Current Events > Just found out my gf ad her ex take her to her Xmas get together.

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This. Shut the fuck up Sterolizer and anyone else defending his take. Dude's clearly fucked up enough over this, he doesn't need to hear "this happened because you let it happen". It's a shit take and it's a shitty thing to subject another person to right after a traumatic event.

This happened

Scarecrow17 posted...

I hope youre misinterpreting Steros post on purpose. Otherwise, big yikes. Just take the L and dip.

What?

STEROLIZER posted...

You got cucked because of something you did. There are portions of your personality/behavior that either:

This is complete bullshit

There are things that out of your control. Being enough of a man or a perfect partner or whatever will never stop shitty people from fucking you around. That toxic mindset is just as bad as incel shit

Scarecrow17 posted...

I hope youre misinterpreting Steros post on purpose. Otherwise, big yikes. Just take the L and dip.

He is right. I have a clear gimmick, and it is the following

STEROLIZERs Gimmick

Dont take advice from the CE incels seriously.

Its not okay to be lonely and sad. Everyone is both deserving and CAPABLE of love, family, and happiness. So lets make it happen!

Like Im not even joking. Thats been my gimmick for most of 2021. This makes me the absolute worst human being possible to a good amount of CEmen because I dont allow them to rot in their own self pitty.

I rightfully call this place out on being a safe place for inceldom, that romanticizes depression, and preaches hopelessness.

This place is basically a cult that indoctrinates wayward users, by telling them

Life is out of your control. Just accept that youll all die hopeless virgins but take solace that it is not your fault. It is societys fault.

So less quarantine ourselves away from mainstream humanity, and just play video games together while we complain and wait to die.

Yea. I call this out at least once a day. There is zero excuse for anyone here to be an unhappy, clinically depressed, 40 year old virgin.

Ill never accept this as normalacy, and will preach its abnormalities until the day Im bannedbecause if I can motivate even one user to self improve themselves out of their predicament then its all worth it!

roos1046 Reborn posted...

This happened

I call!

*Pushes chips forward and calls*

Whatever happened and no matter how you feel (like dogshit I'm sure), don't do anything drastic. I know how that place feels, and it's fucking awful. It passes, after time, but it seems like forever in the moment. Just know that it does pass and that you will be okay.

Like it's one thing to give a person some hard advice that gets them to look at their life and improve how they're living. It's another thing, after a person has clearly been through something traumatic - to the point where they're heavily implying self harm - to say "you got cuckolded because of something you did".

It's a shitty troll from you and your gang of fuckfaces, both bragging about how much sex you're having and going "he'll never learn if he doesn't hear the truth", when the truth you're talking about is "you got cucked". How the fuck is that useful to TC at the moment? It's a petty jab when he's already at its lowest, and you guys continuing to double down and go "no I'm right, I'm the only person trying to help TC in this thread while everyone else coddles him" is extremely tacky and disrespectful.

When TC is asking for dating advice, or asks people what they think happened that made everything go wrong, then maybe what you're saying would be solicited advice. As it stands, TC has indicated that he's extremely upset over what's happening with his girlfriend, and given the context, calling him a cuck and saying it's his fault is extremely inappropriate and disrespectful to the guy who just went through a fucking awful life event.

So again, shut the fuck up Sterolizer and the rest of the shit posters who've infected this topic.

MrMallard posted...

It's a shitty troll from you and your gang of fuckfaces,

Im apart of no gang dude. There is no troll. Im actually being altruistic in my replies. That probably really pisses you off. For that Im sorry.

Gwynevere posted...

What?

This is complete bullshit

There are things that out of your control. Being enough of a man or a perfect partner or whatever will never stop shitty people from fucking you around. That toxic mindset is just as bad as incel shit

What happenedwellit happened. Time to move on, get a better girl, and make sure you do everything within your power to make sure this shit NEVER happens again.

STEROLIZER posted...

What happenedwellit happened. Time to move on, get a better girl, and make sure you do everything within your power to make sure this shit NEVER happens again.

Indeed. OP is hurting and he was done wrong, but he must secure himself from being ripe for this shit ever again. The Pity Party who all already quit on themselves just want to swell their ranks.
STEROLIZER posted...

Im apart of no gang dude. There is no troll. Im actually being altruistic in my replies. That probably really pisses you off. For that Im sorry.

They project like crazy here.

WTF at some of these victim blaming responses.

Just be nice, guys sheesh

Fony posted...

but he must secure himself from being ripe for this shit ever again

The only way it's possible to do that is if you never get emotionally invested in anyone ever again, and you view relationships are purely transactional interactions.

No matter what you do, a shitty person will always do shitty things to you. Being hurt is part of the human experience, no matter how much garbage self help advice you take from grifters

MrMallard posted...

Like it's one thing to give a person some hard advice that gets them to look at their life and improve how they're living. It's another thing, after a person has clearly been through something traumatic - to the point where they're heavily implying self harm - to say "you got cuckolded because of something you did".

It's a shitty troll from you and your gang of fuckfaces, both bragging about how much sex you're having and going "he'll never learn if he doesn't hear the truth", when the truth you're talking about is "you got cucked". How the fuck is that useful to TC at the moment? It's a petty jab when he's already at its lowest, and you guys continuing to double down and go "no I'm right, I'm the only person trying to help TC in this thread while everyone else coddles him" is extremely tacky and disrespectful.

When TC is asking for dating advice, or asks people what they think happened that made everything go wrong, then maybe what you're saying would be solicited advice. As it stands, TC has indicated that he's extremely upset over what's happening with his girlfriend, and given the context, calling him a cuck and saying it's his fault is extremely inappropriate and disrespectful to the guy who just went through a fucking awful life event.

So again, shut the fuck up Sterolizer and the rest of the shit posters who've infected this topic.

You made one of the worst posts in the topic and had to delete it once called out on it. I think you are the last person here to tell others what to say to the TC.

Steros post is disrespectful? Do you remember your original post? It was a joke. Im fairly sure you are the same guy who revealed way too much information about another user who went through a traumatic event. You basically laid that persons business out for everyone to see instead of keeping it in the DMs like you should have done. Several posters called you out on that as well in that topic.

Stop it. TC is free to choose who he wants to listen to. Most of the advice in this thread just wants to help him during a tumultuous time. If you really want to help, dont derail the topic by continuing the argument.

Gwynevere posted...

The only way it's possible to do that is if you never get emotionally invested in anyone ever again, and you view relationships are purely transactional interactions.

No matter what you do, a shitty person will always do shitty things to you. Being hurt is part of the human experience, no matter how much garbage self help advice you take from grifters

This is how learned hopelessness begins. You take yourself out of the equation.

Gwynevere posted...

The only way it's possible to do that is if you never get emotionally invested in anyone ever again, and you view relationships are purely transactional interactions.

No matter what you do, a shitty person will always do shitty things to you. Being hurt is part of the human experience, no matter how much garbage self help advice you take from grifters

He can reduce the odds significantly. You guys have already quit though. There are faithful women out there.

Enjoy your hell, stop trying to drag others down with you. Your answer to life is to just fail, that's your choice. OP deserves a chance to make a better one.

Fony posted...

He can reduce the odds significantly. You guys have already quit though. There are faithful women out there.

Enjoy your hell, stop trying to drag others down with you. Your answer to life is to just fail, that's your choice. OP deserves a chance to make a better one.

QFT

Scarecrow17 posted...

You made one of the worst posts in the topic and had to delete it once called out on it. I think you are the last person here to tell others what to say to the TC.

Steros post is disrespectful? Do you remember your original post? It was a joke. Im fairly sure you are the same guy who revealed way too much information about another user who went through a traumatic event. You basically laid that persons business out for everyone to see instead of keeping it in the DMs like you should have done. Several posters called you out on that as well in that topic.

Stop it. TC is free to choose who he wants to listen to. Most of the advice in this thread just wants to help him during a tumultuous time. If you really want to help, dont derail the topic by continuing the argument.

guys like this believe help doesn't exist and things cannot improve. they mask it with virtue signaling in their faux rage at people who offer solutions.

STEROLIZER posted...

This is how learned hopelessness begins. You take yourself out of the equation.

More self help buzzwords

Doing everything you can to avoid strife is just going to leave you helpless when you have to deal with it head on. Changing yourself into someone completely different because someone did you dirty is placing way too much importance on that person.

It just screams insecurity from someone that got hurt once and is afraid to get hurt again

Us kangs need to learn how to empower each other instead of tearing ourselves down. The hail is wrong with some of y'all.

Gwynevere posted...

More self help buzzwords

Literally learned this buzz word while getting my bachelors in psychology a completely useless degree, but still very useful knowledge to have.

You know what a true buzzword isvictim blaming.

Thats a word you can toss around anytime you are trying to shake blame, consenquences, or responsibility.

Veggeta_MAX posted...

Us kangs need to learn how to empower each other instead of tearing ourselves down. The hail is wrong with some of y'all.

Some of us want to actually help instead of having a pity party. I have gotten to a much better place in life by thinking about how I could have acted differently vs only blaming my exes.

Fony posted...

guys like this believe help doesn't exist and things cannot improve. they mask it with virtue signaling in their faux rage at people who offer solutions.

QFT

can everyone stfu until TC comes back

bsp77 posted...

Some of us want to actually help instead of having a pity party. I have gotten to a much better place in life by thinking about how I could have acted differently vs only blaming my ex.

There was no saving TC from this though, he couldve been looking like the ideal whatever and that chick wouldve fell back in line with her ex in this lifetime or another

7 years??? Like, cmon man. You cant account for the entire psychology of a person - the only thing that wouldve curbed that would be if TC had a million stored somewhere and even then he wouldve ran into some kind of schpiel due to a broken heart trying to fix herself through TCs money

All TC can really do now is just get on with his life, its not his fault in the least

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If you think karma here is an indicator of anything, youre a lot newer here than me, babe.

@Nintendo_Porn

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Its for the best. Coming to CE for relationship advice is never a good idea.

RedLuigi posted...

There was no saving TC from this though, he couldve been looking like the ideal whatever and that chick wouldve fell back in line with her ex in this lifetime or another

7 years??? Like, cmon man. You cant account for the entire psychology of a person - the only thing that wouldve curbed that would be if TC had a million stored somewhere and even then he wouldve ran into some kind of schpiel due to a broken heart trying to fix herself through TCs money

All TC can really do now is just get on with his life, its not his fault in the least

Pretty sure it was only 1 year they had been together. Anyway, doesn't matter. The point is that Stero and Fony know what they are talking about and are getting attacked for no good reason.

Regardless, I have to go for a run now. Be nice everyone :)

People do love tearing others under the guise of "giving advice" tho.

Veggeta_MAX posted...

People do love tearing others under the guise of "giving advice" tho.

It is much better than being ableist to a person thinking about self-harm.

bsp77 posted...

Pretty sure it was only 1 year they had been together. Anyway, doesn't matter. The point is that Stero and Fony know what they are talking about and are getting attacked for no good reason.

Regardless, I have to go for a run now. Be nice everyone :)

Thats exactly whats happening. The levels of sexual experience really showed their colors here.

WrestlinFan posted...

She also blocked me from her FB account earlier in the evening so I wouldnt see. I dont think things get any clearer than to cut my losses.

Yep...I'm so sorry man. Don't beat yourself up over it, it's entirely on her.

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That would probably be for the best. If TC already mentioned self harmful behavior, the last thing he needs to see is a bunch of garbage about how it's his fault

TC hasnt actually posted since like page 1. Why we still doing this?

Gwynevere posted...

That would probably be for the best. If TC already mentioned self harmful behavior, the last thing he needs to see is a bunch of garbage about how it's his fault

or a bunch of garbage about how life is hopeless and not worth living.

STEROLIZER posted...

or a bunch of garbage about how life is hopeless and not worth living.

No one should enable this nor should try to convince him it's his own fault his girlfriend is cheating on him.

STEROLIZER posted...

or a bunch of garbage about how life is hopeless and not worth living.

Must be easy to feel like your advice is worth a shit when you construct a strawman the size of jupiter to argue against

STEROLIZER posted...

or a bunch of garbage about how life is hopeless and not worth living.

Literally no one has even implied that.

Gwynevere posted...

Must be easy to feel like your advice is worth a shit when you construct a strawman the size of jupiter to argue against

Same

spikethedevil posted...

Literally no one has even implied that.

dont make me start quoting, there are dozens upon dozens of them

The victim cult just wants another pound of flesh. Sad.

STEROLIZER posted...

dont make me start quoting, there are dozens upon dozens of them

Lol no there arent.

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Wow just wow.

Someone has me blocked apparently.

Fitting is should rain, for the gods have pissed upon me.

Err, why you call me here, dude? Sorry, have an idea, but kinda dense.