Poll of the Day > Was I in the wrong?

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KogaSteelfang 10/30/21 3:28:56 PM #1:	When I got to work yesterday, the morning desk clerk was finishing up checking in an older couple. They spoke for a minute and she suggested they eat at the diner across the street. Then they all left, the couple to their room, and coworker went home. Several hours later the couple comes back and has a container. They asked where my coworker was and I explained that she was gone for the day. They handed me the container and said they brought some hush puppies for her, but since she was gone that I could have them instead. So... I ate them. I could've put them in the fridge for her, but I didn't know when she'd be back, plus they gave them to me and told me to eat them. This morning I wake up to texts from her asking what happened to the food that was given to her. I was honest about it, and she thought it was funny, but now I feel like an ass. I promised to buy her lunch to make up for it, but she's refusing. I know it's just a silly mistake, but I can't help but feel that I've wronged her. --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:959538785] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>When I got to work yesterday, the morning desk clerk was finishing up checking in an older couple. They spoke for a minute and she suggested they eat at the diner across the street. Then they all left, the couple to their room, and coworker went home. Several hours later the couple comes back and has a container. They asked where my coworker was and I explained that she was gone for the day. They handed me the container and said they brought some hush puppies for her, but since she was gone that I could have them instead. So... I ate them. I could've put them in the fridge for her, but I didn't know when she'd be back, plus they gave them to me and told me to eat them. This morning I wake up to texts from her asking what happened to the food that was given to her. I was honest about it, and she thought it was funny, but now I feel like an ass. I promised to buy her lunch to make up for it, but she's refusing. I know it's just a silly mistake, but I can't help but feel that I've wronged her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FatalAccident 10/30/21 3:31:46 PM #2:	KogaSteelfang posted... but feel that I've wronged her. lmao bro its not that deep I was expecting something a lot worse its cool lol --- walks away <cite>FatalAccident posted [p:959538860] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>KogaSteelfang posted... </cite> <quote>but feel that I've wronged her.</quote>lmao bro its not that deep I was expecting something a lot worse its cool lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 10/30/21 3:36:10 PM #3:	FatalAccident posted... lmao bro its not that deep I was expecting something a lot worse its cool lol That's what I thought, it was just a handful of hush puppies. Then when she was texting me this morning wanting the food, I felt awful. lol --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:959538968] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>FatalAccident posted... </cite> <quote>lmao bro its not that deep I was expecting something a lot worse its cool lol</quote>That's what I thought, it was just a handful of hush puppies. Then when she was texting me this morning wanting the food, I felt awful. lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 10/30/21 3:42:15 PM #4:	No you didnt do anything wrong, dont trick yourself into that kind of thinking. It is always morally correct to eat hush puppies. --- my resting temp can easily be in the 90's -Krazy_Kirby <cite>Mead posted [p:959539121] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>No you didnt do anything wrong, dont trick yourself into that kind of thinking. It is always morally correct to eat hush puppies. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ParanoidObsessive 10/30/21 3:45:40 PM #5:	KogaSteelfang posted... They handed me the container and said they brought some hush puppies for her, but since she was gone that I could have them instead. plus they gave them to me and told me to eat them. This morning I wake up to texts from her asking what happened to the food that was given to her. I know it's just a silly mistake, but I can't help but feel that I've wronged her. It's not a mistake, you are 0% in the wrong. No wrong occurred at all. They told you to eat it, you ate it. Case closed, problem solved. It's not as if she was the ONE TRUE OWNER of the food. I wouldn't even say you're obligated to buy her anything or give her anything to "replace" it. Do it if you want to, but don't do it if you only feel like you have to. --- "Wall of Text'D!" --- oldskoolplayr76 "POwned again." --- blight family <cite>ParanoidObsessive posted [p:959539211] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote><cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>They handed me the container and said they brought some hush puppies for her, but since she was gone that I could have them instead. plus they gave them to me and told me to eat them. This morning I wake up to texts from her asking what happened to the food that was given to her. I know it's just a silly mistake, but I can't help but feel that I've wronged her. </quote> It's not a mistake, you are 0% in the wrong. No wrong occurred at all. They told you to eat it, you ate it. Case closed, problem solved. It's not as if she was the ONE TRUE OWNER of the food. I wouldn't even say you're obligated to buy her anything or give her anything to "replace" it. Do it if you want to, but don't do it if you only feel like you have to.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 10/30/21 3:46:28 PM #6:	I mean, they gave it to you to eat. So it's fine... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:959539229] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>I mean, they gave it to you to eat. So it's fine...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 10/30/21 4:10:39 PM #7:	Mead posted... No you didnt do anything wrong, dont trick yourself into that kind of thinking. It is always morally correct to eat hush puppies. Good to know. :) ParanoidObsessive posted... It's not a mistake, you are 0% in the wrong. No wrong occurred at all. They told you to eat it, you ate it. Case closed, problem solved. It's not as if she was the ONE TRUE OWNER of the food. I wouldn't even say you're obligated to buy her anything or give her anything to "replace" it. Do it if you want to, but don't do it if you only feel like you have to. The thing is that I knew they intended for it to go to her. Sure, they told me to take it since she wasn't here, but I could've easily saved it for her. I honestly didn't expect her to even know anything was given, or to check up on it. I guess they saw her this morning when they checked out and asked about it. She was mostly nice about it, but she did kinda call me out for eating her food. It was in a lighthearted way, but it really just made me feel bad about the whole situation. LinkPizza posted... I mean, they gave it to you to eat. So it's fine... Next time something like this happens, it's going in the fridge. I don't care if it goes cold and stale waiting on them. --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:959539863] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>Mead posted... </cite> <quote>No you didnt do anything wrong, dont trick yourself into that kind of thinking. It is always morally correct to eat hush puppies.</quote>Good to know. :) ParanoidObsessive posted... </cite> <quote>It's not a mistake, you are 0% in the wrong. No wrong occurred at all. They told you to eat it, you ate it. Case closed, problem solved. It's not as if she was the ONE TRUE OWNER of the food. I wouldn't even say you're obligated to buy her anything or give her anything to "replace" it. Do it if you want to, but don't do it if you only feel like you have to.</quote>The thing is that I knew they intended for it to go to her. Sure, they told me to take it since she wasn't here, but I could've easily saved it for her. I honestly didn't expect her to even know anything was given, or to check up on it. I guess they saw her this morning when they checked out and asked about it. She was mostly nice about it, but she did kinda call me out for eating her food. It was in a lighthearted way, but it really just made me feel bad about the whole situation. LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote>I mean, they gave it to you to eat. So it's fine...</quote>Next time something like this happens, it's going in the fridge. I don't care if it goes cold and stale waiting on them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 10/30/21 4:13:32 PM #8:	KogaSteelfang posted... Next time something like this happens, it's going in the fridge. I don't care if it goes cold and stale waiting on them. Or you could text them about it. Like text them that someone brought them food. And maybe they will say you can have it because they won't be in for a couple of days or something... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:959539934] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>Next time something like this happens, it's going in the fridge. I don't care if it goes cold and stale waiting on them.</quote> Or you could text them about it. Like text them that someone brought them food. And maybe they will say you can have it because they won't be in for a couple of days or something...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 10/30/21 4:15:49 PM #9:	LinkPizza posted... Or you could text them about it. Like text them that someone brought them food. And maybe they will say you can have it because they won't be in for a couple of days or something... I didn't think of that till after I'd eaten half of them. lol --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:959539988] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote>Or you could text them about it. Like text them that someone brought them food. And maybe they will say you can have it because they won't be in for a couple of days or something...</quote>I didn't think of that till after I'd eaten half of them. lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ParanoidObsessive 10/30/21 4:16:32 PM #10:	KogaSteelfang posted... The thing is that I knew they intended for it to go to her. Yes, they intended to. And then circumstances changed. And they changed their intent by literally telling you to eat them instead. This is how life works. It's not like they asked you to save them for her and then you ate them anyway. The only wrong occurring here is you being objectively wrong for feeling bad about it. KogaSteelfang posted... She was mostly nice about it, but she did kinda call me out for eating her food. Then either she was joking, or she's an asshole. Either way it is not even remotely your problem or your fault. KogaSteelfang posted... Next time something like this happens, it's going in the fridge. I don't care if it goes cold and stale waiting on them. You'd probably live a much happier and healthier life if you stopped being a doormat. --- "Wall of Text'D!" --- oldskoolplayr76 "POwned again." --- blight family <cite>ParanoidObsessive posted [p:959540007] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote><cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>The thing is that I knew they intended for it to go to her.</quote> Yes, they intended to. And then circumstances changed. And they changed their intent by literally telling you to eat them instead. This is how life works. It's not like they asked you to save them for her and then you ate them anyway. The only wrong occurring here is you being objectively wrong for feeling bad about it. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>She was mostly nice about it, but she did kinda call me out for eating her food.</quote> Then either she was joking, or she's an asshole. Either way it is not even remotely your problem or your fault. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>Next time something like this happens, it's going in the fridge. I don't care if it goes cold and stale waiting on them.</quote> You'd probably live a much happier and healthier life if you stopped being a doormat.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 10/30/21 4:16:48 PM #11:	were they good? --- my resting temp can easily be in the 90's -Krazy_Kirby <cite>Mead posted [p:959540018] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>were they good? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 10/30/21 4:20:41 PM #12:	Realistically, anything deep fried is so much better fresh than leftover that not eating it on the spot would have been a disservice to the food. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:959540121] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>Realistically, anything deep fried is so much better fresh than leftover that not eating it on the spot would have been a disservice to the food. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 10/30/21 4:34:20 PM #13:	ParanoidObsessive posted... You'd probably live a much happier and healthier life if you stopped being a doormat. I'm doing so much better in this area of my life. It can still be a problem when it comes to stuff like this, but I'm able to stand up for myself so much better now. Mead posted... were they good? Very. adjl posted... Realistically, anything deep fried is so much better fresh than leftover that not eating it on the spot would have been a disservice to the food. Yeah, I suppose so. --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:959540479] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>ParanoidObsessive posted... </cite> <quote>You'd probably live a much happier and healthier life if you stopped being a doormat.</quote>I'm doing so much better in this area of my life. It can still be a problem when it comes to stuff like this, but I'm able to stand up for myself so much better now. Mead posted... </cite> <quote>were they good?</quote>Very. adjl posted... </cite> <quote>Realistically, anything deep fried is so much better fresh than leftover that not eating it on the spot would have been a disservice to the food.</quote>Yeah, I suppose so. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 10/30/21 4:41:13 PM #14:	KogaSteelfang posted... I'm doing so much better in this area of my life. It can still be a problem when it comes to stuff like this, but I'm able to stand up for myself so much better now. This is true. I think you yelled at a customer who was being a dick before. Thats progress! --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:959540655] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>I'm doing so much better in this area of my life. It can still be a problem when it comes to stuff like this, but I'm able to stand up for myself so much better now.</quote> This is true. I think you yelled at a customer who was being a dick before. Thats progress!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 10/30/21 4:48:50 PM #15:	LinkPizza posted... This is true. I think you yelled at a customer who was being a dick before. Thats progress! Oh, there's been lots since then. I really have no issue with type of stuff any more once they become hostile. I even almost got in a fist fight with a crazy stalker guy that followed some guests here and broke into their room. He was fighting with them and I went out and broke it up and he acted like he was going to come at me too. Ended up having him arrested. That was fun. >___> --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:959540852] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote>This is true. I think you yelled at a customer who was being a dick before. Thats progress!</quote>Oh, there's been lots since then. I really have no issue with type of stuff any more once they become hostile. I even almost got in a fist fight with a crazy stalker guy that followed some guests here and broke into their room. He was fighting with them and I went out and broke it up and he acted like he was going to come at me too. Ended up having him arrested. That was fun. >___> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SilentSeph 10/30/21 4:54:14 PM #16:	That hotel job seems to be doing wonders for your character. Glad you enjoyed the hush puppies --- Delicious and vicious, while maliciously nutritious. <cite>SilentSeph posted [p:959540998] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>That hotel job seems to be doing wonders for your character. Glad you enjoyed the hush puppies </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 10/30/21 5:04:21 PM #17:	SilentSeph posted... That hotel job seems to be doing wonders for your character. Glad you enjoyed the hush puppies In some ways, yes. My social anxiety is way better now, and I found my backbone. However it's still really difficult to deal with being cussed at and insulted so often. So, noticeable improvement to anxiety levels and ability to deal with confrontations better, but steep increase in stress and it makes me feel worse most of the time. I'm just usually mentally exhausted and 2 days off just doesn't give enough recovery time. I don't know, it feels like I've reached the point where the bad is outweighing the good again in terms of mental health. --- Work in progress, please be patient. <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:959541266] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>SilentSeph posted... </cite> <quote>That hotel job seems to be doing wonders for your character. Glad you enjoyed the hush puppies</quote>In some ways, yes. My social anxiety is way better now, and I found my backbone. However it's still really difficult to deal with being cussed at and insulted so often. So, noticeable improvement to anxiety levels and ability to deal with confrontations better, but steep increase in stress and it makes me feel worse most of the time. I'm just usually mentally exhausted and 2 days off just doesn't give enough recovery time. I don't know, it feels like I've reached the point where the bad is outweighing the good again in terms of mental health. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lihlih 10/30/21 5:16:55 PM #18:	You ever seen the movie called "The Night Clerk"? You kind of remind me of the main character of that movie, except more normal. --- People come up to me... concerned.. that I'll reproduce." - Emo Philips <cite>lihlih posted [p:959541585] in Was I in t... [t:79735898]...</cite> <quote>You ever seen the movie called "The Night Clerk"? You kind of remind me of the main character of that movie, except more normal.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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