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Greenfox111 09/06/20 6:03:14 PM #1:	A girl and I went out to dinner and as the evening was coming to a close she suggested that we go on a hike sometime. So after a couple of days I text her in an attempt to make plans for that. She said she would "love that" and asked which days would work for me, as we both have rather erratic work schedules. I replied with the days I had off, and waited... Now its been about a week, and I havent heard anything. Surely she wouldnt say she would "love" to go on a hike if she in reality was not interested. Hopefully she is ok. Is there a tactful way of checking in without seeming weird about it? --- Don't ask. <cite>Greenfox111 posted [p:944290419] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>A girl and I went out to dinner and as the evening was coming to a close she suggested that we go on a hike sometime. So after a couple of days I text her in an attempt to make plans for that. She said she would "love that" and asked which days would work for me, as we both have rather erratic work schedules. I replied with the days I had off, and waited... Now its been about a week, and I havent heard anything. Surely she wouldnt say she would "love" to go on a hike if she in reality was not interested. Hopefully she is ok. Is there a tactful way of checking in without seeming weird about it? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTDC 09/06/20 6:05:15 PM #2:	It's been a week. She's probably not interested anymore, but I can see why her initially seeming enthusiastic might muddle that perception. You can always ask "Hey, still interested in that hike?" If she doesn't respond to that or you get a cold response, just leave her alone and move on. <cite>JigsawTDC posted [p:944290513] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>It's been a week. She's probably not interested anymore, but I can see why her initially seeming enthusiastic might muddle that perception. You can always ask "Hey, still interested in that hike?" If she doesn't respond to that or you get a cold response, just leave her alone and move on. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Greenfox111 09/06/20 7:04:33 PM #3:	Can I get a female perspective on this --- Don't ask. <cite>Greenfox111 posted [p:944292396] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>Can I get a female perspective on this </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheWitchMorgana 09/06/20 7:11:37 PM #4:	my female perspective agrees with the texting her once more and then leaving it if she doesn't respond --- and love comes back around again, it's a carousel, my friend <cite>TheWitchMorgana posted [p:944292588] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>my female perspective agrees with the texting her once more and then leaving it if she doesn't respond </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Greenfox111 09/06/20 7:32:16 PM #5:	Thank you both for your equally valid perspectives --- Don't ask. <cite>Greenfox111 posted [p:944293230] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>Thank you both for your equally valid perspectives </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GanonsSpirit 09/06/20 7:36:53 PM #6:	Text her nonstop for the next 3 days. --- https://imgur.com/tsQUpxC Thanks, Nade Duck! [[[[[[[[[[[[[[[\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|\|]]]]]]]]]]]]]]]] <cite>GanonsSpirit posted [p:944293382] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>Text her nonstop for the next 3 days.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DirtBasedSoap 09/06/20 7:38:14 PM #7:	GanonsSpirit posted... Text her nonstop for the next 3 days. this. women love it when you text them every 15 minutes until they reply. --- me when anyone replies to my posts: https://youtu.be/d1YBv2mWll0 <cite>DirtBasedSoap posted [p:944293441] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>GanonsSpirit posted... </cite> <quote>Text her nonstop for the next 3 days.</quote>this. women love it when you text them every 15 minutes until they reply. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WhiskeyDisk 09/06/20 7:39:20 PM #8:	On the one hand she may have lost interest. On the other, as you say you both have hectic schedules and it may have slipped her mind. As was already said, a gentle reminder would be in order and if you get a tepid response or no response, then you know where things stand. --- The SBA has closed for business, we thank you for your patronage Assassins. ~there's always free cheese in a mousetrap. <cite>WhiskeyDisk posted [p:944293479] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>On the one hand she may have lost interest. On the other, as you say you both have hectic schedules and it may have slipped her mind. As was already said, a gentle reminder would be in order and if you get a tepid response or no response, then you know where things stand. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DMX99 09/06/20 7:41:02 PM #9:	You simp, but since its No Simp September, you have to wait next month to simp. <cite>DMX99 posted [p:944293533] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>You simp, but since its No Simp September, you have to wait next month to simp. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Greenfox111 09/06/20 7:57:40 PM #10:	DirtBasedSoap posted... this. women love it when you text them every 15 minutes until they reply. Ah but Ive already ruined around 12 or 15 potential tinder dates with this tactic. Should i try every 5 minutes instead? --- Don't ask. <cite>Greenfox111 posted [p:944294034] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>DirtBasedSoap posted... </cite> <quote>this. women love it when you text them every 15 minutes until they reply.</quote>Ah but Ive already ruined around 12 or 15 potential tinder dates with this tactic. Should i try every 5 minutes instead? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zeus 09/06/20 8:48:27 PM #11:	What she really meant was "Take a hike" >_> --- (\/)(\/)\|-\| There are precious few at ease / With moral ambiguities / So we act as though they don't exist. <cite>Zeus posted [p:944295699] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>What she really meant was "Take a hike" >_> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Greenfox111 09/06/20 9:05:14 PM #12:	Zeus posted... What she really meant was "Take a hike" >_> Thata funny enough that I temporarily wouldnt even be upset --- Don't ask. <cite>Greenfox111 posted [p:944296317] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>Zeus posted... </cite> <quote>What she really meant was "Take a hike" >_></quote>Thata funny enough that I temporarily wouldnt even be upset </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wolfy42 09/06/20 9:12:30 PM #13:	Lol, seriously it's easy to get caught up in crap. Just send her a text asking how she's doing and if she wants to get together sometime, maybe the hike was too fast. --- Tacobot 3000 "Saving the world from not having tacos." Glowing Elephant "Stonehedge was a sex thing." <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:944296591] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>Lol, seriously it's easy to get caught up in crap. Just send her a text asking how she's doing and if she wants to get together sometime, maybe the hike was too fast. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WhiskeyDisk 09/06/20 9:36:24 PM #14:	wolfy42 posted... Lol, seriously it's easy to get caught up in crap. Just send her a text asking how she's doing and if she wants to get together sometime, maybe the hike was too fast. To be fair, if I'm reading right, she brought up the hike. She may have bitten off more than she can chew. Give her another chance to correct the record and if it doesn't come off as genuine, move on. --- The SBA has closed for business, we thank you for your patronage Assassins. ~there's always free cheese in a mousetrap. <cite>WhiskeyDisk posted [p:944297412] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>wolfy42 posted... </cite> <quote>Lol, seriously it's easy to get caught up in crap. Just send her a text asking how she's doing and if she wants to get together sometime, maybe the hike was too fast.</quote> To be fair, if I'm reading right, she brought up the hike. She may have bitten off more than she can chew. Give her another chance to correct the record and if it doesn't come off as genuine, move on. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Revelation34 09/07/20 3:55:29 AM #15:	Did you text yet? --- Gamertag: Kegfarms, BF code: 2033480226, Treasure Cruise code 318,374,355, Steam: Kegfarms <cite>Revelation34 posted [p:944306564] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>Did you text yet?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrndNhbrHdCEman 09/07/20 4:26:27 AM #16:	Maybe next time dont wait a week before checking up tho. 3 days tops. You dont want to seem desperate and maybe offer something more casual instead. --- Official nosy neighbor and gossip https://imgur.com/uGKwGsK <cite>FrndNhbrHdCEman posted [p:944307046] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>Maybe next time dont wait a week before checking up tho. 3 days tops. You dont want to seem desperate and maybe offer something more casual instead. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LeetCheet 09/07/20 6:15:25 AM #17:	No offence to the girls here but girls are weird. Not only are their bodies slightly different from ours but their brains are a lot more complex as well. They give extremly vague hints on what they want and they expect our simple brains to pick them up. --- https://imgur.com/eQrRxik https://imgur.com/NC8itow <cite>LeetCheet posted [p:944308324] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>No offence to the girls here but girls are weird. Not only are their bodies slightly different from ours but their brains are a lot more complex as well. They give extremly vague hints on what they want and they expect our simple brains to pick them up.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Far-Queue 09/07/20 6:37:29 AM #18:	LeetCheet posted... their brains are a lot more complex as well. Wrong. They give extremly vague hints on what they want and they expect our simple brains to pick them up. Generalization. So, also wrong. --- https://imgur.com/ZwO4qO2 "Far-Queue is probably one of the least troll-like of the posters here." - LinkPizza <cite>Far-Queue posted [p:944308552] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>LeetCheet posted... </cite> <quote>their brains are a lot more complex as well. </quote> Wrong. <quote>They give extremly vague hints on what they want and they expect our simple brains to pick them up.</quote> Generalization. So, also wrong. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 09/07/20 8:55:13 AM #19:	I will nth the suggestion of sending one reminder text. Life gets in the way sometimes, and she may simply have forgotten. She may also have changed her mind and be trying to blow you off. Asking one more time is reasonable to give her a chance to correct her mistake/clarify her intent, but doesn't fall into nagging/harassment territory if she isn't interested anymore. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:944310481] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>I will nth the suggestion of sending one reminder text. Life gets in the way sometimes, and she may simply have forgotten. She may also have changed her mind and be trying to blow you off. Asking one more time is reasonable to give her a chance to correct her mistake/clarify her intent, but doesn't fall into nagging/harassment territory if she isn't interested anymore. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheWitchMorgana 09/07/20 1:11:58 PM #20:	LeetCheet posted... No offence to the girls here but girls are weird. Not only are their bodies slightly different from ours but their brains are a lot more complex as well. They give extremly vague hints on what they want and they expect our simple brains to pick them up. bruh this is approaching incel level talk lol. women are people, communicate with them. if they refuse to then you don't try, same as anyone else. --- and love comes back around again, it's a carousel, my friend <cite>TheWitchMorgana posted [p:944317230] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>LeetCheet posted... </cite> <quote>No offence to the girls here but girls are weird. Not only are their bodies slightly different from ours but their brains are a lot more complex as well. They give extremly vague hints on what they want and they expect our simple brains to pick them up.</quote> bruh this is approaching incel level talk lol. women are people, communicate with them. if they refuse to then you don't try, same as anyone else. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/07/20 2:18:53 PM #21:	Seems to me she isn't interested. I don't expect a instant response when someone claims they want to do something but a week and still nothing? Yeah the time has passed. I love hiking so providing I'm not busy I'll take most folk up on the offer of going out for a hike. Even when I am busy I'll still let said person know when I'm free. LeetCheet posted... They give extremly vague hints on what they want and they expect our simple brains to pick them up. This isn't just a girl thing. This is simply folks who are not honest. I'm a straight talker and prefer the same in return. I've talked to some girls who are the same and even if it's not what I agree with I still appreciate that more. On the other side of the coin I've met some guys who really are very vague in what they say to the point I just can't be bothered with them. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:944319469] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>Seems to me she isn't interested. I don't expect a instant response when someone claims they want to do something but a week and still nothing? Yeah the time has passed. I love hiking so providing I'm not busy I'll take most folk up on the offer of going out for a hike. Even when I am busy I'll still let said person know when I'm free. LeetCheet posted... </cite> <quote>They give extremly vague hints on what they want and they expect our simple brains to pick them up.</quote> This isn't just a girl thing. This is simply folks who are not honest. I'm a straight talker and prefer the same in return. I've talked to some girls who are the same and even if it's not what I agree with I still appreciate that more. On the other side of the coin I've met some guys who really are very vague in what they say to the point I just can't be bothered with them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Greenfox111 09/07/20 8:47:35 PM #22:	Well, I texted her earlier this morning and ive got no response so far. Pretty safe to say its a no-go boys. This is gonna bother me for a while for sure, considering how she literally was the one who suggested the hike in the first place, but oh well. Can I get an F please --- Don't ask. <cite>Greenfox111 posted [p:944332585] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>Well, I texted her earlier this morning and ive got no response so far. Pretty safe to say its a no-go boys. This is gonna bother me for a while for sure, considering how she literally was the one who suggested the hike in the first place, but oh well. Can I get an F please </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/07/20 9:35:34 PM #23:	No you get a try harder. Take pics of yourself with someone on a hike and send them her. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:944334202] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>No you get a try harder. Take pics of yourself with someone on a hike and send them her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WhiskeyDisk 09/07/20 10:03:00 PM #24:	F Dude, it happens. --- The SBA has closed for business, we thank you for your patronage Assassins. ~there's always free cheese in a mousetrap. <cite>WhiskeyDisk posted [p:944335097] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>F Dude, it happens. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dedbus 09/07/20 10:13:31 PM #25:	The younger generation is pretty terrible at communication with respect and dignity. Text her back and ask if the mom is down for some trail blazing. <cite>dedbus posted [p:944335470] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>The younger generation is pretty terrible at communication with respect and dignity. Text her back and ask if the mom is down for some trail blazing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/07/20 10:42:13 PM #26:	wwinterj25 posted... No you get a try harder. Take pics of yourself with someone on a hike and send them her. What you have to do is take a picture out on a hike with someone like you said, but dont send it to her. But put it somewhere shell see. Showing that it wasnt even worth your time to send it to her... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:944336314] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>No you get a try harder. Take pics of yourself with someone on a hike and send them her. </quote> What you have to do is take a picture out on a hike with someone like you said, but dont send it to her. But put it somewhere shell see. Showing that it wasnt even worth your time to send it to her...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WhiskeyDisk 09/07/20 10:44:38 PM #27:	LinkPizza posted... What you have to do is take a picture out on a hike with someone like you said, but dont send it to her. But put it somewhere shell see. Showing that it wasnt even worth your time to send it to her... Hey, look at this post I made from MT. Beacon at the war fires monument getting head from Becky. This could have been you. --- The SBA has closed for business, we thank you for your patronage Assassins. ~there's always free cheese in a mousetrap. <cite>WhiskeyDisk posted [p:944336404] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote>What you have to do is take a picture out on a hike with someone like you said, but dont send it to her. But put it somewhere shell see. Showing that it wasnt even worth your time to send it to her...</quote> Hey, look at this post I made from MT. Beacon at the war fires monument getting head from Becky. This could have been you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Greenfox111 09/07/20 10:46:11 PM #28:	LinkPizza posted... What you have to do is take a picture out on a hike with someone like you said, but dont send it to her. But put it somewhere shell see. Showing that it wasnt even worth your time to send it to her... I love this but it might be difficult to find someone else to go on a hike with me. Guess I could always hit up tinder. how hard can it be?? Surely all those people who have "i love hiking' on their profile actually do love hiking right???? --- Don't ask. <cite>Greenfox111 posted [p:944336469] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote>What you have to do is take a picture out on a hike with someone like you said, but dont send it to her. But put it somewhere shell see. Showing that it wasnt even worth your time to send it to her...</quote>I love this but it might be difficult to find someone else to go on a hike with me. Guess I could always hit up tinder. how hard can it be?? Surely all those people who have "i love hiking' on their profile actually do love hiking right???? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WhiskeyDisk 09/07/20 10:51:25 PM #29:	Greenfox111 posted... I love this but it might be difficult to find someone else to go on a hike with me. Guess I could always hit up tinder. how hard can it be?? Surely all those people who have "i love hiking' on their profile actually do love hiking right???? From my limited experience with dating apps, most of the whales that want "long talks on the beach and hikes in the woods" are physically incapable of actually doing so. They love the idea of dragging their jaba asses out there, but would rather sit on their asses eating bon bons than doing it. --- The SBA has closed for business, we thank you for your patronage Assassins. ~there's always free cheese in a mousetrap. <cite>WhiskeyDisk posted [p:944336670] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>Greenfox111 posted... </cite> <quote>I love this but it might be difficult to find someone else to go on a hike with me. Guess I could always hit up tinder. how hard can it be?? Surely all those people who have "i love hiking' on their profile actually do love hiking right????</quote> From my limited experience with dating apps, most of the whales that want "long talks on the beach and hikes in the woods" are physically incapable of actually doing so. They love the idea of dragging their jaba asses out there, but would rather sit on their asses eating bon bons than doing it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LeetCheet 09/07/20 11:50:59 PM #30:	I wasn't serious though. I just wanted to say something funny but my taste in humour seems to be subpar. Also F --- https://imgur.com/eQrRxik https://imgur.com/NC8itow <cite>LeetCheet posted [p:944338516] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>I wasn't serious though. I just wanted to say something funny but my taste in humour seems to be subpar. Also F</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrPrimemaster 09/08/20 12:03:25 AM #31:	F Its definitely a frustrating situation. I'd try Bumble, girls you match with have to message you first in order to be able to start the conversation. So while your quality goes down you generally get more serious suitors. --- Metroids Suck <cite>DrPrimemaster posted [p:944338871] in What does ... [t:78958390]...</cite> <quote>F Its definitely a frustrating situation. I'd try Bumble, girls you match with have to message you first in order to be able to start the conversation. So while your quality goes down you generally get more serious suitors. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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