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Cokewave
06/07/21 1:06:29 PM
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Meet a girl, shes perfect, but then you find out she has a 6 year old kid.



Father lives in a different state

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CE_gonna_CE
06/07/21 1:07:36 PM
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Turbam
06/07/21 1:07:37 PM
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Does she lactate daily and breastfeed me every two hours?

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SwiggitySwoogit
06/07/21 1:08:02 PM
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The perfect girl would send the kid to boarding school forever and give full custody to the dad so I accept.
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PoundGarden
06/07/21 1:09:06 PM
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Then she's not perfect. Who wants a used kid?

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MJOLNRVII
06/07/21 1:10:25 PM
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I'm surprised the first option is in the lead so far. CE usually goes for the other two.

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krazychao5
06/07/21 1:20:39 PM
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i almost went for it with this one chick, but she had a 3 year old and she wasn't the perfect chick

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Lorenzo_2003
06/07/21 1:22:50 PM
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Dating for fun would be Ok.

Not gonna commit to someone with a child already. They could be nice and all, but there are a lot of other available women in the world.

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TerraSeeker
06/07/21 1:27:06 PM
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I have no problem with children. If she is really "perfect," of course I would like to date her.

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SwiggitySwoogit
06/07/21 1:44:51 PM
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Revnir posted...
That's not how it works, besides you can't just expect a mother to throw away her kid. WTF.

Still in my experience the situation is a nightmare. And I don't think it's any better for a woman who enters a relationship with a single dad.

I'm sure it's possible for things to go well, but if it doesn't... it's not pleasant at all.

If she's not willing to go no contact with her kid then she's not perfect and the topic title literally says she's perfect.
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krazychao5
06/07/21 1:45:34 PM
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SwiggitySwoogit posted...
If she's not willing to go no contact with her kid then she's not perfect and the topic title literally says she's perfect.
nah, that's just a bad person.

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Lorenzo_2003
06/07/21 1:49:10 PM
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SwiggitySwoogit posted...
If she's not willing to go no contact with her kid then she's not perfect and the topic title literally says she's perfect.

Bruh, its a hypothetical case. Youre supposed to suspend disbelief and work within the parameters, so you can reveal answers or perspectives that might not normally come up in your real life.

Didn't you guys ever do these thought exercises in school?

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SwiggitySwoogit
06/07/21 1:50:24 PM
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Yes and hypothetically my version of the perfect girl will abandon her child for me.
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garan
06/07/21 3:05:27 PM
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I like children, but I've learned the lesson about single mothers.
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Solar_Crimson
06/07/21 3:09:33 PM
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The older I get, the more likely it is that this is going to be the only reality for me, so...

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DarkChozoGhost
06/08/21 1:46:40 AM
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I assume her being perfect means the kid was brought up well and would be (reasonably) well behaved? Sure

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im not 13
06/08/21 1:59:46 AM
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She could be rich

She could have your perfect looks

She could have the greatest personality

Should have all 3 and more

But the deal breaker for CE is that she has a child? Lmao why do you guys hate kids so much its kinda weird

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MysteryMan923
06/08/21 11:03:04 PM
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CalypsoDoom posted...
No one has to like or want kids, though a lot of it here isn't actually hating children but is rooted in misogyny so /shrug

How so?

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skermac
06/08/21 11:04:17 PM
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I have no problems with an instant family

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Umbreon
06/08/21 11:16:00 PM
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Sure. I don't really see the problem here.

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The Catgirl Fondler
06/08/21 11:23:53 PM
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Oof, no, I'll pass.
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Philoktetes
06/08/21 11:24:41 PM
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yeah as long as the kid has been raised right and isn't a lazy entitled millennial
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skermac
06/09/21 9:52:28 AM
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My first wife had a kid I didnt mind at all, we all did things together like a regular family and had a lot of fun

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ZevLoveDOOM
06/09/21 9:53:45 AM
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nah, i wanna have my own...
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2Pacavelli
06/09/21 9:55:13 AM
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Nope
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gunplagirl
06/09/21 9:56:50 AM
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I've always wanted a kid, and adoption is the most likely way I'd go about it. If things work out with the mother, if have no issue.

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DepreceV2
06/09/21 9:58:50 AM
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I would walk away. I dont want children and I dont want to be a step dad either. Fucking her first just can introduce a bunch of problems for you and her. The responsible thing to do is to walk away unless you like/want kids.

I know some people will say that you can date her and have nothing to do with her child. That is naive. A child is so ingrained into her life, there is no way you wont be involved. It just wont work for me. No need to create any heartbreak

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Wii_Shaker
06/09/21 10:03:04 AM
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Considering all the monkey paw scenarios that usually come with these sort of topics, I wouldn't mind her having a kid.

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bsp77
06/09/21 10:10:01 AM
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There is nothing inherently wrong with either answer here. Kids aren't for everyone and some would want kids of their own and not someone else's. That's all just fine. Guys who talk about the women as being damaged goods though... ugh, not okay.

For me, I actually am a father and have 4 girls. I recently dated someone for 2 years who has 2 boys. It didn't work, partly because balancing all the kid schedules just didn't work well and led to lots of arguing between us and with the ex spouses. I mean, we probably wouldn't have worked anyway, but the kid situation didn't help.

So I will no longer date anyone with kids. Luckily I have a girlfriend who doesn't want kids of her own but is cool with mine.

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Cokewave
06/09/21 11:22:30 AM
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Took the girl on a date - but she wasnt the perfect girl, felt a little catfished. She was 100 pounds heavier than expected and her face didnt look as good as in the pics AND videos. I think im gonna have to walk away.

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BilalPowell
06/09/21 11:27:33 AM
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Read "has" as "is" at first. Just wait like Grover Cleveland.

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bsp77
06/09/21 11:31:44 AM
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Cokewave posted...
Took the girl on a date - but she wasnt the perfect girl, felt a little catfished. She was 100 pounds heavier than expected and her face didnt look as good as in the pics AND videos. I think im gonna have to walk away.
Whenever they have only face pics in their profile, I get suspicious

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