Current Events > Where do you guys think me and this girl stand?

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Sounds good then, you know her better than anyone here does

Come on buddy

She never texted me back : (

usually she would the night or morning after

Im gonna cry but its looking like its over

@thronedfire2

honestly the flowers and card while even tho she said thank you for hte flowers heart 2 hours after shje went home

I think even tho we hung out 1 time after that, I think that might have gotten into her mind.

the care package i thought was a strong move but a good move, she did say it made her cry and everyhting but

lets be honest, she SHOULD know that I like her right?

the care package while she's sick is a nice thing, yeah.

I'm like 99% sure she knows you like her. just try to give her some space for a bit. if she likes you too she'll seek out your company.

and not texting back for a day or two isn't really ghosting, even if you're used to her responding every day.

maybe she does now idk butsomeoen close to ehr said shes not the type

Yeah, friends of people don't lie.

the longer response times starting happening after the flowers, she texted me thank you for the flowers with the pink hearts even tho im reading too much into it. longer responses ddnt start happening a bit more frequent until about a week or two ago but once i did the care pckage it stopped and she was timely. you an sese response times in my OP

i sent back 5 hours later im super glad you liked them! Hope work goes well and you get good sleep tonight

she then responded 14 hours later in the morning saying work was hard and I couldn't sleep a lot of things on my mind

then I texted backl fri night, didnt hear back at all until i had to double text and ask if we were still on to watch true detective on sunday and which we did, she said she was no service somewhere with family which was true

when someone said were there signs the only signs were weird was about 5 days BEFORE valentines day she satyed over at my house and I asked her when I can see hr next and she didnt respond until we were outside and she said about that me and my dad were planning on doing my room so ill let you know ( she was renovating her room the week prior i know) whch I think was kinda weird but my freinds thought no biggie as shes not a grl that plan ahead like that,

we texted every day and she never realyyy let me know about hanging out until i asked about hanigng out either Tuesday or wed(valentines night)

I understand. damn. i do overanalyze stuff it just sucks that it went down this way

i think maybe she thoguth it was gogin too fast or something idk

just wanted closure this will hurt for next few weeks ughh

precursor

I didn't mean to sound TOO harsh

just take it from someone who knows from experience

there is some girl out there who will appreciate your dedication and kindness, but you might just have to slow things down a bit

if you've never been to therapy maybe even one session would be worth it? you could at least explain your feeling without judgment

@projectpat72988

friends fiance says I should have declared or asked what we were a few weeks ago since its weird gogin 3 months without ""defining": anything

also said that should have shot out a text saying i have feeligns for her strong ones and i don twan tto do casual and wondeing what she is loking for

Shoulda done that yeah. But not now that'd be weird.

Are you guys young? She lives with her parents? If this is some HS shit this is how the game goes.

i didnt think we had to, but i wonder now is that the reason why? she should know I care about ehr with the flowers, card, constant texting the fact that I brought her a care package right?

That is almost certainly not the reason why. Unless you guys are 13 years old.

But if you guys are real young. This is just how this stuff goes. Balls in her court.

If you don't hear from her for over a week. It becomes a bit more understandable to send her a "did I do something wrong" type message. Aside from that not much else to do.

You know how in Of Mice and Men Lenny keeps killing small animals because he tries to cuddle them too hard?

That's you until you learn how to take a step back and fucking breath, which this topic is actively not helping you accomplish.

i disageee a bit