Current Events > Do fat women have trouble online dating?

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I downloaded a few apps for dating this last week.

Being black and not particularly jacked (albeit toned), I didnt expect too much. But what I noticed was that 98% of the women who liked or swiped on me were fat. Like, obese fat.

I mean. I clearly state I like doing outdoor activities like skating or hiking in my profiles. So I am a little lost.

Do fat women have difficulty dating online? I assumed other dudes were thirsty for anything tbh.

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That sucks fam lmao.

Hmm, is it hard for ugly people to find success in online dating? Gee, I wonder.

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They might think theyd have more luck with black guys because of several stereotypes:
1) black guys loving big asses
2) black guys being hyper sexual and wanting to fuck everything
3) obesity rates for black women might make it seem like black men prefer fat girls

Or its just that fat women are desperate and swipe yes on everyone, whereas attractive women are swiping no on you (sorry).

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They get laid often enough and then feel horrible when the person stops talking to them immediately afterward. The feeling of disgust washing over the 6 of a dude lowering himself to shag a 2 just because his dick compelled him to. Well now his dick is satisfied and he has to look over at the ham gazing over at him with moon eyes. She's drenched in sweat and breathing heavily despite putting forth effort akin to a sentient pile of laundry. He's plotting the best method for him to leave as fast as possible, completely ghosting her afterward as his self-hatred prevents him from lowering himself again for another few months. She watches a bunch of self-love videos on YouTube while comforting herself with a half-gallon of great value ice cream.

So they succeed at online fucking, but fail at online dating.
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HerbSaunders posted...

They get laid often enough and then feel horrible when the person stops talking to them immediately afterward. The feeling of disgust washing over the 6 of a dude lowering himself to shag a 2 just because his dick compelled him to. Well now his dick is satisfied and he has to look over at the ham gazing over at him with moon eyes. She's drenched in sweat and breathing heavily despite putting forth effort akin to a sentient pile of laundry. He's plotting the best method for him to leave as fast as possible, completely ghosting her afterward as his self-hatred prevents him from lowering himself again for another few months.

So they succeed at online fucking, but fail at online dating.

Sir, this is a yoghurt stand

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Kakapo posted...

Sir, this is a yoghurt stand

Hey I had more to add to my rant. Requote me please.
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radical rhino posted...

whereas attractive women are swiping no on you (sorry).

To be expected. Online dating swings wayyyy too far in womens favor as far as matching goes.

But I was hoping to get like an average girl or something. I consider myself an above average face and average body. I will say, the lack of attention from people thinner is odd.

Master Kazuya posted...

Hmm, is it hard for ugly people to find success in online dating? Gee, I wonder.

You dont think women in general would have an easier time? I guess I could have been having some incorrect preconceptions. My opinion of dudes and their lack of standards is that bad.

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It used to be (and probably is still the case) that theres 10 times more men than women on dating sites, so women can be extremely choosy assuming they dont just quit using the site after having their inbox flooded with dick pics and sexual harassment. Paid sites like Match have a better ratio for the men, and attract people who are serious about starting a relationship. With Tinder becoming so popular and mainstream several years ago, it might be that more women are using dating apps now than 10 years ago.

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cuttin_in_farm posted...

To be expected. Online dating swings wayyyy too far in womens favor as far as matching goes.

But I was hoping to get like an average girl or something. I consider myself an above average face and average body. I will say, the lack of attention from people thinner is odd.

You dont think women in general would have an easier time? I guess I could have been having some incorrect preconceptions. My opinion of dudes and their lack of standards is that bad.

You are correct in the fact that a lot of men would stick their dick in a dumpster if it had a wet hole.

But when said dumpster is looking for a boyfriend and never has a dude dump more than one load in her, she certainly considers herself a failure.
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Something tells me Herb has stuck his dick in a couple dumpsters.

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I think it depends on HOW fat. Someone really quite large might have some trouble unless the other person sees past it or is even into it, but someone just a bit chubby like me can get by. I usually swipe yes on dorky looking or chubby guys because they're easier to attract than some bronze skinned toned guy. Besides, I like porky guys. I guess it depends on what you're looking for and what you think you can obtain.

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doesnt matter how fat that broad is, there will always be some playa that wants dat cake.

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radical rhino posted...

Paid sites like Match have a better ratio for the men, and attract people who are serious about starting a relationship.

I guess this is true. Ill look into it tbh.

SableWolfAngel posted...

I think it depends on HOW fat. Someone really quite large might have some trouble unless the other person sees past it or is even into it, but someone just a bit chubby like me can get by. I usually swipe yes on dorky looking or chubby guys because they're easier to attract than some bronze skinned toned guy. Besides, I like porky guys. I guess it depends on what you're looking for and what you think you can obtain.

hm. I definitely overestimated the value some women have online then. Interesting. Some of these women have like, 10 rolls of legs. Like, they most likely waddle instead of walk.

I dunno. I never really thought about what their experience is.

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Yea, Im noticing. I also notice people must not actually care for bios. There are plenty of women who have similar interests to me based on our bios, but nothing.

But women who have blatantly opposing bio info try to like me. I dont understand lol.


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I assume they feel some effect because back when I played around with a dating app, I liked some fat chicks and almost 99% would get matched back.

But I just have casual conversation with them, not going anywhere. Then I slowly slip away.

I don't worry for them though, some guys like from CE will snatch them up.

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It depends on what you mean by fat. Like they could lose 20 pounds or they could lose 50+ pounds? Big difference.

When I was online dating, I had a mix of women who were interested but I personally only matched with average weight or kinda chubby women. I left swiped on anyone actually obese even though I knew many had right swiped on me. Just the way it is.

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Yes and no.

Their problem is they get only the guys they don't really want cause the chads ignore them.

You have to understand that for men and women the problem is always different.

For men, if they are ugly, they struggle for any attention from women.

For women, if they are ugly, they struggle to find men who want more than a one night stand.
Even fat women can get sex easy but women don't value that like men do.

By that I don't mean women don't like sex, it is just they don't have the same kinda desperation for it men seem to have.
Tbh, for many men, sex is infact less about the pleasure of sex than it is to confirm they are desired and valuable.

Yea it's the stereotype that black guys will date any white girl no matter what.

See Lisa Lampanelli's stand-up for more on this. She's a white woman with black kids and only dates black guys.

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Good luck TC... Online dating kind of sucks. Make sure you have the most flattering pictures possible, list your job if it's impressive, if you live in a small area maybe expand your location to the nearest big city because sometimes finding the right person does involve broadening your horizons quite literally.

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Do fat women have trouble online dating

In general, yeah. They can get dicked down easily but snagging a dude for an LTR is rough.
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With how prevalent fat art is on DA and elsewhere, you'd think there'd be no dearth of people looking to do the wang dang tango with a sapient lardsack.

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Do fat women have trouble online dating?

For hook ups with chunk chasers?
No. Plenty of them. Hook up apps facilitate "preferences" like pizza delivery.

Finding a top tier good looking successful guy willing to put any $$$ down and time on committing to that?
Yes. That is typically the fat woman's HARD MODE. Top tier men can afford to have higher standards (ie: she weighs less than 200lbs).

Most fat women looking for a superdude want that ring. THAT is the end goal.
The attractive supermen are typically only looking for THEIR definition of a superwoman.
Some will still hook up with her, but the ring is usually going to be reserved for a more impressive catch.

I don't even have an issue with big women shooting their shot. Its just healthier when they're real about what to expect...

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Robot2600 posted...

See Lisa Lampanelli's stand-up for more on this. She's a white woman with black kids and only dates black guys.

Sir this is false

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I'm willing to wager that fat unattractive women still get laid more frequently than fat unattractive men.

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Not if they use that iteration of TInder called Whaler.

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Wii_Shaker posted...

I'm willing to wager that fat unattractive women still get laid more frequently than fat unattractive men.

It think that is what everyone is saying. They can get laid easily but hard for them to find something that lasts.

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