it looks like eharmony or match is the best bet?In terms of finding real people and getting matches, Match is probably the best, but it's also very expensive and unless things have changed from when I was on it, you basically have to pay for each feature separately, and the total package was some absolutely asinine price that nobody should ever be desperate enough to pay.
In terms of finding real people and getting matches, Match is probably the best, but it's also very expensive and unless things have changed from when I was on it, you basically have to pay for each feature separately, and the total package was some absolutely asinine price that nobody should ever be desperate enough to pay.That's actually what makes match and eharmony the most attractive apps because people who paid the price are more likely to be serious and actually date.
That's actually what makes match and eharmony the most attractive apps because people who paid the price are more likely to be serious and actually date.
It's strange to me that these sites "aren't as good as they used to be" since I figured online dating would get better with time, not worse. Apparently there was a sweet spot that I missed.
Silly ass world!
It's strange to me that these sites "aren't as good as they used to be" since I figured online dating would get better with time, not worse. Apparently there was a sweet spot.Really? Considering most online services have gotten worse over the years (the result of corporate greed) and as you get older the dating pool close to your own age gets smaller, I see no reason to believe online dating would have done anything but go down the shitter.
Silly ass world!
It's strange to me that these sites "aren't as good as they used to be" since I figured online dating would get better with time, not worse. Apparently there was a sweet spot that I missed.
Silly ass world!
Really? Considering most online services have gotten worse over the years (the result of corporate greed) and as you get older the dating pool close to your own age gets smaller, I see no reason to believe online dating would have done anything but go down the shitter.
Don't fall into the trap that you have to date or be in a relationship to be happy. That life isn't for everyone, but many people think their life success is measured in things like that, and they get depressed when they don't accomplish something they feel they are supposed to. If you are really craving companionship, then go for it. But if you just feel like you aren't "where you are supposed to be at this point in your life", re-evaluate why you care in the first place, and don't let the lifestyle that others have chosen for themselves influence you.
is Eharmony not like a Christian thing? I always had the impression it was a Christian thing
It's strange to me that these sites "aren't as good as they used to be" since I figured online dating would get better with time, not worse. Apparently there was a sweet spot that I missed.Speed dating is coming back now because of how far online dating has degenerated.
Silly ass world!
I'm in Pittsburgh, I'm 30, found my current partner a year and a half ago on bumble
Don't fall into the trap that you have to date or be in a relationship to be happy. That life isn't for everyone, but many people think their life success is measured in things like that, and they get depressed when they don't accomplish something they feel they are supposed to. If you are really craving companionship, then go for it. But if you just feel like you aren't "where you are supposed to be at this point in your life", re-evaluate why you care in the first place, and don't let the lifestyle that others have chosen for themselves influence you.
What constitutes as a good photo?
Like I'm not ugly but I'm not super attractive either (prob goes without saying).
Like I'm not ugly but I'm not super attractive either (prob goes without saying).This struggle is real. My self-assessment is that I don't have good features but I'm reasonably fit, dress and groom well, and practice impeccable personal hygiene. A few times I've told female friends just how little I've dated and they've come back with "I don't know why, it's not like you're a bad-looking guy," and they seemed sincere about it and not just saying it because they're my friends. So I dunno.
Yep, it's really, REALLY tough for me to get good pics. People just don't take pics of me unless I ask them to. I assume I'm not alone in that boat.
This struggle is real. My self-assessment is that I don't have good features but I'm reasonably fit, dress and groom well, and practice impeccable personal hygiene. A few times I've told female friends just how little I've dated and they've come back with "I don't know why, it's not like you're a bad-looking guy," and they seemed sincere about it and not just saying it because they're my friends. So I dunno.
I just had an awesome first date on Saturday and we hit off, talked for 5 hours, made out in my car for like 30 mins, made plans for a second date and then she texts me 2 hours ago and says she's not feeling a match and wants to break it off. Like what the fuck? I swear that people just get off on messing with my head cuz idk how you can just 180 like that in 2 days. I hate online dating too man this shit is hell
No one worth dating is using a dating app, and they are in no way designed to help you find a partner. Theyre meant to keep men addicted and to drain men of their resources, and not much else.
Get off the dating apps and look for people in person. Doing just that puts you in the top 20% of men just because youll stand out so much. That percentage can be cut down even more if you have money, youre good looking, tall, etc.
I just had an awesome first date on Saturday and we hit off, talked for 5 hours, made out in my car for like 30 mins, made plans for a second date and then she texts me 2 hours ago and says she's not feeling a match and wants to break it off. Like what the fuck? I swear that people just get off on messing with my head cuz idk how you can just 180 like that in 2 days. I hate online dating too man this shit is hell
No one worth dating is using a dating app, and they are in no way designed to help you find a partner. Theyre meant to keep men addicted and to drain men of their resources, and not much else.
Get off the dating apps and look for people in person. Doing just that puts you in the top 20% of men just because youll stand out so much. That percentage can be cut down even more if you have money, youre good looking, tall, etc.
I just had an awesome first date on Saturday and we hit off, talked for 5 hours, made out in my car for like 30 mins, made plans for a second date and then she texts me 2 hours ago and says she's not feeling a match and wants to break it off. Like what the fuck? I swear that people just get off on messing with my head cuz idk how you can just 180 like that in 2 days. I hate online dating too man this shit is hell
It feels so much worse than just being alone man I hate this soul crushing shit