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Cemith
04/26/24 1:05:14 AM
#101:


Umbreon posted...
This is my reward for responding to you seriously.

May everyone else learn from my mistake.
I'm honestly impressed you tried. I'm not kidding.

But this is a prime example of why "just talk to them" is just horseshit.

We have access to all of recorded history in 10 seconds or less. If someone wanted to be right about something, they could be with minimal effort.

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Shadow_Don
04/26/24 1:06:17 AM
#102:


RetuenOfDevsman posted...
See, still nobody will answer what's wrong with pointing out that both sides suck.

Well let me try to answer that question for you

Stepping on a lego sucks

And getting my balls blown off by a shotgun shell filled with salt and mercury also sucks

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Heineken14
04/26/24 1:06:37 AM
#103:


STEROLIZER posted...
I still believe in hearing conservatives out, and then trying to deconstruct their arguments and convert them over to my perspectiveabsolutely.

The problem isn't hearing conservatives out.

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Antiyonder
04/26/24 1:07:51 AM
#104:


Umbreon posted...
The perfect golden middle ground where everyone get along if only you speak nicely enough to everyone long enough is a pretty fantasy.

But it's just that.

That isn't to say don't try to reach an understanding, or don't try to resolve issues peacefully. We absolutely should. But the grim reality of life is that some people will not be reasoned with. Some people's hearts have hardened, and attempting to reach out to them is futile.

Nazis for example? History shows us only one thing works with people who choose that ideology.

When someone speaks like them, when someone encourages the genocide of a people, you don't use the kid gloves. You use the bat.

Yes. Like I have brought up on many occasions including this thread, people are often eager to take the strict route with unruly kids or voicing criticism if say someone's cooking, singing or what have you is faulty.

Yet bigotry from an adult? Need to hold their hand and tell them "Bigotry is wrong, mkay, but it is your right to feel that way still.".

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Omega
04/26/24 1:11:52 AM
#105:


I'm so glad to see that this type of garbage is being contained to this board.

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lolife67
04/26/24 9:53:40 AM
#106:


STEROLIZER posted...
I definitely think that alot of people who are transphobic wouldnt be if someone would just have a polite and steady dialogue with them.
What exactly are you basing this on? You really think people haven't tried to have a dialogue with these people? The ignorance is crazy smh
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Antiyonder
04/26/24 10:26:11 AM
#107:


lolife67 posted...
What exactly are you basing this on? You really think people haven't tried to have a dialogue with these people? The ignorance is crazy smh

Yep. Like with just gay rights alone, back when I would first debate whether it's right or wrong (Mid/Late 2000s-Early 2010s), I did calmly explain that various arguments don't hold up due to double standards in terms of what we do permit within society.

And the anti-gay people don't even consider the points, just react with "Still wrong".

Also going to lay this out. Trump winning the White House in 2016 is cause of trying to be nice to the bigots.

Back then even with some of the support for him, some of us felt that in the end that he would never win the election given how bad he is.

But then he still got cheered on even when saying that there are good people on both sides (other side being white supremists).

And for all claims of concern that gay people are predators, Trump jokes in public he'd do.... I mean date his daughter if they weren't related and the crowd yucks it up rather than heckling him and treating him as a spectacle.

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lolife67
04/26/24 10:38:42 AM
#108:


Antiyonder posted...
Yep. Like with just gay rights alone, back when I would first debate whether it's right or wrong (Mid/Late 2000s-Early 2010s), I did calmly explain that various arguments don't hold up due to double standards in terms of what we do permit within society.

And the anti-gay people don't even consider the points, just react with "Still wrong".

Also going to lay this out. Trump winning the White House in 2016 is cause of trying to be nice to the bigots.

Back then even with some of the support for him, some of us felt that in the end that he would never win the election given how bad he is.

But then he still got cheered on even when saying that there are good people on both sides (other side being white supremists).

And for all claims of concern that gay people are predators, Trump jokes in public he'd do.... I mean date his daughter if they weren't related and the crowd yucks it up rather than heckling him and treating him as a spectacle.
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Board_hunter567
04/26/24 10:41:26 AM
#109:


Unironically though, both sides are heavily invested in the concept of trickle down economics. The only reason anybody cares about the stock market going up is because of 401(k)s.

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KajeI
04/26/24 10:46:10 AM
#110:


What I've learned from years of constant conversations with rightwingers is that the only people who benefit from being nice to bigots and fascists are the bigots and fascists.

They wanna have a nice negotiation, they can try coming o'er here for once instead of octupling down.

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DrizztLink
04/26/24 11:23:23 AM
#111:


KajeI posted...
What I've learned from years of constant conversations with rightwingers is that the only people who benefit from being nice to bigots and fascists are the bigots and fascists.

They wanna have a nice negotiation, they can try coming o'er here for once instead of octupling down.
The MAGA does not want to debate you, the MAGA wants to exhaust you.

No point in treating them legitimately.

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ssb_yunglink2
04/26/24 11:25:16 AM
#112:


STERO really believes that conservatives who hate LGBT people can just be talked down from their stances lmao

I know people whove been completely disowned after coming out. These people will disown THEIR OWN CHILDREN because they come out as gay or trans.

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Heineken14
04/26/24 11:26:10 AM
#113:


Why weren't the cops just having a conversation with them!

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Umbreon
04/26/24 11:52:47 AM
#114:


ssb_yunglink2 posted...
STERO really believes that conservatives who hate LGBT people can just be talked down from their stances lmao

I know people whove been completely disowned after coming out. These people will disown THEIR OWN CHILDREN because they come out as gay or trans.


Some will do worse. Remember when Eric Porterfield, when asked for his reaction if he found out his children were gay, ominously stated he would "see if [they] could swim"?

Some parents would rather have a dead child than a happy, healthy one that happens to be gay or trans. I don't see a path to reasoning for someone willing to do that.

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Antiyonder
04/26/24 11:58:58 AM
#115:


And as I don't think can be emphasized enough, every argument against LGBTQ+ rights and individuals have numerous holes that keep them from being even close to reasonable.

I mean there are a lot of rules in society we will disagree with, but can still understand where they come from. But if there were any legit reasons to be against LGBTQ+ shouldn't a solid reason been made a long time ago?

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Murphiroth
04/26/24 12:00:45 PM
#116:


ssb_yunglink2 posted...
STERO really believes that conservatives who hate LGBT people can just be talked down from their stances lmao

I know people whove been completely disowned after coming out. These people will disown THEIR OWN CHILDREN because they come out as gay or trans.

He should really know that these people can't be talked down given how he pals around with Tails and crew.
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PraetorXyn
04/26/24 12:01:51 PM
#117:


The irony of making this topic when a bipartisan effort is poised to destroy privacy on the internet and both sides are enabling genocide is pretty palpable.

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FL81
04/26/24 12:16:21 PM
#118:


broke: partisan
woke: bipartisan
bespoke: nonpartisan

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ssb_yunglink2
04/26/24 12:38:14 PM
#119:


PraetorXyn posted...
The irony of making this topic when a bipartisan effort is poised to destroy privacy on the internet and both sides are enabling genocide is pretty palpable.
So because both parties sometimes align its ironic to call out their vast differences?

Democrats are not trying to end abortion or the existence of LGBT people. One side is though.

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PraetorXyn
04/26/24 12:48:50 PM
#120:


ssb_yunglink2 posted...
So because both parties sometimes align its ironic to call out their vast differences?

Democrats are not trying to end abortion or the existence of LGBT people. One side is though.
No. Both sides doesnt mean theyre equally bad, or even close to it. It means theres a good / bad axis, and theyre both on the wrong side of it, even if Republicans are much farther along.

The point is, the parties align on quite a lot (basically everything but social issues), and when they align, its almost always bad for us.

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Rai_Jin
04/26/24 1:14:04 PM
#121:


Morals need to be set. Trying to appeal to the current average republican is not worth it. If they win by real numbers then comes the fun part that they wished for, so be it.

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STEROLIZER
04/26/24 1:16:02 PM
#122:


ssb_yunglink2 posted...
STERO really believes that conservatives who hate LGBT people can just be talked down from their stances lmao

I do believe its possible to get people to change their positions and points of views on pretty much anything through a steady dialogue.

I think ideally thats how you rid the world of the issues that plague it, through education and a willingness to engage in discussion.

I know people whove been completely disowned after coming out. These people will disown THEIR OWN CHILDREN because they come out as gay or trans.

Yea, and thats not cool. When that happens it breaks my heart. There will always be people whose minds cant be changed, and there comes a time from a relationship standpoint where you need to cut them out of your life.

But in general people do indeed flip flop their positions on things I sincerely believe its worth a try.
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LonelyStoner
04/26/24 1:17:29 PM
#123:


They arent equally terrible, but they both are very much terrible.

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ssb_yunglink2
04/26/24 1:24:19 PM
#124:


PraetorXyn posted...
No. Both sides doesnt mean theyre equally bad, or even close to it. It means theres a good / bad axis, and theyre both on the wrong side of it, even if Republicans are much farther along.

The point is, the parties align on quite a lot (basically everything but social issues), and when they align, its almost always bad for us.
People who use both sides as an argument are almost universally using it to downplay atrocious republican actions/policies though.


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ssb_yunglink2
04/26/24 1:26:15 PM
#125:


STEROLIZER posted...
I do believe its possible to get people to change their positions and points of views on pretty much anything through a steady dialogue.

I think ideally thats how you rid the world of the issues that plague it, through education and a willingness to engage in discussion.

Yea, and thats not cool. When that happens it breaks my heart. There will always be people whose minds cant be changed, and there comes a time from a relationship standpoint where you need to cut them out of your life.

But in general people do indeed flip flop their positions on things I sincerely believe its worth a try.
Most people who hate people for their sexuality are not willing to engage in honest discussion.

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lolife67
04/26/24 1:40:10 PM
#126:


STEROLIZER posted...
I do believe its possible to get people to change their positions and points of views on pretty much anything through a steady dialogue.
No it isn't.

STEROLIZER posted...
I think ideally thats how you rid the world of the issues that plague it, through education and a willingness to engage in discussion.
What you seem to be missing is that the bigots are not willing to engage in good faith discussion. Why are you ignoring that part?

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EPR-radar
04/26/24 2:47:19 PM
#127:


lolife67 posted...
What you seem to be missing is that the bigots are not willing to engage in good faith discussion. Why are you ignoring that part?

This has long been known. E.g.

Never believe that anti-Semites are completely unaware of the absurdity of their replies. They know that their remarks are frivolous, open to challenge. But they are amusing themselves, for it is their adversary who is obliged to use words responsibly, since he believes in words. The anti-Semites have the right to play. They even like to play with discourse for, by giving ridiculous reasons, they discredit the seriousness of their interlocutors. They delight in acting in bad faith, since they seek not to persuade by sound argument but to intimidate and disconcert. If you press them too closely, they will abruptly fall silent, loftily indicating by some phrase that the time for argument is past.

This was Sartre talking about Nazis, but it applies 100% to Republican apologists (i.e., trolls) today. There's no difference in this regard between online right wing trolls and well-paid members of the right wing noise machine like Ben Shapiro, the legion of right wing pundits, and fucking cranks like Rush Limbaugh (who is still dead).

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Antiyonder
04/26/24 2:52:48 PM
#128:


lolife67 posted...
What you seem to be missing is that the bigots are not willing to engage in good faith discussion. Why are you ignoring that part?

Heck, you can see people who are interested in debating the matter when they have a list of "reasons" to prove them right, but when you demonstrate the flaws in them?

Said people just want to end the discussion. If it was a genuine concern they had for society, they would be eager to at least try to tackle rebukes, but their shift to shutting down discussion is fear of being swayed.

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STEROLIZER
04/26/24 3:44:09 PM
#129:


ssb_yunglink2 posted...
Most people who hate people for their sexuality are not willing to engage in honest discussion.

Not online. But in person, they are way more open to it. But regardless you don't need all of them, just some of them to change their perspective. It all adds up.
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Murphiroth
04/26/24 3:48:05 PM
#130:


Friendly reminder that Stero was pals with Tails and his crew so all this "Just talk to the people that hate you and want to murder you :)" talk is disingenuous at best.
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STEROLIZER
04/26/24 3:49:00 PM
#131:


lolife67 posted...
What you seem to be missing is that the bigots are not willing to engage in good faith discussion. Why are you ignoring that part?

The word "bigot" isn't a neat little box. All bigotry sucks but, there are plenty of folks that overcome their bigotry.

I honestly believe that alot of straight males in their thirties and forties who do now support the Gay Community and advocate for Gay Rights were probably someone what bigoted when in their youth.

It was a different time in the 90's, the way the South Park kids act and behave is actually a pretty good indicator on how life was back then -- yet dare I say MOST of them (and that is a broad statement, and perhaps incorrect opinion of mine) overcame that prejudice as they gained more life experience.

But certainly there are folks who wont engage in that discussion, I realize that. You don't have to reach everyone, but you definitely can reach a lot.
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STEROLIZER
04/26/24 3:52:50 PM
#132:


Murphiroth posted...
"Just talk to the people that hate you and want to murder you :)" talk is disingenuous at best.

Don't talk to those folks then.

But there is a difference between someone who wants to literally murder someone because they are blinded by hare, and someone that is just ignorantly voting against a policy that probably could use their vote.

I don't see the logic in trying push everyone away, rather than bring them into the fold.

Edit: I think I'm going in circles at this point. I understand that not everyone is going to agree with trying to open a dialogue with the opposition, but I defiently do. From my own personal life experiences, I've seen it work, which is why I try. But I also recognize that sometimes its just a mission to nowhere. The person I quoted mentioned me being former "pals" with some less than desirable folks. Although I would challenge the "pals" label, part of the reason why that is mostly a valid statement is because I do want to open that dialogue, and do believe that people can change their perspectives -- but its also proof that it doesn't always work.
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Tyranthraxus
04/26/24 4:07:26 PM
#133:


STEROLIZER posted...
Not online. But in person, they are way more open to it. But regardless you don't need all of them, just some of them to change their perspective. It all adds up.

In person they're open to talking about it but it's just in one ear and out the other in my experience.

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loafy013
04/26/24 5:35:04 PM
#134:


STEROLIZER posted...


I do believe its possible to get people to change their positions and points of views on pretty much anything through a steady dialogue.

I think ideally thats how you rid the world of the issues that plague it, through education and a willingness to engage in discussion.
Yeah, no. You can't reason somebody out of a viewpoint that they didn't reason themselves into.

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Omega
04/26/24 11:52:58 PM
#135:


loafy013 posted...

Yeah, no. You can't reason somebody out of a viewpoint that they didn't reason themselves into.


That applies to you too. ;)

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GrandConjuraton
04/27/24 12:01:01 AM
#136:


Omega posted...
That applies to you too. ;)


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Omega
04/27/24 12:08:29 AM
#137:


GrandConjuraton posted...




Typical incel chud response.

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deoxxys
04/27/24 12:09:01 AM
#138:


loafy013 posted...
Yeah, no. You can't reason somebody out of a viewpoint that they didn't reason themselves into.
I love this quote

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GrandConjuraton
04/27/24 12:10:30 AM
#139:


Omega posted...
Typical incel chud response.


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Omega
04/27/24 12:11:53 AM
#140:


GrandConjuraton posted...





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Heineken14
04/27/24 12:14:01 AM
#141:


Once again it's up to the left to "have a dialogue" with hateful right wingers and bring them over to their side. Their side, which has more people who routinely vote for and agree with it.... but they must placate the right to open a dialogue on why they are hateful bigots to try and sway them over to a side that if it weren't for an archaic voting system would have forced them out through attrition long ago.

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STEROLIZER
04/27/24 2:44:05 AM
#142:


Heineken14 posted...
Once again it's up to the left to "have a dialogue" with hateful right wingers and bring them over to their side. Their side, which has more people who routinely vote for and agree with it.... but they must placate the right to open a dialogue on why they are hateful bigots to try and sway them over to a side that if it weren't for an archaic voting system would have forced them out through attrition long ago.

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