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legendary_zell
10/05/19 10:37:44 PM
#102:


Are people really advocating just staying silent and tacitly approving such statements? All that does is encourage them and creates an environment that's tolerable only for the in group and no one else.
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karlpilkington4
10/05/19 10:38:34 PM
#103:


Inferno Dive Dragoon posted...
DezDroppedFreak posted...
Its the cream of the crop shitposters that are defending your coworker

You did the right thing. That shouldnt be tolerated


Yeah, I noticed that the only people in here defending her are either;

A. Known shit-posters.
B. Accounts I've literally never seen post here before (IE: Shit-posting alts.)

TC did nothing wrong.


In other words, anyone who doesn't agree with you is a shitposter. Must be nice to live in your little world.
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Bishop9800
10/05/19 10:47:38 PM
#105:


karlpilkington4 posted...
Inferno Dive Dragoon posted...
DezDroppedFreak posted...
Its the cream of the crop shitposters that are defending your coworker

You did the right thing. That shouldnt be tolerated


Yeah, I noticed that the only people in here defending her are either;

A. Known shit-posters.
B. Accounts I've literally never seen post here before (IE: Shit-posting alts.)

TC did nothing wrong.


In other words, anyone who doesn't agree with you is a shitposter. Must be nice to live in your little world.


So you're saying that TC should have just ignore the racist comments, and agreed with it?

typical coming from you
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karlpilkington4
10/05/19 10:49:35 PM
#106:


Bishop9800 posted...
karlpilkington4 posted...
Inferno Dive Dragoon posted...
DezDroppedFreak posted...
Its the cream of the crop shitposters that are defending your coworker

You did the right thing. That shouldnt be tolerated


Yeah, I noticed that the only people in here defending her are either;

A. Known shit-posters.
B. Accounts I've literally never seen post here before (IE: Shit-posting alts.)

TC did nothing wrong.


In other words, anyone who doesn't agree with you is a shitposter. Must be nice to live in your little world.


So you're saying that TC should have just ignore the racist comments, and agreed with it?

typical coming from you


I dont think I said anything like that. Not even close.

Making up shit about someone, typical coming from you
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Bishop9800
10/05/19 10:51:14 PM
#107:


karlpilkington4 posted...
Bishop9800 posted...
karlpilkington4 posted...
Inferno Dive Dragoon posted...
DezDroppedFreak posted...
Its the cream of the crop shitposters that are defending your coworker

You did the right thing. That shouldnt be tolerated


Yeah, I noticed that the only people in here defending her are either;

A. Known shit-posters.
B. Accounts I've literally never seen post here before (IE: Shit-posting alts.)

TC did nothing wrong.


In other words, anyone who doesn't agree with you is a shitposter. Must be nice to live in your little world.


So you're saying that TC should have just ignore the racist comments, and agreed with it?

typical coming from you


I dont think I said anything like that. Not even close.

Making up shit about someone, typical coming from you


Ok, so by all the comments you made, what did you mean?

Oh, and Im not making up shit about you. You have been know to defend racist shit.
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InfinityMonster
10/05/19 10:52:40 PM
#108:


Snitching might be all cool and shit on places like here and the Twitterverse, but no one in the real world will appreciate it, especially over something so minor, and will start avoiding you.
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karlpilkington4
10/05/19 10:56:02 PM
#110:


Bishop9800 posted...
karlpilkington4 posted...
Bishop9800 posted...
karlpilkington4 posted...
Inferno Dive Dragoon posted...
DezDroppedFreak posted...
Its the cream of the crop shitposters that are defending your coworker

You did the right thing. That shouldnt be tolerated


Yeah, I noticed that the only people in here defending her are either;

A. Known shit-posters.
B. Accounts I've literally never seen post here before (IE: Shit-posting alts.)

TC did nothing wrong.


In other words, anyone who doesn't agree with you is a shitposter. Must be nice to live in your little world.


So you're saying that TC should have just ignore the racist comments, and agreed with it?

typical coming from you


I dont think I said anything like that. Not even close.

Making up shit about someone, typical coming from you


You have been know to defend racist shit.


Name 1. Be specific. We'll wait.
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emblem boy
10/05/19 10:57:15 PM
#112:


IdiotMachine posted...
Abiz_ posted...
Well, I don't believe you. Your group and her group both dropped you? Sounds like you chose to ignore the context or nuisance and now people don't like you for it or trust you.

I'll try to be as sensitive as possible: We were talking about sports, and she said that certain races are just naturally good at them because of how they were bred for those traits "back then".


Ugh. Why is this still something people believe
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Bishop9800
10/05/19 10:57:44 PM
#113:


karlpilkington4 posted...
Bishop9800 posted...
karlpilkington4 posted...
Bishop9800 posted...
karlpilkington4 posted...
Inferno Dive Dragoon posted...
DezDroppedFreak posted...
Its the cream of the crop shitposters that are defending your coworker

You did the right thing. That shouldnt be tolerated


Yeah, I noticed that the only people in here defending her are either;

A. Known shit-posters.
B. Accounts I've literally never seen post here before (IE: Shit-posting alts.)

TC did nothing wrong.


In other words, anyone who doesn't agree with you is a shitposter. Must be nice to live in your little world.


So you're saying that TC should have just ignore the racist comments, and agreed with it?

typical coming from you


I dont think I said anything like that. Not even close.

Making up shit about someone, typical coming from you


You have been know to defend racist shit.


Name 1. Be specific. We'll wait.


So you cant answer my question, and have to deflect to another subject/question...

typical.....
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KainFourteh
10/05/19 10:59:26 PM
#114:


You're overly sensitive and completely ignored the context of the conversation so you could have your pathetic faux outrage moment.

Now people don't bother with you because they don't trust you or feel comfortable enough around you to have any kind of conversation, encase you get upset and report them for having a harmless conversation.

People like you are a poison in the work place.
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karlpilkington4
10/05/19 11:01:01 PM
#116:


Bishop9800 posted...

So you cant answer my question, and have to deflect to another subject/question...

typical.....


LMAO. You brought it up. I'm not about to let you just make up slanderous comments about me, without forcing you back them up.
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Esrac
10/05/19 11:01:24 PM
#117:


emblem boy posted...
Ugh. Why is this still something people believe


Because when they watch sports, they see a disproportionately high number of black people. They also know that black people were forcibly bred to be beasts of burden "back then" or believe that Africa is a harsher environment, physically speaking, than Europe or Asia. So they're under the impression that black people were generally bred, through artificial or natural selection, to be more physically fit.

So, they associate those ideas.

I mean, you can say it's incorrect, but you shouldn't be surprised that it is still a thing people would believe.

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CookieMarvin
10/05/19 11:02:00 PM
#118:


KainFourteh posted...
You're overly sensitive and completely ignored the context of the conversation so you could have your pathetic faux outrage moment.

Now people don't bother with you because they don't trust you or feel comfortable enough around you to have any kind of conversation, encase you get upset and report them for having a harmless conversation.

People like you are a poison in the work place. Funny thing is that your co-worker isn't wrong about what she said.


holy fuck close your whole ass account

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amzpeng
10/05/19 11:02:52 PM
#120:


Anyway I sympathize with you TC, but now you know the results of ratting someone out for something like this. It's up to decide what you make of this. You ought look for another job though I believe.
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karlpilkington4
10/05/19 11:03:24 PM
#121:


CookieMarvin posted...
KainFourteh posted...
You're overly sensitive and completely ignored the context of the conversation so you could have your pathetic faux outrage moment.

Now people don't bother with you because they don't trust you or feel comfortable enough around you to have any kind of conversation, encase you get upset and report them for having a harmless conversation.

People like you are a poison in the work place. Funny thing is that your co-worker isn't wrong about what she said.


holy fuck close your whole ass account


Cancel culture at its finest.
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KainFourteh
10/05/19 11:03:55 PM
#122:


Conflict posted...
Oh don't bother editing that racist statement out of your post lol it's already been marked


Wasn't racist at all. Cute that you sensitive people think it is though.
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Bishop9800
10/05/19 11:04:20 PM
#123:


karlpilkington4 posted...
Bishop9800 posted...

So you cant answer my question, and have to deflect to another subject/question...

typical.....


LMAO. You brought it up. I'm not about to let you just make up slanderous comments about me, without forcing you back them up.


nice deflection........ I dont have to "make up slanderous comments" about you.

But hey, your "hood" is showing
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RickyTheBAWSE
10/05/19 11:05:23 PM
#125:


regardless of how you feel about this situation, you're a punk bitch if you can't express these sentiments in the faces of the people you're talking about.

I know punk bitch is passed down sometimes, so the apple doesn't always fall far from the tree.
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KainFourteh
10/05/19 11:05:36 PM
#126:


CookieMarvin posted...
KainFourteh posted...
You're overly sensitive and completely ignored the context of the conversation so you could have your pathetic faux outrage moment.

Now people don't bother with you because they don't trust you or feel comfortable enough around you to have any kind of conversation, encase you get upset and report them for having a harmless conversation.

People like you are a poison in the work place. Funny thing is that your co-worker isn't wrong about what she said.


holy fuck close your whole ass account


You first. Maybe grow a set while you're at it.
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KainFourteh
10/05/19 11:07:02 PM
#127:


Conflict posted...
So why'd you edit it out then? If it's "not racist" then you have nothing to worry about


Because I knew people like you would cry about it and claim racism.
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RickyTheBAWSE
10/05/19 11:07:15 PM
#128:


big man on the internet calling other people sensitive and saying to grow a pair, LOLOLOL
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KainFourteh
10/05/19 11:08:26 PM
#129:


RickyTheBAWSE posted...
big man on the internet calling other people sensitive and saying to grow a pair, LOLOLOL


Quite the childish response from another one that has nothing of worth to post.
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CookieMarvin
10/05/19 11:09:08 PM
#130:


KainFourteh posted...
You first. Maybe grow a set while you're at it.
grow a set says the guy who edited his message to make sure he agreed with the creepy slaveowner take and then got scared and took it out

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karlpilkington4
10/05/19 11:09:13 PM
#131:


Bishop9800 posted...
karlpilkington4 posted...
Bishop9800 posted...

So you cant answer my question, and have to deflect to another subject/question...

typical.....


LMAO. You brought it up. I'm not about to let you just make up slanderous comments about me, without forcing you back them up.


nice deflection........ I dont have to "make up slanderous comments" about you.

But hey, your "hood" is showing


You did though bud. Weird.

You firstly assumed I said that the TC should agree with his coworker.

Fun fact- I did nothing of the sort.

Second, you said I supported racist statements in the past. I didnt. And when I asked you to explain your claims, you back peddled.
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emblem boy
10/05/19 11:10:47 PM
#132:


Esrac posted...
emblem boy posted...
Ugh. Why is this still something people believe


Because when they watch sports, they see a disproportionately high number of black people. They also know that black people were forcibly bred to be beasts of burden "back then" or believe that Africa is a harsher environment, physically speaking, than Europe or Asia. So they're under the impression that black people were generally bred, through artificial or natural selection, to be more physically fit.

So, they associate those ideas.

I mean, you can say it's incorrect, but you shouldn't be surprised that it is still a thing people would believe.


Ya, true
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DoubleDare
10/05/19 11:15:36 PM
#134:


No one likes a tattle tale.

You deserve the treatment you are getting, holy shit running to a manager, especially if you are the same race as the women, why do you care that much? Like holy shit, yea shes a terrible person cause she talks like that, especially in front of co-workers, but yea, running to HR for anything is a big no-no.

Just be happy you're not like her.

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LightningAce11
10/05/19 11:17:58 PM
#135:


Most of these naysayers would be up in arms if anybody said anything about the straight white christian males who are the most discriminated in america.
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shnangyboos
10/05/19 11:19:12 PM
#136:


LightningAce11 posted...
Most of these naysayers would be up in arms if anybody said anything about the straight white christian males who are the most discriminated in america.


And all the pearl clutchers would shrug their shoulders.

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RickyTheBAWSE
10/05/19 11:22:23 PM
#137:


KainFourteh posted...
RickyTheBAWSE posted...
big man on the internet calling other people sensitive and saying to grow a pair, LOLOLOL


Quite the childish response from another one that has nothing of worth to post.


oh, self awareness!

what did you post that was a contribution to this topic?
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RickyTheBAWSE
10/05/19 11:24:58 PM
#138:


DoubleDare posted...
No one likes a tattle tale.

You deserve the treatment you are getting, holy shit running to a manager, especially if you are the same race as the women, why do you care that much? Like holy shit, yea shes a terrible person cause she talks like that, especially in front of co-workers, but yea, running to HR for anything is a big no-no.

Just be happy you're not like her.


do you consider him a race traitor now?
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archedsoul
10/05/19 11:29:23 PM
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Sasquatchimo
10/05/19 11:37:07 PM
#140:


Well, I predict you will be quitting the job soon enough while she continues on with the company.

Think about how things will be when she is back. Add in the fact that your coworkers are now ostracizing you. Basically you have turned the entire workplace against you.

Yeah, congrats you now have a hostile and stressful work environment. In the future you need to realize so long as you are a peon, if it DOESN'T AFFECT YOU OR ANOTHER COWORKER DIRECTLY, then just keep your nose down and mind your own business. FFS what she said just sounds ignorant if anything. Newsflash: The world is filled with ignorant people. And your "woke" ass dealt with ignorance the absolute wrong way.
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heynongman
10/05/19 11:37:34 PM
#141:


This happened

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Thunder_Dogg
10/05/19 11:47:07 PM
#142:


heynongman posted...
This happened


My thoughts too.

But this is normal enough to be believable. Even has defenders.
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WashYourHands
10/05/19 11:55:21 PM
#144:


fReE sPeAcH

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A_A_Battery
10/05/19 11:55:29 PM
#145:


Never get the joke defense, especially when the thing said is so specific.

Yeah when we enslaved them and the weak ones died in the plantations because of sun stroke and whipping, we created these beasts that now just whoop us at sports.

I bust a gut that was so funny, thanks for the joke nancy you should do standup.
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Solid Snake07
10/05/19 11:55:55 PM
#146:


No one likes a tattle tale

If everyone is making fun of you and no one is backing you up it probably wasnt a big deal. And now you've made an enemy at work for no reason
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Solid Snake07
10/06/19 12:03:18 AM
#147:


I agree what she said was stupid, but people say stupid shit sometimes. I dont think it was necessary to bring it up to management unless it's repeat behaviour that you've expressed to her you aren't comfortable with and she continues to do it in front of you anyway.

If that's not the case youre coming off as overly sensitive and honestly......as a narc. No one likes a narc
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Lost_All_Senses
10/06/19 12:05:41 AM
#148:


Solid Snake07 posted...
If everyone is making fun of you and no one is backing you up it probably wasnt a big deal.


Things a stable genius says for 500
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Lost_All_Senses
10/06/19 12:06:30 AM
#149:


Solid Snake07 posted...
I agree what she said was stupid, but people say stupid shit sometimes. I dont think it was necessary to bring it up to management unless it's repeat behaviour that you've expressed to her you aren't comfortable with and she continues to do it in front of you anyway.


But I also agree with this.
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cAPITALISATION
10/06/19 12:13:04 AM
#150:


ITT: I tag a lot of people for revealing their shitty views on race and racism
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mattnd2007
10/06/19 12:14:06 AM
#151:


amzpeng posted...
You might want to look for another job at this point. You've already ruined it for yourself it seem. Not saying it's fair, but it is what it is.
This. You did the right thing. But doing the right thing has consequences too. Not in a workplace, but back in middle school I had to turn in a bully because it had gotten to not just verbal but also physical abuse. I got picked on a lot for that. "Oooh be nice to Matt or he'll tell on you"
It was like motherfucker I'm a skinny little nerd. This big as dude that probably has an abusive father has it out for me. The fuck was I supposed to do

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