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bT-p_q-Td
11/08/20 9:32:53 PM
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What trait do you see as more important: being nice or being smart?


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cuttin_in_farm
11/08/20 9:38:19 PM
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Being nice.

EQ > IQ any day of the week.

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BloodMoon7
11/08/20 9:41:01 PM
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I used to be nice.

A lot of people just take advantage of you. It's better to be smart. You can be both of course, but nice and stupid is a bad combination.

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BuckVanHammer
11/08/20 9:42:01 PM
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kindness for sure.

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vigorm0rtis
11/08/20 9:42:18 PM
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Being smart. but any sufficiently intelligent person realizes that being polite and civil at the very least is both more expedient and just works better.

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11/08/20 9:42:58 PM
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cuttin_in_farm
11/08/20 9:44:09 PM
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BloodMoon7 posted...
I used to be nice.

If you stopped, then you were never actually nice or kind, but just polite yet spineless.

Theres an immense difference. Someone genuinely kind and nice doesnt just stop because they had negative experiences.

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Dark_SilverX
11/08/20 9:44:38 PM
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Smart. Being nice can land you in a basement.

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PrettyBoyFloyd
11/08/20 9:46:27 PM
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Being feared.

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Lairen
11/08/20 9:47:49 PM
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Smarts objectively better.

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BloodMoon7
11/08/20 9:49:56 PM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
If you stopped, then you were never actually nice or kind, but just polite yet spineless.

Theres an immense difference. Someone genuinely kind and nice doesnt just stop because they had negative experiences.
No I'm still polite irl. I'm also not completely spineless, that was actually a problem I had. I was afraid to stick up for myself and I was afraid to say no. I was afraid of disappointing people. I didn't stop because of my negative experiences either. I just stopped getting involved with others. I felt tired.

That said, I don't disagree. Genuine kindness requires bravery. I thought TC meant it in a more general sense. How many genuinely kind people do you meet after all? I just don't know anymore.

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CanuckCowboy
11/08/20 9:51:25 PM
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kindness.

A lot of people voting otherwise are probly the type to blame all negative interactions on everyone else being too stupid to comprehend them tbh.


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LonelyGamerZero
11/08/20 10:07:19 PM
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Nice. Cant help it.. No matter how badly Im treated, Im still at my core, genuinely nice. I dunno, maybe Im stupid or something...

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kinetika_
11/08/20 10:19:24 PM
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Being nice. Smart people can be assholes at times, which can be off putting to others.

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Evening_Dragon
11/08/20 10:19:55 PM
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BloodMoon7 posted...
I used to be nice.

A lot of people just take advantage of you. It's better to be smart. You can be both of course, but nice and stupid is a bad combination.

I think you're confusing being nice with being a wimp.

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ThanksUglyGod
11/08/20 10:21:33 PM
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Being nice, but to an extent.

I'd rather be a saint than a genius, but on the other hand I'd rather be an asshole than braindead.
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The Trent
11/08/20 10:21:46 PM
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I dont give points for being nice, thats basic shit

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nfearurspecimn
11/08/20 10:22:40 PM
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Evening_Dragon posted...
I think you're confusing being nice with being a wimp
are you assuming they weren't actually nice and they were just a wimp?

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CanuckCowboy
11/08/20 10:23:41 PM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
are you assuming they weren't actually nice and they were just a wimp?

You can be nice and not let people walk all over you.

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Evening_Dragon
11/08/20 10:24:40 PM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
are you assuming they weren't actually nice and they were just a wimp?

No, the nice part can be true of false, but being "walked all over" is a wimp thing, not a nice thing.

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ImmatureContent
11/08/20 10:25:06 PM
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BloodMoon7
11/08/20 10:25:20 PM
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Evening_Dragon posted...
I think you're confusing being nice with being a wimp.
I addressed that above. Perhaps it is so. But a large part of the reason I even said that I used to be nice is because that is what people told me.

I struggled with this because I didn't understand why people thought I was nice. I didn't feel like I was showing kindness. I was just doing what I could. It's all I could think of, out of my desperation.

So perhaps I wasn't nice, certainly. But that just means I can't trust other people's perception. So I am right to keep my distance today. Is that not so?

I don't know. I just didn't want to hurt anyone.

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berlyman101
11/08/20 10:27:20 PM
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depends. if I need something done once, it's probably less important that they be nice, but it's important it's done right. if I need you long term, I won't put up with shit.

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fuming
11/08/20 10:27:49 PM
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I don't think either is particularly important on their own. Someone can be a good person without either one.
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DoubleOSnake
11/08/20 10:29:34 PM
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do you think this question is kinda similar to , which one do you generally dislike more, stupid people or mean people?

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BloodMoon7
11/08/20 10:31:42 PM
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DoubleOSnake posted...
do you think this question is kinda similar to , which one do you generally dislike more, stupid people or mean people?
I dislike stupid people. They are more harmful. I believe that a mean person is easier to contain. Try stopping stupid. It's very difficult.

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ImmatureContent
11/08/20 10:32:26 PM
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Would you rather be friends with Forrest Gump or Dr. Gregory House? Pretty easy call for me.

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Prismsblade
11/08/20 10:35:09 PM
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Smarts, kindness can actually be as self destructive as stupidity oftentimes.

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Jshipp24
11/08/20 10:35:44 PM
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Depends on how extreme you're talking about. It you're very smart but aren't nice at all. It could lead you down very immoral lifestyle that takes advantage of others for personal gain. On the other side being really nice could lead to you having a extremely positive outlook on things but being too dumb to really do anything.
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DoubleOSnake
11/08/20 10:36:01 PM
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Prismsblade posted...
Smarts, kindness can actually be as self destructive as stupidity oftentimes.
why do you think this? you don't think all that highly of how kind most people are?

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CanuckCowboy
11/08/20 10:36:44 PM
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Prismsblade posted...
Smarts, kindness can actually be as self destructive as stupidity oftentimes.

Wut?

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DoubleOSnake
11/08/20 10:38:37 PM
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idk but maybe the world would be a better place if kind was valued more than smart. Do you agree?

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Evening_Dragon
11/08/20 10:40:36 PM
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Jshipp24 posted...
Depends on how extreme you're talking about. It you're very smart but aren't nice at all. It could lead you down very immoral lifestyle that takes advantage of others for personal gain. On the other side being really nice could lead to you having a extremely positive outlook on things but being too dumb to really do anything.

It depends on the kind of smart. There are people who are very good at certain subjects, but the inability to get along with people means they'll never get very high in anything that depends on a hierarchy.

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Jiek_Fafn
11/08/20 10:41:06 PM
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I dont care whether you're smart or nice. I only accept the strong. Just me and Trump at the top. Forever

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Evening_Dragon
11/08/20 10:41:45 PM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
I dont care whether you're smart or nice. I only accept the strong. Just me and Trump at the top. Forever

This man savors his cheetos.

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BloodMoon7
11/08/20 10:43:13 PM
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DoubleOSnake posted...
idk but maybe the world would be a better place if kind was valued more than smart. Do you agree?
No.

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nfearurspecimn
11/08/20 10:44:16 PM
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You don't get very far being kind but not being smart, but I enjoy people that are kind more than people that are mean and smart overall.

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Evening_Dragon
11/08/20 10:47:28 PM
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nfearurspecimn posted...
You don't get very far being kind but not being smart, but I enjoy people that are kind more than people that are mean and smart overall.

I can think of at least one exception: Being a substitute abuelita for a block of poor kids. They all grow up and take care of you. That's a somewhat common story from the immigrant waves.

You're mostly right, but this topic could use some pep, geez.

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AlisLandale
11/08/20 10:49:13 PM
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On a scale of 1-10, what are the differences we're talking here? Are we min-maxing or just taking advantages over the average?

A 10 nice/0 smart and 0 nice/10 smart?

Or a 5 nice/8 smart and 8 nice / 5 smart?

Ultimately it depends on what you want out of life. I'd prefer to be smart because I enjoy creating things, and intelligence helps with that. Most of the betterment of my intelligence has been a result of trying to do something. I can always pretend to be nice. >_>

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Prismsblade
11/08/20 10:58:30 PM
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DoubleOSnake posted...
why do you think this? you don't think all that highly of how kind most people are?
Becuase a smart person will evaluate and consider all possible options, scenarios and outcomes without being clouded by morals or principals.

A kind person will only consider what is within their morals and principals, sometimes to the point that they wont even think or consider anything outside of said boundaries.

Which can, and oftentimes lead to to dictators at worst or stagnation at best.

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Evening_Dragon
11/08/20 11:16:45 PM
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lmao

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