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Guide
12/25/21 9:24:38 PM
#52:


Generally, I consider Mallard to be the most reasonable person on this board, and by a good margin, but I would consider lying to your partner to meet up with an ex, for any reason, as an uncompromising dealbreaker. For the sake of your own health, if nothing else.

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SSJCAT
12/25/21 9:25:54 PM
#54:


Im sorry man. Try to stay strong

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MrMallard
12/25/21 9:26:08 PM
#55:


It took ages to type that post so I missed everything that happened. Sorry about your relationship.

Let someone know if you need support, and fuck your ex-girlfriend for doing that to you.

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MrMallard
12/25/21 9:27:24 PM
#56:


JimmyFraska posted...
Do this if you have no respect for yourself. She'll just dump you at the end of the conversation lmao
Yeah I didn't see the blocking on Facebook stuff because I was too busy writing that post. Basically remove all the "if not when" stuff and talking it over, and focus on the worst case scenario survival plan.

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JimmyFraska
12/25/21 9:27:55 PM
#57:


MrMallard posted...
Yeah I didn't see the blocking on Facebook stuff because I was too busy writing that post. Basically remove all the "if not when" stuff and talking it over, and focus on the worst case scenario survival plan.
that makes more sense, though honestly the OP was enough for me
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YourDrunkFather
12/25/21 9:30:26 PM
#58:


I know CE recommends this for literally everything but you definitely need to cut her loose and move on.

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MrMallard
12/25/21 9:31:29 PM
#60:


JimmyFraska posted...
that makes more sense, though honestly the OP was enough for me
I didn't want to potentially embitter someone and cause unnecessary friction if there was an emotionally harmless way out of this - unfortunately, there wasn't. It's not my place to say whether anyone should break up, though what she did to him even before the later stuff happened was a shitty thing to do to him.

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Lorenzo_2003
12/25/21 9:37:13 PM
#61:


Guide posted...
@Lorenzo_2003 Just want you to see this so that you think I'm shitty based on an accurate statement.

@Guide
To be fair to you, Im not saying you did what the dude is claiming you did, but I was making a general comment on that type of behavior. That said, Im not a fan of messing with anyones wife because that seems reckless.

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Guide
12/25/21 9:38:54 PM
#62:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
@Guide
To be fair to you, Im not saying you did what the dude is claiming you did, but I was making a general comment on that type of behavior. That said, Im not a fan of messing with anyones wife because that seems reckless.

It is reckless, dumb move. I was reeling from breaking up with a girl I had known for literally half my life.

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Jagr_68
12/25/21 9:45:37 PM
#63:


What a fucking biotch. And on goddamn Christmas :(

Real sorry, TC.

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MrMallard
12/25/21 9:47:23 PM
#64:


Actually fuck it, I'm gonna delete that post because it's out of date.

I think it's imperative that you take measures to look after yourself. Make a worst case scenario survival plan - work out how you're gonna leave, where you're gonna go and how you're gonna get support if the worst case scenario happens.

I'm saying this because it's advice I wish I had earlier this year. I ended an 8 year friendship with my best friend because I felt like he stabbed me in the back over a girl. I lost all of my support when I did that, because I accepted that I had to leave, and that cut me off from all my other friends. I was drifting aimlessly and I was the most depressed I'd ever been.

So think about where you're gonna get support, and how your life is going to change - whether there's places you need to avoid from now on, stuff like that. When you have a plan, you have a way forward. It's important.

You don't have to follow my advice, but I'm saying this because I want you to know that despite how shitty and hurtful this is, it's an experience that you're not alone in having and there's ways to cope going forward, even if it doesn't feel that way right now. The most important thing you can do right now is look after yourself emotionally, don't give a fuck about anyone else if that's what you have to do. Focus on you.

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Lorenzo_2003
12/25/21 9:48:24 PM
#65:


Guide posted...
It is reckless, dumb move. I was reeling from breaking up with a girl I had known for literally half my life.

@Guide
I hope youre doing better now and, yeah, certain events can be traumatizing and influence us to act out of character. Regardless, lets have a happy new year.

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smoke_break
12/25/21 9:49:15 PM
#66:


Yeah, I would call and give her a piece of my mind. I wouldn't be nice about it either, because what she did was messed up. Then I'd dump her and move on.

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Scarecrow17
12/25/21 9:49:21 PM
#67:


Take care of yourself, TC. Were all here for you.

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Eramir
12/25/21 9:49:40 PM
#68:


Messed up. Dont ever speak to that whore ever again
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HyperShadow23J
12/25/21 9:49:43 PM
#69:


TC please don't hurt yourself fuck that bitch

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What_
12/25/21 9:50:27 PM
#70:


Lol you getting cucked

but dont hurt yourself she not worth
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CarrieChan
12/25/21 9:52:00 PM
#71:


MrMallard posted...
Actually fuck it, I'm gonna delete that post because it's out of date.

I think it's imperative that you take measures to look after yourself. Make a worst case scenario survival plan - work out how you're gonna leave, where you're gonna go and how you're gonna get support if the worst case scenario happens.

I'm saying this because it's advice I wish I had earlier this year. I ended an 8 year friendship with my best friend because I felt like he stabbed me in the back over a girl. I lost all of my support when I did that, because I accepted that I had to leave, and that cut me off from all my other friends. I was drifting aimlessly and I was the most depressed I'd ever been.

So think about where you're gonna get support, and how your life is going to change - whether there's places you need to avoid from now on, stuff like that. When you have a plan, you have a way forward. It's important.

You don't have to follow my advice, but I'm saying this because I want you to know that despite how shitty and hurtful this is, it's an experience that you're not alone in having and there's ways to cope going forward, even if it doesn't feel that way right now. The most important thing you can do right now is look after yourself emotionally, don't give a fuck about anyone else if that's what you have to do. Focus on you.
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Guide
12/25/21 9:52:19 PM
#72:


Eramir posted...
Messed up. Dont ever speak to that whore ever again
It's gonna be difficult not to interact a few more times in order to finalize things.

In a sense, "breaking up" with the family can be more difficult.

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JimmyFraska
12/25/21 9:53:14 PM
#74:


CarrieChan posted...
Heh too late someone quoted it.
I went ahead and deleted it, they meant well
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Solid Snake07
12/25/21 9:56:07 PM
#75:


I'm sorry man, that's super shitty. But don't harm yourself or anything dumb like that. That's really fucking shady regardless of whether or not she's cheating. You deserve better than that.

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MrMallard
12/25/21 9:56:09 PM
#76:


CarrieChan posted...
Heh too late someone quoted it.
That's fine. I've explained myself, so hopefully that's sufficient, and I've taken steps to correct myself which I think is the right thing to do.

Oh shit, Jimmy deleted the quote. Thanks, you didn't have to do that but I appreciate it.

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One_Day_Remains
12/25/21 10:17:58 PM
#77:


What_ posted...
Lol you getting cucked


Why do y'all post like you've never interacted with other human beings before. Like, you can clearly see he's hurting from it. Leave that shit at the door

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Teh_Dr_Phil
12/25/21 10:31:53 PM
#78:


Tag for update from OP

Sorry, man.

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Jefejonny
12/26/21 2:05:45 AM
#79:


Teh_Dr_Phil posted...
Tag for update from OP

Sorry, man.


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PatrickMahomes
12/26/21 2:11:33 AM
#80:


Update?

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EmPee4Tyyy
12/26/21 2:15:02 AM
#81:


Are you banging her lmao

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Just_a_loser
12/26/21 2:23:52 AM
#82:


Just consider it to be over. Let her come to you if she wants to get back together.

It's one thing to be going to some kinda get together. But she should have told you before hand, not lie and dodge your calls and texts. Any time someone gets invited to see an ex is the business of the person they are currently with. The fact that you had to find out like that really sets up the tone for this relationship. Trust - she just lost it.

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Returning_CEmen
12/26/21 2:24:07 AM
#83:


Are you 100% sure this is a new picture and not just the mom sharing a memory from the past?

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Akagami_Shanks
12/26/21 2:30:06 AM
#84:


Returning_CEmen posted...
Are you 100% sure this is a new picture and not just the mom sharing a memory from the past?
did you not read the thread? she blocked him on facebook, automatic red flag.

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viewmaster_pi
12/26/21 2:34:58 AM
#85:


One_Day_Remains posted...
Why do y'all post like you've never interacted with other human beings before. Like, you can clearly see he's hurting from it. Leave that shit at the door
it's how social maladjusts on the internet end up because they all start using it as a substitute for a personality

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Pepys Monster
12/26/21 2:38:58 AM
#86:


Im sorry, TC. This is a huge red flag.

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_Angel_
12/26/21 2:46:09 AM
#87:


Major violation. Leave that bitch immediately.

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Jabodie
12/26/21 2:55:07 AM
#88:


Ridiculously sus tbh. I would probably be furious, personally.

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The Wheelman1
12/26/21 2:56:28 AM
#89:


She literally lied about being sick just to sneek back to her ex bf. You dont need broads like that in your life. Just let her stay with him and move on.

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Arcanine2009
12/26/21 3:05:06 AM
#90:


SauI_Goodman posted...
That doesnt necessarily mean theyre banging. Relax my man dont make it worse.
They don't have to be banging to be call it cheating dude. I don't get why so many guys are fixated on, "but if she didn't have sex anyone else, it's not cheating!"

She lied about being sick to TC to be with her ex. If nothing was going on, why lie and go behind his back?

Tc keep calm and take a breather. Don't do something you know you will regret later.
Go back to the post and double check that it was dated for today. if it was, screen shot it. Call her and ask her where she was last night, and that you saw her at your ex's house. Give her a chance to explain and ask her why she lied to you.You can bring up why she blocked you (or hid that photo) if you want. Then decide what to do. Likely break up with her then and there.

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yemmy
12/26/21 3:16:13 AM
#91:


Fuck her one more time before you break up TC.

And then pull it out and bust a load on her yelling out "it's over bitch how you like them apples"!

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spikethedevil
12/26/21 3:31:37 AM
#92:


rexcrk posted...
Wtf.

Assuming this is real of course, why do girls do shit like this

ITP: Guys never cheat.

So sorry to hear about this BS TC.

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viewmaster_pi
12/26/21 3:36:32 AM
#93:


yemmy posted...
Fuck her one more time before you break up TC.

And then pull it out and bust a load on her yelling out "it's over bitch how you like them apples"!
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Lanzol
12/26/21 3:40:12 AM
#94:


big oof

in some ways s*** like this hurts more than like, a drunken one night stand.

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Mistere Man
12/26/21 3:46:02 AM
#95:


I hope the topic creator is doing alright.

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cjsdowg
12/26/21 3:48:41 AM
#96:


Don't hurt anyone nor yourself, please.

Live your best life and forget about her. Don't worry about winning or getting her back. Just worry about how you can be happy. Play some games, go out with some buds, do something that makes you happy.


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Master Kazuya
12/26/21 4:24:10 AM
#97:


Does the family know they're broken up?

The only way I could justify this is maybe her family doesn't know about you or thinks her and the ex are still together so shes scared of telling them the truth or something. But that's a huge stretch.

Call her out on it

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Alteres
12/26/21 5:03:26 AM
#98:


Hope you are alright my man, you deserve better.

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darkmaian23
12/26/21 5:49:36 AM
#99:


cjsdowg posted...
Don't hurt anyone nor yourself, please.

Alteres posted...
Hope you are alright my man, you deserve better.

This. Stay strong, man!
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Smashingpmkns
12/26/21 5:56:28 AM
#100:


Block her number and ghost her ass. She doesn't deserve a break up text. Just move on and focus on yourself.

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Prismsblade
12/26/21 6:02:40 AM
#101:


Why even bother hooking up with and having long term other relationships if you still have strong feelings for an ex?

At that point you're just lying to yourself, and even worse, wasting other people's feelings and time.

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MrAntisocial
12/26/21 11:36:55 AM
#102:


Mistere Man posted...
I hope the topic creator is doing alright.

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