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Blue_Inigo
11/13/19 1:01:35 AM
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You're not a ho for fucking on the first date tbh
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au_gold
11/13/19 1:01:59 AM
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Its not.

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Milkman5
11/13/19 1:02:36 AM
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in California, every girl has sex on the first date. And a lot of them are married.
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_Matchabuu_
11/13/19 1:08:03 AM
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Ive never NOT had sex on the first date, honestly Im surprised thats even an issue nowadays
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Wii_Shaker
11/13/19 1:12:02 AM
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Girls don't want to come off as too easy even though they're basically squirming for it.
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berlyman101
11/13/19 1:13:32 AM
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Depends on the girl tbh although I've found most healthy and attractive ones will. That said, there are attractive girls that don't go on first dates at all. Dunno what they do.

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OpenlyGator
11/13/19 1:15:18 AM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
You're not a ho for fucking on the first date tbh

Not everyone agrees on that.

Including some of the desirable men many women are looking for commitment. Some of the women they're related to may also be critical about it (ie: mother, sister, friends, other competing women, etc). This has lead to some women feeling the need to be less than honest about their sexual history in order to avoid messing up their chances with said men.

I'm not condoning the perspective, but there it is and there's not much that can be done to change it.
Just as modern women get to have arbitrary standards, so do the men.
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Omasitor Hain
11/13/19 1:18:27 AM
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Sex has been a taboo as a whole for so long, and women being sexual has been even more taboo because reasons. Well, religion has played the biggest role in all that bullshit. "Purity" and such. Sex, the very thing that keeps life going is impure and unbecoming, unless you pledge to be with one person forever. Which defies the human condition. We are creatures of habit, yes, but also change. Flexibility is why we're still here.
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Milkman5
11/13/19 1:20:41 AM
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where do you guys live? I've known girls who have fucked a new guy every night, some they never even knew their names.
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Wii_Shaker
11/13/19 1:21:34 AM
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Milkman5 posted...
where do you guys live? I've known girls who have fucked a new guy every night, some they never even knew their names.

Hooking up is different than dating though.
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gunplagirl
11/13/19 1:30:05 AM
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...I'm lesbian, I've had sex AS the first date. Or before, even. :/

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teepan95
11/13/19 1:32:43 AM
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Man I need to move to where you guys all are
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Dragonblade01
11/13/19 1:35:21 AM
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Because the place they live in considers it taboo too, I would think.
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scar the 1
11/13/19 1:37:38 AM
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It's generally not but there's also a worry that the guy is just looking to "hit it and quit it" as they say
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008Zulu
11/13/19 2:09:42 AM
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If there is no sex on the first date, and the guy doesn't call, then he was only interested in a booty call. Some women are fine with booty calls, others might want a relationship.
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samurai bandit
11/13/19 2:20:33 AM
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teepan95 posted...
Man I need to move to where you guys all are


This. Where does everyone here lives?

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Kolibri X
11/13/19 2:27:57 AM
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I appreciate when girls fuck on the first date. Let's me know right away they're not relationship material.
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DeadBankerDream
11/13/19 2:28:46 AM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
You're not a ho for fucking on the first date tbh

Society does a good job making women think otherwise, tbh
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StealthRock
11/13/19 8:36:01 AM
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Kolibri X posted...
I appreciate when girls fuck on the first date. Let's me know right away they're not relationship material.

Nothing wrong with fucking on the first date....

Stoo slut shaming when you know you go for girls who give it up
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Guide
11/13/19 8:39:22 AM
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Nothing wrong with it, but I'm not into it, either. If it's just to fuck, that's one thing, but I don't call that a date. I'm not gonna date anyone that's casually banging other people.

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ALIEN_WORK2HOP
11/13/19 8:40:08 AM
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Girls believe they will be more interesting if they make the guy wait. Which is bullshit.
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The Admiral
11/13/19 8:40:55 AM
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samurai bandit posted...
teepan95 posted...
Man I need to move to where you guys all are


This. Where does everyone here lives?


The girls in this topic saying they fuck all the time on the first date are transgender, which isnt exactly what the TC is talking about.

It definitely still is a taboo in the US, but it happens commonly enough. Id still say 3rd date is the average for adults.
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Guide
11/13/19 8:41:34 AM
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The Admiral posted...
The girls in this topic saying they fuck all the time on the first date are transgender, which isnt exactly what the TC is talking about.

It definitely still is a taboo in the US, but it happens commonly enough. Id still say 3rd date is the average for adults.


There we are. Like clockwork.

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codey
11/13/19 8:43:38 AM
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I've done first date, second, third, fourth and beyond, and my opinion of the girl didn't change based on that. Maybe if we weren't compatible, but that's a different thing entirely.
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EvenSpoonier
11/13/19 8:57:15 AM
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Because quite aside from the taboo itself, holding off for a few dates remains one of the more effective anti-creeper heuristics out there. Not 100% effective -they are only heuristics, after all- but fairly robust if you can stand to do it, and thus, a valuable tool.

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MrPeppers
11/13/19 8:59:01 AM
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It has definitely not been a problem for me lol

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Parappa09
11/13/19 9:03:03 AM
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ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted...
Girls believe they will be more interesting if they make the guy wait. Which is bullshit.
no its somewhat accurate. majority of guys tend to think with their d, so the dynamic changes when theres no sex on first date

plus its a powerful move to play

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KogaSteelfang
11/13/19 9:04:54 AM
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v_v

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ALIEN_WORK2HOP
11/13/19 9:05:28 AM
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Parappa09 posted...
ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted...
Girls believe they will be more interesting if they make the guy wait. Which is bullshit.
no its somewhat accurate. majority of guys tend to think with their d, so the dynamic changes when theres no sex on first date

plus its a powerful move to play


I might be different, but I have never lost interest in a woman because I had sex with her. Not if I was truly interested. Only if I really didn't give a crap to begin with.
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SkyShow
11/13/19 9:06:29 AM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
You're not a ho for fucking on the first date tbh

My wife of 15+ years now had sex with me less than 3 minutes after meeting me. She said I was the hottest guy she ever saw in her life and pushed be back into my hotel room.
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Duncanwii
11/13/19 9:10:18 AM
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The Admiral posted...
The girls in this topic saying they f*** all the time on the first date are transgender,
Matchabuu isn't.

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Coolppl Owns
11/13/19 10:02:56 AM
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Kolibri X posted...
I appreciate when girls fuck on the first date. Let's me know right away they're not relationship material.


Stop slut shaming!
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Kolibri X
11/13/19 10:05:20 AM
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Coolppl Owns posted...
Kolibri X posted...
I appreciate when girls fuck on the first date. Let's me know right away they're not relationship material.


Stop slut shaming!

Cue incel shaming!
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Parappa09
11/13/19 10:49:50 AM
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Kolibri X posted...
Cue incel shaming!
it's not shaming when their dumbass behaviour brings it on themselves

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The Admiral
11/13/19 10:50:53 AM
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Parappa09 posted...
Kolibri X posted...
Cue incel shaming!
it's not shaming when their dumbass behaviour brings it on themselves


Acting like a slut is also behavior.

You're definitely a hypocrite if you complain about "slut shaming" but use the term incels unironically.
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scar the 1
11/13/19 12:16:00 PM
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The Admiral posted...
Parappa09 posted...
Kolibri X posted...
Cue incel shaming!
it's not shaming when their dumbass behaviour brings it on themselves


Acting like a slut is also behavior.

You're definitely a hypocrite if you complain about "slut shaming" but use the term incels unironically.

Lmao what an absolutely awful take
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The Admiral
11/13/19 12:28:49 PM
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scar the 1 posted...
The Admiral posted...
Parappa09 posted...
Kolibri X posted...
Cue incel shaming!
it's not shaming when their dumbass behaviour brings it on themselves


Acting like a slut is also behavior.

You're definitely a hypocrite if you complain about "slut shaming" but use the term incels unironically.

Lmao what an absolutely awful take


Sorry you don't like getting called on your shit. Don't act like a hypocrite and you won't be offended.
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Wewillrocku
11/13/19 12:33:16 PM
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because.
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PIITB415
11/13/19 12:37:25 PM
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_Matchabuu_
11/13/19 12:39:19 PM
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The Admiral posted...
samurai bandit posted...
teepan95 posted...
Man I need to move to where you guys all are


This. Where does everyone here lives?


The girls in this topic saying they fuck all the time on the first date are transgender, which isnt exactly what the TC is talking about.

It definitely still is a taboo in the US, but it happens commonly enough. Id still say 3rd date is the average for adults.


Im not trans? Where the hell are you getting your info from ... and even if I was, I dont hate trans people so Im not insulted...
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WerewolfPaws
11/13/19 12:42:49 PM
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OpenlyGator posted...
Blue_Inigo posted...
You're not a ho for fucking on the first date tbh

Not everyone agrees on that.

Including some of the desirable men many women are looking for commitment. Some of the women they're related to may also be critical about it (ie: mother, sister, friends, other competing women, etc). This has lead to some women feeling the need to be less than honest about their sexual history in order to avoid messing up their chances with said men.

I'm not condoning the perspective, but there it is and there's not much that can be done to change it.
Just as modern women get to have arbitrary standards, so do the men.


Who the hell is running to their family members to let them know they fucked on the first date?
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The Admiral
11/13/19 12:48:40 PM
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_Matchabuu_ posted...
The Admiral posted...
samurai bandit posted...
teepan95 posted...
Man I need to move to where you guys all are


This. Where does everyone here lives?


The girls in this topic saying they fuck all the time on the first date are transgender, which isnt exactly what the TC is talking about.

It definitely still is a taboo in the US, but it happens commonly enough. Id still say 3rd date is the average for adults.


Im not trans? Where the hell are you getting your info from ... and even if I was, I dont hate trans people so Im not insulted...


My apologies, I thought you were a gay guy for some reason.
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scar the 1
11/13/19 12:51:00 PM
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The Admiral posted...
scar the 1 posted...
The Admiral posted...
Parappa09 posted...
Kolibri X posted...
Cue incel shaming!
it's not shaming when their dumbass behaviour brings it on themselves


Acting like a slut is also behavior.

You're definitely a hypocrite if you complain about "slut shaming" but use the term incels unironically.

Lmao what an absolutely awful take


Sorry you don't like getting called on your shit. Don't act like a hypocrite and you won't be offended.

What about symbolical hypocrisy?
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The Admiral
11/13/19 12:52:37 PM
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scar the 1 posted...
The Admiral posted...
scar the 1 posted...
The Admiral posted...
Parappa09 posted...
Kolibri X posted...
Cue incel shaming!
it's not shaming when their dumbass behaviour brings it on themselves


Acting like a slut is also behavior.

You're definitely a hypocrite if you complain about "slut shaming" but use the term incels unironically.

Lmao what an absolutely awful take


Sorry you don't like getting called on your shit. Don't act like a hypocrite and you won't be offended.

What about symbolical hypocrisy?


You can just take your L with dignity, you know.
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GoodOlJr
11/13/19 12:52:40 PM
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If a girls number is over 5-10, hard pass

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_Matchabuu_
11/13/19 12:53:09 PM
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GoodOlJr posted...
If a girls number is over 5-10, hard pass


If a guys number is over 5-10, hard pass

See how you sound?
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