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KainFourteh 07/03/21 1:11:22 AM #52:	Do it anyway, as his opinion in the matter is worthless. If you're asking a father for permission in the first place in this day and age, then you've got issues. <cite>KainFourteh posted [p:955694400] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>Do it anyway, as his opinion in the matter is worthless. If you're asking a father for permission in the first place in this day and age, then you've got issues. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JimmyFraska 07/03/21 1:15:15 AM #53:	You don't go through with it. I want to be with a girl who has a good relationship with her father. If they are in a situation where I have to pull her away from him, then I don't want to be with her at all. I asked my gf's dad, because that's what she prefers, so this is still a thing. <cite>JimmyFraska posted [p:955694462] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>You don't go through with it. I want to be with a girl who has a good relationship with her father. If they are in a situation where I have to pull her away from him, then I don't want to be with her at all. I asked my gf's dad, because that's what she prefers, so this is still a thing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RIPVyseCity 07/03/21 1:16:33 AM #54:	I asked my wife's dad. He paid for whole wedding so that was nice <cite>RIPVyseCity posted [p:955694491] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>I asked my wife's dad. He paid for whole wedding so that was nice </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 07/03/21 1:21:25 AM #55:	The amount of people who are scoffing at asking the father is insane. Its just a nice gesture. Fucking weirdos lol. I would totally tell her parents what my plans are at the least. Its basically the same thing. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:955694573] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>The amount of people who are scoffing at asking the father is insane. Its just a nice gesture. Fucking weirdos lol. I would totally tell her parents what my plans are at the least. Its basically the same thing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
jdb78 07/03/21 4:29:01 AM #56:	jumi posted... You don't ask her dad for his permission or for ownership of her, you ask for his blessing. Then if he refuses, fuck 'im. This. <cite>jdb78 posted [p:955697264] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>jumi posted... </cite> <quote>You don't ask her dad for his permission or for ownership of her, you ask for his blessing. Then if he refuses, fuck 'im.</quote> This. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xavier_On_High 07/03/21 5:02:48 AM #57:	I would assume he said no out of jealousy, so I would then ask her dad for his hand in marriage. Then, when he says yes, make him sign a prenup assigning ownership of his daughter to me. Check and mate. --- http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltnafhjcUz1qmxswbo1_500.gif <cite>Xavier_On_High posted [p:955697576] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>I would assume he said no out of jealousy, so I would then ask her dad for his hand in marriage. Then, when he says yes, make him sign a prenup assigning ownership of his daughter to me. Check and mate. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Arcanine2009 07/03/21 5:28:14 AM #58:	1NfamousACE_2 posted... What do you do from there? elope --- Less is more. Everything you want, isn't everything you need. <cite>Arcanine2009 posted [p:955697801] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>1NfamousACE_2 posted... </cite> <quote>What do you do from there?</quote>elope </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Verdekal 07/03/21 5:34:38 AM #59:	Why he gotta be so cruel? --- Don't tease the octopus, kids! <cite>Verdekal posted [p:955697850] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>Why he gotta be so cruel? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ROBANN_88 07/03/21 6:03:50 AM #60:	"i'm not asking you, i'm telling you it's gonna happen" --- https://imgur.com/cUNC8DI <cite>ROBANN_88 posted [p:955698096] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>"i'm not asking you, i'm telling you it's gonna happen" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sabrestorm 07/03/21 6:15:33 AM #61:	Trumble posted... Pretend I never spoke to him, and ask her mom. ~~For real though, do people even still do the whole "ask the parents" thing?~~ why wouldnt they? Its called respect <cite>sabrestorm posted [p:955698201] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>Trumble posted... </cite> <quote>Pretend I never spoke to him, and ask her mom. For real though, do people even still do the whole "ask the parents" thing?</quote> why wouldnt they? Its called respect </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 07/03/21 9:14:33 AM #62:	sabrestorm posted... why wouldnt they? Its called respect treating your partner like property doesn't seem respectful --- https://imgur.com/286sD4e http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:955700332] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>sabrestorm posted... </cite> <quote>why wouldnt they? Its called respect</quote>treating your partner like property doesn't seem respectful </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/03/21 9:21:19 AM #63:	I did not ask my ex wife's father. Even 22 years ago, I felt it wasn't his place. But I will admit that I felt kinda bad after the fact, because it might have just been a nice gesture and he would have said "yes". Not sure what I will do next time, if there is a next time. For the first time post divorce, I am starting to think that there will be a next time. --- Currently playing: Mario Golf: Super Rush, Super Mario Sunshine <cite>bsp77 posted [p:955700438] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>I did not ask my ex wife's father. Even 22 years ago, I felt it wasn't his place. But I will admit that I felt kinda bad after the fact, because it might have just been a nice gesture and he would have said "yes". Not sure what I will do next time, if there is a next time. For the first time post divorce, I am starting to think that there will be a next time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 07/03/21 9:24:30 AM #64:	Shrug and tell him ok, thanks for saving me time and money, BTW your daughter sucks a cock like no ones business. Then move on to a new woman with no fucks given. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:955700483] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>Shrug and tell him ok, thanks for saving me time and money, BTW your daughter sucks a cock like no ones business. Then move on to a new woman with no fucks given. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
shiby with it 07/03/21 9:30:32 AM #65:	I'll ask her dad for his blessing out of respect. If he says no, the respect is lost, so I'll ask her anyway. --- ...I knew this 45 year old guy, goes by the name of Uncle Slappy, used to hang out on the corner of 56th and Rucker... -SArmstr0ng <cite>shiby with it posted [p:955700586] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>I'll ask her dad for his blessing out of respect. If he says no, the respect is lost, so I'll ask her anyway. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RedJackson 07/03/21 9:32:31 AM #66:	You gotta have sex with the guy so he knows that his daughter/son is gonna get into eventually --- https://imgur.com/e6aBSof - Pus_N_Pecans original! https://imgur.com/bve6U7T - Error1335 original! <cite>RedJackson posted [p:955700620] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>You gotta have sex with the guy so he knows that his daughter/son is gonna get into eventually </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TuckersImp 07/03/21 9:35:15 AM #67:	Wii_Shaker posted... 1NfamousACE_2 posted... I ask this because this topic came up in the barbershop today and someone said they would obey the dads wishes and not marry her What a sad sack of soy. Soy does not come in sacks --- https://images.app.goo.gl/UTtGoLvRBsGKBHKS9 <cite>TuckersImp posted [p:955700661] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>Wii_Shaker posted...</cite> <quote>1NfamousACE_2 posted... </cite> <quote> I ask this because this topic came up in the barbershop today and someone said they would obey the dads wishes and not marry her</quote>What a sad sack of soy. </quote> Soy does not come in sacks</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sabrestorm 07/03/21 9:38:15 AM #68:	lol at all the big fantasy talkers itt like you would really stand up to someones dad when you are grown you will know better <cite>sabrestorm posted [p:955700716] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>lol at all the big fantasy talkers itt like you would really stand up to someones dad when you are grown you will know better </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sabrestorm 07/03/21 9:39:14 AM #69:	shiby with it posted... I'll ask her dad for his blessing out of respect. If he says no, the respect is lost, so I'll ask her anyway. if you tell her the dad doesnt approve she will dump you <cite>sabrestorm posted [p:955700731] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>shiby with it posted... </cite> <quote>I'll ask her dad for his blessing out of respect. If he says no, the respect is lost, so I'll ask her anyway.</quote> if you tell her the dad doesnt approve she will dump you </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sabrestorm 07/03/21 9:39:59 AM #70:	Choco posted... treating your partner like property doesn't seem respectful its her dad <cite>sabrestorm posted [p:955700740] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>Choco posted... </cite> <quote>treating your partner like property doesn't seem respectful</quote> its her dad </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DaveTheUseless 07/03/21 9:40:00 AM #71:	I'd get Joe Biden to sniff his hair --- www.youtube.com/davetheuseless Creepypasta Channel. <cite>DaveTheUseless posted [p:955700741] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>I'd get Joe Biden to sniff his hair </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sabrestorm 07/03/21 9:47:13 AM #72:	I asked mty ecx wifes parents if it would be ok they said she would sleep around and break my heart but the choice was mine, they were right <cite>sabrestorm posted [p:955700865] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>I asked mty ecx wifes parents if it would be ok they said she would sleep around and break my heart but the choice was mine, they were right </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 07/03/21 9:48:12 AM #73:	sabrestorm posted... its her dad so? --- https://imgur.com/286sD4e http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:955700876] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>sabrestorm posted... </cite> <quote>its her dad</quote>so? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 07/03/21 9:49:07 AM #74:	how is this even a point of discussion in fucking 2021 jfc ce is full of insane people --- https://imgur.com/286sD4e http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:955700889] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>how is this even a point of discussion in fucking 2021 jfc ce is full of insane people </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/03/21 9:49:41 AM #75:	sabrestorm posted... I asked mty ecx wifes parents if it would be ok they said she would sleep around and break my heart but the choice was mine, they were right Did that actually happen? --- Currently playing: Mario Golf: Super Rush, Super Mario Sunshine <cite>bsp77 posted [p:955700904] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>sabrestorm posted... </cite> <quote>I asked mty ecx wifes parents if it would be ok they said she would sleep around and break my heart but the choice was mine, they were right</quote>Did that actually happen? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/03/21 9:50:41 AM #76:	sabrestorm posted... its her dad And she is not his property. I have 4 daughters btw --- Currently playing: Mario Golf: Super Rush, Super Mario Sunshine <cite>bsp77 posted [p:955700923] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>sabrestorm posted... </cite> <quote>its her dad</quote>And she is not his property. I have 4 daughters btw </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 07/03/21 9:55:15 AM #77:	i can't even tell if this is a ce gimmick or something americans actually do --- https://imgur.com/286sD4e http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:955701017] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>i can't even tell if this is a ce gimmick or something americans actually do </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/03/21 9:56:20 AM #78:	Choco posted... i can't even tell if this is a ce gimmick or something americans actually do It is tradition to do so. Don't know how often it happens currently --- Currently playing: Mario Golf: Super Rush, Super Mario Sunshine <cite>bsp77 posted [p:955701036] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>Choco posted... </cite> <quote>i can't even tell if this is a ce gimmick or something americans actually do</quote>It is tradition to do so. Don't know how often it happens currently </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WingsOfGood 07/03/21 10:04:16 AM #79:	Then you gotta convince him to change his mind. <cite>WingsOfGood posted [p:955701184] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>Then you gotta convince him to change his mind. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RedJackson 07/03/21 10:14:43 AM #80:	Choco posted... i can't even tell if this is a ce gimmick or something americans actually do No, I probably would ask for their child's hand in marriage too. Its just an antiquated respect thing but I definitely would wanna follow through with that purely out of continuing a tradition where you as a singular individual recognize the value of the other persons family. If youre getting married youll most likely have some sort of ceremony and youll have to invite them anyways >_> I guess if you dont plan on ever visiting that persons family you dont need to do that, but more often than not in relationships I find people eventually ask me to say hi to their mom or dad and theyll invite me in or offer food.. its just a simple formality --- https://imgur.com/e6aBSof - Pus_N_Pecans original! https://imgur.com/bve6U7T - Error1335 original! <cite>RedJackson posted [p:955701403] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>Choco posted... </cite> <quote>i can't even tell if this is a ce gimmick or something americans actually do</quote> No, I probably would ask for their child's hand in marriage too. Its just an antiquated respect thing but I definitely would wanna follow through with that purely out of continuing a tradition where you as a singular individual recognize the value of the other persons family. If youre getting married youll most likely have some sort of ceremony and youll have to invite them anyways >_> I guess if you dont plan on ever visiting that persons family you dont need to do that, but more often than not in relationships I find people eventually ask me to say hi to their mom or dad and theyll invite me in or offer food.. its just a simple formality </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DaveTheUseless 07/03/21 10:31:50 AM #81:	Daddy said "Stay away from Juliette!" And I was cryin on a staircase Said baby please don't gooooo --- www.youtube.com/davetheuseless Creepypasta Channel. <cite>DaveTheUseless posted [p:955701747] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>Daddy said "Stay away from Juliette!" And I was cryin on a staircase Said baby please don't gooooo </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sabrestorm 07/03/21 10:37:27 AM #82:	bsp77 posted... Did that actually happen? yes sadly <cite>sabrestorm posted [p:955701878] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>Did that actually happen?</quote> yes sadly </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/03/21 10:41:05 AM #83:	sabrestorm posted... yes sadly Sorry. And I can't believe her parents actually attempted to warn you off. --- Currently playing: Mario Golf: Super Rush, Super Mario Sunshine <cite>bsp77 posted [p:955701955] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>sabrestorm posted... </cite> <quote>yes sadly</quote>Sorry. And I can't believe her parents actually attempted to warn you off. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sabrestorm 07/03/21 10:42:39 AM #84:	bsp77 posted... Sorry. And I can't believe her parents actually attempted to warn you off. I couldnt believe it either but they just wanted someone to take care of her <cite>sabrestorm posted [p:955701988] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>Sorry. And I can't believe her parents actually attempted to warn you off.</quote> I couldnt believe it either but they just wanted someone to take care of her </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
shiby with it 07/03/21 12:31:06 PM #85:	sabrestorm posted... if you tell her the dad doesnt approve she will dump you Not always. The options are: 1) Oh no he says no guess I'll just give up 2) Ask anyway and point out that she shouldn't let anyone, including family, control her life Maybe she says yes. Maybe she continues letting her father control her life. Doesn't hurt to ask. --- ...I knew this 45 year old guy, goes by the name of Uncle Slappy, used to hang out on the corner of 56th and Rucker... -SArmstr0ng <cite>shiby with it posted [p:955704558] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>sabrestorm posted... </cite> <quote>if you tell her the dad doesnt approve she will dump you</quote>Not always. The options are: 1) Oh no he says no guess I'll just give up 2) Ask anyway and point out that she shouldn't let anyone, including family, control her life Maybe she says yes. Maybe she continues letting her father control her life. Doesn't hurt to ask. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KainFourteh 07/05/21 5:25:40 AM #87:	sabrestorm posted... why wouldnt they? Its called respect No it isn't. <cite>KainFourteh posted [p:955759230] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>sabrestorm posted... </cite> <quote>why wouldnt they? Its called respect</quote>No it isn't. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DepreceV2 07/05/21 5:30:09 AM #88:	Marry her anyway. My brother married a white girl and her dad was greatly against it because he is a racist piece of shit. It was so bad that my brother got married at a court house and I didnt even know about it until it was already done. He did it in secret. I guess that isnt a surprise in Mississippi though --- Reminder: On March 2nd, 2021, Texas removed mask mandates and allowed 100% capacity for businesses. <cite>DepreceV2 posted [p:955759265] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>Marry her anyway. My brother married a white girl and her dad was greatly against it because he is a racist piece of shit. It was so bad that my brother got married at a court house and I didnt even know about it until it was already done. He did it in secret. I guess that isnt a surprise in Mississippi though </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 07/05/21 6:00:02 AM #89:	DepreceV2 posted... Marry her anyway. My brother married a white girl and her dad was greatly against it because he is a racist piece of shit. It was so bad that my brother got married at a court house and I didnt even know about it until it was already done. He did it in secret. I guess that isnt a surprise in Mississippi though but according to ce you should let racists control your life --- https://imgur.com/286sD4e http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:955759573] in If you ask... [t:79545521]...</cite> <quote>DepreceV2 posted... </cite> <quote>Marry her anyway. My brother married a white girl and her dad was greatly against it because he is a racist piece of shit. It was so bad that my brother got married at a court house and I didnt even know about it until it was already done. He did it in secret. I guess that isnt a surprise in Mississippi though</quote>but according to ce you should let racists control your life </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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