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LeadPipeCinche
11/12/21 12:59:17 PM
#51:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
This is the determining factor. TC needs to elaborate on the relationship.


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Flockaveli
11/12/21 1:11:50 PM
#52:


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Pogo_Marimo
11/12/21 1:19:03 PM
#53:


Flockaveli posted...
Exclusive pic of TC during one of his interactions with this chick

lol

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Dreepapult
11/12/21 1:21:06 PM
#54:


Just get her a gift card. Unless you want to go for that "extra" feeling. To me it's too much.

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refmon
11/12/21 1:21:52 PM
#55:


Flockaveli posted...
Exclusive pic of TC during one of his interactions with this chick

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NoxObscuras
11/12/21 1:38:09 PM
#56:


gamepimp12 posted...
Been friends for over year

would be likely be in a relationship if either of us really wanted one RN

are planning trips together a year out

exchanging christmas gifts
I mean... you do you TC, but that sounds like a whole lot for a girl you're not even dating. You're saying that you don't want a relationship but you're going out of your way to spend money on her? Why?

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Ivany2008
11/12/21 1:40:13 PM
#57:


If your dating the woman, then by all means do it. Assuming she gets coffee 3x a week there, that's at most 13-15 a week, so maybe 100 at most. But if its just someone your not exclusive to, or she's just a girl who you have nice conversations with now and then it's a bit much, and offering to buy her a single coffee might be more suitable.
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SRR Capdown
11/12/21 1:48:11 PM
#58:


NoxObscuras posted...
I mean... you do you TC, but that sounds like a whole lot for a girl you're not even dating. You're saying that you don't want a relationship but you're going out of your way to spend money on her? Why?

Because he definitely wants one, but she has either already rejected him or he doesn't have the guts to ask her out. And the fact he's being so coy about it all definitely screams that they're just friends.

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Lost_All_Senses
11/12/21 1:49:58 PM
#59:


Could come off as manipulative. Cause it could come off as a controlling way to make her think about you everyday. And to make her have to feel thankful to you every time she gets a coffee. I personally would hate it. But I'm also weird about gifts in general.

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Xavier_On_High
11/12/21 1:55:37 PM
#60:


gamepimp12 posted...
Been friends for over year

would be likely be in a relationship if either of us really wanted one RN

are planning trips together a year out

exchanging christmas gifts

That...just sounds like you're friends.

Don't do it, TC. If a friend did that for me, I'd probably find it weird.

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gamepimp12
11/12/21 3:42:35 PM
#61:


SRR Capdown posted...
Because he definitely wants one, but she has either already rejected him or he doesn't have the guts to ask her out. And the fact he's being so coy about it all definitely screams that they're just friends.



orrrr I dont feel the need to prove anything to strangers, who already have their own perceptions

yall never asked why I dont want a relationship just assumed Im lying Lmaoo

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jedisamurai
11/12/21 3:45:25 PM
#62:


As it relates to women, one lesson needs to be learned above all others. Whipping out your wallet or your dick unsolicited is never a good idea. Ever.

And I'm gonna call straight up bullshit on your claim of friends. If you're just friends as you say....would you buy your guy friend's coffee for the rest of the year? I highly doubt it. You might pick up his coffee or a beer sometime if you're out maybe, but you wouldn't do what you're proposing.

SRR Capdown posted...
Because he definitely wants one, but she has either already rejected him or he doesn't have the guts to ask her out. And the fact he's being so coy about it all definitely screams that they're just friends.

This. Do both her and you a favor. If you've been rejected, never initiate contact again. If you don't have the guts, then now's the time to cowboy up, ask her out making it clear that the friend zone is not an option, and accept her response. No matter what, you're past the point of a true "just friendship" being possible and it does her a disservice to pretend otherwise.
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jedisamurai
11/12/21 3:50:05 PM
#63:


gamepimp12 posted...
orrrr I dont feel the need to prove anything to strangers, who already have their own perceptions

yall never asked why I dont want a relationship just assumed Im lying Lmaoo

The creation of this topic kinda says otherwise.
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gamepimp12
11/12/21 3:54:29 PM
#64:


jedisamurai posted...
As it relates to women, one lesson needs to be learned above all others. Whipping out your wallet or your dick unsolicited is never a good idea. Ever.

And I'm gonna call straight up bullshit on your claim of friends. If you're just friends as you say....would you buy your guy friend's coffee for the rest of the year? I highly doubt it. You might pick up his coffee or a beer sometime if you're out maybe, but you wouldn't do what you're proposing.

This. Do both her and you a favor. If you've been rejected, never initiate contact again. If you don't have the guts, then now's the time to cowboy up, ask her out making it clear that the friend zone is not an option, and accept her response. No matter what, you're past the point of a true "just friendship" being possible and it does her a disservice to pretend otherwise.


I never said we was just friends..


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cuttin_in_farm
11/12/21 4:02:23 PM
#65:


gamepimp12 posted...
I never said we was just friends..


gamepimp12 posted...
Been friends for over year

would be likely be in a relationship if either of us really wanted one RN


So this is a troll topic?

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gamepimp12
11/12/21 4:04:06 PM
#66:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
So this is a troll topic?


where does that even imply our relationship is platonic ?

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cuttin_in_farm
11/12/21 4:06:25 PM
#67:


gamepimp12 posted...
where does that even imply our relationship is platonic ?

Its your responses, bro.

People asked you clarifying questions. You answered shit like this:

gamepimp12 posted...
why does that [having sex] matter ?


gamepimp12 posted...
would be likely be in a relationship if either of us really wanted one RN


You knew what you were doing. So tbh. This is a troll topic. People actually wanted to help too.

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cuttin_in_farm
11/12/21 4:07:29 PM
#68:


And tbh, thats still too much even with a FWB. Youre still trying to do bf/gf shit for your not gf.

If you aint trolling.

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gamepimp12
11/12/21 4:15:59 PM
#69:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
Its your responses, bro.

People asked you clarifying questions. You answered shit like this:

You knew what you were doing. So tbh. This is a troll topic. People actually wanted to help too.


not at all, people just tried to infer a lot of things that werent the case, as evident as you did.

cuttin_in_farm posted...
And tbh, thats still too much even with a FWB. Youre still trying to do bf/gf shit for your not gf.

If you aint trolling.

even still I wouldnt call it a FWB considering the amount we do for each other and the conversations we have regarding our relationship and where we stand.

if we wanted a relationship (again our personal situations make that unfeasable) Im pretty confident wed both pick each other.


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MurderousNomad
11/12/21 4:19:52 PM
#70:


This topic is confusing the shit out of me.

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cuttin_in_farm
11/12/21 4:28:38 PM
#71:


gamepimp12 posted...
Im pretty confident wed both pick each other.

Youre wrong.

Make sure to pm me when this inevitably blows up in your face.

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gamepimp12
11/12/21 4:31:00 PM
#72:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
Youre wrong.

Make sure to pm me when this inevitably blows up in your face.

doubt it, thanks for projecting your bitterness on me


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E_S_M_Z
11/12/21 4:39:45 PM
#73:


"We're not a couple"
"We're not platonic"
"We're not friends with benefits"

I'm lost, lol.

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gamepimp12
11/12/21 4:41:36 PM
#74:


E_S_M_Z posted...
"We're not a couple"
"We're not platonic"
"We're not friends with benefits"

I'm lost, lol.


were actively dating but not in a relationship at this very moment ?

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jedisamurai
11/12/21 4:43:23 PM
#75:


gamepimp12 posted...
not at all, people just tried to infer a lot of things that werent the case, as evident as you did.

even still I wouldnt call it a FWB considering the amount we do for each other and the conversations we have regarding our relationship and where we stand.

if we wanted a relationship (again our personal situations make that unfeasable) Im pretty confident wed both pick each other.

Okay, real simple question then, so nobody has to infer anything. Have you had sex with this woman? And just so that you don't try to Bill Clinton us, by sex, I want to be clear that I mean "has she willingly let you put your penis inside of her vagina, mouth, or anus and caused you to ejaculate?

If she has, then cool bro, it's not weird to pay for her coffee. If she hasn't, then yeah it's weird to buy her two months of coffee. Cause again, if you wouldn't do the same exact thing for your guy friends who you also don't have sex with, then it's weird.
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MurderousNomad
11/12/21 4:43:53 PM
#76:


gamepimp12 posted...
were actively dating but not in a relationship at this very moment ?
?

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E_S_M_Z
11/12/21 4:48:21 PM
#77:


gamepimp12 posted...
were actively dating but not in a relationship at this very moment ?

Casually dating, then. idk why this took so many posts to get to, lol.

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gamepimp12
11/12/21 4:49:31 PM
#78:


E_S_M_Z posted...
Casually dating, then. idk why this took so many posts to get to, lol.

I let them, make assumptions instead of just asked.

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MurderousNomad
11/12/21 4:51:05 PM
#79:


E_S_M_Z posted...
Casually dating, then. idk why this took so many posts to get to, lol.
Ah, makes sense now.


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tripleh213
11/12/21 4:52:57 PM
#80:


This site gets sadder by the day

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The_Dan_Haren
11/13/21 10:03:01 AM
#81:


TC is most definitely a virgin. He's getting defensive at all the warnings we're giving him. This is gonna end badly but will also be highly entertaining. Keep us updated, TC.
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gamepimp12
11/13/21 10:16:22 AM
#82:


The_Dan_Haren posted...
TC is most definitely a virgin. He's getting defensive at all the warnings we're giving him. This is gonna end badly but will also be highly entertaining. Keep us updated, TC.


im not getting defensive, Im just really laughing at the amount of assumptions being made.

its at least 10

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Master Kazuya
11/13/21 10:38:37 AM
#83:


TC, your idea isn't bad, but your relationship with this girl doesn't match the gesture you're doing. This seems a lot like a "I hope she'll see how much I like her and like me back" move.

I mean, I guess the alternative is maybe you really are just a chill guy that spends money on people you like. Do you also buy your friends GamePass subscriptions, Netflix, dinner, etc? If you do that with friends you are close to, then it really is just who you are and that's fine (and awesome). However, if you're only thinking about doing this with this particular girl, then you probably shouldn't.

Also, to reply to the "why does sex matter?" thing, in short, it's to know you aren't getting played. You clearly want this girl physically, and girls will keep guys like you around as emotional support. They assume that if you're okay with this dynamic, so are they. And if you're okay with never being intimate with her, that's fine. But if you do want to be intimate with her, you gotta let her know that you want her more than just friends. If she rejects you, be a gentleman, but make it clear that you only want her if it's gonna be serious. Or alternatively, enjoy her friendship now never wondering if it'll ever blossom further.

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gamepimp12
11/13/21 11:56:37 AM
#84:


I mean weve had multiple conversations about a relationship, and neither of us is rushing anything from a commitment standpoint. Its still pretty early and isnt feasible rn due to things out of our control.

We go out all the time and go on real dates

were both big gift givers, Im just way more financially stable at the moment.

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The_Dan_Haren
11/13/21 12:00:52 PM
#85:


gamepimp12 posted...
due to things out of our control.

like her banging the barista?
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gamepimp12
11/13/21 12:04:37 PM
#86:


The_Dan_Haren posted...
like her banging the barista?
11th assumptions

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gamepimp12
11/13/21 1:44:14 PM
#88:


metallica846 posted...
He still hasnt answered the sex question.

oh yeah, every time Im bout to answer it someone says something stupid and feel the urge to just devolve into trolling.

Gotten head havent had sex yet..


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