Poll of the Day > When in society is asking for help frowned upon?

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Judgmenl
11/03/21 8:53:12 PM
#1:


Trying to figure out why so many people don't like asking for help.

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OhhhJa
11/03/21 8:58:06 PM
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Because people feel it is a sign of weakness
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Judgmenl
11/03/21 8:59:05 PM
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But who says this?
Nobody I know has ever said this.

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Cacciato
11/03/21 9:01:03 PM
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Some people use GoFundMe, but then lihlih shits his pants since hes in the top 25% of earners.
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agesboy
11/03/21 9:26:54 PM
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asking someone else for helps opens you up for criticism as you're in a position of weakness

parents in particular tend to be very "i told you so" about it which leads to people growing up not wanting to repeat that experience

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Cruddy_horse
11/04/21 1:53:59 AM
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Always, The first thing people tend to do when you open up about problems is criticism and attempts to put you down.

Even the most seemingly kind do it.
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Mead
11/04/21 1:54:58 AM
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In parking lots

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wpot
11/04/21 2:10:15 AM
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I don't like asking for help because I hate feeling indebted and I don't really want to help everyone with their crap in return. Fortunately I rarely need help.

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FatalAccident
11/04/21 2:29:34 AM
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Judgmenl posted...
Nobody I know has ever said this.
this may come as a surprise to u but society is bigger than just your social circle

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Muscles
11/04/21 2:30:29 AM
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I would rather give help than take it, so I don't really see it as sad or weak to need it.

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ReturnOfFa
11/04/21 2:38:36 AM
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As someone in school right now...asking for help should be encouraged. However, I've been dealing with a lot of people that ask for things rather rudely...I'm not going to 'help' by giving someone the answer; they should be asking me a specific question about a concept or a specific aspect of their network configuration.

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DocDelicious
11/04/21 6:03:46 AM
#12:


When you're capable of helping yourself.

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