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WrestlinFan
12/25/21 8:43:17 PM
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She told me she was sick and was throwing up and had fever all day and that was why she couldnt see me or call me. Turns out her mom posted a pic on FB an hour ago of her family and her ex all posing together like a big happy family. I want to do things to myself that would get this post moderated.

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SauI_Goodman
12/25/21 8:44:35 PM
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That doesnt necessarily mean theyre banging. Relax my man dont make it worse.

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Naysaspace
12/25/21 8:44:38 PM
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how long have you been dating

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CanuckCowboy
12/25/21 8:44:54 PM
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Ouch.

Sorry to hear that man but knowing is still better than not knowing.

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WrestlinFan
12/25/21 8:46:01 PM
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SauI_Goodman posted...
That doesnt necessarily mean theyre banging. Relax my man dont make it worse.
They were married for seven years.

Naysaspace posted...
how long have you been dating
A year.

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Naysaspace
12/25/21 8:47:07 PM
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Hmmm

Yeah, sorry. It's not even about him per se, a 7 year marriage means he's likely made connections to many family members.

The fact that she hasn't moved on to you, after a year, is.....eh.

Yeah, sorry. This isn't OK, especially the ignoring calls and lying about being sick.

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MrFingers07
12/25/21 8:47:11 PM
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SauI_Goodman posted...
That doesnt necessarily mean theyre banging. Relax my man dont make it worse.
Lol, so what other possible reason would she lie behind TC's back and go see this dude?

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LordMarshal
12/25/21 8:47:18 PM
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I dont have anything good to add to this story.

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Nukazie
12/25/21 8:47:32 PM
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take her mom to your xmas get together

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JimmyFraska
12/25/21 8:48:33 PM
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WrestlinFan posted...
I want to do things to myself that would get this post moderated.
No reason for that.

It is sad though. Be sure to dump her before she dumps you.
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Guide
12/25/21 8:48:35 PM
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That super means they're banging.

Bite the bullet and break it off now.

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Music_Rock_Cat
12/25/21 8:48:38 PM
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Dang thats a punch to the nut

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Number090684
12/25/21 8:49:02 PM
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That's awful, but don't hurt yourself. We can never truly win the unconditional love of our SO's or control them in a healthy way, so if they choose to lie and cheat, that's their fault as a person and ultimately reflects poorly on them, even if they don't end up facing any real negative consequences from it. As much as it hurts your only real options are cutting ties with her or just accepting that your monogamous relationship with her isn't genuine and to not put any more emotional or financial effort into the relationship and use each other for casual sex, but that's toxic and only leads to the toxic mentality that manipulating people and being manipulated for sexual gratification is okay.
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bsp77
12/25/21 8:49:32 PM
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SauI_Goodman posted...
That doesnt necessarily mean theyre banging. Relax my man dont make it worse.
But she lied. Whether banging or not, this is really terrible behavior.

And really sorry, TC

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CharlesBronson
12/25/21 8:49:57 PM
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SauI_Goodman posted...
That doesnt necessarily mean theyre banging. Relax my man dont make it worse.
lol shes most likely getting pounded in the bushes right now lol
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Naysaspace
12/25/21 8:49:57 PM
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It's not about banging. They probably aren't banging. It's still cheating, but on an even worse level -- emotional cheating.

you can cheat on someone with your ex and still love that someone

In this scenario, it seems clear to me that she still feels for him, enough to lie to her current BF.

Unless TC is withholding critical information, i.e. if they have kids together and the reason for going is to have that whole family see the grandparents.

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Letron_James
12/25/21 8:50:14 PM
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I wouldn't feel bad. She should have told you upfront, the lying aspect makes that a deal breaker tbh. More or a reflection on her character, and don't fall for the "I didn't want to upset you" because that just means she knows she did something wrong and didn't care enough to fess up to it.

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_Sazando_
12/25/21 8:51:22 PM
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The only way this would make any kind of sense is if they both had a child together and even then there's no reason to lie like this

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SauI_Goodman
12/25/21 8:51:49 PM
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It definitely looks bad. Op gonna have to bring it up eventually with her.

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Doe
12/25/21 8:52:36 PM
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Naysaspace posted...
Unless TC is withholding critical information, i.e. if they have kids together and the reason for going is to have that whole family see the grandparents.
That wouldn't make the lying okay.

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ModLogic
12/25/21 8:53:15 PM
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have you confronted her yet?

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Lorenzo_2003
12/25/21 8:54:10 PM
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SauI_Goodman posted...
That doesnt necessarily mean theyre banging. Relax my man dont make it worse.

Lmao, true.

Maybe there was no banging and it was just a lot of sucking. Ive heard some women say that doesnt count, so youre all good, TC. Nothin to worry about.

Edit: jokes aside, please dont hurt yourself. Dont do it. You can move on from this and be with someone who wont disrespect you, or even enjoy solitude for a while.

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Naysaspace
12/25/21 8:54:20 PM
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_Sazando_ posted...
The only way this would make any kind of sense is if they both had a child together and even then there's no reason to lie like this
basically this.

Also Doe read my 1st post

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SauI_Goodman
12/25/21 8:55:02 PM
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Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Lmao, true.

Maybe there was no banging and it was just a lot of sucking. Ive heard some women say that doesnt count, so youre all good, TC. Nothin to worry about.
Some people believe "eating aint cheating"

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bsp77
12/25/21 8:58:18 PM
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To be clear, seeing exes isn't always bad. I have to do stuff with my ex wife due to my kids, and I still see one ex gf with my friend group and we have done karaoke together. Also, my gf and I are good friends with another ex of mine, as well her current bf. But the key is that my girlfriend knows about all of this and she trusts me and doesn't care.

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TheChariot
12/25/21 8:59:15 PM
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It's only not cheating if a girl is in a relationship with a guy and she turns and does it with another girl.

That's my personal belief so spare me the "I don't agree" stuff, kthxbi.

On topic, TC, she lied. That's enough to warrant a breakup. Don't even give her a chance to explain. Just kick her to the curb.

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WrestlinFan
12/25/21 9:00:22 PM
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They dont have a kid. Shes infertile.

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Guide
12/25/21 9:01:10 PM
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@TheChariot are you out of school yet

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WrestlinFan
12/25/21 9:01:35 PM
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She also blocked me from her FB account earlier in the evening so I wouldnt see. I dont think things get any clearer than to cut my losses.

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ssj3vegeta
12/25/21 9:01:39 PM
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Just dumb da bitch, fuck dat shit

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bsp77
12/25/21 9:02:52 PM
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WrestlinFan posted...
She also blocked me from her FB account earlier in the evening so I wouldnt see. I dont think things get any clearer than to cut my losses.
Virtual hug. So sorry

Can I ask if there had been any issues in your relationship recently or is this out of the blue?

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MrToothHasYou
12/25/21 9:04:18 PM
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WrestlinFan posted...
She also blocked me from her FB account earlier in the evening so I wouldnt see. I dont think things get any clearer than to cut my losses.
Sounds to me like she broke up with you and just didnt bother to tell you.

Sucks man, breakups are never fun, but at least on the bright side she was so openly shitty to you that you arent gonna get tricked into taking her back.

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bknight
12/25/21 9:06:03 PM
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Well, guess you're going to have to put a baby in her tummy to assert dominance, good luck.
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TheChariot
12/25/21 9:07:35 PM
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Guide posted...
@TheChariot are you out of school yet
Buddy, you're the guy who cheated with his best friend's wife for, how long, two years? You needa sit down and shut up.

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Jefejonny
12/25/21 9:08:13 PM
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Pics of her to see what your losing or not losing

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TheChariot
12/25/21 9:08:23 PM
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bknight posted...
Well, guess you're going to have to put a baby in her tummy to assert dominance, good luck.

WrestlinFan posted...
They dont have a kid. Shes infertile.
Some people can't read in this topic.

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TheChariot
12/25/21 9:09:08 PM
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WrestlinFan posted...
She also blocked me from her FB account earlier in the evening so I wouldnt see. I dont think things get any clearer than to cut my losses.
Smart. Dump her by text.

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DarthAragorn
12/25/21 9:09:15 PM
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I assume you've already given her a Christmas gift

Sucks TC

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Lorenzo_2003
12/25/21 9:10:16 PM
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TheChariot posted...
Buddy, you're the guy who cheated with his best friend's wife for, how long, two years? You needa sit down and shut up.

Gad damn

Thats some next level Im a scumbag but at least it wasnt illegal type of nonsense.

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Riev
12/25/21 9:11:21 PM
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Naysaspace posted...
It's not about banging. They probably aren't banging. It's still cheating, but on an even worse level -- emotional cheating.

you can cheat on someone with your ex and still love that someone

In this scenario, it seems clear to me that she still feels for him, enough to lie to her current BF.

Unless TC is withholding critical information, i.e. if they have kids together and the reason for going is to have that whole family see the grandparents.

If "she still feels for him, enough to lie to her current BF" then what makes you think they wouldn't bang? She already has questionable morals based on her behavior described in the OP so it's clear if she wanted to fuck then she would. She's cheating on him physically as well as emotionally.
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Guide
12/25/21 9:12:27 PM
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TheChariot posted...
Buddy, you're the guy who cheated with his best friend's wife for, how long, two years? You needa sit down and shut up.

Who what? You have me confused with someone else. A wife cheated with me for around a year, but I didn't know the guy, I just knew she bitched about him a lot. I would never hurt a friend.

That, and I don't see how it's relevant to the statement. Just, your weird personal bit came out of nowhere, and it is both irrelevant and stupid.

@Lorenzo_2003 Just want you to see this so that you think I'm shitty based on an accurate statement.

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TheChariot
12/25/21 9:16:17 PM
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Guide posted...
Who what? You have me confused with someone else. A wife cheated with me for around a year, but I didn't know the guy, I just knew she bitched about him a lot. I would never hurt a friend.

That, and I don't see how it's relevant to the statement. Just, your weird personal bit came out of nowhere, and it is both irrelevant and stupid.
I'm saying that a guy who cheated with a married woman has no leg to stand on by telling me I'm wrong if I'm okay with my girlfriend having a side piece of the fairer sex that she doesn't tell me about.

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Guide
12/25/21 9:17:42 PM
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TheChariot posted...
I'm saying that a guy who cheated with a married woman has no leg to stand on by telling me I'm wrong if I'm okay with my girlfriend having a side piece of the fairer sex that she doesn't tell me about.

I'm not telling you you're wrong for that. That's up to you for your own personal life, and I fully respect it.

It's that you used your personal definition of what counts for other people. That's the stupid part. Like, out of nowhere.

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rexcrk
12/25/21 9:18:36 PM
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Wtf.

Assuming this is real of course, why do girls do shit like this

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Looked gf
12/25/21 9:20:40 PM
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Damn

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Master_Bass
12/25/21 9:22:55 PM
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Sorry this happened to you, TC. On the bright side, at least you found out now before you wasted more time with her or got married or anything. I know it really sucks, though.

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Naysaspace
12/25/21 9:23:08 PM
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yep, relationship over.

i mean the "blocking on facebook" means its over lmao. And also juvenile

but hey, rejoice. At least it was just 1 year wasted, not 7.

also: do people not know what emotional cheating is? Man.

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Touch
12/25/21 9:24:14 PM
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That's fucked bro. But please don't do anything drastic to yourself.

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