Poll of the Day > should a gf or wife have guy friends?

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I dont see why not, but if the bf or husband isnt comfortable with it I could definitely see it causing problems, jealousy needs to be recognized as valid in some situations

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HornedLion posted...

All Im saying is... if theres any men reading this... hit the gym, move up at your job(if youre entry level become a supe, if youre a supe become a manager, etc.), eat healthy, set boundaries, dont tolerate disrespect, be open and unapologetic about your needs/wants, dont ever let society dictate for you what you should or shouldnt tolerate, teach your children the same(youre raising leaders not subordinates), etc.

This is a you problem more than anything. I think working on your trust issues is better than all that advice combined. You'll be a lot more happy for it and that in turn will help your mental state more than anything. Also that advice isn't just limited to men.

I find it hard to trust but don't have it so bad that if I were with someone I'd demand they only have same sex friends as that's not a guarantee to stop cheating but more importantly I'd trust someone I'm with and not be insecure. If I didn't I wouldn't be with said person. Trust is very important in any relationship.

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Nope.

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NO DAYS OFF

RISE and GRIND

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I just finished reading this book called Made for Love and I've got a question for y'all: would you get a chip implanted in your brain that melded your brain with yours partner's? Like a constant livestream of their thoughts and feelings and sensory input alongside your own?

JigsawTDC posted...

I just finished reading this book called Made for Love and I've got a question for y'all: would you get a chip implanted in your brain that melded your brain with yours partner's? Like a constant livestream of their thoughts and feelings and sensory input alongside your own?

That would make for some mind blowing sex

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JigsawTDC posted...

I just finished reading this book called Made for Love and I've got a question for y'all: would you get a chip implanted in your brain that melded your brain with yours partner's? Like a constant livestream of their thoughts and feelings and sensory input alongside your own?

fuck no

I have never come close to trusting somebody that much. I dont ever want to get married, let alone mindmeld with somebody

I really don't get the whole phone or certain passwords argument. I get it if the partner in question pushes for it and you want to keep that stuff private, but I don't think it's that weird to share information or electronics with each other.

Like, my SO and I are in a longterm relationship and we use each others phones from time to time. We also use each other's vehicles, computers, tvs, electronics, clothes, etc.

Its definitely a trust issue if you think your partner will search through your phone imo. But your partner also has trust issues if they keep pushing to have access to that stuff.

And yes, everyone should respect everyone else's privacy. However, when you enter into a long term relationship with someone you do give up some privacy.

JigsawTDC posted...

I just finished reading this book called Made for Love and I've got a question for y'all: would you get a chip implanted in your brain that melded your brain with yours partner's? Like a constant livestream of their thoughts and feelings and sensory input alongside your own?

Heck no. An essential part of what makes a healthy relationship is that you don't lose your individuality. That's like a whole new level of enmeshment.

sure, the woman i got pregnant has tons of male friends, and her husband doesnt seem to care as long as we bring beer, ok?

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