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omniryu
07/12/22 7:01:47 PM
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There was a video going around of a father bringing a McDonald's meal to his kid. His child's mother has 4 kids total, only one belongs to the father in the video. He stated he only has money for one. She demanded that he get meals for all of her kids. So she said, "ok, give me the food." Then she threw it on the ground. She claimed that he knew what he was getting into when they first hook up as she already had other kids at the time when they have met. She also claimed that he was around the other kids when they were in a relationship. A large reaction to this was: "not my kids not my problem." Who was right and who was wrong? So if the other kids fathers are deadbeat, would he be responsible for all the other kids wellbeing? What about birthdays? Christmas?
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MattcheteGuy
07/12/22 7:02:46 PM
#2:


I don't want kids so therefore I don't want to take care of any kids at all

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MedeaLysistrata
07/12/22 7:04:17 PM
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In a hypothetical situation? Sure

Would I ever have a kid so this might happen? Doubt it

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cuttin_in_farm
07/12/22 7:05:29 PM
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Only if Im with the woman.

The man in the video wasnt.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/12/22 7:08:19 PM
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Charlamagne the God actually had the best take here. He said he'd make sure all the kids were fed but the chick didn't get anything. That's such a petty savage way to go about it >_<. But after the way she acts, that would be so damn satisfying to see her being the only one with no McDonald's.

Id add to it. Id keep saying "This McDonald's is good, huh kids?".

Then she'd have to hope she raised the kids to be kids that offer her some. Which, she probably didn't.

The kids all win and you beat her at her own game. Only down side is, you never know if messing with her is all it'll take for her to go postal. She already is showing early signs by caring more about her pride than her kids.

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Funkydog
07/12/22 7:08:59 PM
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The child in the situation isn't at fault. Not going to fucking abandon a child just because I'm not directly related to them if a family member or myself has responsibility over their wellbeing.

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omniryu
07/12/22 7:12:34 PM
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No, that would be fucked up. They are not together anymore.

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ReturnOfThaJedi
07/12/22 7:12:41 PM
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Fony
07/12/22 7:14:51 PM
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She is not in a relationship with this guy, he is just bringing his child some food. There is nothing at all to discuss. She can let her boyfriend or the government feed her kids since she clearly rather beef with a man than feed them herself.

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Questionmarktarius
07/12/22 7:15:53 PM
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This again?
The last one hasn't even purged yet: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/80075604
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Lost_All_Senses
07/12/22 7:16:23 PM
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Yeah. You can tell she didn't care to figure it out for them kids. Her whole thing was winning the "war" in her head against her baby daddy. She wanted to dominate him and squeeze whatever she could out of him.

She became unredeemable when she was dumb and arrogant enough to show her face and double down after the backlash. She's a real piece of shit >_>. Even with the whole world checking her, she still cares more about proving she was right than reevaluating what was best for them kids.

Also, someone made a good point about how by showing her face, she doomed her kids to bullying because now they were way easier to identify. She basically doxxed herself and kids after the backlash. I like to have hope for people. But, she left nothing to squeeze it from. She took selfish and self absorbed to a whole nother level


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omniryu
07/12/22 7:17:09 PM
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ReturnOfThaJedi posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/4/4/AAbYPKAADchM.jpg


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omniryu
07/12/22 7:17:56 PM
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Questionmarktarius posted...
This again?
The last one hasn't even purged yet: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/80075604
I didn't even know. Oops.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/12/22 7:18:25 PM
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ReturnOfThaJedi posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/4/4/AAbYPKAADchM.jpg

XD. The internet is such a savage. It's crazy to me that people still think they can win against the entire internet. If you find yourself exposed and looking dumb, you fuckin swallow your pride and tuck your tail between your legs and get out of the light as fast as possible. She would suck at Metal Gear Solid.

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Questionmarktarius
07/12/22 7:18:56 PM
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omniryu posted...
I didn't even know. Oops.
Don't worry too much. We'll have another thread about this next week or so, possibly even tomorrow.
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omniryu
07/12/22 7:20:16 PM
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You think so? I never really thought of him as a dick. Maybe he thought it is fair he has to take care of the other kids. She is on food stamps so maybe the other father(s) isn't contributing.

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Nukazie
07/12/22 7:20:40 PM
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ReturnOfThaJedi posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/4/4/AAbYPKAADchM.jpg
i'd get two of that and have the one all for me

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omniryu
07/12/22 7:20:55 PM
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Questionmarktarius posted...
Don't worry too much. We'll have another thread about this next week or so, possibly even tomorrow.
Lol I will try to bring my more unique topics next time.

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DespondentDeity
07/12/22 7:23:26 PM
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The woman has manicured acrylic nails and false lashes and her hair freshly done and shes literally saying, you know I dont get my food stamps til the 7th!

Shes in the wrong totally.

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A_Good_Boy
07/12/22 7:24:42 PM
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Let's not act like that dude is some sort of baller. Kids are expensive and he's doing what he can for the one that's his. I don't see why that woman's other children are suddenly his financial obligation. Would it be nice if he got them some food too? Sure, that would be wonderful. But kids are expensive and if it comes down to feeding my 1 child or seeing all 4 of them kids go hungry then I'm just gonna feed my 1 child. Don't get mad at that dad for showing up, get mad at the 1+ other dad(s) for staying home.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/12/22 7:24:53 PM
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omniryu posted...
You think so? I never really thought of him as a dick. Maybe he thought it is fair he has to take care of the other kids. She is on food stamps so maybe the other father(s) isn't contributing.

He also made the compromise to have him come eat the food in the car. He was solving the problems she had over it and she was just seeing red and not considering any of it. You can tell it's all about dominating whoever she's with for her. Which is why 2-3 men already planned an escape. The stupid part is she could be smart enough to pick men she could dominate and she just isn't. She picks men she can't dominate and then tries to do it anyway.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/12/22 7:26:02 PM
#26:


DespondentDeity posted...
The woman has manicured acrylic nails and false lashes and her hair freshly done and shes literally saying, you know I dont get my food stamps til the 7th!

Shes in the wrong totally.

Yeah. The dude I watched covered how she got dolled up for her response video too. It just showed even more where her priorities were at....not the kids.

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TerraSeeker
07/12/22 7:44:36 PM
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No, I'm only responsible for my own kid. I don't make a point of having kids with random women either. As for the woman, she needs to take some responsibility and take care of her kids herself.

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Questionmarktarius
07/12/22 7:48:48 PM
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No, that's why you start the process of taking custody.
Baby-mamma tossing the mcdonalds into the street is going to have a hell of a lot of weight in court.
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HovaRex
07/12/22 7:48:58 PM
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I probably would, but I don't think the dude in the video was in the wrong either especially with how his baby mama spoke to him.

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NoxObscuras
07/12/22 7:52:43 PM
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Yes, if I am with the mom. Otherwise no. Like, I have a son with my ex. If she goes and has a baby with some other guy, that baby is not my responsibility.

But if I start dating a woman that already has kids, then I'll help take care of them. Especially if I marry the new woman.

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omniryu
07/12/22 7:59:16 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
He also made the compromise to have him come eat the food in the car. He was solving the problems she had over it and she was just seeing red and not considering any of it. You can tell it's all about dominating whoever she's with for her. Which is why 2-3 men already planned an escape. The stupid part is she could be smart enough to pick men she could dominate and she just isn't. She picks men she can't dominate and then tries to do it anyway.
She needs therapy

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A_Good_Boy
07/12/22 8:06:03 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
Yes, if I am with the mom. Otherwise no. Like, I have a son with my ex. If she goes and has a baby with some other guy, that baby is not my responsibility.

But if I start dating a woman that already has kids, then I'll help take care of them. Especially if I marry the new woman.
What makes you think these two are dating let alone married?

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simp5
07/12/22 8:14:53 PM
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15 usd a day on food x 4 x 365

Its not worth dating a single mother.
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NoxObscuras
07/12/22 8:26:16 PM
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A_Good_Boy posted...
What makes you think these two are dating let alone married?
Oh no, I was just answering the topic title as it applies to me. I've seen this video several times already. They're clearly no longer together and I believe the woman is 100% in the wrong. She just seems petty.

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
07/12/22 8:29:17 PM
#37:


Not my children, not my problem, not my responsibility.

The fathers of those other children need to take care of them.

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fhqwhgads
07/12/22 8:31:35 PM
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If they were mine by two different mothers yes.

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StarReaper13
07/12/22 8:34:50 PM
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He went to feed his kid, he did his part

The others? Ain't his at all, so he's not responsible for taking care of them in the slightest as he's not dating the mother or anything. She should hit up her other kids' fathers for food.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/12/22 9:04:57 PM
#40:


simp5 posted...
15 usd a day on food x 4 x 365

Its not worth dating a single mother.

You thinking she represents every single mother is putting you in a battle of wits with her. Please don't lose that battle, for your own sake.

A mother that already proves she has the ability to take care of a kid herself is attractive as hell.

You can't even figure out that all single mothers aren't the same. So, do you really want to blindly trust your own ability to pick one before you even seen her skills at raising a child? Lol. You specifically would be better off seeing the proof first.

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omniryu
07/12/22 9:35:18 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
You thinking she represents every single mother is putting you in a battle of wits with her. Please don't lose that battle, for your own sake.

A mother that already proves she has the ability to take care of a kid herself is attractive as hell.

You can't even figure out that all single mothers aren't the same. So, do you really want to blindly trust your own ability to pick one before you even seen her skills at raising a child? Lol. You specifically would be better off seeing the proof first.
Yeah, they are single mothers who don't need a man for money and they really want company.

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Lost_All_Senses
07/12/22 9:43:46 PM
#42:


omniryu posted...
Yeah, they are single mothers who don't need a man for money and they really want company.

And some end up becoming even more cool because they get self esteem (which obviously isn't the cool part) issues cause of assholes that constantly down them just for having kids and feel the need to throw them under every bus they can find.

Who the fuck thinks of a woman alone in this world raising a kid and goes "Man, fuck that bitch for having a kid instead of making their life about me"....a piece of shit they don't need in their life, is the answer to that. So, at least that part works itself out. It's good that these men put themselves in their trashcan so they don't have to sort them out themselves. But, they're crabs in a bucket. So, they also try to pull them in their and climb on top of them.

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omniryu
07/12/22 10:11:16 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
And some end up becoming even more cool because they get self esteem (which obviously isn't the cool part) issues cause of assholes that constantly down them just for having kids and feel the need to throw them under every bus they can find.

Who the fuck thinks of a woman alone in this world raising a kid and goes "Man, fuck that bitch for having a kid instead of making their life about me"....a piece of shit they don't need in their life, is the answer to that. So, at least that part works itself out. It's good that these men put themselves in their trashcan so they don't have to sort them out themselves. But, they're crabs in a bucket. So, they also try to pull them in their and climb on top of them.
What I think is that. They have a tunnel vision. They see all the bad news of single mothers and come to a conclusion and leave out the good or even normal stuff. I can go on a tirade about all these bad single mothers but I can fail to exclude a lot of stuff. Like the mothers who are educated and have high paying jobs. The average paying job mother who are emotionally mature and stable.

Those who hold that view might need to touch grass

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Lost_All_Senses
07/12/22 10:22:59 PM
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omniryu posted...
What I think is that. They have a tunnel vision. They see all the bad news of single mothers and come to a conclusion and leave out the good or even normal stuff. I can go on a tirade about all these bad single mothers but I can fail to exclude a lot of stuff. Like the mothers who are educated and have high paying jobs. The average paying job mother who are emotionally mature and stable.

Those who hold that view might need to touch grass

I think you're right. It's so damn easy to just not date single mom's and leave them be. It's just so weird to feel the world needs you to put all them in their place lol. That's some goofy shit. The funny part is, they don't realize that that attitude also scares away a lot of respectable woman who don't have kids but understand how shitty of a place an attitude like that comes from.

No women has ever said "I knew he was the one when I saw him going on a 5 minute rant about not sleeping with single mothers and how he's making sure he never has to put food in a kids mouth unless it's 100% his. He was straight out of my dreams." lol. They don't realize while they're bitching about not settling for others, they're turning into someone who a woman is gonna end up feeling like she's settling for.

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omniryu
07/12/22 11:00:47 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
No women has ever said "I knew he was the one when I saw him going on a 5 minute rant about not sleeping with single mothers and how he's making sure he never has to put food in a kids mouth unless it's 100% his. He was straight out of my dreams." lol. They don't realize while they're bitching about not settling for others, they're turning into someone who a woman is gonna end up feeling like she's settling for.
You hit a point at the end. It's like these guys have no charm or personality to them so they want to rely on " I am man so you have to respect me" to get a woman. It really is pathetic.

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