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SomeLikeItHoth
05/27/21 3:29:51 AM
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fuming
05/27/21 3:32:29 AM
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Shes 18, I dont get to decide
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Naysaspace
05/27/21 3:35:15 AM
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Yes

But I'd also allow myself to bust out the 12-gauge whenever he picks her up, and post up on my porch and puff out my chest, staring him down without blinking as he meekly drives away.

because of the implication
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JTilly
05/27/21 3:36:15 AM
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fuming posted...
Shes 18, I dont get to decide


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JTilly
05/27/21 3:37:57 AM
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dantesdmc posted...
Hell no. That's too big a gap. 18 being mature is an outdated idea. Even most 25 year olds are not fully mentally mature.
Shes 18, wth you gnna do, hold her against her will? smh

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Smashingpmkns
05/27/21 3:38:30 AM
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My 18 year old daughter is going to be a NEET just like her daddy
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Dark_SilverX
05/27/21 3:46:20 AM
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as long as he look like Bill Gates

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Christian RULES
05/27/21 3:49:15 AM
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Yes, her body her choice

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Naysaspace
05/27/21 3:50:09 AM
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JTilly posted...
wth you gnna do, hold her against her will? smh
In english next time, please

But yes. If she lives at home, that's my property, and I decide who gets to drive up to my lot. If some 35 year old sleezeball drives up, The landowner can tell him to fuck the hell off.
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Guide
05/27/21 3:51:41 AM
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I would raise her to know better than that. At least, I'd hope so.

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toyota
05/27/21 3:54:39 AM
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im 32 interested in a 22 year old (turning 23 this year) is that too much of an age gap?
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JTilly
05/27/21 3:58:02 AM
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toyota posted...
im 32 interested in a 22 year old (turning 23 this year) is that too much of an age gap?
Absolutely not to much of an age gap toyota carry on my good friend

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JTilly
05/27/21 3:59:05 AM
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Naysaspace posted...
In english next time, please

But yes. If she lives at home, that's my property, and I decide who gets to drive up to my lot. If some 35 year old sleezeball drives up, The landowner can tell him to fuck the hell off.
Youre daughter is your property??

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Joohny
05/27/21 4:24:34 AM
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That's what shotguns are for
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Joohny
05/27/21 4:25:43 AM
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toyota posted...
im 32 interested in a 22 year old (turning 23 this year) is that too much of an age gap?
Half your age plus seven bro.
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008Zulu
05/27/21 4:29:16 AM
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If she's 18, she's out of the house and able to make her own decisions.

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Dark_SilverX
05/27/21 4:33:56 AM
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JTilly posted...
Youre daughter is your property??


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cuttin_in_farm
05/28/21 11:27:24 AM
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fuming posted...
Shes 18, I dont get to decide

People with this logic make me laugh.

What, on her 18th birthday, you just stop caring and stop being a parent?

Yall are crazy.

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Taharqa_
05/28/21 11:29:23 AM
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I can't force her to cut off contact (especially if she doesn't live under my roof), but I would not approve.

I'm 35 right now, there's nothing an 18 year old can do for me.

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littlebro07
05/28/21 11:30:59 AM
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fuming posted...
Shes 18, I dont get to decide

this

I would be creeped the fuck out by it knowing that guy was 17 when she was born and Id probably let it be known that Im not very comfortable with it but ultimately she is an adult so theres nothing I could do

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The Top Crusader
05/28/21 11:37:37 AM
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If she is 18 I don't think I can really do anything, I suppose if she's still living at home I can pull the "my house, my rules!" card. Generally speaking I would not be in favor of such a big age difference, particularly when she's 18. It's always weird but when she's 38 and he's 55 it doesn't seem as bad.

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IfGodCouldDie
05/28/21 11:38:37 AM
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Guide posted...
I would raise her to know better than that. At least, I'd hope so.


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cuttin_in_farm
05/28/21 11:52:21 AM
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ArmieBuff posted...
You legally can't do anything about "allowing" at that age other than kick them out or disown them which would speak to what your true priorities are.

If you think those are your only options, then you need to think harder.

When your daughter starts coming home at 3 am on acid, youre just gonna shrug and go Welp! Youre 18! Cant do anything!?

What?


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cuttin_in_farm
05/28/21 12:06:06 PM
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ArmieBuff posted...
Tell me what you're going to do to "allow" a legal adult to not date someone you don't approve of?

Talk to them? Tell them to not be with him? Be a parent?

Unless my daughter is making millions, shes still being claimed on my taxes and under my house at 18. Shes a dependent.

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cuttin_in_farm
05/28/21 12:21:25 PM
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ArmieBuff posted...
That's not "not allowing", that's voicing disapproval. You still can't force them to break up unless you're saying you're willing to kick out/stop supporting your child because of it.

I mean, I cant make her come home before curfew either, but Im pretty sure youre being too technical.

I dont allow my daughter to be out past midnight doesnt mean I LITERALLY am forcing her to come home with a shock collar or something.

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cuttin_in_farm
05/28/21 12:34:05 PM
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ArmieBuff posted...
You legally can mandate your underage children to not go out at night. You can't do that with an adult obviously.
You're giving your adult children curfews?

Dog, just because youre 18 doesnt mean a kid wont have rules. What kinda parents did you have?

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KStateKing17
05/28/21 12:46:11 PM
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Guide posted...
I would raise her to know better than that. At least, I'd hope so.
This. If she still decides that's what she wants I legally couldn't do anything. He isn't allowed in my home though.

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awesome999
05/28/21 12:49:19 PM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...


Dog, just because youre 18 doesnt mean a kid wont have rules. What kinda parents did you have?

You can set them rules but you can't make them follow them. Not once they're 18 and have their own residence
And the tragedy is that they do it for the attention so the more you rebel the tighter she holds on
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cuttin_in_farm
05/28/21 12:52:59 PM
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awesome999 posted...
You can set them rules but you can't make them follow them. Not once they're 18 and have their own residence
And the tragedy is that they do it for the attention so the more you rebel the tighter she holds on

If she has her own place, thats a different story. But so long as shes in my home, she abides by my rules. If my parenting didnt prevent it already, I will have to intervene.

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Its not about behaving or not. Its about safety. Especially since not everyone had phones when I was growing up.

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A curfew is not a lot of rules.

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Yes. If need be.

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cuttin_in_farm
05/28/21 12:56:47 PM
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ArmieBuff posted...
Your thinking is outdated. Corporal punishment is child abuse and is steadily becoming illegal.

Are you white, by chance?

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420TwiZtiD420
05/28/21 12:57:29 PM
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fuming posted...
Shes 18, I dont get to decide


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electricbugs2
05/28/21 1:00:44 PM
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If when she was 18 my daughter wanted to be a pornstar I would just kind of shrug tbqh. She can date whoever she wants and do whatever she wants at that point.

Now granted if the dude is a goober Ill be up in his business, but at that point Im not her boss anymore.

The people saying that theyll control who she dates as an adult should probably not have kids.

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Zeus
05/29/21 3:02:33 PM
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fuming posted...
Shes 18, I dont get to decide

This, kinda, although if she's still living in their house, they have some say.


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