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Pepys_Monster 10/31/22 12:47:58 PM #1: |
Youd think it would be easier than dating someone new. --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NeoShadowhen 10/31/22 12:50:33 PM #2: |
No, I would think it would be harder. You have to make up for whatever you did to just get back to the starting point. Also, once theyve written you off it is nearly impossible to undo that. My advice if you really want to get back with an ex, give it time. A lot of time. Years. You both have to be different people to try again. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AbstraktProfSC2 10/31/22 12:50:36 PM #3: |
cuz you had a reason for breaking up in the first place --- Talk about backseat fishing. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DoesntMatter 10/31/22 12:50:55 PM #4: |
Pepys_Monster posted... Youd think it would be easier than dating someone new.no, no i wouldn't --- It don't matter. None of this matters. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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K181 10/31/22 12:51:51 PM #5: |
I've hooked up with exes before, but trying to get back into a relationship with an ex- seems like a bad idea to me in the vast majority of cases. --- Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys_Monster 10/31/22 12:52:47 PM #6: |
AbstraktProfSC2 posted... cuz you had a reason for breaking up in the first placeSometimes the reason is just a male friend lurking in the shadows, brainwashing her and scheming to steal her. --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DoesntMatter 10/31/22 12:53:08 PM #7: |
Pepys_Monster posted... Sometimes the reason is just a male friend lurking in the shadows, brainwashing her and scheming to steal her.jfc --- It don't matter. None of this matters. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vampire_Chicken 10/31/22 1:01:43 PM #9: |
Because she knows what you're like. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Suolevram 10/31/22 1:04:59 PM #10: |
She probably found your gamefaqs account and then found out you post here. Not a good look for you TC --- fay ce que vouldras ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kimberly 10/31/22 1:18:48 PM #11: |
Pepys_Monster posted... Youd think it would be easier than dating someone new. Ya'll broke up for a reason. Even if you fix that reason, assuming it was something even in your control, sometimes the damage done is just too much. It's more comfortable to get back with an ex, but that isn't the same as easy. --- My love, we'll make it. My hands, you can leave or take them We're strong enough to face our fears. Now watch time disappear, oh, oh ... Copied to Clipboard!
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PoundGarden 10/31/22 1:27:14 PM #12: |
Pepys_Monster posted... Sometimes the reason is just a male friend lurking in the shadows, brainwashing her and scheming to steal her. Maybe his pee schee had more schuper leet schpecs than yours --- "You go. I'm just going to stare at the lake and think about how I almost just killed a baby." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 10/31/22 1:38:31 PM #13: |
Kimberly posted... Ya'll broke up for a reason. Even if you fix that reason, assuming it was something even in your control, sometimes the damage done is just too much.This. It's definitely the comfortable option, but you guys broke up for a reason. Find someone else that works better for you. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 | i9-10900K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 3600 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DespondentDeity 10/31/22 1:59:35 PM #14: |
I thought you said she broke up with you after you told another woman that she was beautiful on social media after your ex had asked you not to. Its pretty wild that the getting drunk and yelling at her didnt do the trick first tho, sounds like you had multiple multiple opportunities to fix the stuff she wasnt feeling and you just couldnt manage it. What did Vegeta say? Sad for you! --- SHE: In black of night, a die is cast, heavens overflow with stars HER: All is light, all is ash, you must become just as you are ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys_Monster 10/31/22 2:02:32 PM #15: |
NoxObscuras posted... This. It's definitely the comfortable option, but you guys broke up for a reason.I don't understand the logic here. Most people are not compatible. To find someone compatible enough to have a relationship is rare. Therefore, it makes more sense to get back together with a compatible person than to waste all the time, money, and effort going through a whole bunch of less compatible people. --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys_Monster 10/31/22 2:10:59 PM #17: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Well, there are a lot of things you can't do when you're single. You can't go to the pumpkin patch. You can't go to theme parks. You can't go to the drive-in. You also lose social status. It almost is a need. --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thx1138 10/31/22 2:11:56 PM #18: |
I dont want to get back with my ex at all --- There ain't nothing to it but to do it ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VampireCoyote 10/31/22 2:13:33 PM #19: |
because they became an ex for a reason and theyve moved on --- She/her ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 10/31/22 2:15:54 PM #20: |
Pepys_Monster posted... I don't understand the logic here. Most people are not compatible. To find someone compatible enough to have a relationship is rare. Therefore, it makes more sense to get back together with a compatible person than to waste all the time, money, and effort going through a whole bunch of less compatible people.That's why it's the comfortable option. You're already familiar with your ex, so it makes you want to just lean back into that, rather than deal with the uncomfortable part of getting to know new people. I broke up with my girlfriend of 10 years, because I could no longer trust her. Keeping her would have been the comfortable option. But finding someone new that's interested in you, is usually easier than convincing an ex to take you back. Like, while I don't hate my ex, there is nothing on earth that would convince me to date her again. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 | i9-10900K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 3600 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 10/31/22 2:18:34 PM #23: |
Pepys_Monster posted... Well, there are a lot of things you can't do when you're single. You can't go to the pumpkin patch. You can't go to theme parks. You can't go to the drive-in. You also lose social status. It almost is a need.You can do all of that, either alone, or with platonic friends. I went to Universal Studios earlier this month with a friend of mine and we had a great time. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 | i9-10900K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 3600 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Aubrieta 10/31/22 2:28:24 PM #24: |
Pepys_Monster posted... Sometimes the reason is just a male friend lurking in the shadows, brainwashing her and scheming to steal her.yikes, she just chose someone else, there's no "scheme" going on and this just makes you look pitiful and paranoid. she isn't "brainwashed" at all for not wanting to be with a man who would get drunk and verbally abuse her, as well as went against her request to not compliment another woman on social media. maybe, just maybe, the problem... is you? that your behavior made her lose interest? no, it couldn't be, how could her feelings have possibly changed naturally, she's clearly just been brainwashed... --- fly away, fly high... to the birds, this is freedom!~ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys_Monster 10/31/22 2:31:26 PM #25: |
Aubrieta posted... yikes, she just chose someone else, there's no "scheme" going on and this just makes you look pitiful and paranoid. she isn't "brainwashed" at all for not wanting to be with a man who would get drunk and verbally abuse her, as well as went against her request to not compliment another woman on social media. maybe, just maybe, the problem... is you? that your behavior made her lose interest? no, it couldn't be, how could her feelings have possibly changed naturally, she's clearly just been brainwashed...I'm a changed man. We spent too much time building our relationship to start over with someone else. --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ChopinList 10/31/22 2:34:56 PM #27: |
We need context on why you broke up? If you were abusive, cheated on her, etc. You arent going to "win" her back she is long gone. --- I for one welcome our new computer overlords ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys_Monster 10/31/22 2:36:56 PM #28: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I'll reconstruct the house of cards no matter what. --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tmaster148 10/31/22 2:41:58 PM #30: |
Pepys_Monster posted... I don't understand the logic here. Most people are not compatible. To find someone compatible enough to have a relationship is rare. Therefore, it makes more sense to get back together with a compatible person than to waste all the time, money, and effort going through a whole bunch of less compatible people. You're simply finding out that you simply aren't compatible with your ex. --- http://i.imgur.com/BBcZDLJ.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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marthsheretoo 10/31/22 2:45:08 PM #31: |
Idk what happened but I'm unironically into this gimmick now. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys_Monster 10/31/22 2:46:36 PM #32: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] It's crazy how you can love someone, and be considered the villain...when the real villain is the manipulator who is with her. Tmaster148 posted... You're simply finding out that you simply aren't compatible with your ex.That's 100% false. I never met someone I was so compatible with. --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kimberly 10/31/22 2:51:43 PM #33: |
Pepys_Monster posted... To find someone compatible enough to have a relationship is rare. Not every people who are in a relationship are compatible (hence breakups) nor do all partners remain compatible. (see previous) Relationships are more complex than you're giving them credit for. --- My love, we'll make it. My hands, you can leave or take them We're strong enough to face our fears. Now watch time disappear, oh, oh ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys_Monster 10/31/22 2:52:24 PM #34: |
Kimberly posted... Not every people who are in a relationship are compatible (hence breakups) nor do all partners remain compatible. (see previous)They're too complex if you ask me. That's why gender roles are good, IMO. They lead to standardization. --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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silverpine 10/31/22 2:54:56 PM #35: |
aren't you the one scheming in the shadows to steal her away now? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys_Monster 10/31/22 2:55:12 PM #36: |
silverpine posted... aren't you the one scheming in the shadows to steal her away now?It's only fair. --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tmaster148 10/31/22 2:55:30 PM #37: |
Pepys_Monster posted... That's 100% false. I never met someone I was so compatible with. Clearly not, because she's an ex. --- http://i.imgur.com/BBcZDLJ.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Master_Bass 10/31/22 2:55:43 PM #38: |
You need to move on already, TC. --- Many Bothans died to bring you this post. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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silverpine 10/31/22 2:56:35 PM #39: |
it's fair but, it shows you don't meet the standards for character that you use to judge others ... Copied to Clipboard!
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marthsheretoo 10/31/22 2:59:19 PM #41: |
Master_Bass posted... You need to move on already, TC. No he needs to keep making these threads for the next decade. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kimberly 10/31/22 3:51:43 PM #42: |
Pepys_Monster posted... That's why gender roles are good, IMO. ...Do you believe that queer people don't have the same sort of relationship troubles, or worse that relationship problems only happen because queer people exist? Your conclusions seem entirely warped, and I really hope you're just trolling lol. --- My love, we'll make it. My hands, you can leave or take them We're strong enough to face our fears. Now watch time disappear, oh, oh ... Copied to Clipboard!
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josifrees 10/31/22 3:52:10 PM #43: |
You are not chad --- Quit Crying ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys_Monster 10/31/22 3:55:45 PM #44: |
Kimberly posted... ...Do you believe that queer people don't have the same sort of relationship troubles, or worse that relationship problems only happen because queer people exist? Your conclusions seem entirely warped, and I really hope you're just trolling lol.Uh...I didn't say anything about that. I just like simplicity when I'm trying to navigate the dating market. --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 10/31/22 3:56:08 PM #45: |
Pepys_Monster posted... It's crazy how you can love someone, and be considered the villain...when the real villain is the manipulator who is with her.Well how many women have you even met? You're fixating on how compatible she was with you, but there's tons of women that would be even more compatible. You just have to meet them. Don't let your fear of the unknown hold you back. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 | i9-10900K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 3600 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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garan 10/31/22 4:15:49 PM #46: |
AbstraktProfSC2 posted... cuz you had a reason for breaking up in the first place ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Giblet_Enjoyer 11/01/22 12:05:02 AM #47: |
AbstraktProfSC2 posted... cuz you had a reason for breaking up in the first place NoxObscuras posted... This. It's definitely the comfortable option, but you guys broke up for a reason.This framing seems kinda lacking since it's also true that they got together for a reason. If someone works on whatever issue caused the breakup there's nothing wrong with getting together again. Especially given how TC tells it, that she was manipulated --- He which make friends with scorpion, soon come to find out what a scorpion does - they bite people with its tail --ancient Chinese proverb ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DespondentDeity 11/01/22 6:30:02 AM #48: |
Giblet_Enjoyer posted... This framing seems kinda lacking since it's also true that they got together for a reason. hes lying about that tho --- SHE: In black of night, a die is cast, heavens overflow with stars HER: All is light, all is ash, you must become just as you are ... Copied to Clipboard!
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