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Solid_Sonic
04/11/23 7:56:44 AM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/7/2/AAC6OgAADXyg.jpg

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Supersex420
04/11/23 7:59:08 AM
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No idea but it's one reason I don't like uni now

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MagnusX
04/11/23 8:02:05 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Essentially this. I'm 40 and there's no reason to interact with high schoolers/collegiates. I don't listen to the radio, I don't play multiplayer games, I can't stand TikTok, etc etc. No need to pretend like I'm a 20-something when I'm not.
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MetalGearDogma
04/11/23 8:02:11 AM
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dolomedes posted...
by not talking to kids

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Tenlaar
04/11/23 8:07:57 AM
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MagnusX posted...
Essentially this. I'm 40 and there's no reason to interact with high schoolers/collegiates. I don't listen to the radio, I don't play multiplayer games, I can't stand TikTok, etc etc. No need to pretend like I'm a 20-something when I'm not.
You have a really reductive view of young people. Treating merely interacting with young people as if it means youre trying to pretend to be one is also pretty silly.
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Jaguar34
04/11/23 8:08:23 AM
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Position of leadership

Working with kids allows you to interact without appearing as a peer
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MedeaLysistrata
04/11/23 8:18:21 AM
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I feel this way anywhere that isn't extremely normative, though. I felt the same way at a clubhouse for neurodiverse adults, I only stayed for a day because it ust felt so weird. Basically I would only feel comfortable in a work place with other people around my age. But that is unacceptable.

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party_animal07
04/11/23 8:29:05 AM
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MagnusX posted...
Essentially this. I'm 40 and there's no reason to interact with high schoolers/collegiates. I don't listen to the radio, I don't play multiplayer games, I can't stand TikTok, etc etc. No need to pretend like I'm a 20-something when I'm not.
That's how you end up an out of touch old person who shakes their fists at anything "hip".

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Flauros
04/11/23 8:30:16 AM
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party_animal07 posted...
That's how you end up an out of touch old person who shakes their fists at anything "hip".
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BGrfhsxxmdE

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cuttin_in_farm
04/11/23 8:31:04 AM
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You could just not care how people around you act and be yourself?

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MagnusX
04/11/23 5:21:08 PM
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Tenlaar posted...
You have a really reductive view of young people. Treating merely interacting with young people as if it means youre trying to pretend to be one is also pretty silly.
I'm not a social person, I'm not generally interested in making new friends, and all my experience with young people shows I have little in common with the ones I've met - coworkers, strangers at music festivals, friends of friends, etc. My sister is 11 years younger than me and we have so very little in common. Not a judgement on their interests, just that I'm generally not into things they would be. Also, I'm mostly responding to the meme, which is literally an older person pretending to be a younger one.

party_animal07 posted...
That's how you end up an out of touch old person who shakes their fists at anything "hip".
The exact opposite. I couldn't care less about what people enjoy or how they enjoy it. I stopped trying to enjoy what other people did decades ago and only care about finding things I enjoy.
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YUNASBFGIR
04/11/23 5:27:32 PM
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By not trying to be on the same "level" as the youth. You can be respectfully curious and appreciate it all you want, but you won't ever be a youth experiencing youth culture again.

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Gremlynn
04/11/23 5:28:33 PM
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Why the fuck would I care?

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cuttin_in_farm
04/11/23 6:20:04 PM
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MagnusX posted...
I'm not a social person, I'm not generally interested in making new friends, and all my experience with young people shows I have little in common with the ones I've met - coworkers, strangers at music festivals, friends of friends, etc. My sister is 11 years younger than me and we have so very little in common. Not a judgement on their interests, just that I'm generally not into things they would be.


It sounds like you dont have things in common with anyone. Tbh.


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MagnusX
04/11/23 6:23:30 PM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
It sounds like you dont have things in common with anyone. Tbh.
Wouldn't really disagree with that - having coworkers, old friends that I rarely hang with, and living with a wonderful partner is generally enough for me, plus being around and vibing with people but generally not talking to them at large music festivals - but it's a lot harder to connect with decades of experience in the difference.
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ellis123
04/11/23 6:25:36 PM
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By not pretending to be a kid on the theoretical off-chance I'm talking to a kid?

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Glob
04/11/23 6:30:36 PM
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I work with kids and I just acknowledge the fact that they consider me old. No point in fighting it.
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Kombucha
04/11/23 6:31:29 PM
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I barely care about how I come off to people my age, let alone people much younger than me.

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KeeperOfShadows
04/11/23 6:36:56 PM
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No desire to act like that. I can't imagine it leading to anything that will interest me, so I never try. I know I'm getting older, and I'm fine with that.

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Jiek_Fafn
04/11/23 6:42:54 PM
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If you can't relate at all to new things, then you're the one lacking life experience. By the time you've realized that, it's probably too late. You don't have to dive right into it, but it's easy to draw parallels.

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MagnusX
04/11/23 6:51:26 PM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
If you can't relate at all to new things, then you're the one lacking life experience. By the time you've realized that, it's probably too late. You don't have to dive right into it, but it's easy to draw parallels.
There's a big difference in relating to new things and relating to young people's interests.
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Bigpapaplut
04/11/23 7:11:37 PM
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By not caring about kids or anything to do with pop culture

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MrResetti
04/11/23 7:19:55 PM
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Ive definitely felt a little odd where I'm on a bill with bands who are 19-22.

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Jiek_Fafn
04/11/23 7:24:08 PM
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MagnusX posted...
There's a big difference in relating to new things and relating to young people's interests.
You dont have to actually like those interests to relate to them. You can draw parallels to your own experiences. If you can't relate to tik tok, when you hang out on an internet message board full of memes then that's your own lack of trying

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xGhostchantx
04/11/23 7:25:18 PM
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MagnusX posted...
Essentially this. I'm 40 and there's no reason to interact with high schoolers/collegiates. I don't listen to the radio, I don't play multiplayer games, I can't stand TikTok, etc etc. No need to pretend like I'm a 20-something when I'm not.

Big disagree.

@ TC You don't. "Growing up" is a myth -- if you're youngish now, you're gonna realize in 10 years time that you're still the exact same person, just making slightly less stupid decisions. You're always going to be interested in something that the kids are also interested in.

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MagnusX
04/11/23 7:31:32 PM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
If you can't relate to tik tok
My issue with TikTok is the video length. I'm not interested in consuming media that short. I prefer 15-45 minute videos. It has nothing to do with relating to it.

xGhostchantx posted...
You're always going to be interested in something that the kids are also interested in.
Yeah, hard disagree here.
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xGhostchantx
04/11/23 7:33:11 PM
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MagnusX posted...
Yeah, hard disagree here.

You are literally on a gaming forum for ages 13+

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Kombucha
04/11/23 7:33:54 PM
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xGhostchantx posted...
You are literally on a gaming forum for ages 13+

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MagnusX
04/11/23 7:37:22 PM
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xGhostchantx posted...
You are literally on a gaming forum for ages 13+
And when polls are made, what is the average age of posters on this board?
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Gremlynn
04/11/23 7:37:46 PM
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xGhostchantx posted...
You are literally on a gaming forum for ages 13+

sums it up.

like, i'm 36. my youngest co-worker is 20. They were telling me all about their Gerudo Link cosplay they made for a friend and were taking to a convention. the fact that to me BotW is a modern classic and to them a nostalgic childhood memory doesn't change the fact that it's a shared interest and seeing somebody way better at crafting shit than me make cool outfits from it is neat.

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Jiek_Fafn
04/11/23 7:37:53 PM
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MagnusX posted...
My issue with TikTok is the video length. I'm not interested in consuming media that short. I prefer 15-45 minute videos. It has nothing to do with relating to it.
But relating to it is what we were talking about...

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MagnusX
04/11/23 7:39:00 PM
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Jiek_Fafn posted...
But relating to it is what we were talking about...
Sorry, shouldn't have said can't stand because that isn't accurate. I should have said can't stand the mandated short video length so just don't consume it at all and unable to relate or not. L
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VampireCoyote
04/11/23 7:39:27 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/0/6/3/AAeAn5AADuDX.jpg

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Kim_Seong-a
04/11/23 7:41:33 PM
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Just accept that you're older and that there will always be a culture gap between you and the next generation.

Some of my old work buddies were barely out of highschool when I was hitting 30. I never tried to "fit in" with them, but we had common interests we could talk about.

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voldothegr8
04/11/23 7:44:57 PM
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It is inevitable

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