Current Events > Man explains to cops why he's stalking a woman

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That guy is legit fucking crazy and needs severe mental help. I don't want to know what they'd find in his home or on his computer.

Bet you he's an Andrew Tate listener

Man, what a freak. Hopefully he gets his shit together and doesn't hurt anyone.

Let's take a second and think about things from his perspecti... oh wait no let's aobslutely not do that. Holy shit.

tremain07 posted...

Bet you he's an Andrew Tate listener

Y'all should call them Taters

Smackems posted...

Y'all should call them Taters

Let's not corrupt the wonderful food stuff that is taters.

@AndreLeGeant Would you blame this woman if she bought a gun? It seems like a restraining order won't stop this creep.

Smackems posted...

Y'all should call them Taters

If they are still in school. Call them Tater tots.

The_Sock posted...

@AndreLeGeant Would you blame this woman if she bought a gun? It seems like a restraining order won't stop this creep.

I'm pretty anti gun, but I think we need to take stalking more seriously

Its not fun for women to be followed btw

Yeah, this guy's going to be on the news for some crazy shit one day.

Jesus... he honestly should've been arrested. He's going to hurt or kill some poor woman.

Edit: Apparently he has been arrested:
https://twitter.com/JolieAReynolds/status/1590153307137650688

I looked it up and it's on their Facebook page.

Good catch.

He looks exactly what i imagined him to look like

Going through his Youtube channel and he puts off a strong Sovcit vibe as well as being an uber creep.

He is 100% going to rape and murder a woman eventually.

He should be locked up. He's a clear danger.

Punished_Blinx posted...

Jesus it gets even worse in the replies.

He says their relationship is like the song "Baby It's Cold Outside" to a cop that visits his house.

Tweets stuff like this;
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/0/1/AACT2jAAD3Hp.jpg

*Looks this up*
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/

What in the christ? 62%???

Dave Chappelle once said the closest a man could feel to a woman walking alone at night is if he's walking around with $5000 in cash.

I used to brag to my coworker that I used to walk home at 2am from my job and it was no big deal and then she said your not a girl and yup, not worth bragging about. F that guy.

Giblet_Enjoyer posted...

*Looks this up*
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/

What in the christ? 62%???

Yeah, fantasies are different from reality.

1337toothbrush posted...

Yeah, fantasies are different from reality.

Obviously it's not ok to actually rape women based on that info, it's just shocking that literally 62% of women think it'd be groovy to GET RAPED

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That's actually exactly what a fantasy is in the context of sexuality but yes when the rubber meets the road most women would not like to be raped as it actually happens, you are correct

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You have to want it on some level, though. I don't fantasize about maggots crawling into my dickhole, for instance.

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Case in point. People do that because being evil IRL has consequences both for you and others, and those are generally gonna be negative. Evil fantasies exist because the thought of power and domination are attractive to most people, and being allowed to express it without real consequences removes the only barrier most people have to striving for that

The article says just that:

rape fantasies were found to exist on an erotic-aversive continuum, with 9% completely aversive, 45% completely erotic, and 46% both erotic and aversive.

Fantasies are fantasies.

People can have all sorts of fantasies about perverse power dynamics or things like incest. But the reality of those things do not reflect the fantasies of them.

Both men and women have rape fantasies, it's normal. The difference is that it's just that, a fantasy. As long as you don't act on it. I guarantee you, a man fantacizing about rape isn't thinking about doing it with a 600lbs hairy seventy year old women. Just like men, most women who do fantacize about rape want it done by the person of their dreams.

Alright, finally watched it.
Really wish I didn't.

It just got worse and worse as the video went on.
I think it really hit hard when he admits that the girl is a lesbian at the end? Or at least that's what I surmised. Just fucking terrifying.

Punished_Blinx posted...

Fantasies are fantasies.

People can have all sorts of fantasies about perverse power dynamics or things like incest. But the reality of those things do not reflect the fantasies of them.

I already said that. You'd rightly say that someone's fucked in the head if they fantasize about boning their mom or their little sister or what have you, though.

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The only absurd thing is what you just said. This is the idea that fantasies are entirely random and have nothing to do with you in any way. That's nonsense, and a complete contradiction of the first sentence of your post where you agreed with me saying you want it in some way.

I know you guys don't actually think these are completely inconsequential thoughts because I know for damn sure you wouldn't think it's cool and normal for a guy to fantasize about raping.

Giblet_Enjoyer posted...

I already said that. You'd rightly say that someone's fucked in the head if they fantasize about boning their mom or their little sister or what have you, though.

People having incest fantasies doesn't mean they have them about their own family.

Giblet_Enjoyer posted...

The only absurd thing is what you just said. This is the idea that fantasies are entirely random and have nothing to do with you in any way. That's nonsense, and a complete contradiction of the first sentence of your post where you agreed with me saying you want it in some way.

I know you guys don't actually think these are completely inconsequential thoughts because I know for damn sure you wouldn't think it's cool and normal for a guy to fantasize about raping.

What people fantasize about is none of my business. Thought policing isn't a thing nor should it be.

Probably best for those people to keep it to themselves though yes.

Also just gonna point out that there's still a difference between fantasizing about being the victim of something like that and being the perpetrator anyway.

I'm not gonna watch the clip but just from the comments the guy sounds like everything wrong with society.

Punished_Blinx posted...

People having incest fantasies doesn't mean they have them about their own family.

I'm talking about personal fantasies though, the rape fantasies were about the women themselves, not someone else

Punished_Blinx posted...

Also just gonna point out that there's still a difference between fantasizing about being the victim of something like that and being the perpetrator anyway.

True it's a qualitative difference but it's also a difference of degree I'd argue (degree of fucked-in-headedness).

Anyway we're getting into the weeds, point is that if you fantasize about something it DOES say something about you, acting like it doesn't is dishonest

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That's a complete cop-out though. The thought isn't the act, the act is the act. Women know what rape is, that's the act that's being imagined.

Rape isn't not-rape when the victim likes some part of it, in fact women sometimes climax during actual rape. Saying it's not actually rape by definition if it's part of a fantasy is just sophistry, and logically similar to the idea that handsome men cannot be rapists by virtue of the fact women want handsome men

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Not when that "some level" is "by a guy they are attracted to in relatively safe circumstances". Not all rape is done at knife point by a dirty street urchin. I readily concede that 99.9% of women do not want that to happen to them on any level

And again, in order to think this you have to believe these thoughts are just random and yet somehow most women experience them. Absolute nonsense

really wish i just didnt read this topic

Punished_Blinx posted...

He says their relationship is like the song "Baby It's Cold Outside" to a cop that visits his house

isn't that song kinda rape-y?
so he actually admit being one?

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You all but conceded this, though, is the thing. The fact is that the thing that women are fantasizing about is legally what is called "rape", the fact that they enjoy it in this fantasy doesn't change that. That understanding of the word is implied by the question itself, otherwise they could not answer the question because its construction wouldn't compute. What you're arguing is paradoxical. You're engaging in sophistry here by redefining terms to suit your argument; what's being discussed here is what would be legally defined as rape.

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Idk about that, I'm not gonna go back and read it again though. Anyway, my bad if that wasn't clear but what I'm saying is that the typical conception of rape (some incel chasing down a woman and threatening to murder her whilst having his way with her) obviously isn't what women have in mind when fantasizing but there's an important thing about consent to glean from the distinction between that and the following scenario.

The thing they have in mind is some studmuffin taking control and taking them without asking, something that is legally rape

In real life this is indeed prosecutable, the thing is that many women would not seek litigation (even lacking a fear of doing so) in this scenario because they didn't internally object to it happening even though, again, it is legally rape. You're naive as FUCK if you don't get this

Giblet_Enjoyer posted...

You have to want it on some level, though. I don't fantasize about maggots crawling into my dickhole, for instance.

Case in point. People do that because being evil IRL has consequences both for you and others, and those are generally gonna be negative. Evil fantasies exist because the thought of power and domination are attractive to most people, and being allowed to express it without real consequences removes the only barrier most people have to striving for that

The article says just that:

rape fantasies were found to exist on an erotic-aversive continuum, with 9% completely aversive, 45% completely erotic, and 46% both erotic and aversive.

Found in guy in the OP.