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bsp77 07/25/23 11:46:32 AM #101:	omniryu posted... Who was the hothead? What do you mean, "who"? Simply an ex of mine. Great person but emotional regulation issues that I couldn't handle, even more so than my emotional issues (I have autism). She remains one of my favorite people. --- Currently playing: taking a gaming break after Final Fantasy XVI sucked the life out of me <cite>bsp77 posted [p:975055714] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>omniryu posted... </cite><quote>Who was the hothead?</quote>What do you mean, "who"? Simply an ex of mine. Great person but emotional regulation issues that I couldn't handle, even more so than my emotional issues (I have autism).She remains one of my favorite people.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
omniryu 07/25/23 12:01:09 PM #102:	bsp77 posted... What do you mean, "who"? Simply an ex of mine. Great person but emotional regulation issues that I couldn't handle, even more so than my emotional issues (I have autism). She remains one of my favorite people. Oh I see. Well I am glad you guys can remain friends. --- PSN/XBL: OMNIRYU; Rooting for Zio to find love and Switch FC: 5419 6809 0486 friendship <cite>omniryu posted [p:975055977] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite><quote>What do you mean, "who"? Simply an ex of mine. Great person but emotional regulation issues that I couldn't handle, even more so than my emotional issues (I have autism).She remains one of my favorite people.</quote>Oh I see. Well I am glad you guys can remain friends.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
omniryu 07/25/23 12:01:42 PM #103:	So this lady pretty much explains it better than me. https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cu46hASADZO/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== --- PSN/XBL: OMNIRYU; Rooting for Zio to find love and Switch FC: 5419 6809 0486 friendship <cite>omniryu posted [p:975055987] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>So this lady pretty much explains it better than me.https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cu46hASADZO/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CSCA33 07/25/23 4:23:54 PM #104:	cuttin_in_farm posted... Natsu has been very reasonable imo. --- [click here] (She/Her) <cite>CSCA33 posted [p:975061249] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite><quote>Natsu has been very reasonable imo.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
legendary_zell 07/25/23 4:37:49 PM #105:	The whole "who ever asks should pay" thing is nonsensical in a social context where men are overwhelmingly expected to do the asking and many women either refuse or don't know how to ask. That said, there are plenty of women who insist on splitting. Try dating feminists, it'll happen pretty frequently. It's really a matter of individual ideology at this point, which makes things confusing, but I essentially always go prepared to pay and I'm pleasantly surprised if she offers to split or pay. --- I gotta be righteous, I gotta be me, I gotta be conscious, I gotta be free, I gotta be able, I gotta attack, I gotta be stable, I gotta be black. <cite>legendary_zell posted [p:975061536] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>The whole "who ever asks should pay" thing is nonsensical in a social context where men are overwhelmingly expected to do the asking and many women either refuse or don't know how to ask.That said, there are plenty of women who insist on splitting. Try dating feminists, it'll happen pretty frequently. It's really a matter of individual ideology at this point, which makes things confusing, but I essentially always go prepared to pay and I'm pleasantly surprised if she offers to split or pay. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TerraSeeker 07/25/23 6:05:46 PM #107:	Men could just collective decide that they would rather be friends with benefits than dating. If you're not dating, you don't pay. You can still do the all the enjoyable things about dating just without the whole social expectation that the man has to pay. --- Your words are as empty as your soul <cite>TerraSeeker posted [p:975063067] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>Men could just collective decide that they would rather be friends with benefits than dating. If you're not dating, you don't pay. You can still do the all the enjoyable things about dating just without the whole social expectation that the man has to pay.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CSCA33 07/25/23 7:58:50 PM #108:	TerraSeeker posted... Men could just collective decide that they would rather be friends with benefits than dating. If you're not dating, you don't pay. You can still do the all the enjoyable things about dating just without the whole social expectation that the man has to pay. Love is a thing that exists. --- [click here] (She/Her) <cite>CSCA33 posted [p:975064907] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>TerraSeeker posted... </cite><quote>Men could just collective decide that they would rather be friends with benefits than dating. If you're not dating, you don't pay. You can still do the all the enjoyable things about dating just without the whole social expectation that the man has to pay.</quote>Love is a thing that exists.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TerraSeeker 07/25/23 8:09:38 PM #109:	CSCA33 posted... Love is a thing that exists. What does that even mean? --- Your words are as empty as your soul <cite>TerraSeeker posted [p:975065090] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>CSCA33 posted... </cite><quote>Love is a thing that exists.</quote>What does that even mean?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/25/23 8:18:38 PM #110:	TerraSeeker posted... Men could just collective decide that they would rather be friends with benefits than dating. If you're not dating, you don't pay. You can still do the all the enjoyable things about dating just without the whole social expectation that the man has to pay. There are no expectations anymore that a man pays all the time when you are dating. The discussion was literally about first dates only. Try again. --- Currently playing: taking a gaming break after Final Fantasy XVI sucked the life out of me <cite>bsp77 posted [p:975065236] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>TerraSeeker posted... </cite><quote>Men could just collective decide that they would rather be friends with benefits than dating. If you're not dating, you don't pay. You can still do the all the enjoyable things about dating just without the whole social expectation that the man has to pay.</quote>There are no expectations anymore that a man pays all the time when you are dating. The discussion was literally about first dates only.Try again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TerraSeeker 07/25/23 8:22:14 PM #111:	bsp77 posted... There are no expectations anymore that a man pays all the time when you are dating. The discussion was literally about first dates only. Try again. That's really not true though. You can look anywhere online and find women wanting a man that makes lots of money. Also my comment is still relevant to the first date. --- Your words are as empty as your soul <cite>TerraSeeker posted [p:975065294] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite><quote>There are no expectations anymore that a man pays all the time when you are dating. The discussion was literally about first dates only.Try again.</quote>That's really not true though. You can look anywhere online and find women wanting a man that makes lots of money. Also my comment is still relevant to the first date.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/25/23 8:24:36 PM #112:	TerraSeeker posted... That's really not true though. You can look anywhere online and find women wanting a man that makes lots of money. I have never had this issue personally, nor anyone I know in recent years. Of course it happens, but your suggestion of FwB has nothing to do with what most people can experience by simply not dating a gold digger. --- Currently playing: taking a gaming break after Final Fantasy XVI sucked the life out of me <cite>bsp77 posted [p:975065328] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>TerraSeeker posted... </cite><quote>That's really not true though. You can look anywhere online and find women wanting a man that makes lots of money.</quote>I have never had this issue personally, nor anyone I know in recent years.Of course it happens, but your suggestion of FwB has nothing to do with what most people can experience by simply not dating a gold digger.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CSCA33 07/25/23 8:50:00 PM #113:	TerraSeeker posted... That's really not true though. You can look anywhere online and find women wanting a man that makes lots of money. Also my comment is still relevant to the first date. Your comment isnt relevant at all, outside of a bizarre fictional hypothetical predicated on an unrealistic and misogynistic male power fantasy. --- [click here] (She/Her) <cite>CSCA33 posted [p:975065741] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>TerraSeeker posted... </cite><quote>That's really not true though. You can look anywhere online and find women wanting a man that makes lots of money. Also my comment is still relevant to the first date.</quote>Your comment isnt relevant at all, outside of a bizarre fictional hypothetical predicated on an unrealistic and misogynistic male power fantasy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 07/25/23 8:51:15 PM #114:	TerraSeeker posted... That's really not true though. You can look anywhere online and find women wanting a man that makes lots of money. Also my comment is still relevant to the first date. Do you watch Fresh n Fit by chance lol? Internet Tiktoks aint reality. Seriously. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:975065766] in Where do y... [t:80518112]...</cite> <quote>TerraSeeker posted... </cite><quote>That's really not true though. You can look anywhere online and find women wanting a man that makes lots of money. Also my comment is still relevant to the first date.</quote>Do you watch Fresh n Fit by chance lol?Internet Tiktoks aint reality. Seriously. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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