Current Events > Girl lashed out at me on Insta because I didnt ask permission to DM her

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:01:49 AM
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I blocked her after I sent the last message, which may have gone a bit too far. But wow. I dont know what to make of this. Please tell me Im not crazy and she was acting irrationally here.

(Also my account is on private so all she could she is a tiny thumbnail of my face with glasses on)

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Kaiganeer
09/09/20 1:03:13 AM
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tadamoto alt?
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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:03:28 AM
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Kaiganeer posted...
tadamoto alt?

who?

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Vicious_Dios
09/09/20 1:03:57 AM
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Sounds like the both of you dodged a bullet.

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nfearurspecimn
09/09/20 1:04:06 AM
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ok

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TheoryzC
09/09/20 1:04:19 AM
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CommonStar
09/09/20 1:04:53 AM
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why didn't you just talk to her on bumble?
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Middle hope
09/09/20 1:05:11 AM
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What a nasty ho

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:06:16 AM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
ok

why even comment if you arent going to add to the conversation? Gtfo outta ere!

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:06:46 AM
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TheoryzC posted...

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Wow I already feel sane again thanks bros

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Cornhuskers
09/09/20 1:06:50 AM
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Is that Katie Pavlich?
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Turbam
09/09/20 1:07:14 AM
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Gonna upload this on r/niceguys for easy karmies :V

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TooLateToGoBack
09/09/20 1:07:56 AM
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dm her your shares of tesla stock

she'll come right back
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nfearurspecimn
09/09/20 1:09:22 AM
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clyde_frog posted...
why even comment if you arent going to add to the conversation? Gtfo outta ere!
probably not even you tbh. that guy lashed out hardcore

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:09:46 AM
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CommonStar posted...
why didn't you just talk to her on bumble?

we didnt match. Atleast not yet, which will be hilarious if we actually do.

I literally saw her profile and then immediately dmd her on insta. I cant tell you how many times Ive gotten matches and then the girl never messages first. I mean, perhaps she rarely goes on bumble in the first place. I cant read her mind.

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The Popo
09/09/20 1:10:02 AM
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clyde_frog posted...
why even comment if you arent going to add to the conversation? Gtfo outta ere!

I think what youre not understanding is that you dont need consent to say ok to someone. Saying ok to someone is not weird....like at all

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twitterfriends
09/09/20 1:10:10 AM
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So stuck up lmao, should have showed your bank account first she wouldve been nicer if she saw that youre rich

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MabusIncarnate
09/09/20 1:10:31 AM
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TC approaches a prostitute

"So uh, I know you do this for money, but wanna sex me for free?"

Blank awkward stare

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:10:40 AM
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TooLateToGoBack posted...
dm her your shares of tesla stock

she'll come right back

someone has me tagged ;)

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CommonStar
09/09/20 1:11:36 AM
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yikes
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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:12:38 AM
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PlCCOLO posted...
oh fuck this is real? TC, seek help :(

Youre scaring me Piccolo. Lay the bad news on me.

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:13:46 AM
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The Popo posted...
I think what youre not understanding is that you dont need consent to say ok to someone. Saying ok to someone is not weird....like at all

Ok. Touche my friend.

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MrToothHasYou
09/09/20 1:14:26 AM
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Okay so I know this is probably fake but for anyone who ever finds themself stalking the Instagram profile of someone they saw on Bumble/Tinder, etc... if she wanted to talk to you she would have swiped right my dude. Dont message her, thats creepy as hell.

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:14:40 AM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
TC approaches a prostitute

"So uh, I know you do this for money, but wanna sex me for free?"

Blank awkward stare

I mean, youre the one that seems to have the experience with prostitutes. I wouldnt know

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weekoldhotdog
09/09/20 1:14:51 AM
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Is this what it's like to be cucked by a dating app?

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nfearurspecimn
09/09/20 1:15:07 AM
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MrToothHasYou posted...
Okay so I know this is probably fake but for anyone who ever finds themself stalking the Instagram profile of someone they saw on Bumble/Tinder, etc... if she wanted to talk to you she would have swiped right my dude. Dont message her, thats creepy as hell.

very good lesson to learn

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:21:00 AM
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MrToothHasYou posted...
Okay so I know this is probably fake but for anyone who ever finds themself stalking the Instagram profile of someone they saw on Bumble/Tinder, etc... if she wanted to talk to you she would have swiped right my dude. Dont message her, thats creepy as hell.

Tons of girls list their insta in their bio. Ive literally hooked up with girls and had long term relationships just from dming. Its not that big of a deal. She could have said Not interested or said nothing at all and blocked me. Not every girl has the same mentality.

In fact Im talking to another girl on insta who I did the same with tonight. We go to the same school and have similar interests so we clicked right away. Ive never had a girl get snippy like this over a hello message.

Edit:
I mean I do kinda see your point, but still. Theres nothing inherently wrong with saying hey whats up? How do you think guys approach girls in real life? You have to initiate some sort of conversation. If she says no, then obviously you have to back down. That is clearly not the problem in this scenario. I knew it was a lost cause from her very first message.

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daGamexx
09/09/20 1:21:26 AM
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TC is mentally ill.

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pauIie
09/09/20 1:22:42 AM
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hoping you're posting someone elses screenshots because those responses to her and then complaining to gamefaqs is pretty lame lol

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MrToothHasYou
09/09/20 1:22:47 AM
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clyde_frog posted...
Tons of girls list their insta in their bio. Ive literally hooked up with girls and had long term relationships just from dming. Its not that big of a deal. She could have said Not interested or said nothing at all and blocked me. Not every girl has the same mentality.

In fact Im talking to another girl on insta who I did the same with tonight. We go to the same school and have similar interests so we clicked right away. Ive never had a girl get snippy like this over a hello message.
I dont believe you, but if that was true then you seem to be a garbage person and you probably deserve whatever flak gets thrown your way.

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nfearurspecimn
09/09/20 1:22:50 AM
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That seriously you? You realize you lashed out as well, right?

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:25:03 AM
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MrToothHasYou posted...
I dont believe you, but if that was true then you seem to be a garbage person and you probably deserve whatever flak gets thrown your way.

@MrToothHasYou do you really think Im a garbage person for this? :/

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promero14
09/09/20 1:25:04 AM
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Well maybe she gets tons of creepy messages. Why would you DM a stranger though? It's just weird.

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:25:37 AM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
That seriously you? You realize you lashed out as well, right?

You mean at the end, or overall? Because yeah I do. I feel like shit now.

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weekoldhotdog
09/09/20 1:26:11 AM
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Pics of the girl you were simpin on or it didn't happen.

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skermac
09/09/20 1:27:12 AM
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She should have blocked you for stalking her

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:27:22 AM
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weekoldhotdog posted...
Pics of the girl you were simpin on or it didn't happen.

Shes nothing special, which makes this way more pathetic on my part.

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MabusIncarnate
09/09/20 1:28:46 AM
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You used a mental illness to insult her with in the last post, seriously. What the fuck?

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MrToothHasYou
09/09/20 1:29:58 AM
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clyde_frog posted...
@MrToothHasYou do you really think Im a garbage person for this? :/
Yeah. Literally the point of Bumble (and to a lesser extent Tinder) is to give people a measure of control over who they interact with by utilizing the matching system. Bumble in particular doesnt even let you talk to the girl unless she messages you first. Bypassing that just shows a girl that you arent going to respect any boundaries she might put up, its extremely creepy behavior. Some girls might not be bothered by the creepiness but its still the truth.

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Twelf
09/09/20 1:31:28 AM
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The people defending the girl here are the definition of white knights. She was increeibly rude.
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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:31:36 AM
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skermac posted...
She should have blocked you for stalking her



I feel like some of you dont understand the dynamics of using bumble. Alot of girls put their insta in their bio and say HMU. Forgive me if this one particular girl did not have those intentions behind putting her own insta out there. I didnt know she would take it so badly.

@MrToothHasYou what are your thoughts on this?

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Twelf
09/09/20 1:32:00 AM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
You used a mental illness to insult her with in the last post, seriously. What the fuck?

Garbage in, garbage out. She started it.
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CommonStar
09/09/20 1:33:52 AM
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I think it's funny that you censored her insta in that photo but not the OP
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Cornhuskers
09/09/20 1:34:14 AM
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Hey guyys i'm getting an Elliot Rodger vibe from this.

Cornhuskers out.
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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:34:50 AM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
You used a mental illness to insult her with in the last post, seriously. What the fuck?

She called me ugly and said its no wonder that Im single.

Did she really expect me to message her with a Is it acceptable if I talk with you? as my opener?

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kingdrake2
09/09/20 1:36:25 AM
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clyde_frog posted...
She called me ugly


there's another theory. somehow she could smell him through the computer monitor. his breath stink's "rancid breath".

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MrToothHasYou
09/09/20 1:37:35 AM
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clyde_frog posted...
I feel like some of you dont understand the dynamics of using bumble. Alot of girls put their insta in their bio and say HMU. Forgive me if this one particular girl did not have those intentions behind putting her own insta out there. I didnt know she would take it so badly.

@MrToothHasYou what are your thoughts on this?
I understand the dynamics of Bumble just fine, Ive been on dates with girls from Bumble, and Ive talked extensively with female friends who use it. I dont know a single one who prefers to be DMed on Instagram by a stranger they probably already swiped left on. Alternatively, I do know a few who put their snap in the profiles and use their snap to promote their onlyfans or patreon accounts. But thats business.

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clyde_frog
09/09/20 1:38:15 AM
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CommonStar posted...
I think it's funny that you censored her insta in that photo but not the OP

I. Am. Such. A. Dumbass. Made the correction in my op.

Also the bio screenshot is a different girl.

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