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SpaghettiCookie
05/14/19 1:38:32 PM
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Went on a date with a guy, and about halfway through I found out my parents would be coming home early tonight. He said we could hang out at his house

But he said this knowing his dad and grandma were over and hes just like its okay theyre chill and I didnt think it would be weird (if you didnt think it would be weird whyd you dodge the fact that theyre there for so long, Guy?)

Then he kept asking if my food was nice
Which really confused me because I thought he was just getting words confused but I tried to help/correct him every time and he kept going back to it (confusing good and nice) and it wouldnt be a highlight but its one of those things that when Im already kinda not having the best time, it does stand out as super annoying

When all was finished, he asked if I wanted to ditch class for him tomorrow (I said no thanks but its been fun see ya later)

And after my class he was waiting and said figured Id just wait for you since you couldnt ditch and I said
I just didnt want to.
And he didnt get that and just tried to give me a ride home and I was like no honestly dont worry about it.

Sucked
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SmokeMassTree
05/14/19 1:42:25 PM
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So was your food nice or not
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FrozenBananas
05/14/19 1:44:42 PM
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Damn that guy really wasnt getting the message
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SunWuKung420
05/14/19 1:46:36 PM
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It seems like he's trying really hard to seal the deal.
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Kyuubi4269
05/14/19 1:46:57 PM
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SpaghettiCookie posted...
(confusing good and nice)

nice
/ns/

adjective

giving pleasure or satisfaction; pleasant or attractive.


Personally I would be pissed off if someone told me to use a different word from what I meant.
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darcandkharg31
05/14/19 1:48:06 PM
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rip
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wwinterj25
05/14/19 1:53:30 PM
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Should have banged, ok?
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MrCool812
05/14/19 1:59:00 PM
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Sounds like you could have been clearer instead of hoping the guy who wasn't picking up hints would eventually pick up hints.
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SpaghettiCookie
05/14/19 1:59:15 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
SpaghettiCookie posted...
(confusing good and nice)

nice
/ns/

adjective

giving pleasure or satisfaction; pleasant or attractive.


Personally I would be pissed off if someone told me to use a different word from what I meant.

Thats English.

SmokeMassTree posted...
So was your food nice or not


Nicer than the rest of the experience
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mastermix3000
05/14/19 2:02:19 PM
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MrCool812 posted...
Sounds like you could have been clearer instead of hoping the guy who wasn't picking up hints would eventually pick up hints.


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SpaghettiCookie
05/14/19 2:03:13 PM
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MrCool812 posted...
Sounds like you could have been clearer instead of hoping the guy who wasn't picking up hints would eventually pick up hints.

He asked if I wanted to hang with him and I said no. He showed up outside of my class and I said well bye what more do I owe him?
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SmokeMassTree
05/14/19 2:06:53 PM
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SpaghettiCookie posted...
MrCool812 posted...
Sounds like you could have been clearer instead of hoping the guy who wasn't picking up hints would eventually pick up hints.

He asked if I wanted to hang with him and I said no. He showed up outside of my class and I said well bye what more do I owe him?


Nothing but you could be a decent human and straight up tell him you are no longer interested instead of lying to his face and saying it was fun and then coming on here to talk shit
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SpaghettiCookie
05/14/19 2:17:54 PM
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SmokeMassTree posted...
SpaghettiCookie posted...
MrCool812 posted...
Sounds like you could have been clearer instead of hoping the guy who wasn't picking up hints would eventually pick up hints.

He asked if I wanted to hang with him and I said no. He showed up outside of my class and I said well bye what more do I owe him?


Nothing but you could be a decent human and straight up tell him you are no longer interested instead of lying to his face and saying it was fun and then coming on here to talk shit


Its not like I was there its been great I had so much fun thanks so much

I said it was fun, but Im ready to go home.
As in yeah it was a fine but we dont need to do this again
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SmokeMassTree
05/14/19 2:19:07 PM
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You could just say that

Saying it was fun gives the impression that you would like to do it again

Because it was fun

People enjoy doing fun things

Do you see where you could have been more honest?
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SpaghettiCookie
05/14/19 3:19:22 PM
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You didnt see though. Its not like I actually just said fun, it was used as a closer.
Its sort of like how you guys can change tone
Just change your face and it changed the meaning.
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SunWuKung420
05/14/19 3:23:44 PM
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SpaghettiCookie posted...
You didnt see though. Its not like I actually just said fun, it was used as a closer.
Its sort of like how you guys can change tone
Just change your face and it changed the meaning.


The guy in real life and the guy blaming you aren't worth your time.
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darcandkharg31
05/14/19 3:24:17 PM
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Should've used air quotes when you said fun, fart, then walked away.
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SunWuKung420
05/14/19 3:27:02 PM
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America_Dude posted...
Shes not going to fuck you.


I'd hope not. I wasn't trying to.
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SpaghettiCookie
05/14/19 4:00:34 PM
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darcandkharg31 posted...
Should've used air quotes when you said fun, fart, then walked away.

Cant use airquotes and say fun at the same time

SunWuKung420 posted...
SpaghettiCookie posted...
You didnt see though. Its not like I actually just said fun, it was used as a closer.
Its sort of like how you guys can change tone
Just change your face and it changed the meaning.


The guy in real life and the guy blaming you aren't worth your time.


Better to explain it than cast off anyone who doesnt understand

The issue is when people refuse to understand after being explained
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Kyuubi4269
05/14/19 4:04:37 PM
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SpaghettiCookie posted...
Thats English.


The language you posted in. If he meant nice then that's perfectly valid, if he meant a different word then you should have said that word.

SpaghettiCookie posted...
You didnt see though. Its not like I actually just said fun, it was used as a closer.
Its sort of like how you guys can change tone
Just change your face and it changed the meaning.

Yeah no, males don't do tells or hints unless it's explicitly stated to do/look for.
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Sefrig
05/14/19 4:09:43 PM
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"no thanks but it's been fun" isn't really ambiguous... that is a direct rejection
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SpaghettiCookie
05/14/19 4:11:27 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
SpaghettiCookie posted...
Thats English.


The language you posted in. If he meant nice then that's perfectly valid, if he meant a different word then you should have said that word.

SpaghettiCookie posted...
You didnt see though. Its not like I actually just said fun, it was used as a closer.
Its sort of like how you guys can change tone
Just change your face and it changed the meaning.

Yeah no, males don't do tells or hints unless it's explicitly stated to do/look for.


I can read and write English. Cant speak it.

Its a big part of the language and before we went out I asked if he was fluent and he said yeah, so he should know to look at facial expressions.
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Kyuubi4269
05/14/19 4:15:14 PM
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SpaghettiCookie posted...
I can read and write English. Cant speak it.

Can you write your own language? Because whatever word he said isn't equivalent to nice.
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darcandkharg31
05/14/19 4:20:28 PM
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Oh fuck I forgot TC is deaf

Should've wrote down "fun", then farted and walked away as he read it.
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SpaghettiCookie
05/14/19 4:26:28 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
SpaghettiCookie posted...
I can read and write English. Cant speak it.

Can you write your own language? Because whatever word he said isn't equivalent to nice.

No, American Sign Language. But its based from German so maybe that? I dont know any German though.

darcandkharg31 posted...
Oh fuck I forgot TC is deaf

Should've wrote down "fun", then farted and walked away as he read it.


Lol
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OhhhJa
05/14/19 5:08:46 PM
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Sunny, do you hate your wife so much that you have to hit on random forum women? Jeez

Anyway, you sound like that typical judgmental as fuck woman that I would never wanna go on a date with
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SpaghettiCookie
05/14/19 5:16:17 PM
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You sound like a typical entitled sexist who wouldnt get a date
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SunWuKung420
05/14/19 5:27:01 PM
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I'm unsure what's his problem, I just know he has them.
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OhhhJa
05/14/19 5:30:52 PM
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SpaghettiCookie posted...
You sound like a typical entitled sexist who wouldnt get a date

That would totally explain me already having a gf of two years. You sound mad because I called you out. You're not being direct. All guys generally wanna do on a date is impress a woman and then there's so many women like you who judge their every move. I'm glad I found a chick who isnt like that
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Kyuubi4269
05/14/19 5:36:45 PM
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SpaghettiCookie posted...
No, American Sign Language. But its based from German so maybe that? I dont know any German though.

So your association with the sign is more with clean? Is that what makes it weird?
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SpaghettiCookie
05/14/19 5:39:40 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
SpaghettiCookie posted...
No, American Sign Language. But its based from German so maybe that? I dont know any German though.

So your association with the sign is more with clean? Is that what makes it weird?

Yeah pretty much
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Kyuubi4269
05/14/19 5:53:01 PM
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SpaghettiCookie posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
SpaghettiCookie posted...
No, American Sign Language. But its based from German so maybe that? I dont know any German though.

So your association with the sign is more with clean? Is that what makes it weird?

Yeah pretty much

If he isn't deaf, I can see the dissonance. Clean and nice don't have any link to each other directly in English so if he only learnt the meaning as nice, he wouldn't see anything strange about what he said.

But anyway, it just sounds like he liked you and willfully interpreted you positively rather than being rejected.
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wwinterj25
05/14/19 5:56:02 PM
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Why not just be honest and tell him straight you're not interested? Maybe it's because I'm too down to earth but I don't dance around subjects even if it may or may not hurt someones feelings.
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SpaghettiCookie
05/14/19 8:34:30 PM
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Well he did say he was fluent
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ZeroKelvin
05/14/19 8:44:40 PM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
I'm unsure what's his problem, I just know he has them.

Talk about the pot calling the kettle black lmao
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OhhhJa
05/14/19 9:38:20 PM
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ZeroKelvin posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
I'm unsure what's his problem, I just know he has them.

Talk about the pot calling the kettle black lmao

That pretty much sums up that dude's personality. Giant hypocrite/god complex
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