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rahasperj
10/04/20 7:24:48 PM
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So I recently moved to Alabama temporarily to assist with disaster relief. And ever since I've gotten here I've had a crush on one of my coworkers. She's my bosses daughter so it's a little weird, but my boss is cool with it. She's a nice lady. Anyways we've been hanging out for a few days talking about life and stuff so we're friends. And today I asked her if she wanted to go check out the town with me tonight, since neither of us are from here.

For reference:

I'm 18
She's 22
My boss is 40's. She's like a mom to me.

Will keep you posted.

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Damn_Underscore
10/04/20 7:26:17 PM
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is she hot

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J03can
10/04/20 7:27:16 PM
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Nice bro!

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rahasperj
10/04/20 7:27:49 PM
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Damn_Underscore posted...
is she hot
Yes. She's incredibly beautiful. I've done a bit of casual flirting before this, but nothing too serious. For instance she dressed up the other day and I told her later that night as we were hanging, "You know, you looked really nice today."

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Touch
10/04/20 7:28:29 PM
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rahasperj posted...
Yes. She's incredibly beautiful. I've done a bit of casual flirting before this, but nothing too serious. For instance she dressed up the other day and I told her later that night as we were hanging, "You know, you looked really nice today."
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Damn_Underscore
10/04/20 7:28:51 PM
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how did you talk to your boss about liking her daughter

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rahasperj
10/04/20 7:33:08 PM
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Damn_Underscore posted...
how did you talk to your boss about liking her daughter
Well, my boss was the first person I met down here. And before I could actually get out into the field I did housework with her, and helped her prepare dinner, so we bonded over that time. And I figured she would know her daughter best, so I sat down with her, and steeled my nerves, and just told her. Then we talked for a minute, not everything was as great as I wanted to hear, but I'm an optimist so I eased up on the gas pedal a bit, and took it a bit slower.

None of this was easy lol. Especially since my sister's always mocked me relentlessly any time I said I liked someone, so there's some leftover trauma. Makes it hard to talk about this stuff.

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Damn_Underscore
10/04/20 7:34:13 PM
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when was she ok with you liking her daughter

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rahasperj
10/04/20 7:36:49 PM
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Damn_Underscore posted...
when was she ok with you liking her daughter
Pretty much from the start. She told me that she knew and it was obvious to her. And I said, "Really? It's so obvious?"

And she said, "Yeah to me anyways, she doesn't have a clue. When I pointed it out to her she didn't believe me."

When she told me that she told her before I even talked to anyone about it, my heart sank into my stomach lol.

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Damn_Underscore
10/04/20 7:40:48 PM
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rahasperj posted...
When she told me that she told her before I even talked to anyone about it, my heart sank into my stomach lol.

Why isn't that a good thing?

well it depends on how she talked about you to her I guess

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rahasperj
10/04/20 7:41:56 PM
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Damn_Underscore posted...
Why isn't that a good thing?

well it depends on how she talked about you to her I guess
Well good things I hope! I have the potential to be pretty charming at times.

The anticipation for a response is making me feel sick. I'm not used to this kind of thing.

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berlyman101
10/04/20 7:42:18 PM
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dude you gotta bang your boss first. don't be rude, she's hooking you up

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Damn_Underscore
10/04/20 7:43:25 PM
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what is attractive about her besides her looks?

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PatrickMahomes
10/04/20 7:46:53 PM
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WalkingLobsters
10/04/20 7:56:18 PM
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pics of boss

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MrResetti
10/04/20 7:59:58 PM
#16:


You better work on getting a fake ID pretty quick.

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yunalenne10
10/04/20 8:03:52 PM
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Love blossoming on the battlefield. So romantic!

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rahasperj
10/04/20 8:57:14 PM
#18:


Update:

I know why people drink now.

Update part 2: I've started drinking.

It went worse than awful.

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gna647
10/04/20 8:58:13 PM
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So you asked her

and she didn't respond yes or no?

what'd she do? Leave you on read? Or tell you she'll think about it?

sorry bro its a no.

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gna647
10/04/20 8:59:00 PM
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rahasperj posted...
Update:

I know why people drink now.

Update part 2: I've started drinking.

It went worse than awful.

Dang

she probably hopped on tinder to find some hot locals and shes probably getting demolished at this moment.

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rahasperj
10/04/20 9:18:33 PM
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So we clear debris and stuff from the roads. And while we do it, we're monitored by, well, monitors. And she texted me back:

"Sorry I'm hanging out with my monitor tonight."

So, I'm just going to go to bed before I do something irrational.

Goodnight bros.

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Damn_Underscore
10/04/20 9:21:32 PM
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monitor chad got TC :(

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smoke_break
10/04/20 9:26:09 PM
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Is her monitor a guy?

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rahasperj
10/04/20 9:26:58 PM
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smoke_break posted...
Is her monitor a guy?
Yeah.

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Mr_Rian
10/04/20 9:29:07 PM
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Trying is better than those that do nothing and expect everything do.
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gp1829
10/04/20 9:29:36 PM
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Pics of monitor.
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No_U_L7
10/04/20 9:29:55 PM
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as a seduction expert, these topics are so predictable...signs were all in the OP

at least you're in a new city with plenty of new girls
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smoke_break
10/04/20 9:30:51 PM
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rahasperj posted...
Yeah.
Damn, sorry man. It's good that you tried though.

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rahasperj
10/04/20 9:31:34 PM
#29:


gp1829 posted...
Pics of monitor.
Thanks for the laugh. I need it.

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sktgamer_13dude
10/04/20 9:32:21 PM
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No_U_L7 posted...
as a seduction expert, these topics are so predictable...signs were all in the OP

at least you're in a new city with plenty of new girls

Only thing youre an expert on is on how to make the same topic on GameFAQs for 10 years.

But for real TC, fucking sucks. Know how it feels to have a crush on someone who didnt have the same feelings back. Who knows though, maybe youll win her over.
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Damn_Underscore
10/04/20 9:32:57 PM
#31:


No_U_L7 posted...
as a seduction expert, these topics are so predictable...signs were all in the OP

what would you have done?

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rahasperj
10/04/20 9:34:13 PM
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You know, I've never even done this kind of thing before. So I don't even know what to do now.

Do I just, try again tomorrow?

Wait a week?

Not talk to her for a while?

All of these feel like they'll hurt.

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Vicious_Dios
10/04/20 9:34:16 PM
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Don't give up. Keep trying, dude.

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No_U_L7
10/04/20 9:35:33 PM
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Damn_Underscore posted...


what would you have done?


for starters, waited too long to make a move

for second, the offer to hang out was binary (too specific), it was either tonight or not at all

she happened to have plans with a guy tonight, but what if she just had plans with another friend...better to leave plans more open to her schedule
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Gamerguymass
10/04/20 9:35:58 PM
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rahasperj posted...
Well, my boss was the first person I met down here. And before I could actually get out into the field I did housework with her, and helped her prepare dinner, so we bonded over that time. And I figured she would know her daughter best, so I sat down with her, and steeled my nerves, and just told her. Then we talked for a minute, not everything was as great as I wanted to hear, but I'm an optimist so I eased up on the gas pedal a bit, and took it a bit slower.

None of this was easy lol. Especially since my sister's always mocked me relentlessly any time I said I liked someone, so there's some leftover trauma. Makes it hard to talk about this stuff.

Who knew asking the boss if you could bang their daughter wouldn't get you the response you wanted to hear?

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Dark_SilverX
10/04/20 9:36:35 PM
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berlyman101 posted...
dude you gotta bang your boss first. don't be rude, she's hooking you up
This or threesome.

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Damn_Underscore
10/04/20 9:40:05 PM
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rahasperj posted...
You know, I've never even done this kind of thing before. So I don't even know what to do now.

Do I just, try again tomorrow?

Wait a week?

Not talk to her for a while?

All of these feel like they'll hurt.

@No_U_L7 well?

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Blue_Dream87
10/04/20 9:40:21 PM
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I mean what if the dude ends up being a huge dick and she rejects him tonight?

Just stay her friend and see what happens.

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rahasperj
10/04/20 9:40:55 PM
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Damn_Underscore posted...
what is attractive about her besides her looks?
Well, to keep it simple, she's interesting.

It's so rare that I find someone who's as interesting as her. She's also got a really authority attitude which I didn't know I was into. Not in a bossy way, but in a, "You and me need to move this log, NOW!" Kind of way. Like she's always got a handle on things. She's also got really nice biceps which I also didn't know I was into. And she seems to genuinely care for me. Which is a rarity. And, our talks, they just got so personal, I thought there was something there.

I feel like giving up.

Every morning I wake up and hope tomorrow will be better, that something will change. Now I've got an all new setting, and all new people, and it's more of the same. I'm so tired of fighting losing battles every day.

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rahasperj
10/04/20 9:41:55 PM
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Gamerguymass posted...
Who knew asking the boss if you could bang their daughter wouldn't get you the response you wanted to hear?
The convention didn't go like that. And it was never about sex. I'm not interested in that.

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No_U_L7
10/04/20 9:42:54 PM
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rahasperj posted...
You know, I've never even done this kind of thing before. So I don't even know what to do now.

Do I just, try again tomorrow?

Wait a week?

Not talk to her for a while?

All of these feel like they'll hurt.


space it out a day, maybe 2

the monitor could just be her friend, but it doesnt really matter either way

when you ask her out, leave it more open ended than a specific night so it can fit into both of your schedules

learn to actually flirt...telling a girl "she looked really nice tonight" is not flirting
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Ziggyshack
10/04/20 9:45:21 PM
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Don't give up just yet, see how tomorrow goes. That should give you some indication on how things stand.

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MrResetti
10/04/20 9:53:50 PM
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gna647
10/04/20 10:07:24 PM
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lmao she's absolutely getting railed by her monitor AS WE SPEAK


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Damn_Underscore
10/04/20 10:08:30 PM
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what is a monitor anyway

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gna647
10/04/20 10:10:04 PM
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Damn_Underscore posted...
what is a monitor anyway

they monitor dat ass while TC is depressed drinking in his hotel room

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berlyman101
10/04/20 10:58:10 PM
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gna647 posted...
they monitor dat ass while TC is depressed drinking in his hotel room

I lol'd

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teepan95
10/05/20 1:34:07 AM
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You tried, TC. Props for that
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darkprince45
10/05/20 1:41:05 AM
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Bro, chad monitor cucked you.

youre probably too young for her anyways bro. Shes gonna want to be in bars or Herpetology. You too young for that

youll find another

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Dark_SilverX
10/05/20 1:41:32 AM
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gna647 posted...
they monitor dat ass while TC is depressed drinking in his hotel room
xD

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