Current Events > Where do you guys think me and this girl stand?

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Personally I wouldn't send or call anything further. The last text you sent was perfect IMO as a final text that left the door open. No need to confess your true feelings or anything like that with a massive final wall of text, she already knows. You're just hurting yourself at this point if you send anything further (especially if you pour your heart out with it) and you're going to make her think you're a weirdo and that she dodged a massive bullet. ESPECIALLY don't just show up at her house.

If you're truly worried about her wellbeing due to this being out of character, just have one of her friends check up on her without mentioning anything about you. I think I read that you know her friends or something, not sure.

@Itachi157

I hear you, I just want some closure, I know ou said I wouldnt get any since its not how it works my brother said the same. I am actually kinda worried as well since it is out of character for sure. I hope she knows I really care about her and all that

what about a voiucemail saying miss your voice hop everything is okay kidna worried haven't heard from ya type of thing as a final ?

last night was rough I had a few to drink whcih I never do and just balledmy eyes out like an immature emotional 10 year old boy it as pathetic and its still hurting I think thiss will hurt for a few months, first time I layed next to a woman and felt that if someone every hurt her, they would pay dearly, if she was sad I want to make her as happy as can be

just sucks it ends with no texts back and ive said it 100x but it IS weird and so do the honest close circle peopel are sayin gits very weird of her and if she does it deliberately its out of left field and kinda fucked

a very smal piece of me says she WILL text back, eventually... but I dont want to be that person who just hangs on. would rather much be called a pathetic loser and **** off then just no response back

i do think that text was good enough for a response too but damn

If she ghosted you which she likely has. You are going to be even less attractive if you get all pathetic and beg her for some explanation. You may have dodged a bullet she sounds lame anyway. Unless you come across to her as you do on here which is a bit strong....

Someone else mentioned social media. Dude, what does her SM say? She probably was dating a few guys sorry to say.

Come on buddy

Proly on Monday Im gonna send one last final text mesage or voicemail

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there is a very small part of me that just doesnt believe this is real at all I still think she might text back

if she Goggin through something I wan tto be there with her so she doesnt have to alone

glad my group told me not to drive over there, i was slightly drunk and it would have been bad

I really still think im gonna leave a voicemail but not in a feelings way just a haven't heard from ya im worried about you missing your voice , that cant come across as weird right??

No text in a week. Its over
been crying a lot last few days pathetically but I need to start moving on it just hurts stil contemplating the voicemail as a hey whats up havent heard from ya worried but wat is that really gonna fucking do

@Itachi157
not sure if you saw my dm but

thank you for all your posts i appreciate it, th reason its been tough is because of all the girls i been with (not as much as you all) this one just felt different and like i said first time in my life i would have been okay with relationship. And something long term

I watched 500 days of summer and its a great movie for this, hobbies/interests but hte finding someoen else part is kinda hard for me since its not something i actively seeked or really known what it was like until her

my brother has been hammering into me saying suck it up its something everyone deals with, she obv dosnt care about you enough and that its okay to move on dont feel pathetic etc etc
he said just send a ghost emoji and be done with it but again, he said never did he think SHE would end it like this. not like this same with my other friend saying its just too weird with how she texted as you all saw

how long did it take you to get over?

@projectpat72988

im sorry that happened to you that shouldn't have happened hats bs you seem like a great man too. many of you expereince this when younger, im in my well 20s and it first happened so maybe im just stunted emotionally due to again, us not being teens and the way it went

the ghost emoji while ill prolly laugh at it when im feeling better I dont have the guts to send nor do I I just feel it would be mean and I dont want to have aby hatred or her but my brother said it would be a good text tho..i am kinda smirking when looking back and he told me . I wont do it tho

yo guys

like look at my messages again and the last one from a few pages ago

it stil doesn't make ANY sense based on her texting back pattern. AT ALL.
its just soo confusing

i actually think something may have happened with her sickness?

if she were trying to distance and cut it offf. She would have texted shorter and differently no??

Hey there Im so sorry I didnt get back to you, it was a crazy busy week and weekend. I was so tired I crashed as soon as I got home from work each day. I hope you have a good week!

Lmao this is so fucked

She got back to me this morning and like my brother said earlier tis weekend it was done no matter what this is what she said

@projectpat72988

my text on Friday was hey x how are you? hope all is well, wanted to let you know Ive been thinking about you