Board 8 > 23 y/o Arizona Mormon SACRIFICES being GAY to MARRY his GF!! Who's using WHO????

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Full Throttle
09/08/21 10:18:05 PM
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Who do you think is using who in this relationship?




"Mormons" Nicholas and Jordan Applegate from Arizona tied the knot and insist they are a happily married couple...even though the husband admitted he's GAY just 3 weeks into dating!!

They are members of the Church of Jesus Christ and Latter-day Saints and they got married last November at a church despite Nicholas stating he really loves men..

But they insist they have a happy and normal marriage and are expecting their first BABY next month

Nicholas, an IT student put aside his sexuality in order to stay committed to the church and they were childhood sweethearts who rekindled their marriage last year..and despite telling her that he was gay and wants to be with men, she STOOD by him as he shared on FB why he married her despite his true sexuality which now has thousands of shares and likes

He said "We're both really happy and i wouldn't change my decision. It's definitely a happy and normal marriage. We have a lot in common. We love to sing, watch tv together, go to movies, eat out and communicate very well in this intimate and emotional relationship. A lot of people at the church were surprised when they found out i'm gay but they were impressed at the sacrifice i'm making of my sexuality for God and this marriage"

Jordan, a software company worker echoes that and said "My life has never been better than it has been married to Nick. He is the sweetest man i have ever known, loves me unconditionally and is the best partner i could have asked for. With our baby just 2 months away i couldn't be more ecstatic and i've always wanted to be a mother. I never thought i'd find love until i met Nick and this is the best moment in my life"

They broke up in high school but got back together last year in church and right away they got married after nick proposed 3 months later

He revealed he was gay at 12 years old and said he was nervous especially telling the church but Jordan understood when he said he would sacrifice his "gayness" to marry her and the church was elated to hear he would sacrifice being gay as well to be with a woman

Everyone now knows Nick is Gay "by name only" but are quite progressive about it even if they don't agree with his choice but support that he has committed to being straight and with a woman and grow a family

Who do you think is using who here?

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NFUN
09/08/21 10:20:30 PM
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what

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Waluigi1
09/08/21 10:35:12 PM
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Sad

Wait, I thought he was 23? He looks closer to 40 <_<

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09/08/21 10:59:28 PM
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HasteDeux
09/08/21 11:00:17 PM
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I don't think we should assume one is using the other. But I question a gay marrying the opposite gender... that kind of marriage usually doesn't work out.

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BlueCrystalTear
09/08/21 11:05:04 PM
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You gotta be friends before you are lovers, and you want your spouse to be a special kind of friend.

Perhaps that's why they tied the knot, and it could work out for that reason alone. It also might not because of this weirdness, but time will tell.
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masterplum
09/08/21 11:07:18 PM
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HasteDeux posted...
I don't think we should assume one is using the other. But I question a gay marrying the opposite gender... that kind of marriage usually doesn't work out.

I know of a few.

it honestly depends on how much you value sexuality. It isnt much different than an asexual marriage for instance.

It only really backfires when you value sexuality highly but are pressured into it. Only this guy really knows.

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Yesmar_
09/08/21 11:22:41 PM
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Who's using whom?

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Yesmar_
09/08/21 11:24:53 PM
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Seriously though, this will end up as well as all the other publicized marriages of this type recently. Gay conversion therapy isn't any better just because it's self-enforced.

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Waluigi1
09/08/21 11:46:44 PM
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masterplum posted...
I know of a few.

it honestly depends on how much you value sexuality. It isnt much different than an asexual marriage for instance.

It only really backfires when you value sexuality highly but are pressured into it. Only this guy really knows.
What...?

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masterplum
09/09/21 7:19:28 AM
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Waluigi1 posted...
What...?

My spouse is borderline asexual. Weve been together a few years now and I think shes initiated . Twice?

I dont really care because I was aware of that going in and valued her as a life partner

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firefdr
09/09/21 7:42:18 AM
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religion really sucks
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Waluigi1
09/09/21 10:39:09 AM
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masterplum posted...
My spouse is borderline asexual. Weve been together a few years now and I think shes initiated . Twice?

I dont really care because I was aware of that going in and valued her as a life partner
Ohh I think instead of sexuality, you should have just said sex in your first post. That's why I was confused.

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banananor
09/09/21 10:52:37 AM
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People can have their own goals.

If you just really like the idea of raising a family, having a stable home life, double income, etc...

I could see the reasoning behind marrying someone you're not attracted to or vice versa. As long as both parties are on the same page it might not end terribly. Like having a best friend or roommate where stuff just works. Having a low sex drive and low neediness probably helps.

Obviously part of this is motivated out of a desire to defuse intense Mormon social pressures, which is what makes it sad.

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masterplum
09/09/21 11:11:33 AM
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banananor posted...
Obviously part of this is motivated out of a desire to defuse intense Mormon social pressures, which is what makes it sad.

Sure. I definitely emphasize it can work not it will work.

I think the fact he is completely out in the open with it makes it more likely to work though. My guess is most of the time it completely goes down in flames is when a person loathes their sexuality and has secret homosexual affairs.


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