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MFBKBass5
07/21/19 12:01:28 PM
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Were gonna go get cocktails at this trendy bar that serves great drinks. Super hipster and popular.

How do I not mess this up? Shes a small little redheaded lady.
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Lost_All_Senses
07/21/19 12:07:29 PM
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1st of all don't treat her like she's out of your league. Treat her like an equal
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Chicken_Butt
07/21/19 12:08:22 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
1st of all don't treat her like she's out of your league. Treat her like an equal

Seriously. If she agreed to date you she clearly doesn't think she's out of your league, but if you give her that impression, you're done. So chill, brah.
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MFBKBass5
07/21/19 1:25:14 PM
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Chicken_Butt posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
1st of all don't treat her like she's out of your league. Treat her like an equal

Seriously. If she agreed to date you she clearly doesn't think she's out of your league, but if you give her that impression, you're done. So chill, brah.


How does one chill?
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treewojima
07/21/19 1:39:16 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Chicken_Butt posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
1st of all don't treat her like she's out of your league. Treat her like an equal

Seriously. If she agreed to date you she clearly doesn't think she's out of your league, but if you give her that impression, you're done. So chill, brah.


How does one chill?


jerk off before the date
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roos1046 Reborn
07/21/19 1:40:51 PM
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treewojima posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
Chicken_Butt posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
1st of all don't treat her like she's out of your league. Treat her like an equal

Seriously. If she agreed to date you she clearly doesn't think she's out of your league, but if you give her that impression, you're done. So chill, brah.


How does one chill?


jerk off before the date


and during
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EbonTitanium
07/21/19 1:45:04 PM
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If a woman says she's out of your league, she's probably not a good person.

You don't seem to have that problem.
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PIITB415
07/21/19 1:47:25 PM
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Awesome
07/21/19 1:52:01 PM
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leagues dont exist
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WaterLink
07/21/19 1:58:09 PM
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Putting them on a pedestal above you is an opening for someone to not respect you. If shes hot and classy you can complement her about it but dont act like you dont deserve to be there with her otherwise shes gonna pick up on it.

You asked how to chill? Well how did you score the date in the first place? Just do more of that.
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lilJoe457
07/21/19 1:58:54 PM
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Fake it till you make it. Don't act like someone is out of your league.
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MFBKBass5
07/21/19 7:29:46 PM
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Ahhh now I figured out why shes interested in me...low self esteem!

I hope I dont scare you off when we meet tomorrow
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inloveanddeath0
07/21/19 7:32:27 PM
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TheVipaGTS
07/21/19 7:34:13 PM
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Be yourself? Im assuming its not a blind date so youve gotten to talk a little, she knows what you look like...getting the date means she has mutual interest. Just dont try too hard. Be who you are and just enjoy her company.
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brestugo
07/21/19 7:39:57 PM
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No-show
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MFBKBass5
07/21/19 7:47:27 PM
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inloveanddeath0 posted...
Pics (cmon CE?)


Shes a redhead. Thats all ya need to know.
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inloveanddeath0
07/21/19 7:48:30 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
inloveanddeath0 posted...
Pics (cmon CE?)


Shes a redhead. Thats all ya need to know.

Well there's many types of redheads regardless of figure but okay mang
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Gobstoppers12
07/21/19 7:54:22 PM
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Don't treat her like she's out of your league. Confidence is key, my dude.
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treewojima
07/21/19 9:12:56 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Ahhh now I figured out why shes interested in me...low self esteem!

I hope I dont scare you off when we meet tomorrow


Don't jump to conclusions. Hang out with her and see how it goes. She might be as nervous as you are.

Besides, you're not exactly projecting self esteem in this topic yourself.
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jedisamurai
07/21/19 9:41:13 PM
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As others have wisely said already, most important is not to put the pussy on a pedestal.

Secondly...you got this.
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Touch
07/21/19 9:41:58 PM
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Bang her brains out
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MFBKBass5
07/21/19 9:55:40 PM
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treewojima posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
Ahhh now I figured out why shes interested in me...low self esteem!

I hope I dont scare you off when we meet tomorrow


Don't jump to conclusions. Hang out with her and see how it goes. She might be as nervous as you are.

Besides, you're not exactly projecting self esteem in this topic yourself.


Im definitely not self confident lol. But its comforting knowing she isnt either, even though shes gorgeous.
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MFBKBass5
07/22/19 11:06:59 AM
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Touch posted...
Bang her brains out


Nah Im much more interested in dating her. She has a PHD and is super smart. Plus, she has a lot of the same nerdy interests I do.
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Kolibri X
07/22/19 11:08:23 AM
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Act like you're out of her league.
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MFBKBass5
07/22/19 11:19:35 AM
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Kolibri X posted...
Act like you're out of her league.


Thats bad advice.
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Thatuser
07/22/19 11:26:08 AM
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Treat her like any other person. Just be yourself and confident in your skin. Its never about "getting" anyone. Either they'll like you for you or they won't. Good luck!
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Smashingpmkns
07/22/19 11:27:36 AM
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How did you meet her? If you asked her out in person and already had an ongoing platonic relationship going on then you're good dude. She wouldnt just accept a date if she wasnt already interested. Just dont scare her away.
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AlephZero
07/22/19 11:28:32 AM
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the average man is unfuckable

the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick
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HairyThotter
07/22/19 11:30:12 AM
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Yeah you're thinking too far ahead, TC. You're in that "holy shit! I might be able to bang that?!?!" mindset.

Gotta ignore her looks for a bit and actually try to get to know the girl beneath the looks. You may find out that the PHD she has doesn't mean jack.

Just have fun, each of you toss back a drink or two to loosen up... see if she wants to go dance or out to a park afterwards. If the two of you are having fun, keep it going.
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MFBKBass5
07/22/19 11:40:26 AM
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HairyThotter posted...
Yeah you're thinking too far ahead, TC. You're in that "holy shit! I might be able to bang that?!?!" mindset.

Gotta ignore her looks for a bit and actually try to get to know the girl beneath the looks. You may find out that the PHD she has doesn't mean jack.

Just have fun, each of you toss back a drink or two to loosen up... see if she wants to go dance or out to a park afterwards. If the two of you are having fun, keep it going.


Good point. Solid advice. The date is tonight...and I havent been this nervous for a first date in quite a while. Damn it.
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Lost_All_Senses
07/22/19 11:56:16 AM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
HairyThotter posted...
Yeah you're thinking too far ahead, TC. You're in that "holy shit! I might be able to bang that?!?!" mindset.

Gotta ignore her looks for a bit and actually try to get to know the girl beneath the looks. You may find out that the PHD she has doesn't mean jack.

Just have fun, each of you toss back a drink or two to loosen up... see if she wants to go dance or out to a park afterwards. If the two of you are having fun, keep it going.


Good point. Solid advice. The date is tonight...and I havent been this nervous for a first date in quite a while. Damn it.


It was good advice but that PHD thing was a weird example lol. I wouldn't call her out on that.
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treewojima
07/22/19 11:57:25 AM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Touch posted...
Bang her brains out


Nah Im much more interested in dating her. She has a PHD and is super smart. Plus, she has a lot of the same nerdy interests I do.


Given this and what she said about not wanting to scare you off, it sounds like she's had trouble in the past with other men being intimidated or put off by her intelligence or achievements. Again, just treat her like a normal person that you're interested in.
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HairyThotter
07/22/19 11:58:37 AM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...

It was good advice but that PHD thing was a weird example lol. I wouldn't call her out on that.


Nah lol, I wasn't saying call her out on it... just that TC had mentioned "she has a PHD and is super smart"... my point was, I've met people with PHD's who ended up being air heads. You get to know them and you'd never know they spent that much of their time/money on school from the way they generally behave, which is why I was saying "actually get to know her, all you've seen so far is the pretty packaging".
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Lost_All_Senses
07/22/19 12:18:27 PM
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HairyThotter posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...

It was good advice but that PHD thing was a weird example lol. I wouldn't call her out on that.


Nah lol, I wasn't saying call her out on it... just that TC had mentioned "she has a PHD and is super smart"... my point was, I've met people with PHD's who ended up being air heads. You get to know them and you'd never know they spent that much of their time/money on school from the way they generally behave, which is why I was saying "actually get to know her, all you've seen so far is the pretty packaging".


Ah, my fault. I had lost the proper context between yesterday and today. It makes sense now that you reminded me.

I actually liked this girl who had a masters in psychology or what therapist get and she was a disaster. She turned out to be a terrible person that didn't give a shit about others. Which makes the fact that she studied psychology even worst. Like, you learn how peoples minds work so you can be better at treating them like shit or something?

And that hasn't nothing to do with me. We never got anywhere. It was stories that my sister told me where she treated people like shit. Like casually telling her friend her bf was cheating on her in the middle of a party her friend was having.
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HairyThotter
07/22/19 1:55:31 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...

Ah, my fault. I had lost the proper context between yesterday and today. It makes sense now that you reminded me.


No worries <3
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MFBKBass5
07/23/19 12:52:50 AM
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Well damn. The date started at 8, and we didnt leave the bar till 11:45.

Shes incredible. Was incredibly easy to talk to, super sweet and very very nice. The date went well! Walked her to her car and she was very obviously wanting me to kiss her, so I did :3 Were gonna hang out again later this week!
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0AbsoluteZero0
07/23/19 1:00:14 AM
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Congrats bro!
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PatrickMahomes
07/23/19 1:02:36 AM
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0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
Congrats bro!

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MFBKBass5
07/23/19 1:09:31 AM
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0AbsoluteZero0 posted...
Congrats bro!


Thanks dudes! Now I gotta make sure to not screw this up. Shes a badass.
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jumi
07/23/19 2:18:09 AM
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Pee in her butt.
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MFBKBass5
07/23/19 3:18:16 AM
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jumi posted...
Pee in her butt.


Havent heard that one in a while....
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MFBKBass5
07/23/19 3:30:43 AM
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RedWhiteBlue posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
Well damn. The date started at 8, and we didnt leave the bar till 11:45.

Shes incredible. Was incredibly easy to talk to, super sweet and very very nice. The date went well! Walked her to her car and she was very obviously wanting me to kiss her, so I did :3 Were gonna hang out again later this week!

Shook my fist in the air a bit and whispered "mah man!"

Congrats bro


Thanks dawg! Since CE has been surprisingly encouraging...heres a pic. Only posting one :)

https://i.ibb.co/4MDKwmZ/873-D8-AC0-3511-4-B58-ADC9-0-A75146-ACECD.jpg
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Disengaged
07/23/19 3:37:56 AM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
RedWhiteBlue posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
Well damn. The date started at 8, and we didnt leave the bar till 11:45.

Shes incredible. Was incredibly easy to talk to, super sweet and very very nice. The date went well! Walked her to her car and she was very obviously wanting me to kiss her, so I did :3 Were gonna hang out again later this week!

Shook my fist in the air a bit and whispered "mah man!"

Congrats bro


Thanks dawg! Since CE has been surprisingly encouraging...heres a pic. Only posting one :)


Dude, you should probably take her picture off the internet videogame message board.
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MFBKBass5
07/23/19 3:39:31 AM
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Disengaged posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
RedWhiteBlue posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
Well damn. The date started at 8, and we didnt leave the bar till 11:45.

Shes incredible. Was incredibly easy to talk to, super sweet and very very nice. The date went well! Walked her to her car and she was very obviously wanting me to kiss her, so I did :3 Were gonna hang out again later this week!

Shook my fist in the air a bit and whispered "mah man!"

Congrats bro


Thanks dawg! Since CE has been surprisingly encouraging...heres a pic. Only posting one :)


Dude, you should probably take her picture off the internet videogame message board.


Are you new to CE? This has been a thing for a very long time here.
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Disengaged
07/23/19 3:41:29 AM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Disengaged posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
RedWhiteBlue posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
Well damn. The date started at 8, and we didnt leave the bar till 11:45.

Shes incredible. Was incredibly easy to talk to, super sweet and very very nice. The date went well! Walked her to her car and she was very obviously wanting me to kiss her, so I did :3 Were gonna hang out again later this week!

Shook my fist in the air a bit and whispered "mah man!"

Congrats bro


Thanks dawg! Since CE has been surprisingly encouraging...heres a pic. Only posting one :)


Dude, you should probably take her picture off the internet videogame message board.


Are you new to CE? This has been a thing for a very long time here.


Because that makes it a good idea.
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MFBKBass5
07/23/19 3:56:13 AM
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Disengaged posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
Disengaged posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
RedWhiteBlue posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
Well damn. The date started at 8, and we didnt leave the bar till 11:45.

Shes incredible. Was incredibly easy to talk to, super sweet and very very nice. The date went well! Walked her to her car and she was very obviously wanting me to kiss her, so I did :3 Were gonna hang out again later this week!

Shook my fist in the air a bit and whispered "mah man!"

Congrats bro


Thanks dawg! Since CE has been surprisingly encouraging...heres a pic. Only posting one :)


Dude, you should probably take her picture off the internet videogame message board.


Are you new to CE? This has been a thing for a very long time here.


Because that makes it a good idea.


Fair enough. But I wanted you guys to have the correct image in your head of this girl.
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MFBKBass5
07/23/19 6:28:10 AM
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Fine CE...I post pics and the only response I get is You should delete that.

You guys have changed...
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pinky0926
07/23/19 7:10:38 AM
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Be absolutely prepared to walk away regardless, and conduct yourself with that in mind.
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