Poll of the Day > Would you consider this cheating?

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lihlih
07/24/19 9:57:44 PM
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There's this dude, let's call him hilhil.

He's in the Army, and he asks a girl to contractually marry him just so he can get out of the barracks.

Well, so they get married, then like 2 years later, he "cheats" on her with another girl and gets her pregnant.

Would you consider that cheating? The marriage was a sham anyway, so not really, right?

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SmokeMassTree
07/24/19 9:58:46 PM
#2:


You forgot the "with a trucker part"

That should still be your sig btw, welcher
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lihlih
07/24/19 10:02:25 PM
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SmokeMassTree posted...
You forgot the "with a trucker part"

That should still be your sig btw, welcher


It's been well over a month, bruh. It's not my fault you don't know how to keep track of time.
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SmokeMassTree
07/24/19 10:03:35 PM
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I never agreed to a timeframe

Just like your wife never agreed to being cheated on, with a trucker
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ParanoidObsessive
07/24/19 10:04:21 PM
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My usual rule of thumb is, if you have to ask, the answer is yes.


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lihlih
07/24/19 10:05:08 PM
#6:


SmokeMassTree posted...
I never agreed to a timeframe

Just like your wife never agreed to being cheated on, with a trucker


The topic explicitly said I'll keep the sig for a month. Not my fault you can't read.
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SmokeMassTree
07/24/19 10:05:46 PM
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I never agreed to that tho
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lihlih
07/24/19 10:06:37 PM
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SmokeMassTree posted...
I never agreed to that tho


You agreed to it when you participated in the topic. God, how do you not know how this shit works?
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ChaosAzeroth
07/24/19 10:06:40 PM
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It is cheating technically still if both parties in the relationship don't agree.

Like is he scared of something happening to him of he breaks it off? Why wouldn't he break it off?
Kinda rude ngl.

If the partner doesn't care, not cheating. But like... doe they BOTH consider it a sham? If not he used a person to get what he wanted and cheated....
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SmokeMassTree
07/24/19 10:08:42 PM
#10:


Well you see

I never agreed to it being only a month so I feel like it should be forever

Kinda like how you feel like it's not cheating, even tho it very much is

So go ahead and change your sig back to what it rightfully should be
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dedbus
07/24/19 10:11:17 PM
#11:


He was in the army so already cheating on him. They cancel out anyway.
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CTLM
07/24/19 10:11:58 PM
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It's not cheating if both parties agree to the terms. So if they were never seriously involved and bound by marriage in name only then no, it's not cheating.

For all we know they never consummated the marriage
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wwinterj25
07/24/19 10:13:21 PM
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If the person you married is knowing it's just for your own gains and you both are not bothered who fucks who outside of said marriage then it's not cheating. A open marriage is a thing. Not that I believe this story at all.
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ASlaveObeys
07/24/19 10:53:08 PM
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It's literal adultery
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Bugmeat
07/24/19 10:53:23 PM
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It depends on whether this sort of activity was allowed or if monogamy was expected. If monogamy was expected, then yes, it's cheating.


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JOExHIGASHI
07/24/19 10:56:44 PM
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It matters if you divorce
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Bugmeat
07/24/19 10:58:46 PM
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JOExHIGASHI posted...
It matters if you divorce

Not always. Depends on where you are.


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ParanoidObsessive
07/24/19 11:16:54 PM
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Bugmeat posted...
JOExHIGASHI posted...
It matters if you divorce

Not always. Depends on where you are.

Assuming US army, one assumes divorce would be filed for in the US, and there are about 15 states or so where adultery as grounds for divorce can actually affect property distribution. And in some cases you can actually lose assets you had before the marriage, and otherwise lose badly in terms of who gets how much. Marriages of convenience are a bad game to play, even if you think you trust the other person involved.

It's also worth noting that adultery is still technically illegal in about 15 states, and if you're deployed overseas, you might accidentally trigger local laws that are even more severe.


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wwinterj25
07/24/19 11:36:16 PM
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All I can say is thank fuck I'll never get married, ok?
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Jen0125
07/24/19 11:51:08 PM
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Why do they need to be married for two years if he just wanted to leave the barracks
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GanonsSpirit
07/25/19 12:23:24 AM
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Sorry, but the opinions of PotD won't hold up in a court of law.

Not that any of us agree with you anyway.
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hera
07/25/19 9:04:39 AM
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yes, it's cheating.

you're a cheater.
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Cacciato
07/25/19 9:27:43 AM
#23:


ASlaveObeys posted...
It's literal adultery
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Mead
07/25/19 9:35:54 AM
#24:


Unless you asked your wife if it was okay and she agreed it was fine beforehand, then yeah its cheating

I mean you always could have divorced if you werent interested in being married anymore
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adjl
07/25/19 10:37:04 AM
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ParanoidObsessive posted...
My usual rule of thumb is, if you have to ask, the answer is yes.


I take it a step further and say that anything your partner isn't okay with is cheating. If you aren't sure, ask them (not anyone else, because nobody else's feelings or opinions matter), and apologize if you accidentally cross a boundary you didn't realize was there (an apology that should include taking the time to figure out those boundaries and avoid future issues). At any time, you're justified in ending the relationship if you feel those boundaries are too restrictive (i.e. "it's cheating to go to the beach because you'll see other people in swimsuits"), and they're justified in ending the relationship if you violate a boundary that you reasonable should have known about (i.e. sleeping with somebody else while married).

In short, yes, you cheated. You cheaty cheatface. Grow a pair and stop trying to figure out some interpretation of events where you somehow didn't. If you wanted out of the marriage, that's what divorce is for.
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Mead
07/25/19 10:45:33 AM
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Also if I remember right you posted a lot at the time and you made a bunch of topics about how you were looking for some chick on dating apps so it sounds like it wasnt a spur of the moment thing but something you planned
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wwinterj25
07/25/19 12:40:24 PM
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The plot thickens.
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
07/25/19 12:44:52 PM
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Cacciato posted...
ASlaveObeys posted...
It's literal adultery


Mead posted...
Also if I remember right you posted a lot at the time and you made a bunch of topics about how you were looking for some chick on dating apps so it sounds like it wasnt a spur of the moment thing but something you planned

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JOExHIGASHI
07/25/19 1:04:25 PM
#29:


Adultery is also illegal in the military
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lihlih
07/26/19 10:08:21 AM
#30:


JOExHIGASHI posted...
Adultery is also illegal in the military


It was after hilhil got out.
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Smarkil
07/26/19 12:34:31 PM
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https://i.postimg.cc/hvDGFWmj/image.png

I have no idea what image host Gamefaqs uses anymore. Apparently Imgtc is out.
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LinkPizza
07/26/19 12:39:25 PM
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Smarkil posted...
https://i.postimg.cc/hvDGFWmj/image.png

I have no idea what image host Gamefaqs uses anymore. Apparently Imgtc is out.

I think imgtc is back...
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Smarkil
07/26/19 12:41:23 PM
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Hm, this is interdasting...

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GanonsSpirit
07/26/19 1:16:27 PM
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I can't believe Smarkil slept with lihlih. That was a twist I didn't see coming.
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lihlih
07/26/19 2:23:19 PM
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Hey, I made it clear from the beginning that the marriage was just for me to get out of the barracks and for her to have free room and board. Not my fault she made it out to be more than it actually was.
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Mead
07/26/19 2:25:27 PM
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lihlih posted...
Hey, I made it clear from the beginning that the marriage was just for me to get out of the barracks and for her to have free room and board. Not my fault she made it out to be more than it actually was.


If thats the case why didnt you let her know before hand that you wanted to sleep with someone else? Why keep it a secret?
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Cacciato
07/26/19 2:38:09 PM
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Did you lose the weight you put on to get chartered out of the army?
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SunWuKung420
07/26/19 4:04:57 PM
#38:


Even if you weren't guilty of adultery, you definitely committed fraud against the US military. You are lucky she didn't report you.
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LinkPizza
07/26/19 4:51:48 PM
#39:


SunWuKung420 posted...
Even if you weren't guilty of adultery, you definitely committed fraud against the US military. You are lucky she didn't report you.

This is true. When we were at our first base, they actually said it was illegal to marry someone just for the benefits. For example, money or to move out of the dorms/barracks. At least, thats what I remember...
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
07/28/19 4:59:41 PM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
Even if you weren't guilty of adultery, you definitely committed fraud against the US military. You are lucky she didn't report you.

Wow. Op got lucky. What a slime ball.
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SunWuKung420
07/28/19 6:17:37 PM
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FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
Even if you weren't guilty of adultery, you definitely committed fraud against the US military. You are lucky she didn't report you.

Wow. Op got lucky. What a slime ball.


TC doesn't like facing the truth. This topic is his latest bout of abandonment.
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FrndNhbrHdCEman
07/28/19 6:58:58 PM
#42:


SunWuKung420 posted...
FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
Even if you weren't guilty of adultery, you definitely committed fraud against the US military. You are lucky she didn't report you.

Wow. Op got lucky. What a slime ball.


TC doesn't like facing the truth. This topic is his latest bout of abandonment.

He really should look into a regular therapist. His views are crazy unhealthy.
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green dragon
07/28/19 7:06:33 PM
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Lmao

Smarkil with the two great posts
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