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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/23/20 4:19:52 PM
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i informed the guy she was talking to before anything bad happen. He thanked me and told me that without me his life could have been ruined without him knowing. I once talked to my aunt about it and my cousin got mad and won't talk to me anymore. Did I do the right thing?

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TheBlueMonk_
09/23/20 4:20:18 PM
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Geno4LoveGeno4L posted...
Did I do the right thing?
yeah probably.

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pfh1001
09/23/20 4:20:42 PM
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Absolutely.
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Zikten
09/23/20 4:20:55 PM
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Yes. She could have ruined someone's life
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Austin_Era_II
09/23/20 4:21:15 PM
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You did the right thing. Lying about age isn't right especially underage.

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SrRd_RacinG
09/23/20 4:21:43 PM
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Orlando_Jordan
09/23/20 4:22:23 PM
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In todays world, us men need to stick together.

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epik_fail1
09/23/20 4:23:54 PM
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Depending on where you live statutory rape might be a strict liability crime. I live in Canada where the AoC is 16, but the court allow the reasonable mistake of age defense for cases like this.

It might be an unpopular opinion, but I think minors who lie about being above legal age should be legally punished as someone who genuinely believe the person is of legal age should not be treated the same as someone who's actively grooming teenagers. The case should be dismissed it the person has proof of the lie. Of course in some circumstances, I don't think "I thought she was 18" should work. Like if a 10 years old lie about being 18, you still deserve jail time.

Also I know it can be a mood killer, but asking for IDs is a better solution than being convicted for statutory rape. Even if charges get taken down, you may still have your face all over the medias and have tons of people share the articles about it.

If you want to be subtle about it. Ask the person to meet in a bar and ask the bartender to ask that person for her(or his) IDs.

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PatrickMahomes
09/23/20 4:25:05 PM
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Zikten posted...
Yes. She could have ruined someone's life
And also her own too tbh

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epik_fail1
09/23/20 4:29:30 PM
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Orlando_Jordan posted...
In todays world, us men need to stick together.

On grindr. I found some minors who lied about being between 18 and 24. Looking at their facebook page might be a good idea as I got confirmation of their lies.

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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/23/20 4:35:04 PM
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PatrickMahomes posted...
And also her own too tbh

She claims it's unfair that "the hottest guys are in their late 20s and don't want her if she don't lie" -_-

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chrono625
09/23/20 4:38:02 PM
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This happened

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PatrickMahomes
09/23/20 4:43:55 PM
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Geno4LoveGeno4L posted...
She claims it's unfair that "the hottest guys are in their late 20s and don't want her if she don't lie" -_-
Well I'd say "you shouldn't want a guy who wants you even after you tell them you're 15"

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Lost_All_Senses
09/23/20 4:46:12 PM
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When I was 18, so many girls lied and told me they were older initially. Made me wish parents kept better tabs on their kids. Hypocritical, since I was 16 at parties, but I shouldn't of been. I now see how weird that was for adults to just not care. When I was 17,we literally made this house our party spot, where 2 40 year olds lived. There was a 14 year old girl running around there too. Bragging about being a slut. Imagine being 40 and allowing a drunk 14 year old girl in your house.

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littlebro07
09/23/20 4:48:29 PM
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It's dumb as hell that you can land on the sex offender registry for banging an underaged girl who lied and said she was 18+.

You absolutely did the right thing.

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ssj3vegeta2
09/23/20 4:49:25 PM
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epik_fail1
09/23/20 4:51:55 PM
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ssj3vegeta2 posted...
report her to da authorities wtf

Can you actually do that? Because I would actually do it because I litterally have seen minors(on facebook) bragging about lying about their age on grindr and I could actually consider doing this to prevent someone's life from being ruined. They were actually proud to deceive people.

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Gamerguymass
09/23/20 4:53:21 PM
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Does she actually look like she is 20? Puberty and humans are weird. There are 12 year olds that look 20 and 20 year olds that look 12.

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3PiesAndAFork
09/23/20 4:55:33 PM
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Geno4LoveGeno4L posted...
She claims it's unfair that "the hottest guys are in their late 20s and don't want her if she don't lie" -_-
Dude, even if she was 20 that english would be a huge turnoff.

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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/23/20 5:03:05 PM
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Gamerguymass posted...
Does she actually look like she is 20? Puberty and humans are weird. There are 12 year olds that look 20 and 20 year olds that look 12.

I am a bit biased since I have known her since she was a child I think not but I have a friend who thought she was 19

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garan
09/23/20 5:11:13 PM
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Geno4LoveGeno4L posted...
She claims it's unfair that "the hottest guys are in their late 20s and don't want her if she don't lie" -_-


Jesus man, your cousin needs therapy if she wants to bang guys twice her age.
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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/23/20 5:13:14 PM
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garan posted...
Jesus man, your cousin needs therapy if she wants to bang guys twice her age.

I won't blame her for attraction because I was attracted to milf when I was her age. My problem is that she lies to people and I never ever thought about ruining the lives of the Milfs I was attracted by lying about my age

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Politics
09/23/20 5:14:28 PM
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damn lmao

Good on you TC

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epik_fail1
09/23/20 5:44:18 PM
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Gamerguymass posted...
Does she actually look like she is 20? Puberty and humans are weird. There are 12 year olds that look 20 and 20 year olds that look 12.

Some people thought I was 16 when I was 22 and I thought it was annoying. Regardless I never was asked for ids even once when I got online dates. That said minors who do that deserve serious consequences and screw anyone who think this situation is the same as someone actively looking for it.

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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/23/20 6:39:42 PM
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Politics posted...
damn lmao

Good on you TC

Thank you very much

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Bad_Mojo
09/23/20 6:40:59 PM
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cjsdowg
09/23/20 6:46:07 PM
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If someone gets with her they can go to jail even when she lied.

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
09/23/20 7:04:05 PM
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Hell yes, an innocent person should not be punished because she is lying about her age especially if she is underage.

You did the right thing and probably saved a few peoples lives from being ruined.

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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/23/20 7:04:49 PM
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cjsdowg posted...
If someone gets with her they can go to jail even when she lied.

I know I live in Toronto so if she was one year older it would technically be legal but even if she turns 16 and lie about being 20 it would still be unethical as people would expect to meet a girl attending university she even went as far as making a false LinkedIn account -_-

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cjsdowg
09/23/20 7:12:06 PM
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Geno4LoveGeno4L posted...
I know I live in Toronto so if she was one year older it would technically be legal but even if she turns 16 and lie about being 20 it would still be unethical as people would expect to meet a girl attending university she even went as far as making a false LinkedIn account -_-
WOW you did the right thing BTW.

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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/23/20 7:13:50 PM
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cjsdowg posted...
WOW you did the right thing BTW.

Thank you I just hope she did not have the time to do any more victims of her lies

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
09/23/20 7:13:58 PM
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In canada if she is 16 isnt it still a murky area or do they consider it like the US with once a person turns 18 ??

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DirkDiggles
09/23/20 7:17:59 PM
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This happened.

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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/23/20 7:21:47 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
In canada if she is 16 isnt it still a murky area or do they consider it like the US with once a person turns 18 ??

https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/other-autre/clp/faq.html

Age of Consent to Sexual Activity
Consent to sexual activity
The age of consent is the age at which a young person can legally agree to sexual activity. Age of consent laws apply to all forms of sexual activity, ranging from kissing and fondling to sexual intercourse.
All sexual activity without consent is a criminal offence, regardless of age.
These are serious offences that carry serious penalties, including mandatory minimum penalties.
Canada's age of consent
The age of consent to sexual activity is 16 years. In some cases, the age of consent is higher (for example, when there is a relationship of trust, authority or dependency).
In other words, a person must be at least 16 years old to be able to legally agree to sexual activity.
Close in age exceptions
A 14 or 15 year old can consent to sexual activity as long as the partner is less than five years older and there is no relationship of trust, authority or dependency or any other exploitation of the young person. This means that if the partner is 5 years or older than the 14 or 15 year old, any sexual activity is a criminal offence.
There is also a "close in age" exception for 12 and 13 year olds. A 12 or 13 year old can consent to sexual activity with a partner as long as the partner is less than two years older and there is no relationship of trust, authority or dependency or any other exploitation of the young person. This means that if the partner is 2 years or older than the 12 or 13 year old, any sexual activity is a criminal offence.
Sexual exploitation
A 16 or 17 year old cannot consent to sexual activity if:
  • their sexual partner is in position of trust or authority towards them, for example their teacher or coach
  • the young person is dependent on their sexual partner, for example for care or support
  • the relationship between the young person and their sexual partner is exploitative
The following factors may be taken into account when determining whether a relationship is exploitative of the young person:
  • the young person's age
  • the age difference between the young person and their partner
  • how the relationship developed (for example, quickly, secretly, or over the internet)
  • whether the partner may have controlled or influenced the young person



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epik_fail1
09/23/20 7:24:08 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
In canada if she is 16 isnt it still a murky area or do they consider it like the US with once a person turns 18 ??

16 is legal unless there's a position of trust, but I don't recommend it if you are over 20 regardless of the law. I won't be judgemental for something like 16 and 19 being together though as they could have met in high school.

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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/23/20 8:44:27 PM
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DirkDiggles posted...
This happened.

Thankfully not as I prevented it from happening ^_^

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jon1012
09/23/20 9:08:43 PM
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Crazy. Pics of cousin in x<3 years

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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/23/20 9:08:45 PM
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I tried sending this video about this guy to my cousin do you think it will make her realise the consequences her lies can have?

https://youtu.be/thA3LJmZKkw

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3PiesAndAFork
09/23/20 9:47:39 PM
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Geno4LoveGeno4L posted...
I tried sending this video about this guy to my cousin do you think it will make her realise the consequences her lies can have?

https://youtu.be/thA3LJmZKkw
No idea. You tell us how it goes.

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awesome999
09/23/20 9:50:06 PM
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Reminds me of the case where the girl said she was 19 but she was 14 and the 20 year old guy lost his computer engineering career

https://youtu.be/thA3LJmZKkw
Yeah that's the one, got the numbers mixed up

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epik_fail1
09/23/20 10:03:03 PM
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awesome999 posted...
Reminds me of the case where the girl said she was 19 but she was 14 and the 20 year old guy lost his computer engineering career

https://youtu.be/thA3LJmZKkw
Yeah that's the one, got the numbers mixed up

He is not on the registry anymore. He is lucky the other judge was smart enough to remove him from it.

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nexigrams
09/23/20 10:06:12 PM
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That's so fucked up, especially if she looks like she could legitimately be 20. Honestly you should contact Tinder to try and get her IP banned, or even the cops, seriously. She's gonna get preggers or something and and some poor sap is gonna end up in jail because of her.

Jesus that's really scary.

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epik_fail1
09/23/20 10:11:32 PM
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nexigrams posted...
That's so fucked up, especially if she looks like she could legitimately be 20. Honestly you should contact Tinder to try and get her IP banned, or even the cops, seriously. She's gonna get preggers or something and and some poor sap is gonna end up in jail because of her.

Jesus that's really scary.

Tbh even if she "looked 16" and she lied and had a fake ID or something it should be treated differently.(assuming it's a late teen and not a litteral kid, nobody should take a lying 10 years old seriously)

But seriously imagine meeting in a bar and then learning that your date is like actually 15 when (s)he is at a place where they ask for ids. But some people are dumb and think we should treat the people who got catfished the same way we treat actual predators.

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
09/23/20 11:49:22 PM
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That is some diabolical shit and yeah innocent men getting their lives ruined by these liars is unacceptable.

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Geno4LoveGeno4L
09/24/20 9:52:15 AM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
That is some diabolical shit and yeah innocent men getting their lives ruined by these liars is unacceptable.

She claims it's not wrong because she "don't intend to ruin their lives" but correct me if I am wrong but the police can still arrest them even if she don't file a report right

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FortuneCookie
09/24/20 9:53:15 AM
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It's draconian that it's your responsibility to know a person isn't lying about their age.

Why does this country treat sex as the ultimate evil?

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Lost_All_Senses
09/24/20 1:38:47 PM
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Geno4LoveGeno4L posted...
I tried sending this video about this guy to my cousin do you think it will make her realise the consequences her lies can have?

https://youtu.be/thA3LJmZKkw

That judge was an Incel? Lol. He seemed like he was punishing the guy for having a booty call and it had nothing to do with the specific situation.

Literally trying to make him never get sex again by making him a Sex offender. >_>. That Judge needs to be laid more or get a new job.

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KamenRiderBlade
09/24/20 1:40:31 PM
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pfh1001 posted...
Absolutely.


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BeyondWalls
09/24/20 1:40:59 PM
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Geno4LoveGeno4L posted...
Did I do the right thing?
Fuck yes. Are you kidding me?

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epik_fail1
09/24/20 1:52:44 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
That judge was an Incel? Lol. He seemed like he was punishing the guy for having a booty call and it had nothing to do with the specific situation.

Literally trying to make him never get sex again by making him a Sex offender. >_>. That Judge needs to be laid more or get a new job.

There's tons of people that things like that happened to them. Met in a club, on dating apps after a lie. The medias love to paint them as predators, but thankfully the journalist who covered the story was one of the smart one.

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