Current Events > How often does your girlfriend or boyfriend get hit on in front of you?

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Just last night my girlfriend and I went out to a dance club for the first time. Every time I came back from ordering drinks or going to the bathroom there was someone hitting on her or one time there was a group surrounding her. At one point we were standing off the to the side of the dance floor waiting for a song to end (neither of us liked the one that was playing) and some guy tried to pull her out of my arms onto the dance floor but she shook him off and told him not to touch her.

I would be worried but she seems to ward them off herself or doesn't reciprocate their attention.

Also I noticed that it was mostly black guys trying to hit on her (she's latina).
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We dont go to nightclubs and were usually always together. But usually every other trip at the grocery store some guy stops my wife to try and hit on her. Until they realize my wife is the biggest bitch and then they feel super awkward.

The most recent incident, i walked away in the vegetable aisle for one second and some creepy dude goes up to my wife and says that he loves her eyes and shes the most beautiful woman ever.
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darkprince45 posted...

says that he loves her eyes

No joke, that was what one of the guys hitting on her last night was saying to her when I came back from the bathroom and she responds with:
"I know, my boyfriend tells me all the time" and then she grabs my arm and leads me onto the floor.
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I hate going to clubs/bars and I'm someone who actually really enjoys dancing... that in mind... you gotta remind yourself that while, yes, a lot of people are there to have a good time, there are also a lot of people looking to find someone to take home.

If your girl is even half way decent looking and you leave her alone, even for a trip to the bathroom, don't be surprised if dudes make a move.

Like you said, at least she's being respectful to you so that's cool.
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I've only had one girlfriend before I realized that I don't like dating, but she was hit on all the time.

I think it should have been a red flag that I didn't really care.
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HairyThotter posted...

I hate going to clubs/bars and I'm someone who actually really enjoys dancing... that in mind... you gotta remind yourself that while, yes, a lot of people are there to have a good time, there are also a lot of people looking to find someone to take home.

If your girl is even half way decent looking and you leave her alone, even for a trip to the bathroom, don't be surprised if dudes make a move.

Like you said, at least she's being respectful to you so that's cool.

I enjoy dancing as well which is why I took her there. We agreed that next time we'll go with other couples.
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boxington posted...

I've only had one girlfriend before I realized that I don't like dating, but she was hit on all the time.

I think it should have been a red flag that I didn't really care.

I used to hate dating as well. I didn't like the pressure of trying to impress her with having fun. Now I enjoy it by being me and letting her decide if I'm fun enough to be around.
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sorry, when I said "dating", I meant being in a romantic relationship in general
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boxington posted...

sorry, when I said "dating", I meant being in a romantic relationship in general

What don't you like about it?
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the whole commitment/planning for the future aspect of it.

like, I'm pretty fickle by nature, and it's not the best quality to have when you're with someone.
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My wife very rarely gets hit on in front of me, ever, because I'm huge and mean-looking, but when I'm not around it's pretty frequent.

Most recently, she told me about a (national chain drugstore) cashier that was being overtly flirtacious with her, and it had been going on for a while. I didn't get upset, and teased her about it, until she said that she wanted it to stop. I went to the store with her, and he happened to be there. He was the literal stereotype of a neckbeard. We got in line, and I stood behind her, just being casual, and saw him trying to flirt. He was quite aggressive. It was cringey. I honestly felt bad for him. So she pays for our stuff, and he looks over to me for my purchases, only to realize that he had hit on my wife right in front of me. I smiled, said thank you, and walked out with my wife.

He hasn't said a word to her in over two weeks, even though she buys cigarettes from him almost daily.
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