Current Events > Is it reasonable for a girl that's an RN making $100,000 to want a man?

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I think you should listen to better people.

mind saying why?

Because incels believe that women in general are like this, not just some of them, and often use bad faith questions like this to push their narrative.

Maybe don't think of people in terms of their 'price tag'?

There's nothing inherently virtuous about dating someone who makes less money. People in the same income bracket are more likely to share a common level of education, interests and aspirations, which in turn will make them more compatible.

heres the problem though

if I lose all my high paying job, would a girl like that still want me? that answer is likely no if shes only looking my way and giving me the time of day if my salary is big

thats a dealbreaker to me if the answer is no because I dont need a girl thats only with me when the times are good

Why do you think that you have nothing to offer a woman besides your wage packet?

well in that situation. her pre-requisite before getting to know me is how much money I make, anything else is already irrelevant to her

Your question is correct if she would give a dude a chance if he made $50-60K but in a situation like that, she wouldnt bother even getting to know me if my bank account wasnt fat.

Strong incel vibes topic #47362858

Im staunchly anti-incel but not getting any incel vibes from talking about this hypothetical situation.

Women who want a partner on equal financial footing just want to spend all of their partners money and keep all of their own for themselves isnt throwing up any flags for you?

Women who want a partner on equal financial footing just want to spend all of their partners money and keep all of their own for themselves isnt throwing up any flags for you?

You're presenting that as if it was his stated opinion, but it wasn't. You're not even quoting what he said correctly. He specifically said other people had told him women that want men with big money can be dangerous. He's just asking people what they think.

I dunno.

We've been down this 'people tell me there are these terrible women who are dangerous' road before. Only want 'high value' males, will dump them for a better prospect etc. Do people really need to be told that someone who wants you only for your money is best avoided?

I'm giving TC the benefit of the doubt, but I have reservations.

I feel like theres a world of difference between asking about it and acknowledging that some women are that way and doing it by implying all or most are.

The OP literally just says women who make good money and want a man who is financially equal. There is no some involved so it absolutely is implying all.

I was with a woman (Not an RN but she made around 100k) who made more than me and she broke up with me because of it. She said that she expected me to pay for everything when we were out but then had to worry about if I had money to live. But when she had to pay for things for that reason it also annoyed her and made her lose attraction to me. She had already told me she was in love with me and we had a "deep emotional connection" too so I couldn't wrap my head around it when she told me those things.

I was with a woman (Not an RN but she made around 100k) who made more than me and she broke up with me because of it. She said that she expected me to pay for everything when we were out but then had to worry about if I had money to live. But when she had to pay for things for that reason it also annoyed her and made her lose attraction to me. She had already told me she was in love with me and we had a "deep emotional connection" too so I couldn't wrap my head around it when she told me those things.

Reasonable? I suppose. But it suggests that she's very materialistic so even if I made that much, if I knew that was a dealbreaker I'd probably pass.

Nothing about the OP implies all, beyond talking about women who do want a man who earns above that threshold. And then, whats implied from there is that they want it, which they, by definition, do.

Its very clearly talking about a specific type of person and in no way is it implying that all women or even a majority of women are like that. Youre seeing what you want to see.

The OP literally just says women who make good money and want a man who is financially equal. There is no some involved so it absolutely is implying all.

mind saying why?

thats exactly why Im sure theyre not good women

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