Poll of the Day > Ugh, got ghosted

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PK_Spam
02/06/23 8:10:27 AM
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Shouldve expected this, because the guy was super flakey even when we only texted, but didnt think it would happen after we met twice and went on a few dates.

The last text received was him setting a day to hang and me saying, yeah, Ill be free that day, and then nothing at all.

I only go on like 2 dates a year, max, so this is a huge bummer for me >_>

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SilentSeph
02/06/23 9:05:02 AM
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This just happened to me last month...lots of flirty messages, fun meet up, numbers exchanged, future date planned, then bam blocked on everything. I don't get it lol

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PK_Spam
02/06/23 9:12:25 AM
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Its not like Im even blocked on anything. I can still see that my last Snapchat message is unopened and can see his snap score going up>_>

Just strange all around. My city hardly has any dudes who are my type at all. I dont really see myself going out again for a long long time

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SilentSeph
02/06/23 9:29:14 AM
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Yeah that's just weird. Sorry to hear that, it sucks how common random ghosting is. I'm ready to delete these all these apps

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GameLord113
02/06/23 9:30:14 AM
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In my experience when people do that they are usually seeing someone else and its easier for them just to ghost you instead of being honest.
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keyblader1985
02/06/23 9:41:40 AM
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People who ghost are the worst. Anytime it happens, rest assured that you dodged a bullet.

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InfernalFive
02/06/23 11:22:05 AM
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keyblader1985 posted...
People who ghost are the worst. Anytime it happens, rest assured that you dodged a bullet.
Orrrrrrr maybe the one who was ghosted deserved it. It can go both ways. I went on a date years ago and it turned out the girl was super insane/little racist. Ghosting her was the right thing lol

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Muscles
02/06/23 11:27:34 AM
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InfernalFive posted...
Orrrrrrr maybe the one who was ghosted deserved it. It can go both ways. I went on a date years ago and it turned out the girl was super insane/little racist. Ghosting her was the right thing lol
Ghosting is always a dick move, if you don't want to see them anymore tell them that, don't be a bitch and leave them wondering

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LinkPizza
02/06/23 11:34:38 AM
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Yeah. Just tell someone youre not interested if you arent Ghosting isnt the right move, IMO

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InfernalFive
02/06/23 11:41:35 AM
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I'm just saying, in certain situations it's the right move. 99% of the time it's awful though.

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keyblader1985
02/06/23 12:06:57 PM
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InfernalFive posted...
I'm just saying, in certain situations it's the right move.
What you described isn't one of them though. If you know they're a terrible person, don't set up a date. If you realize they're a terrible person after the date is set up, cancel it.

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Muscles
02/06/23 12:12:02 PM
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keyblader1985 posted...
What you described isn't one of them though. If you know they're a terrible person, don't set up a date. If you realize they're a terrible person after the date is set up, cancel it.
And if you find out during the date then tell them you don't want to see them again

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SunWuKung420
02/06/23 3:26:47 PM
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Sometimes the ghoster is a terrible person, sometimes the ghosted deserved it.

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BigOlePappy
02/06/23 3:49:42 PM
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The only times I have ghosted people, is when they were so mentally ill that confronting them would do more harm than good. I usually go completely no contact with those people.

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wwinterj25
02/06/23 4:35:03 PM
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Can't say I'd ever ghost someone. If I'm not interested I'd simply let the other person know.

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Metalsonic66
02/06/23 4:38:22 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/0/0/6/AAFUswAAEKHW.jpg

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Yellow
02/06/23 7:04:45 PM
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Sounds like they could have had an ex or a partner

I try not to get upset about someone until after the first date tbh, until then they're just a possibility, but it's really immature not to be honest
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