 AM #17:	NeoShadowhen posted... How many times have you banged her? None, but that doesn't matter to me. That can always happen later --- The n00b of MBH and CE - and proud of it! President Chunkey Simmons, running for 2016. <cite>Chunkey Simmons posted [p:910050153] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>How many times have you banged her?</quote> None, but that doesn't matter to me. That can always happen later</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thelovefist 10/06/18 6:25:02 AM #18:	Are you her emotional boyfriend and she has a physical boyfriend? --- "honestly the worst thing about Shaun King is how pro-cop he is" - averagejoel <cite>thelovefist posted [p:910050193] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>Are you her emotional boyfriend and she has a physical boyfriend?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lathissamus 10/06/18 6:27:18 AM #19:	I'd like to pretend this is real because if not this guy went through the trouble of writing a short essay on why he's pathetic for no reason. If real, just stop associating with this girl. Legally, you wouldn't really have a leg to stand on. It's best to cut your losses. She really doesn't want to be that close to you. --- https://imgur.com/olOXz6h https://imgur.com/kaFczn3 <cite>Lathissamus posted [p:910050235] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>I'd like to pretend this is real because if not this guy went through the trouble of writing a short essay on why he's pathetic for no reason. If real, just stop associating with this girl. Legally, you wouldn't really have a leg to stand on. It's best to cut your losses. She really doesn't want to be that close to you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eevee-Trainer 10/06/18 6:29:47 AM #20:	At the risk of taking a joke topic seriously: Chunkey Simmons posted... "I don't want to be in a relationship at this time." This doesn't mean she wants to be with you when she is ready (and clearly, she doesn't). Frankly you're better off cutting her off altogether; just the ghosting is pretty crappy of her alone. Even if you don't, don't bother waiting around for it to just happen; don't hedge your bets on her coming around. Because it sure as hell looks like she ain't at all interested in you; sounds like she's using you. --- See me on Discord! ^.^ Eevee's Mystery Dungeon: https://discord.gg/qavbtaQ <cite>Eevee-Trainer posted [p:910050290] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>At the risk of taking a joke topic seriously: <cite>Chunkey Simmons posted...</cite> <quote>"I don't want to be in a relationship at this time."</quote> This doesn't mean she wants to be with you when she is ready (and clearly, she doesn't). Frankly you're better off cutting her off altogether; just the ghosting is pretty crappy of her alone. Even if you don't, don't bother waiting around for it to just happen; don't hedge your bets on her coming around. Because it sure as hell looks like she ain't at all interested in you; sounds like she's using you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teepan95 10/06/18 7:54:26 AM #21:	Take it slow and ask if you can be her emotional boyfriend --- I use Gameraven and you should too. #heavilyburntpotato <cite>teepan95 posted [p:910052094] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>Take it slow and ask if you can be her emotional boyfriend</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MonkeySee 10/06/18 8:04:43 AM #22:	That's weird, because something similar happened to me. You might remember my topic a year ago about a girl I was talking that I dated and then she broke my heart..this is a different girl. Anyway... About a year ago I started talking to a girl. Very cute, I would rate her a 9/10. From the beginning I was a very sweet and compassionate guy, and I always respected her and women in general. Until recently, she was single but not ready to be in a relationship (she told me when I asked her to be my girlfriend). Fine, I respect her as a woman and I will wait until she is ready. About a month ago me her and a few friends go to see a movie. She was the driver so she drove each of us home. I was the last person she dropped off. I knew this was a good time to make a move. I tried to lean for the kiss but I kept laughing. I tried 3 or 4 times, each time being closer and closer to her lips before I died laughing. Finally before I kissed her, she interrupted and said "I'm tired, I need to get to bed." Fine. Not a good time to make a move. Like I said I respect her so I am fine with taking my time. As you can see I have been very patient with her. Well. I found out today that she has been seeing a guy, after seeing a text message past her shoulder. I confronted her whole extremely angry. I can't believe she did this to me. She said "I didn't want to tell you...sorry" I'm extremely hurt and depressed. I should have been first in line, I've been compassionate and sweet to her. I waited and she did not deliver her promise. I talked to her first, she belongs to ME. Not this idiot guy. The worst part? I would have been successful if she wasn't tired in the car. It would have been a great kiss and a romantic boyfriend girlfriend type relationship. All in all, I did a good job with this girl, I just faced random bad luck. Now I know what it's like CE. <cite>MonkeySee posted [p:910052355] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>That's weird, because something similar happened to me. You might remember my topic a year ago about a girl I was talking that I dated and then she broke my heart..this is a different girl. Anyway... About a year ago I started talking to a girl. Very cute, I would rate her a 9/10. From the beginning I was a very sweet and compassionate guy, and I always respected her and women in general. Until recently, she was single but not ready to be in a relationship (she told me when I asked her to be my girlfriend). Fine, I respect her as a woman and I will wait until she is ready. About a month ago me her and a few friends go to see a movie. She was the driver so she drove each of us home. I was the last person she dropped off. I knew this was a good time to make a move. I tried to lean for the kiss but I kept laughing. I tried 3 or 4 times, each time being closer and closer to her lips before I died laughing. Finally before I kissed her, she interrupted and said "I'm tired, I need to get to bed." Fine. Not a good time to make a move. Like I said I respect her so I am fine with taking my time. As you can see I have been very patient with her. Well. I found out today that she has been seeing a guy, after seeing a text message past her shoulder. I confronted her whole extremely angry. I can't believe she did this to me. She said "I didn't want to tell you...sorry" I'm extremely hurt and depressed. I should have been first in line, I've been compassionate and sweet to her. I waited and she did not deliver her promise. I talked to her first, she belongs to ME. Not this idiot guy. The worst part? I would have been successful if she wasn't tired in the car. It would have been a great kiss and a romantic boyfriend girlfriend type relationship. All in all, I did a good job with this girl, I just faced random bad luck. Now I know what it's like CE.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NonDairyMiltank 10/06/18 8:09:13 AM #23:	Chunkey Simmons posted... In a nutshell,GIANT WALL OF TEXT. --- Moo. <cite>NonDairyMiltank posted [p:910052493] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote><cite>Chunkey Simmons posted...</cite> <quote>In a nutshell,GIANT WALL OF TEXT.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorenzo_2003 10/06/18 8:14:36 AM #24:	Chunkey Simmons posted... She bought a car. I cosigned for it, and helped pay some of the monthly payments. What. The. Fuck. Please give her your entire life savings because you are dumb as Hell and should probably not have any money or you might use it to buy glue to eat. (I would rather believe this is all a joke because it's better for us to be trolled than to think even half of what you posted is true.) --- ... <cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted [p:910052654] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote><cite>Chunkey Simmons posted...</cite> <quote> She bought a car. I cosigned for it, and helped pay some of the monthly payments.</quote> What. The. Fuck. Please give her your entire life savings because you are dumb as Hell and should probably not have any money or you might use it to buy glue to eat. (I would rather believe this is all a joke because it's better for us to be trolled than to think even half of what you posted is true.)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thelovefist 10/06/18 8:19:44 AM #25:	Lorenzo_2003 posted... Chunkey Simmons posted... She bought a car. I cosigned for it, and helped pay some of the monthly payments. What. The. Fuck. Please give her your entire life savings because you are dumb as Hell and should probably not have any money or you might use it to buy glue to eat. (I would rather believe this is all a joke because it's better for us to be trolled than to think even half of what you posted is true.) It is a copy pasta... --- "honestly the worst thing about Shaun King is how pro-cop he is" - averagejoel <cite>thelovefist posted [p:910052814] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Chunkey Simmons posted...</cite> <quote> She bought a car. I cosigned for it, and helped pay some of the monthly payments.</quote> What. The. Fuck. Please give her your entire life savings because you are dumb as Hell and should probably not have any money or you might use it to buy glue to eat. (I would rather believe this is all a joke because it's better for us to be trolled than to think even half of what you posted is true.)</quote> It is a copy pasta...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
008Zulu 10/06/18 8:21:42 AM #26:	You co-signed for a car, for a girl you went on one date with? ~~There are so many things I am thinking right now.~~ Basically, if you have to ask, you already have your answer. --- Time is a funny thing. There is always too much of it, except when you need it the most. Then there is never enough. <cite>008Zulu posted [p:910052867] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>You co-signed for a car, for a girl you went on one date with? There are so many things I am thinking right now. Basically, if you have to ask, you already have your answer.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Chunkey Simmons 10/08/18 6:57:18 AM #27:	Lorenzo_2003 posted... Chunkey Simmons posted... She bought a car. I cosigned for it, and helped pay some of the monthly payments. What. The. Fuck. Please give her your entire life savings because you are dumb as Hell and should probably not have any money or you might use it to buy glue to eat. (I would rather believe this is all a joke because it's better for us to be trolled than to think even half of what you posted is true.) Ever done something crazy because you're in love? I heart was in a different place then hers when I helped her, and I thought she would see me as the caring guy I am. --- The n00b of MBH and CE - and proud of it! President Chunkey Simmons, running for 2016. <cite>Chunkey Simmons posted [p:910161362] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Chunkey Simmons posted...</cite> <quote> She bought a car. I cosigned for it, and helped pay some of the monthly payments.</quote> What. The. Fuck. Please give her your entire life savings because you are dumb as Hell and should probably not have any money or you might use it to buy glue to eat. (I would rather believe this is all a joke because it's better for us to be trolled than to think even half of what you posted is true.)</quote> Ever done something crazy because you're in love? I heart was in a different place then hers when I helped her, and I thought she would see me as the caring guy I am.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MacDaMurderer 10/08/18 7:23:26 AM #28:	I love when people play along with copypasta. --- @macdamurderer GT: Mac Da Murderer <cite>MacDaMurderer posted [p:910161881] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>I love when people play along with copypasta.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
shnangyboos 10/08/18 7:27:36 AM #29:	Didn't get past the first paragraph. --- How's my posting? Call http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/182361-human-resource-machine for any comments or concerns. <cite>shnangyboos posted [p:910161964] in Girl keeps... [t:77060626]...</cite> <quote>Didn't get past the first paragraph.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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