Current Events > Your date: "I'm not paying for dinner"

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ZannoL
05/24/23 2:33:34 PM
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It's the 4th time eating out with your date, who discloses that they don't think it's their responsibility to pay for meals. Is this a turn-off?



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ZannoL
05/24/23 2:34:05 PM
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My boyfriend and I have always done a 50/50 split. I find that it works best that way.

What about you guys?
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BloodMoon7
05/24/23 2:36:41 PM
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I think it's fine but should've been established the first time. I don't mind paying, I do mind not knowing who's paying. I'm too old for playing around, who pays for dinner and we having sex or nah?

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Bass
05/24/23 2:38:43 PM
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No thanks, we either split or take turns paying. That should be established ahead of time, though.

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Medussa
05/24/23 2:39:09 PM
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whoever arranges the date should pay. that way they know upfront roughly what it should cost.

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ai123
05/24/23 2:40:32 PM
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It's a bit of a weird thing to say on the 4th dinner date.

A pattern has already been established.

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bsp77
05/24/23 2:40:48 PM
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Hell, no. I always pay for a first date, but I expect them to at least occasionally take charge after that.

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Tora_Sami
05/24/23 2:41:16 PM
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Me and my um friend, we always fight over who pays. It's like a fun game. Though when we go to he movies I usually pay for the tickets and she pays for the snacks because she makes more money then me.

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garan
05/24/23 3:15:46 PM
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It's a turn off, but I also expect it. I can count the amount of times a woman has even offered to split the bill let alone pay for everything with me on 1 hand.
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ironman2009
05/24/23 3:17:00 PM
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I kinda just assume I'm going to pay for everything all the time and if they say they wanna pay then even better.

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bsp77
05/24/23 3:17:43 PM
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garan posted...
It's a turn off, but I also expect it. I can count the amount of times a woman has even offered to split the bill let alone pay for everything with me on 1 hand.
Even beyond the first date? These are shit women if so

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boxoto
05/24/23 3:17:49 PM
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it's a small price to not have to deal with them again

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NoxObscuras
05/24/23 3:28:01 PM
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Massive turn off. In fact, if she never offers to pay, she would not have made it to a 4th date in the first place. I pay for the first date, but if she never even offers after that, I'm out. I'm not going to just be someone's meal ticket.

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YourBestFrenemy
05/24/23 3:30:12 PM
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Rock-paper-blowjob for the tab. Oh wait, that never works, everyone always picks blowjob.
Srsly though, nothing wrong with halfsies.

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ZannoL
05/24/23 3:42:38 PM
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YourBestFrenemy posted...
Rock-paper-blowjob for the tab. Oh wait, that never works, everyone always picks blowjob.
lol
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