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Rypt posted...

Dyinglegacy posted...

Would you two stop with the insults? Ya'll couldn't be any older than your mid to late 20s, acting like that.

Yeah the two of them need to stop

I was meaning you too lol
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Lol all of these 20 somethings hehe, wait til you get to your 30s

Dyinglegacy posted...

Rypt posted...

Dyinglegacy posted...

Would you two stop with the insults? Ya'll couldn't be any older than your mid to late 20s, acting like that.

Yeah the two of them need to stop

I was meaning you too lol

Who me? Lol

EDIT

Idk what you're talking about

Rypt posted...

Dyinglegacy posted...

Would you two stop with the insults? Ya'll couldn't be any older than your mid to late 20s, acting like that.

Yeah the two of them need to stop

You called me a virgin lmfaoooo

Which by the way is flaming, and I marked appropriately

Enjoy your sexless marriage
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TheGreatGeno326 posted...

Rypt posted...

Dyinglegacy posted...

Would you two stop with the insults? Ya'll couldn't be any older than your mid to late 20s, acting like that.

Yeah the two of them need to stop

You called me a virgin lmfaoooo

Which by the way is flaming, and I marked appropriately

Enjoy your sexless marriage

Do you need a tissue? If you can't take it dont dish it out.

Rypt posted...

TheGreatGeno326 posted...

Rypt posted...

Dyinglegacy posted...

Would you two stop with the insults? Ya'll couldn't be any older than your mid to late 20s, acting like that.

Yeah the two of them need to stop

You called me a virgin lmfaoooo

Which by the way is flaming, and I marked appropriately

Enjoy your sexless marriage

Do you need a tissue? If you can't take it dont dish it out.

And i'll bet yoir wife has a normal sex drive. She just doesn't want you, and who could blame her?
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Rypt posted...

MabusIncarnate posted...

Oh okay then, all married people ITT are compulsive liars. I like to post in topics and make stuff up, that's what a 38 year old does.

Lol you ever hear of a politician?

I expected a reply back from that comment, but not one this stupid.
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hehe

Rypt posted...

Nah, she has a low sex drive. Honestly I just quit trying to initiate it and started talking to other women. Getting told no over and over again by your own wife is a little discouraging.

Also, lol at the the little kid situation. That sucks.

Well, I don't know then. Was it different when you were dating? Were YOU different when you were dating?

If she used to be a minx, but now isn't, there could be any reason as to why. Maybe marriage counseling.

What I wouldn't do is cheat. Cheaters are scum buckets. If you're gonna cheat, just divorce her or separate first, at the very least.
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Also I wonder whos alt TC is. 6 year old account with less than two years worth of karma
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Dyinglegacy posted...

Rypt posted...

Nah, she has a low sex drive. Honestly I just quit trying to initiate it and started talking to other women. Getting told no over and over again by your own wife is a little discouraging.

Also, lol at the the little kid situation. That sucks.

Well, I don't know then. Was it different when you were dating? Were YOU different when you were dating?

If she used to be a minx, but now isn't, there could be any reason as to why. Maybe marriage counseling.

What I wouldn't do is cheat. Cheaters are scum buckets. If you're gonna cheat, just divorce her or separate first, at the very least.

Divorce is too complicated. *shrug* I guess I'm a scum bucket, but havent officially cheated yet.

Rypt posted...

Nah, she has a low sex drive. Honestly I just quit trying to initiate it and started talking to other women. Getting told no over and over again by your own wife is a little discouraging.

Also, lol at the the little kid situation. That sucks.

why did you even get married?
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1-2 times a week is fine with me.
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Lairen posted...

1-2 times a week is fine with me.

This too

I dont personally need to bang more than that or it gets dull

My gf usually wants it more often than I do
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Rypt posted...

Dyinglegacy posted...

Rypt posted...

Nah, she has a low sex drive. Honestly I just quit trying to initiate it and started talking to other women. Getting told no over and over again by your own wife is a little discouraging.

Also, lol at the the little kid situation. That sucks.

Well, I don't know then. Was it different when you were dating? Were YOU different when you were dating?

If she used to be a minx, but now isn't, there could be any reason as to why. Maybe marriage counseling.

What I wouldn't do is cheat. Cheaters are scum buckets. If you're gonna cheat, just divorce her or separate first, at the very least.

Divorce is too complicated. *shrug* I guess I'm a scum bucket, but havent officially cheated yet.

Have you tried actually talking to your wife?

It sounds like she doesn't like having sex with you.

"We just has sex yesterday / a couple days ago"

Makes it sound like she feels obliged to have sex with you, maybe because you're guilting/pressuring her.
Do you think she's obliged to have sex with you? Do you think women generally don't enjoy sex? Do you just have the same boring sex every time? Have you tried doing what she likes?
If you're serious in this topic, it sounds like you have an unhealthy relationship with both your wife and your idea of sex. Even if you're not serious ITT, that's probably moreso.
Why do you think marriage has such a strong connection with sex-life in 2019? (It shouldn't affect your sex life.)
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Going by his posts he thinkss all men always want sex all the time and women never want sex and only do it because men want to
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Rypt posted...

Cleo_II posted...

Rypt posted...

Conflict posted...

Rypt posted...

Cleo_II posted...

CheekSqueak posted...

False. That's just a bad marriage.

This. Married 5 years and together 8. We still have sex 3-4 times a week.

bs because when you get married they start wanting things and expecting you to care about their feelings more and saying they arent in the mood

This is the part where TC realizes he's responding to a woman and his generalization looks even more stupid

Well if you're a woman that's different. Your husband isnt going to say he doesnt want to have sex.

This is also not true. My previous relationship, my ex would turn down sex all the time. He didnt want it more than once a week. I was the one who wanted it more. There are plenty of women trapped in sexless marriages because the husband doesnt want it.

Please stop perpetuating the assumption that all men want sex all the time. Its not true.

Once a week is still more than a lot of couples lol

Also, yeah most husbands want it and their wives won't give it to them, which is why women get cheated on.

We sometimes went without sex for 2-3 weeks. And I initiated sex every single time. Most of the time he would turn me down. And that was throughout our relationship. We never had a period where we couldnt keep our hands off each other. He had no interest in sex. If I married him, we would have ended up in a sexless marriage. Go visit the reddit forums for sexless marriages. Most of the posters are female.

And no thats not why women get cheated on. It is one reason men cheat, but not the only one. Plenty of cheaters also cheat on women who dont turn them down sexually. Men often cheat because they are also missing something emotionally in the marriage.

I have a hard time believing you are married when you are making assumptions a teenager with no experience would.

I think most women in sexless marraiges are married to men who are bored sexually with them
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StealthRock posted...

I think most women in sexless marraiges are married to men who are bored sexually with them

Almost everything I said to TC right back to you. Why are you so toxic about sex? Would you say most men in sexless marriages are married to women who are sexually bored with them?

Different people have different sex drives which can be affected by numerous different things. Antidepressants can destroy your sex drive. Stress (kids, work, etc), hormone levels (exercise, sunlight, more stress, age), life goals, or other physical or mental factors can hugely impact your sex drive.
Saying someone is "bored sexually" is so short-sighted. Even if it's true (which is not the most common issue, by far), it would just a surface level symptom of a large series of factors.
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ChocoboMog123 posted...

StealthRock posted...

I think most women in sexless marraiges are married to men who are bored sexually with them

Almost everything I said to TC right back to you. Why are you so toxic about sex? Would you say most men in sexless marriages are married to women who are sexually bored with them?

Different people have different sex drives which can be affected by numerous different things. Antidepressants can destroy your sex drive. Stress (kids, work, etc), hormone levels (exercise, sunlight, more stress, age), life goals, or other physical or mental factors can hugely impact your sex drive.
Saying someone is "bored sexually" is so short-sighted. Even if it's true (which is not the most common issue, by far), it would just a surface level symptom of a large series of factors.

Ok.

I urge women in that situation to look at their husband internet search history. Its more common then you think

How often are people on antidespressants anyways??
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Married for almost 9 years. We have kids aged 6, 4 and almost 2. We still have sex usually 1-3 times a week, sometimes more. Very rarely do we go more than a week without.
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M_Live posted...

It's not just marriage, you date someone long enough and your sexlife changes.

I'm just speaking for myself here... but I dated a girl for four years and we were still having sex 3-4 times a week up until the very end. I think it just depends on the person you're with.

Also, don't let yourself go lol
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CheekSqueak posted...

Rypt posted...

Nah, she has a low sex drive. Honestly I just quit trying to initiate it and started talking to other women. Getting told no over and over again by your own wife is a little discouraging.

Also, lol at the the little kid situation. That sucks.

why did you even get married?

seemed like a good idea

ChocoboMog123 posted...

Rypt posted...

Dyinglegacy posted...

Rypt posted...

Nah, she has a low sex drive. Honestly I just quit trying to initiate it and started talking to other women. Getting told no over and over again by your own wife is a little discouraging.

Also, lol at the the little kid situation. That sucks.

Well, I don't know then. Was it different when you were dating? Were YOU different when you were dating?

If she used to be a minx, but now isn't, there could be any reason as to why. Maybe marriage counseling.

What I wouldn't do is cheat. Cheaters are scum buckets. If you're gonna cheat, just divorce her or separate first, at the very least.

Divorce is too complicated. *shrug* I guess I'm a scum bucket, but havent officially cheated yet.

Have you tried actually talking to your wife?

It sounds like she doesn't like having sex with you.

"We just has sex yesterday / a couple days ago"

Makes it sound like she feels obliged to have sex with you, maybe because you're guilting/pressuring her.
Do you think she's obliged to have sex with you? Do you think women generally don't enjoy sex? Do you just have the same boring sex every time? Have you tried doing what she likes?
If you're serious in this topic, it sounds like you have an unhealthy relationship with both your wife and your idea of sex. Even if you're not serious ITT, that's probably moreso.
Why do you think marriage has such a strong connection with sex-life in 2019? (It shouldn't affect your sex life.)

There's always some excuse from her when I try to talk to her about it. "I don't feel good, my back hurts, having pain, I'm tired, etc."

And yeah most women act like they dont enjoy sex. If you ask one of them about it straight up, even if you know them or are dating them, most will be like, "excuse me?" or "is that all I am to you?"

Also, she doesn't really "like" anything. But she usually gets a lot out of it when it happens.

Not sure if I believe all of these guys who say they are getting it mutliple times every week.

Rypt posted...

Not sure if I believe all of these guys who say they are getting it mutliple times every week.

Sick projection bro
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If your women aint giving you sex, shes probably getting it somewhere else. You should prolly divorce.

The_Freecs posted...

If your women aint giving you sex, shes probably getting it somewhere else. You should prolly divorce.

as i said his wife is obviously disgusted by him and his ego is too big to realize it so he thinks all men are in sexless marriages
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Preposterous. It's actually when it gloriously starts. Unless you're one of these people who drenched in the filth of premarital sex of course.
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DarthWendy posted...

Preposterous. It's actually when it gloriously starts. Unless you're one of these people who drenched in the filth of premarital sex of course.

being a woman has its advantages

Bro if you arent trolling you really need to think about this and bring it up to your partner.

The_Freecs posted...

Bro if you arent trolling you really need to think about this and bring it up to your partner.

already did. btw, it's not just me, lots of guys feel like this. people are just disagreeing to try to get a reaction out of me, but this is common.

Rypt posted...

The_Freecs posted...

Bro if you arent trolling you really need to think about this and bring it up to your partner.

already did. btw, it's not just me, lots of guys feel like this. people are just disagreeing to try to get a reaction out of me, but this is common.

Lots of guys feel it. But not every guy. You keep trying to assert that your problem is the case for every marriage and thats why you come off as trolling
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I cant speak for anyone else, but if you arent getting any sex thats pretty weird imo. Women have needs too you know, its not only guys that enjoy sex.

The_Freecs posted...

I cant speak for anyone else, but if you arent getting any sex thats pretty weird imo. Women have needs too you know, its not only guys that enjoy sex.

well i do, but it started happening a lot less after marriage. once you get married, women know they have you.

Rypt posted...

ChocoboMog123 posted...

Rypt posted...

Dyinglegacy posted...

Rypt posted...

Nah, she has a low sex drive. Honestly I just quit trying to initiate it and started talking to other women. Getting told no over and over again by your own wife is a little discouraging.

Also, lol at the the little kid situation. That sucks.

Well, I don't know then. Was it different when you were dating? Were YOU different when you were dating?

If she used to be a minx, but now isn't, there could be any reason as to why. Maybe marriage counseling.

What I wouldn't do is cheat. Cheaters are scum buckets. If you're gonna cheat, just divorce her or separate first, at the very least.

Divorce is too complicated. *shrug* I guess I'm a scum bucket, but havent officially cheated yet.

Have you tried actually talking to your wife?

It sounds like she doesn't like having sex with you.

"We just has sex yesterday / a couple days ago"

Makes it sound like she feels obliged to have sex with you, maybe because you're guilting/pressuring her.
Do you think she's obliged to have sex with you? Do you think women generally don't enjoy sex? Do you just have the same boring sex every time? Have you tried doing what she likes?
If you're serious in this topic, it sounds like you have an unhealthy relationship with both your wife and your idea of sex. Even if you're not serious ITT, that's probably moreso.
Why do you think marriage has such a strong connection with sex-life in 2019? (It shouldn't affect your sex life.)

There's always some excuse from her when I try to talk to her about it. "I don't feel good, my back hurts, having pain, I'm tired, etc."

And yeah most women act like they dont enjoy sex. If you ask one of them about it straight up, even if you know them or are dating them, most will be like, "excuse me?" or "is that all I am to you?"

Also, she doesn't really "like" anything. But she usually gets a lot out of it when it happens.

This crap sounds fishy. Tbh you should have a long think about your situation and if your truly ok with this. Trust me you dont want to waste time in your life with the wrong person.

Rypt posted...

There's always some excuse from her when I try to talk to her about it. "I don't feel good, my back hurts, having pain, I'm tired, etc."

It sure sounds like she doesn't like having sex with you. Even if she "gets something out of it," (again, you're focused on yourself, not what she actually wants), that might not be what she's looking for.
At this point, either she's over you or she needs something else. If you guys can't fix your issues on your own, the problem is just going to fester and grow into resentment from both sides. If you can't open two-way communication see a therapist or something.

Rypt posted...

And yeah most women act like they dont enjoy sex. If you ask one of them about it straight up, even if you know them or are dating them, most will be like, "excuse me?" or "is that all I am to you?"

Again and again, this is your personal experience. If I asked most women about it (that I can approach about the subject), they would definitely say they do. Either you're bringing up the subject in the wrong way or you've just surrounded yourself with people who can take your negativity. Don't be pushy, listen better.

Rypt posted...

The_Freecs posted...

I cant speak for anyone else, but if you arent getting any sex thats pretty weird imo. Women have needs too you know, its not only guys that enjoy sex.

well i do, but it started happening a lot less after marriage. once you get married, women know they have you.

This attitude is your problem. Again, why do you think marriage makes a difference?
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I will be married 10 years in September, with 3 kids. I can confirm, this is a lie.
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oh please

Rypt posted...

oh please

More fucking projection lmfao

His response to every post saying they had a different experience is to call them a liar. Obvious trolling
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TC didnt you just marry the first girl that could stand more than one date with you from okcupid?

Also wasnt your gimmick for a time recommending people date ugly girls
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TheGoldenEel posted...

TC didnt you just marry the first girl that could stand more than one date with you from okcupid?

Also wasnt your gimmick for a time recommending people date ugly girls

Lol!
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Aight so this a troll.

TheGoldenEel posted...

Hey whatsTheGoldenEel posted...

TC didnt you just marry the first girl that could stand more than one date with you from okcupid?

Also wasnt your gimmick for a time recommending people date ugly girls

Hey whats up Golden Eel, how's that job and Wendy's coming along?

Didn't you say that you hooked up with someone in real life? I thought you were getting all the girls on the internet, what happened?

Rypt posted...

TheGoldenEel posted...

Hey whatsTheGoldenEel posted...

TC didnt you just marry the first girl that could stand more than one date with you from okcupid?

Also wasnt your gimmick for a time recommending people date ugly girls

Hey whats up Golden Eel, how's that job and Wendy's coming along?

Didn't you say that you hooked up with someone in real life? I thought you were getting all the girls on the internet, what happened?

U mad
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Don't pay any attention to Golden Eel, we're really friends in real life, he just likes to come on here to kid around.

Well, sorry if I burst a few bubbles. Guess the truth hurts.

Rypt posted...

Don't pay any attention to Golden Eel, we're really friends in real life, he just likes to come on here to kid around.

@TheGoldenEel is this true
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