friend came out as transgender?

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UnfairRepresent 10/06/20 5:43:50 AM #1:	Would it? Yes No Would it? - Results (82 votes) Yes 36.59% (30 votes) 30 No 63.41% (52 votes) 52 Just had this fat bald guy screaming for the past 20 minutes in the street because his son is transgender or something and now wants to be a girl. He's so loud and angry. And It's like so what? I just don't get what all the fuss is about. It's not like you have to do anything. --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! https://imgur.com/yPw05Ob <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:945513902] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote> Would it? Yes No Vote View Results Would it? - Results (82 votes) Yes 36.59% (30 votes) 30 No 63.41% (52 votes) 52 Show Voting Form Just had this fat bald guy screaming for the past 20 minutes in the street because his son is transgender or something and now wants to be a girl. He's so loud and angry. And It's like so what? I just don't get what all the fuss is about. It's not like you have to do anything.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Master_Bass 10/06/20 5:46:10 AM #2:	No, I'd feel bad for them that they're going through this, but I wouldn't love them any less and certainly wouldn't yell at them. I'd support whatever they decide to do. --- Many Bothans died to bring you this post. <cite>Master_Bass posted [p:945513944] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>No, I'd feel bad for them that they're going through this, but I wouldn't love them any less and certainly wouldn't yell at them. I'd support whatever they decide to do. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cobalt_Wasps 10/06/20 5:48:05 AM #3:	it takes a lot more than another persons identity to bother me --- there is no authority but yourself <cite>Cobalt_Wasps posted [p:945513964] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>it takes a lot more than another persons identity to bother me </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PMarth2002 10/06/20 6:05:30 AM #4:	No, although I'd probably worry for them. --- You load sixteen tons, what do you get? Another day older and deeper in debt <cite>PMarth2002 posted [p:945514161] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>No, although I'd probably worry for them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
toyota 10/06/20 6:13:42 AM #5:	Sort of. Because it would make me wonder, are they really trans or just a boy or girl who doesnt like toys/colors/activities etc generally associated with their gender. Cos there is a big difference and i feel that nowadays people treat not fitting into socially constructed gender roles as gender itself. <cite>toyota posted [p:945514251] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Sort of. Because it would make me wonder, are they really trans or just a boy or girl who doesnt like toys/colors/activities etc generally associated with their gender. Cos there is a big difference and i feel that nowadays people treat not fitting into socially constructed gender roles as gender itself. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InhumaneRaider 10/06/20 6:14:16 AM #6:	Nope. I'd support them as best as I can. --- Officer, I promise, she's a 300-year-old Vampire Dragon. You dare challenge probabilitizzle? Don't step to the wizard, 'cause the wizard don't play nice. <cite>InhumaneRaider posted [p:945514257] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Nope. I'd support them as best as I can. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamWincester 10/06/20 6:18:21 AM #7:	I would definitely be supportive while in their presence. They're friends/family so I couldn't turn my back on them over something that is outside their control. --- Supernatural fan fiction follower <cite>SamWincester posted [p:945514312] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>I would definitely be supportive while in their presence. They're friends/family so I couldn't turn my back on them over something that is outside their control.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Aki_Sora 10/06/20 6:22:28 AM #8:	No but if they try to force all of those agenda to me yes I mad. Like other day I eat at McDonald's and infront of the stores have VEGAN people protest say we kill animal and they try to stop people to go inside mcdonald's. Thank God the police came and make them go away --- This is GameFAQs and stating an opinion is a declaration of WAR! https://store.steampowered.com/wishlist/profiles/76561199023744394/ <cite>Aki_Sora posted [p:945514367] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>No but if they try to force all of those agenda to me yes I mad. Like other day I eat at McDonald's and infront of the stores have VEGAN people protest say we kill animal and they try to stop people to go inside mcdonald's. Thank God the police came and make them go away</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 10/06/20 6:36:51 AM #9:	McDonald's has vegan options doe --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! https://imgur.com/yPw05Ob <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:945514564] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>McDonald's has vegan options doe</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 10/06/20 4:19:36 PM #10:	The poll results are depressing --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! https://imgur.com/yPw05Ob <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:945532151] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>The poll results are depressing</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ving_Rhames 10/06/20 4:21:18 PM #11:	No. I would be worried about their safety even more though. --- the real Irving Rameses https://imgur.com/A7f6F9h <cite>Ving_Rhames posted [p:945532218] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>No. I would be worried about their safety even more though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doe 10/06/20 4:22:28 PM #12:	I've had at least 5 friends go from cis to they/them or mft/ftm in the past two years. Of course, I'm a Y2K-born zoomer and my generation rejects the gender binary. --- https://imgur.com/u5kY6Yt https://imgur.com/V6HBhkR <cite>Doe posted [p:945532268] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>I've had at least 5 friends go from cis to they/them or mft/ftm in the past two years. Of course, I'm a Y2K-born zoomer and my generation rejects the gender binary. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 10/06/20 4:22:43 PM #13:	Bothered? Yes. Id obviously try not to let my opinion change, but it would bother me. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:945532282] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Bothered? Yes. Id obviously try not to let my opinion change, but it would bother me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 10/06/20 4:29:51 PM #14:	cuttin_in_farm posted... Bothered? Yes. Id obviously try not to let my opinion change, but it would bother me. why tho --- http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:945532647] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite> <quote>Bothered? Yes. Id obviously try not to let my opinion change, but it would bother me.</quote>why tho </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/06/20 4:33:22 PM #15:	Neh. It would interest me I'd tell them they should sit with it for awhile before making any permanent decision. But that's my advice for 90% of things. --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:945532802] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Neh. It would interest me I'd tell them they should sit with it for awhile before making any permanent decision. But that's my advice for 90% of things. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bananana 10/06/20 4:35:04 PM #16:	SamWincester posted... I would definitely be supportive while in their presence. They're friends/family so I couldn't turn my back on them over something that is outside their control. Admitting its out of someones control and that youd still only support them in their presence you came so close --- http://error1355.com/ce/Bananana.html <cite>Bananana posted [p:945532871] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>SamWincester posted... </cite> <quote>I would definitely be supportive while in their presence. They're friends/family so I couldn't turn my back on them over something that is outside their control.</quote>Admitting its out of someones control and that youd still only support them in their presence you came so close </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Frogles 10/06/20 4:36:33 PM #17:	Choco posted... why tho trans people go through a lot of shit and have a high suicide rate. dunno why that wouldn't bother someone. --- Ahem...there's SAND on my boots! -Kefka <cite>Frogles posted [p:945532945] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Choco posted... </cite> <quote>why tho</quote>trans people go through a lot of shit and have a high suicide rate. dunno why that wouldn't bother someone. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nemu 10/06/20 4:36:45 PM #18:	Bother as in that it'd be a jarring experience if it's out of the blue and would take time to adjust, yes. Bother as in feel any negative feelings towards them, no. <cite>nemu posted [p:945532955] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Bother as in that it'd be a jarring experience if it's out of the blue and would take time to adjust, yes. Bother as in feel any negative feelings towards them, no. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GGuirao13 10/06/20 4:36:56 PM #19:	Not at all. --- Donald J. Trump--proof against government intelligence. <cite>GGuirao13 posted [p:945532965] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Not at all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 10/06/20 4:45:44 PM #20:	Choco posted... why tho Dunno. Not gonna pretend its because their life is immediately more dangerous. I mean, thats true too. I dont want their life to be harder. But I didnt grow up around it. Nor has it been accepted around me. So just like seeing gay people kiss or something, it bothers me. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:945533360] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Choco posted... </cite> <quote>why tho</quote> Dunno. Not gonna pretend its because their life is immediately more dangerous. I mean, thats true too. I dont want their life to be harder. But I didnt grow up around it. Nor has it been accepted around me. So just like seeing gay people kiss or something, it bothers me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Unsugarized_Foo 10/06/20 4:46:52 PM #21:	Yes it'd bother me because I'd have to be a good parent/sibling/friend I don't wanna put more effort into life --- "All I have is my balls and my word, and I don't break them for anyone!"-Tony Montana <cite>Unsugarized_Foo posted [p:945533408] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Yes it'd bother me because I'd have to be a good parent/sibling/friend I don't wanna put more effort into life </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yutterh 10/06/20 4:51:12 PM #22:	UnfairRepresent posted... The poll results are depressing I accidently hit he's, for some reason why brain thought it meant would I be supportive of them and I clicked yes that I would he lol But even though i would he supportive, it would be expensive if they were my kid. I would definitely have them go to a psychologist, someone who is transgender inclusive of course, to talk to them about the situation. The pills and doctor visits would also be expensive. I definitely would be against any kind of surgery on the groin though. I dont feel we are adequate enough medically to make the change personally. Maybe in the future when we can give then a real vagina and ovaries I would be more accepting of it. But now i would feel they might change their mind years down the road. Just because my daughter used to be a male doesn't mean she will go after other males. She may still be attracted to females and would like her to have the option of still reproducing. Edit: and if he is now my son then I would also leave the option open for him to reproduce using his old organ. Cause once you go through the surgery I dont believe that can be saved. --- MICHALECOLE is the greatest poster of all time I have literally watched him bang my mom before <cite>yutterh posted [p:945533588] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>UnfairRepresent posted... </cite> <quote>The poll results are depressing</quote> I accidently hit he's, for some reason why brain thought it meant would I be supportive of them and I clicked yes that I would he lol But even though i would he supportive, it would be expensive if they were my kid. I would definitely have them go to a psychologist, someone who is transgender inclusive of course, to talk to them about the situation. The pills and doctor visits would also be expensive. I definitely would be against any kind of surgery on the groin though. I dont feel we are adequate enough medically to make the change personally. Maybe in the future when we can give then a real vagina and ovaries I would be more accepting of it. But now i would feel they might change their mind years down the road. Just because my daughter used to be a male doesn't mean she will go after other males. She may still be attracted to females and would like her to have the option of still reproducing. Edit: and if he is now my son then I would also leave the option open for him to reproduce using his old organ. Cause once you go through the surgery I dont believe that can be saved. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 10/06/20 4:53:16 PM #23:	cuttin_in_farm posted... Dunno. Not gonna pretend its because their life is immediately more dangerous. I mean, thats true too. I dont want their life to be harder. But I didnt grow up around it. Nor has it been accepted around me. So just like seeing gay people kiss or something, it bothers me. Hopefully people respond to this calmly and don't attack you for being open about your influences and the direct effect they've had on you. Cause that would be the easy route that let's them feel superiority while not actually attempting to help with anything. I'm kind of similar. I wish for the best for all moral and well mannered people regardless of these types of semantics. But lying that it doesn't slightly feel a certain way seeing it, isn't gonna change anything. All I can do is not run away from exposure and try to allow it to normalize in my perspective --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:945533683] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite> <quote>Dunno. Not gonna pretend its because their life is immediately more dangerous. I mean, thats true too. I dont want their life to be harder. But I didnt grow up around it. Nor has it been accepted around me. So just like seeing gay people kiss or something, it bothers me.</quote> Hopefully people respond to this calmly and don't attack you for being open about your influences and the direct effect they've had on you. Cause that would be the easy route that let's them feel superiority while not actually attempting to help with anything. I'm kind of similar. I wish for the best for all moral and well mannered people regardless of these types of semantics. But lying that it doesn't slightly feel a certain way seeing it, isn't gonna change anything. All I can do is not run away from exposure and try to allow it to normalize in my perspective </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 10/06/20 5:09:17 PM #24:	Frogles posted... trans people go through a lot of shit and have a high suicide rate. dunno why that wouldn't bother someone. that was obviously not his point but yeah sure let's act like i'm a piece of shit for no reason --- http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:945534319] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Frogles posted... </cite> <quote>trans people go through a lot of shit and have a high suicide rate. dunno why that wouldn't bother someone.</quote>that was obviously not his point but yeah sure let's act like i'm a piece of shit for no reason </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 10/06/20 5:13:33 PM #25:	cuttin_in_farm posted... Dunno. Not gonna pretend its because their life is immediately more dangerous. I mean, thats true too. I dont want their life to be harder. But I didnt grow up around it. Nor has it been accepted around me. So just like seeing gay people kiss or something, it bothers me. :\| --- http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:945534491] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite> <quote>Dunno. Not gonna pretend its because their life is immediately more dangerous. I mean, thats true too. I dont want their life to be harder. But I didnt grow up around it. Nor has it been accepted around me. So just like seeing gay people kiss or something, it bothers me.</quote>:\| </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Garioshi 10/06/20 5:13:36 PM #26:	I'd treat them like any other person --- "I play with myself" - Darklit_Minuet, 2018 <cite>Garioshi posted [p:945534497] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>I'd treat them like any other person </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 10/06/20 5:15:56 PM #27:	Choco posted... :\| Choco posted... but yeah sure let's act like i'm a piece of shit for no reason --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:945534592] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Choco posted... </cite> <quote>:\|</quote> Choco posted... </cite> <quote>but yeah sure let's act like i'm a piece of shit for no reason</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 10/06/20 5:17:07 PM #28:	Erm there was a reason Consentual love bothers you. --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! https://imgur.com/yPw05Ob <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:945534641] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Erm there was a reason Consentual love bothers you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 10/06/20 5:18:41 PM #29:	cuttin_in_farm posted... bruh. it's literally just a :\| face --- http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:945534694] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite> <quote> </quote>bruh. it's literally just a :\| face </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AloneIBreak 10/06/20 5:19:49 PM #30:	No. It shouldnt even be a question. --- "Brief and powerless is Man's life; on him and all his race the slow, sure doom falls pitiless and dark." <cite>AloneIBreak posted [p:945534740] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>No. It shouldnt even be a question. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 10/06/20 5:22:30 PM #31:	Choco posted... bruh. it's literally just a :\| face You bolded a portion of my post. Dont play stupid. I literally just explained why in the first portion. Yet still you persist with the passive aggression. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:945534876] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Choco posted... </cite> <quote>bruh. it's literally just a :\| face</quote> You bolded a portion of my post. Dont play stupid. I literally just explained why in the first portion. Yet still you persist with the passive aggression. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Rinku_ 10/06/20 5:23:19 PM #32:	I've had more than one friend come out as transgender. Didn't bother me because I'm not an asshole. <cite>_Rinku_ posted [p:945534917] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>I've had more than one friend come out as transgender. Didn't bother me because I'm not an asshole. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doe 10/06/20 5:26:13 PM #33:	I dont think theres anything wrong with someone acknowledging a prejudice they struggle with due to the environment they were raised in. It sucks but it's a reality for many people. We culturally force upon kids from a young age the idea that two guys kissing is gross and nauseating. That bigotry utterly permeates basically everything made before/in the 00s. --- https://imgur.com/u5kY6Yt https://imgur.com/V6HBhkR <cite>Doe posted [p:945535051] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>I dont think theres anything wrong with someone acknowledging a prejudice they struggle with due to the environment they were raised in. It sucks but it's a reality for many people. We culturally force upon kids from a young age the idea that two guys kissing is gross and nauseating. That bigotry utterly permeates basically everything made before/in the 00s. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 10/06/20 5:28:17 PM #34:	cuttin_in_farm posted... You bolded a portion of my post. Dont play stupid. i bolded it because that's what my :\| was a reaction to. at first i was gonna quote only that sentence but i felt like that'd remove important context. i've had people quote me in questionable ways to make me look bad so i didn't want to do that. cuttin_in_farm posted... I literally just explained why in the first portion. which is why my reaction is just a :\| cuttin_in_farm posted... Yet still you persist with the passive aggression. bruh you really read way too much into that face like what --- http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:945535131] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite> <quote>You bolded a portion of my post. Dont play stupid.</quote>i bolded it because that's what my :\| was a reaction to. at first i was gonna quote only that sentence but i felt like that'd remove important context. i've had people quote me in questionable ways to make me look bad so i didn't want to do that. cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite> <quote>I literally just explained why in the first portion.</quote>which is why my reaction is just a :\| cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite> <quote>Yet still you persist with the passive aggression.</quote>bruh you really read way too much into that face like what </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkDaLunatic 10/06/20 5:28:24 PM #35:	of course it bothers me bro. why would it not bother me? i would be be upset because they were born in the wrong body and i would feel very sad that they have experienced that in their life, and i would do everything i can to make sure they are respected as their true gender and be there for them in the struggle (like early transition and stuff) <cite>LinkDaLunatic posted [p:945535135] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>of course it bothers me bro. why would it not bother me? i would be be upset because they were born in the wrong body and i would feel very sad that they have experienced that in their life, and i would do everything i can to make sure they are respected as their true gender and be there for them in the struggle (like early transition and stuff) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamWincester 10/06/20 6:01:57 PM #36:	UnfairRepresent posted... The poll results are depressing How? The majority wouldn't be bothered by this. --- Supernatural fan fiction follower <cite>SamWincester posted [p:945536469] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>UnfairRepresent posted...</cite> <quote>The poll results are depressing</quote> How? The majority wouldn't be bothered by this.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 10/06/20 6:03:37 PM #37:	Choco posted... bruh you really read way too much into that face like what Im sorry if thats the case. Ive tried being open and asking questions here before, and people are so defensive. I may have projected a bit. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:945536528] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>Choco posted... </cite> <quote>bruh you really read way too much into that face like what</quote> Im sorry if thats the case. Ive tried being open and asking questions here before, and people are so defensive. I may have projected a bit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
William_Rage 10/06/20 6:06:16 PM #38:	"Yeah, we knew all along." <cite>William_Rage posted [p:945536629] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>"Yeah, we knew all along." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MabusIncarnate 10/06/20 6:07:21 PM #39:	I'd support any life they wanted to live, it's not my life, or my place to say otherwise. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign, Twenty million starving and writhing in pain. =~=; Vicious_Dios Original - https://tinyurl.com/y9fpdoll <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:945536666] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>I'd support any life they wanted to live, it's not my life, or my place to say otherwise. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wii_Shaker 10/06/20 6:09:57 PM #40:	I would do my best to be supportive. --- "He busted in, blessed be the Lord Who believe any mess they read up on a message board" -MF DOOM <cite>Wii_Shaker posted [p:945536764] in Would it r... [t:79022902]...</cite> <quote>I would do my best to be supportive. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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