Poll of the Day > How many relationships have you had?

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"How much people have you had sex with" gets asked a lot here but I'm curious how many relationships people have actually had here. Also if they are actually good at having relationships. Personally? I've not had any so I don't know how I am in them.
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I dont know the exact number. Because Im not sure how much of anrelationship some of them really were...
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3 that were longer than a year.

0, unless my 2 week "boyfriend" from some online game counts then 1 XD

:(
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Um, let's just say I've bought more on Steam.
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4 that lasted more than a year. Two that were less than 6 months but i dont really count those because they were more wishy washy than actual relationships

2 for sure, moving in together etc

2 others.. not so sure of, we liked each other but it ended after bed time *shrugs*
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2 real ones.
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More than 1.
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I don't think they count but possibly 2.

First was when I was about 13 or so. A kid from my class came running up to me and asked for my phone number. I gave it and started receiving calls from a girl in my class. It took a day or two for me to hear people talk about how I was "dating" her. I asked her about it and she confirmed we were apparently dating, and I had no idea. All we talked about was homework and upcoming tests. My dad noticed I was getting calls from a girl and started making fun of me. The next time she called I was honest with her, that I didn't even know she was the one who wanted my number, or the reason, and that it surprised me that she thought we were together. Obviously that's the wrong thing to say, she became furious and hung up on me. I don't think we ever spoke after that.

Next would be that semi crazy woman from okcupid a few years back. The one who lived 15 minutes from me and wanted friends, but more if there was a connection. I thought a friend would be helpful, so we matched. She ended up showing my profile to a bunch of guys she knew until they identified me, told her where I lived and worked, and a bunch of other stuff. She also figured out my schedule just from talking with me, and randomly showed up at work one night. She gave me a hat she had knitted, and acted like she possibly wanted more. Then later while texting she told me off, that she'd never want to be with someone as inexperienced as I am. That I wasn't good enough to be with her. Then a few weeks later she flipped it again, after learning I want kids she starts discussing our marriage and telling me all these dreams she's had about me.
I'll be honest, I was strongly considering giving it a shot just to try and lose my v-card and potentially have a kid. I decided against it in the end.

I didn't agree to date in either case, or gone out with them. But I suppose they could technically count as relationships? I'm still gonna say 0 but those were the closest I've gotten.
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0.5
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KogaSteelfang posted...

But I suppose they could technically count as relationships?

On that note I'm not counting childhood "gfs" or online only relationships when I say I've had zero although technically I suppose they do count in a way.
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4-ish. 7-ish if you wanna count when I was highschool and earlier.

The relationship always goes for just a month or two or for over a year, never anything else. It's strange.
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Just one. Been together for over a decade.

I've been in 5 total, only one of which lasted longer than six months. 2 were just flings that didn't really mean anything, 1 started off good but she basically wanted me to do everything in the relationship, and 1 was awful and I was treated like dirt.

The one long term-ish one was with a girl I had known for years in high school. First 3 years we were just friends (though we were flirting most of the time), so people had assumed we had a thing going long before we actually did. Once we did hook up, it got messy. We fought a lot, and it just got plain nasty at times. It was one of those relationships where the highs were higher and the lows were lower. I was either happy as can be or downright depressed. We tried it again after we graduated, but it didn't get much better. I guess we liked the idea of being together more than actually being together.

4

I never really try though so they all end up being a pile of shit
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Seven, including my current and longest lasting.
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3 long term ones, 10 if you count ones that last less then 3 months (and weren't "exclusive").
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How I the hell do you guys get into so many relationships anyhow? I can never seem to even talk to a girl.. I guess it's because I'm really antisocial and just very quiet

Depends on what you define as relationships. I was in serious relatipnships for more than three years, as in living together.
Other than that i had sex buddy relationships with people during some periods of time, as in meet for sex and hang out on weekends

TaKun782 posted...

How I the hell do you guys get into so many relationships anyhow? I can never seem to even talk to a girl.. I guess it's because I'm really antisocial and just very quiet

Hard to have a relationship of you dont wanna talk to people...
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Uhhh... kinda difficult to tell.

Looking at things flat, I had 2, but I don't think the second one counts because even thought we bragged about being dating, we were just trying to know each other better and I "broke up" in less than 3 weeks. As for the other... neither me or her made it official between ourselves or anyone else, but we treated each other as boyfriend and girlfriend when we were alone together. Then we just "split up" at some point for no apparent reason and recently got together again.

Kinda complicated to understand what's exactly going on, but honestly, we're both fine with it, so I guess that's what counts.

If you count stupid middle school flings and nothing reall serious in highschool then i guess like 4 including my wife.

Otherwise 1 serious relationship
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My first relationship was with a guy about one year younger. He didnt live close. We dating for a couple months, then broke up.

My second was with another guy that didnt live close. A friend of a close friends Ex-GF who is still A friend. We barely dated...

After that, the same friend whos GF set me up had another GF(now wife) that set me up with a friend. That lasted for months, though he flakes a lot. I sort of forgot we were dating and joined the Air Force.

Then, when I got to my first base, there were a lot of people, but Im not sure if most of them counted as relationships.

Then got with a guy who would come stay over for the weekend. Lasted for a while, then things happened and we split.

Now together with my current BF.

Also, Ive had some relationships with females, as well... If I count those, I had one around 3rd-4th grade. Even went on (chaperones) dates. The dated her best friend after we broke up and she showed interest. Then another girl closer to the end in elementary, then her friend she tries to set me up with after we broke up. Then a girl in middle school who I took to a dance. Which is weird, because I knew her mom who worked at the school, and was friends with her brother later on when we were both in the wrestling team...
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