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billcom6
06/02/19 11:36:47 PM
#51:


Curiosity got the better of me. I signed up for a month of Tinder Gold. Partly because I am going to be traveling to a big city more in the summer and want unlimited likes, but also to see who has already liked me.

Out of the 14 likes I had but couldn't see 12 of them were foreign accounts from like 5,000 miles away. That's so funny to me.
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Vermander
06/02/19 11:41:33 PM
#52:


billcom6 posted...
Curiosity got the better of me. I signed up for a month of Tinder Gold. Partly because I am going to be traveling to a big city more in the summer and want unlimited likes, but also to see who has already liked me.

Out of the 14 likes I had but couldn't see 12 of them were foreign accounts from like 5,000 miles away. That's so funny to me.


I have 22 unknown likes, but have ran out of people to swipe on. I know these are all spam accounts for this reason.
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Blue_Inigo
06/03/19 12:58:13 PM
#53:


Has anyone gone out with someone that says "looking for new friends" in their profile? Do they really mean friends or....
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billcom6
06/03/19 9:49:05 PM
#54:


Just messaged this girl who I worked with a little bit last year on Facebook. Chances are it'll goto her screened messages and she'll never see it.
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billcom6
06/04/19 11:50:33 AM
#55:


I just set my Tinder location to the bigger city near me. I mean I already have that city in my search radius, but maybe girls there who have their's set for only a few miles will see me now...
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umax555
06/04/19 11:58:13 AM
#56:


Ughhh I hate getting flaked on. I was supposed to meet this girl from OKC for coffee later today, we made plans last week. This morning she asks me if we're still on, I said yes. Then just now she tells me that she's not feeling well and has to cancel. She did offer to reschedule and gave me her number. What should I make of that? I was pretty pumped for this date but for some reason I had a strange feeling she was gonna do this.
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PatrickMahomes
06/04/19 12:04:20 PM
#57:


billcom6 posted...
Matched with a really hot girl on bumble. She messaged me once but hasn't responded since. Her profile says shes rather talk on snapchat. I'm tempted to install snapchat just to hit her up.

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billcom6
06/04/19 1:13:59 PM
#59:


PatrickMahomes posted...
billcom6 posted...
Matched with a really hot girl on bumble. She messaged me once but hasn't responded since. Her profile says shes rather talk on snapchat. I'm tempted to install snapchat just to hit her up.

hSzqoHIQY462wl4DDs

I got snapchat and added her. She only responded to one message. Looks like she's on vacation right now. So I will wait till she is back in the area to really hit her up.
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Vermander
06/06/19 6:20:10 AM
#60:


Ive deleted all my dating accounts. 99% if matches have some major baggage. Essentially you get to pic between at most 3 of the following:

-Doesnt have kids
-Is attractive
-Isnt mentally unstable
-Is interested in you

You will never get all 4
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JBaLLEN66
06/06/19 7:21:14 AM
#61:


I have two hinge dates tonight, I suspect one to flake and if she doesnt then guess Im flaking Im the other since shes not as hot
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JBaLLEN66
06/06/19 7:21:39 AM
#62:


Vermander posted...
Ive deleted all my dating accounts. 99% if matches have some major baggage. Essentially you get to pic between at most 3 of the following:

-Doesnt have kids
-Is attractive
-Isnt mentally unstable
-Is interested in you

You will never get all 4


Thisssssssssss
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billcom6
06/06/19 7:02:16 PM
#63:


billcom6 posted...
Just messaged this girl who I worked with a little bit last year on Facebook. Chances are it'll goto her screened messages and she'll never see it.

DM'd her on IG.
No response.

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umax555
06/08/19 1:07:21 PM
#64:


Godnorgosh posted...
umax555 posted...
Ughhh I hate getting flaked on. I was supposed to meet this girl from OKC for coffee later today, we made plans last week. This morning she asks me if we're still on, I said yes. Then just now she tells me that she's not feeling well and has to cancel. She did offer to reschedule and gave me her number. What should I make of that? I was pretty pumped for this date but for some reason I had a strange feeling she was gonna do this.


If she hadn't offered to reschedule I would have forgotten about it, but in this case, give it a shot. If she cancels again, that's probably a red flag.

Also, if she asks for an Instagram add on her profile, I tend to assume she's just looking for followers. Saves me from getting my hopes up, lol.


Update: After she canceled on me that day we rescheduled for this afternoon. And she f***ing canceled on me again 3 hours before our date. This time her excuse was, "I don't think I'm ready to see anyone right now." I hate people.
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Freeney
06/08/19 1:14:15 PM
#65:


I hope you deleted her number.
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umax555
06/08/19 1:19:53 PM
#66:


Freeney posted...
I hope you deleted her number.


I sent her a brief response saying that doing this twice isn't fair to my time, and that I don't make plans unless I can commit. I wished her well and deleted her number.
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Freeney
06/08/19 1:24:24 PM
#67:


Why would you even text her?

After the second time you should have just stopped all contact with her, shes clearly not serious or interested in you. The fact that she had to ask if were still on the first time and then came up with a lame excuse saying that she was sick and then the second time saying that shes not ready to see anyone is all you need to know about her.

I bet if you were to remain on that site, her profile would still be there.
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umax555
06/08/19 1:31:02 PM
#68:


Freeney posted...
Why would you even text her?

After the second time you should have just stopped all contact with her, shes clearly not serious or interested in you. The fact that she had to ask if were still on the first time and then came up with a lame excuse saying that she was sick and then the second time saying that shes not ready to see anyone is all you need to know about her.

I bet if you were to remain on that site, her profile would still be there.


I'm done with her but felt like she should know that doing that isn't ok. I sent her one short polite text and that was it. And I don't even see her on my message list anymore. Either she deleted her account and was telling the truth (less likely) or just blocked me (more likely).

But yeah, this pretty much confirms to me that she was lying about being sick the first time.
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Freeney
06/08/19 1:36:48 PM
#69:


There are too many girls on these sites to obsess over one. Talk to between three and five at a time (theres nothing wrong with this) and whittle it down to one or two youre interested in and that show interest back.
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Monolith1676
06/09/19 1:27:40 AM
#70:


I have been through all the girls within a 100 mile radius on Bumble and not a one was interested in me.
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Monolith1676
06/09/19 10:42:47 AM
#71:


Now I did a 50 mile radius on Tinder and still nothing.
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Monolith1676
06/09/19 5:58:06 PM
#72:


Now I did 100 miles on OKCupid and nothing. Women must sense I am a terrible person.
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_Matchabuu_
06/09/19 6:00:19 PM
#73:


Vermander posted...
Ive deleted all my dating accounts. 99% if matches have some major baggage. Essentially you get to pic between at most 3 of the following:

-Doesnt have kids
-Is attractive
-Isnt mentally unstable
-Is interested in you

You will never get all 4


Same with guys on tinder and in general
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au_gold
06/09/19 6:01:40 PM
#74:


How often do you guys make new Tinder accounts?
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Monolith1676
06/10/19 2:07:36 PM
#76:


jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Im about delete my tinder and make a new one. 650 matches and I dont want to go through them all for ones I really like to hit up


I wish I could get a tenth of that. In 2 years I think I have had maybe 30 matches altogether across POF, OKC, Tinder, Match and Bumble.
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Blue_Inigo
06/10/19 2:49:05 PM
#77:


Okcupid and the Bagel app have given me the best matches so far. Only one date tho and she wasn't really my type. Tinder girl flaked. Okcupid girl flaked
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HairyThotter
06/10/19 9:42:14 PM
#78:


umax555 posted...

I sent her a brief response saying that doing this twice isn't fair to my time, and that I don't make plans unless I can commit. I wished her well and deleted her number.


Best move^ But when/if this happens again, save yourself even more time by sparing her the lecture. People like that will flake out on dates all the time... you can't talk them out of it.
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Blue_Inigo
06/11/19 12:57:22 AM
#80:


Godnorgosh posted...
I matched with a pretty cute woman. The conversation fizzled out after a bit of flirting. Then I sent her a screenshot of my bank accounts (with identifying information cropped and blacked out) and she started talking again and sending me risqu pics.

......For real?
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Phantom_Nook
06/11/19 1:05:11 AM
#81:


I've been talking to a girl I matched on Tinder all day. We're meeting up tomorrow.
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Blue_Inigo
06/11/19 1:06:52 AM
#82:


Phantom_Nook posted...
I've been talking to a girl I matched on Tinder all day. We're meeting up tomorrow.

You just started talking today and are linking up tomorrow????

Give her the D
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Phantom_Nook
06/11/19 1:36:06 AM
#84:


Blue_Inigo posted...
Phantom_Nook posted...
I've been talking to a girl I matched on Tinder all day. We're meeting up tomorrow.

You just started talking today and are linking up tomorrow????

Give her the D

We would have met up today, but she had overtime.
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TheDarkCircle
06/11/19 1:39:08 AM
#85:


Blue_Inigo posted...
Phantom_Nook posted...
I've been talking to a girl I matched on Tinder all day. We're meeting up tomorrow.

You just started talking today and are linking up tomorrow????

Give her the D


do it to it.

A few weeks ago i had my best tinder close ever. was gonna go on a date with another chick that night, matched with this one girl who was way hotter and cooler. me and her start messaging back and forth at 5pm, she says she's going out of town for a few weeks and says we should meet for a drink that night, i cancel the first date, meet this girl at 7pm at a bar, 9pm we're making out, 11pm were back at my spot going at it all night.

craziness
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Blue_Inigo
06/11/19 1:40:32 AM
#86:


TheDarkCircle posted...
Blue_Inigo posted...
Phantom_Nook posted...
I've been talking to a girl I matched on Tinder all day. We're meeting up tomorrow.

You just started talking today and are linking up tomorrow????

Give her the D


do it to it.

A few weeks ago i had my best tinder close ever. was gonna go on a date with another chick that night, matched with this one girl who was way hotter and cooler. me and her start messaging back and forth at 5pm, she says she's going out of town for a few weeks and says we should meet for a drink that night, i cancel the first date, meet this girl at 7pm at a bar, 9pm we're making out, 11pm were back at my spot going at it all night.

craziness

Goddamn

Clearly Im not bold enough
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billcom6
06/11/19 7:33:19 PM
#87:


Matched with a girl like an hour away. Seems like she'd be down to be FWB but we can't go back to her place (drive don't bother me) and I don't think she really wants to drive an hour to where I live. Oh well.
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Phantom_Nook
06/11/19 8:57:50 PM
#89:


well she's ignored the texts I sent her today, so I'm fairly certain I got stood up.
goddammit, she was smokin.
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Phantom_Nook
06/11/19 9:24:47 PM
#91:


Godnorgosh posted...
Phantom_Nook posted...
well she's ignored the texts I sent her today, so I'm fairly certain I got stood up.
goddammit, she was smokin.


Have you tried the bank account strat

what is that
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mew4ever
06/11/19 9:26:56 PM
#92:


Hope yall dont mind if I vent, really feel the need to.

Matched with this girl on tinder bout 3 months ago. We instantly hit it off. Back and forth conversations all day, going out at least once a week, regular sex etc.

Last Friday I asked her what she wanted out of the relationship. Its been 3 months so I thought it was a fair enough question. I told her I would prefer a committed relationship but still cool just doing what were doing. I guess that freaked her out bc she barely talked to me all weekend, and today thru text message she said she doesnt want a relationship and decided to break it off. I get things dont work out, but I asked her if we talk face to face so I could get some closure, she said nope that would be a waste of time.

And now I feel like a loser. The second I open up and admit I want something more, her reaction was like nah I need to get the eff away from you. Crap hurts man.
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Vermander
06/12/19 6:42:18 AM
#95:


jeffhardyb0yz posted...
jeffhardyb0yz posted...
K I deleted my tinder profile. Starting from scratch again.

60 matches. Time to sort through the ones i really like.


See this is what I am talking about. I deleted and recreated my account at about the same time, and I have 1 match (who didnt reply) and 10 hidden right swipes, which will make up about 50% of my success this reboot.

This is what I mean by the volume difference. :p
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Vermander
06/12/19 10:20:01 AM
#96:


As an example for my second round of swipes I only ended up with 5 matches while actually examining each profile.
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Vermander
06/12/19 11:38:48 AM
#98:


jeffhardyb0yz posted...
@Vermander posted...
jeffhardyb0yz posted...
jeffhardyb0yz posted...
K I deleted my tinder profile. Starting from scratch again.

60 matches. Time to sort through the ones i really like.


See this is what I am talking about. I deleted and recreated my account at about the same time, and I have 1 match (who didnt reply) and 10 hidden right swipes, which will make up about 50% of my success this reboot.

This is what I mean by the volume difference. :p

90 matches now. I also have gotten a lot of matches in rural areas(Carolina on vacation, Ohio)

Gotta tinder better


I am up to 6 now, and Ill probably end around 12 after my noob boost ends.

Who knows, maybe I am just not that good looking.
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DeroIin
06/12/19 12:46:54 PM
#99:


jeffhardyb0yz posted...
@Vermander posted...
jeffhardyb0yz posted...
jeffhardyb0yz posted...
K I deleted my tinder profile. Starting from scratch again.

60 matches. Time to sort through the ones i really like.


See this is what I am talking about. I deleted and recreated my account at about the same time, and I have 1 match (who didnt reply) and 10 hidden right swipes, which will make up about 50% of my success this reboot.

This is what I mean by the volume difference. :p

90 matches now. I also have gotten a lot of matches in rural areas(Carolina on vacation, Ohio)

Gotta tinder better

What do you look like? With getting that many matches (I probably get that many matches in a year) I need to know lol
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TheDarkCircle
06/12/19 1:06:52 PM
#100:


jeffhardyb0yz posted...
@mew4ever posted...
Hope yall dont mind if I vent, really feel the need to.

Matched with this girl on tinder bout 3 months ago. We instantly hit it off. Back and forth conversations all day, going out at least once a week, regular sex etc.

Last Friday I asked her what she wanted out of the relationship. Its been 3 months so I thought it was a fair enough question. I told her I would prefer a committed relationship but still cool just doing what were doing. I guess that freaked her out bc she barely talked to me all weekend, and today thru text message she said she doesnt want a relationship and decided to break it off. I get things dont work out, but I asked her if we talk face to face so I could get some closure, she said nope that would be a waste of time.

And now I feel like a loser. The second I open up and admit I want something more, her reaction was like nah I need to get the eff away from you. Crap hurts man.

It's okay. If you back off and I mean TRULY back off(Aka do not hit her up at all. She's made her position clear) and she really liked you at all she'll come back(I'd ignore her first message though, just in case it's an "in the moment" text) and you can try to fix things from there. But if you want a relationship with her and she doesn't then be careful with your feelings and with "continuing" doing what you're doing cause sometimes people fool themselves into thinking they're okay with it and the minute she finds someone she's truly interested in, you'll feel hurt and shit.


I'm one who doesn't like to rush into things but after 3 months having that conversation is certainly fair. You didn't do anything wrong and shouldn't feel like a loser, you opened yourself up and the other person simply didn't feel the same way. One of top it, she didn't even have the class to meet you face to face once. You deserve better than that, even if it doesn't feel good right now.
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Monolith1676
06/13/19 4:02:13 AM
#101:


I can only get matches by putting "I can 100% guarantee you won't swipe right on me." Damn I am pathetic.
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