Current Events > If you are 30+ is it weird or wrong to date women in college?

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10/07/23 12:02:02 PM
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Damn_Underscore
10/07/23 1:49:47 PM
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Obviously there are people in college who are 30+, but is it weird or wrong to have your dating pool generally be women in college

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Big_Nabendu
10/07/23 1:51:03 PM
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Why would it matter?

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Damn_Underscore
10/07/23 1:51:57 PM
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Big_Nabendu posted...
Why would it matter?

Age gap in dating seems to be a big issue on the internet these days

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IceCreamOnStero
10/07/23 1:52:40 PM
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If its consensual, no.

College students are adults who are perfectly capable of deciding who they date.

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Big_Nabendu
10/07/23 1:53:43 PM
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Damn_Underscore posted...
Age gap in dating seems to be a big issue on the internet these days


Why do u care about what the internet says

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
10/07/23 1:54:09 PM
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Why would it be odd or weird to be dating another adult ?

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FolkenRawr
10/07/23 1:54:31 PM
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It's weird to me, as in for me. The neighborhood bar I regularly went to in my early 20s has a bunch of the same neighborhood guys, but Friday/Saturdays are almost entirely 21-25 year olds. They mostly just annoy me at this point in my life.

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Damn_Underscore
10/07/23 1:54:52 PM
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Big_Nabendu posted...
Why do u care about what the internet says

Were on the internet

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BloodMoon7
10/07/23 1:55:00 PM
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If they're old enough to get the debt, they're old enough to get the d--

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archizzy
10/07/23 1:55:44 PM
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Depends on how + you are. Im 47 and work on a college campus for a state university. Back when I was in my early 20s I used to joke that it would be great to date college girls when I was in my 40s or 50s. Now that Im at that age range its a completely different view.

The college kids I see honestly dont even look old enough to drive. They look like literal children to me. I couldnt personally do it. But 47 is a hell of a lot different than say 31. So again for me it depends on how far over.

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Link_HT
10/07/23 1:57:27 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Why would it be odd or weird to be dating another adult ?
I'm 34. Putting me in the same category as an 18 year old is laughable on every level, specially maturity.
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K181
10/07/23 2:30:04 PM
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Weird? Yes.
Wrong? No, provided that they're at least 18.

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Naysaspace
10/07/23 2:32:21 PM
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yes 100%

idk why youd even want to with the maturity gap
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NeonTentacles
10/07/23 2:32:26 PM
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Hell nah. College chicks are hot as fuck. One of reasons I went back to school was to be surrounded by them again. Getting my degree for a promotion was secondary >_> It helps motivate me through fulltime work and rigorous schoolwork to see hot ass chicks between it all and remind me of what's important in life

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ChocoboMogALT
10/07/23 2:33:02 PM
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Big difference between an 18 year old with no bills taking their first college courses and a 22 year old working 30 hours a week, with an apartment, and also doing their thesis.

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pedro45
10/07/23 2:37:37 PM
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IceCreamOnStero posted...
If its consensual, no.

College students are adults who are perfectly capable of deciding who they date.

Just learned the hard way that's not true. So many of them graduate, hit 25, etc and then feel the need to change things up for their next phase in life. They'll drop and use people along the way figuring that's life.

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DarthAragorn
10/07/23 2:38:53 PM
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30+ dating a 20 year old is pretty weird, yes

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Ar0ge
10/07/23 2:53:14 PM
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Surprised so many people saying it's not weird.

It's definitely weird...

Sure college students are adults... but there's a huge difference in maturity between 18-20 year olds and 30+ year olds. It's definitely a little creepy and I think there's potential there for grooming... which is not good.
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WalkingPlague
10/07/23 2:56:19 PM
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if youre in your 30s, dating someone who could be your daughter is weird.

35 and 25 isnt too bad. i guess it comes down to maturity. i personally wouldnt date anyone in their low 20s.

30-45 is targeted age range for me.

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bsp77
10/07/23 3:01:36 PM
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WalkingPlague posted...
dating someone who could be your daughter is weird.
I have had some people think my fiance was my daughter, including my aunt when I posted a hiking pic of us on Facebook. Ugh.

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Paragon21XX
10/07/23 3:04:05 PM
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The average CEman discussing maturity, lol.

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IMNOTRAGED
10/07/23 3:05:57 PM
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WalkingPlague posted...
if youre in your 30s, dating someone who could be your daughter is weird

Someone in their 30s could be my sister... but they're not.

Ar0ge posted...
It's definitely a little creepy and I think there's potential there for grooming... which is not good.

There isn't though. That person is already an adult. Definitionally that is not what grooming is

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NeonTentacles
10/07/23 3:07:10 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/0/2/7/AAfWomAAE6Nz.jpg

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Ar0ge
10/07/23 3:19:06 PM
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IMNOTRAGED posted...
Someone in their 30s could be my sister... but they're not.

There isn't though. That person is already an adult. Definitionally that is not what grooming is

An 18 year old adult is not the same as a 35 year old adult.

Just because it's legal, doesn't make it not creepy.
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Ar0ge
10/07/23 3:25:49 PM
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You don't think someone in their 30s can exploit and manipulate a young college student?
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NeonTentacles
10/07/23 3:26:58 PM
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Ar0ge posted...
You don't think someone in their 30s can exploit and manipulate a young college student?
Isn't it usually the other way around? >_> aka sugar daddies. My friend in college had one and then just dropped him after a few months lol. Still banged other dudes on the side during it

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Link_HT
10/07/23 3:36:19 PM
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No, what a random thing to ask. What are you trying to imply?
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SpiritSephiroth
10/07/23 3:55:02 PM
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No. People who keep going on about ages, as long as they're not minors, I found are the weird ones.

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NeonTentacles
10/07/23 3:56:14 PM
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Yeah I agree. CE is not known for having socially normal opinions on things >_>

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ChocoboMogALT
10/07/23 4:03:20 PM
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It's just a logic failure.

"Is it weird when a quadrilateral has sides of uneven lengths?"
"I know there's rectangles and trapezoids, but there's also squares. So, yeah, it's weird because they could be a square."

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Ar0ge
10/07/23 4:04:08 PM
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Cool. I'm glad we agree.
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FunWithAFryPan
10/07/23 4:09:48 PM
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Everyone should mind their own business.

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xlr_big-coop
10/07/23 4:30:37 PM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
Why would it be odd or weird to be dating another adult ?
I've seen some idiots calling it grooming, despite being adults

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MarcoRubio
10/07/23 5:03:15 PM
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NeonTentacles posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/0/2/7/AAfWomAAE6Nz.jpg

What's that bird thing on the right?

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Arcanine2009
10/07/23 5:11:49 PM
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Age of consent is 18. That's fine.

I know you are probably thinking fresh out of high school, but a person in college can be any age (I mean much older).

Do I recommend dating 18-22 year olds? Nope. Not for a serious relationship. I personally wouldn't dare someone that I'm twice as old as. But you do you. The dividing by 2 and adding 7 is a decent metric.

You have to ask what you are looking for in said relationship if you are trying to date young, especially if the age gap is significant. Mental maturity, life stages, life experiences, goals, way of thinking will be very different.

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NeonTentacles
10/07/23 5:57:08 PM
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MarcoRubio posted...
What's that bird thing on the right?
lol

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ClayGuida
10/07/23 6:02:10 PM
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No. Age is just a number, and an adult can make adult decisions.

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PraetorXyn
10/07/23 6:37:21 PM
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No. I would say its a bad idea due to the different statuses they have, as one probably has an established career and one probably works part time as a waitress or something, so the relationship seems very imbalanced, but I wouldnt call it creepy.

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MrResetti
10/07/23 6:38:38 PM
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Yes
Stay away from educated women
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FunWithAFryPan
10/07/23 6:43:59 PM
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MrResetti posted...
Yes
Stay away from educated women
Beta!

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